This happens when we fail to see this signs during courtship
When women are at the due age..they pretend so they can get married

CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.

Let me disect those words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you can't notice it easily until you start talking to me. She said I have to bear the consequences of my actions towards her... looking back, I have done unimaginable things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she didn't want blood transfusion from unknown persons as a result of her Christian belief not to contract demons from the blood of unknown person. Fortunately, my blood group is that of a universal donor. That means I can donate blood for anybody. Note that she had never done any noteworthy thing for me apart from giving birth to our babies. About being a juju man, I will tell you how she arrived at this: somebody was about to give birth from her family side and the baby was in breech position. She asked for advice and I told her that if I take the woman to the village my uncle will give the woman a concoction to reverse it. Her faith is against it, but because someone from her side just gave birth through CS, which almost led to the death of mother and baby, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The breech position was reversed. I'm surprised she now labelled me a juju man.

Instead of me to take her message personal, I urged her to please herself. This infuriated her the more. Instead of leaving me, she invited someone to intervene, tracked me to the second town, and it was settled there.

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.

My brother, no b wife u marry Ooo.. a wife,no matter the circumstances has the right to insult u based on ur disability..
I as a man... I can't take it n as an alpha male..
She must get the divorce she desire.make she go find superman out there .. who knows? She could be lucky.

light099:
Bullcrap.
Is this really news? It's some big news to dumb folks maybe.
This record isn't different from my neighbor's, who broke the record for having the stinkiest shiit in the neighborhood. They both have something in common. And that is, they don't contribute anything to human existence or survival, neither do they affect the ecosystem in anyway.

If Archimedes (PBUH), Newton (PBUH), Kepler (PBUH), Leonardo Da Vinci (PBUH), Thomas Edison (PBUH), Einstein (PBUH) and all others were busy tapping ball inside the net in their days, the world would still be stuck in primitive era, why ya'll dumb folks would have been living in huts and on top of trees like monkeys.

Something I've come to realise is that people are not as smart as I thought. Especially the commonwealth of common sense available to humanity depreciates as each day goes by. That is why the present generation is the dumbest so far, in irony to the tangible amount of knowledge flying around.
A nigga once said, "the world shows off it's knowledge by flying faster than sound, but shows it's lack of wisdom by flying in the wrong direction."
This generation is dumb af, to compound it more, people are still too ignorant af to realize how dumb they're.
That is why the world is filled with so many fcktärds randomly roaming the surface of the planet.
Political zombies who lick the feet of their oppressors, sheeples who're dragged with the noses by the gods of men, pussy simps whose brains are controlled by bitches, a population who worship unimportant entertainers. A dumb generation which ascribe all the importance to trivialities but regard the weighty issues with levity.

You as dumb as ur write up

Princewill1:
The high successes recorded by dubious politicians, fraudulent pastors and ponzi scheme operators in Nigeria are living proofs that Nigerians can be so gullible. We can easily be deceived. The astronomical hype on Canada is the latest deceit in town. Here are things you need to know before immigrating.

1. The list of richest Nigerians is filled with Nigerians living at home. You're more likely to make it into Forbes if you live in Nigeria. At least that's what the stat shows, whether people making into Forbes in Nigeria are engaging in corrupt practices is a story for another day. The odds of becoming a dollar billionaire favours those at home . No Diaspora Nigerian has ever made it into Forbes billionaire list.

2. There are more money to be made in a developing economy than in a developed economy. That's why as you're rushing out of the country, Lebanese, Indians and Chinese are rushing in. Only few will understand. You're sitting on the biggest market in Africa yet you haven't realize this but the Lebanese and the Indians knew this.

3. If you are the type who don't fancy working for others, it's much more easier to own a business in Nigeria than in Canada/US. Western countries were set up for the 99% populace to work for 1% elites. Their education systems were designed to produce workforce for the rat race. Not to create employers of labour.

4. It's stupidity to resign from a high-paying job in Nigeria in a bid to relocate to Canada/US. Your eyes will get clear up when you start facing the hard realities in Canada. Those who had made this mistake in the past are ashamed to come on social media to talk about it. The ones talking on Twitter are 'freshers' who just arrived.

5. If you want to secure 2nd passport for your kids, you don't necessarily need to immigrate to achieve this. There are other ways, one method is overseas child birth.

6. You're 5x more likely to be shot and rubbed in New York than in Lagos. Poor neighborhoods all over the world has more crime rates. The thing is, when you finally made it in Nigeria,you can move to high brow areas with lesser crime.

7. Nigerians are spending up to 8millions ($21k) and above to immigrate to Canada/US whereas an average canadian or American citizen can't boast of $10k in their bank A/C's. They live pay check to pay check.

8. Some Nigerians claims that they ain't relocating because of the money but because of good infrastructure, good health care system, value for their money etc. That's a lie! 98% of Nigerians who're eager to travel out are relocating because of economic reasons. There are good infrastructure, good health care system and value for money in countries like Kuwait, Russia, Brazil, South Korea, Chile etc but Nigerians ain't trooping there, indicating that their preference for Canada/US is purely based on economic reasons.

9. It's cheaper to live in Nigeria. Canada/US promises higher minimum wage but the system will still take it away from you. It's like giving you with one hand and taking from you with another. $2k (N760k) will pay for your one year rent of 2 bedrooms apartment in a good location in Nigeria but same amount will only fetch you one month rent of a match box apartment in Canada/US.

10. This is not to stop you from traveling out but to inform you on the true realities. Economic immigration should be left for lower or working class who're struggling or to young lads who wants to school abroad and thereafter further their career overseas. Not to deceive Nigerians already earning good in corporate offices in Nigeria to resign and relocate where they will be employed as security guards or to deceive business owners who's businesses are thriving in Nigeria to close down business and relocate. Don't let them deceive you with the hype. Money don't grow on trees anywhere in the world.

Oga OP, I don't have a problem with ur advice but with NUM 8.. I totally disagree... I for one..can't come back to Naija until we can begin to have 24hrs electricity like other African countries.... So keep ur nonsense to ur self
Is there Almajiri n Boko Haram and herders in Canada..
How many road accidents or tanker accident happens in Canada?
How many times have we seen Canadian politicians embezzling funds?
How are the Canadian police structured?
Abeg just take down ur nonsense post
How many Millie have u made in that Naija??

Just as people react to drugs differently. People will react to the covid vaccine..
Either way these people shouldn't be allowed to use Africa as a test ground for diff kinda vaccines

Cakim3585:
Nice

Hi, how legit are u?
I want dey buy my mum data on a regular..
So I'd have to have ur acct number and send money in o.
My fear Na to trust our fellow Nigerians oo

MrDrey:


https://thenationonlineng.net/sister-of-late-nollywood-star-orisabunmi-dies-days-after-brothers-death/

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Jah save us from death in the family oooo

diamondedu:
Hmmmm.. good day please how best do I handle this situation?

My ex, although we did not officially seperate, is getting married by the end of the month but she doesn't love her husband to be. She finds his touch irritating, they hardly talk about everything that married people do, she's not just comfortable with the husband to be.

Now me and her were very good friends before we become lovers she's really a good girl, very supportive, infact every man's dream lady but I'm not yet ready to settle down. Family issues still full my head..

PLS married people how best do I avoid her before it becomes problem for her and the innocent man?

If u are a good friend and a so called former lover, advise her to abort mission Ooo.
Her state of mind matters gan

Go to Onitsha or Lagos... You will find wholesalers who sale there.. don't just sit n expect someone online to connect u..
You will pay more than expected

nex:


Na very high quality material and print O! No be those ones wey person go wear for just 2 months, and e go begin resemble almajiri.

Even at that.. u want cash out ... Nigerians why are we like this.. is this material Ralph Lauren Polo material
Oga sell to ur family n friends first. Their response will determine if it's worth selling that piece of shit at that price... The printing isn't using flock material Ooo n u r charging that high.. if I go Olajuwon street. I'd make a better one including printing for 3000 at most

Here in SA, the private medical sector have taken the govt to court so that they too can have access to vaccine n it won't be monopolize by the government....
A country that works..not that zoo

You will definitely see what u looking for so far u have money

J111333:
I dey tell you, especially TX.

The last time I was in Houston, I felt like I was in Independence layout Enugu especially the area where they have that either Congolese or Cameroonian(I'm not sure now) restaurant not far from that their Westheimer road.

The number of Nigerians that hang in and around there eeh.

Prolly like Kempton park n Hillbrow in Johannesburg

You on point @op
Well payback is a bitch..
Kolapo where ever u are in California....
Ur karma still running behind u ooooo

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

Hungry mother... That's what ur mum is

He definitely got infected in Italy before leaving for Nigeria

deleSayo:
Working in a bank can be likened to being a part of a cult. They are all fuccking around with each other yet will meet each others spouses and be smiling.

Your cheating wife will introduce her colleagues to you who will all be smiling to your face knowing fully well your wife's back is being blown out by one or in some cases, several of them!

Female bankers are glorified prostitutes who all have work-husbands. Especially the light skinned, bleached ones.

Don't say you weren't warned.

One reason my ex quit diamond bank

A normal trend in South Africa

If you know where she lives... Take the police there n get her arrested so she won't find a way to take the boy else where

What is this one saying .. so after she marry ..she can't cheat??
We know their type

I googled this yesterday. It was made to seem demonic because of the religious group across language divide..
Nothing's real about Charlie Charlie

robosky02:


https://bsnsports.com.ng/nigeria-vs-cote-divoire-golden-eaglets-cry-foul-over-mri-test/

Una no dey speak French

lalasticlala:


https://dailypost.ng/2021/01/06/luth-warns-nigerians-as-second-wave-of-covid-19-spreads-faster/

Read the full statement:

• Let every family member know these facts and discuss them openly.

• We have seen an upsurge in the number of people who keep treating "malaria" instead of going for the Covid test. Many such then start using all sorts of steam inhalation and home remedies for their cough and chest congestion. It is not helpful to do this, especially if you are also diabetic, hypertensive or with a number of other health baggages, or above the age of 60. It may be rather late by the time you are breathless and are rushed to the hospital. Most of those dying delayed going to the hospital till very late.

This is not to alarm the people, but rather, to alert us all to what is happening and call on each person to do again what we have done very well before. Eve, life is precious and we implore Nigerians to do whatever is needed to save our people.

The present trend is worrisome and if it continues, it may overrun our capacity before we can ramp up again to catch up. So let us hearken the directives given by the authorities. This will save many lives.

We are collaborating and coordinating with the State Government, FMOH, the PTF, NCDC, Tertiary Institutions and other stakeholders to deepen this public discourse on all that should be done to bring the situation under control as within the shortest time possible.

Remember, let us do the work of staying safe before we pray that God should help us. Prayers alone, without the work, is futile.

Please Stay Safe.

PROF CHRIS BODE
Chief Medical Director
Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH)

Anyways this is common with viruses, they get used to their environment, study it, replicate n form new variant...
Either way.. make we still dey use antimalarial cure ourselves.its not more virulent as the first variant so. No lele

Why can't government suspend this process for now..
Cos it's like bailing water from the sea n pouring inside a basket.yet we talking bout prevention of covid 19 or reduction of the infection

And some mumus still believe covid is a scam

Hendrixxmalo:

Yes

I have no idea how

NiRfreak:


Look at this one....child swapping happens everywhere in the world...even in the Bible, Solomon had to judge a case of child swapping with wisdom...it still happens.

Oya continue

Unless Na Igbo she dey smoke

NiRfreak:
Now that there's so much noise about paternity scandal, it's apt to make this point for people who may not know.
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It's very possible that DNA reveals a father is not the biological father to his child and yet the wife never cheated, at least during her conception.
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This is how it can happen:
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It can only happen through child swapping or mixmatch in the hospital.
When babies are born in the hospital, sometimes, by sinister intention or by mistake, usually by mistake, a nurse may exchange another woman's baby for another, unknowing to the mother that her baby has been swapped.
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Usually it goes unnoticed until father suspects infideliy and DNA is done. when this happens, and after DNA has shown the man isn't the father, the woman may get dismayed and cry that she's certain she never cheated during her conception.
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If the woman is 100% damn sure of her fidelity: then she should call for a second DNA test to confirm if the child's DNA matches her own DNA.
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If it matches, then the woman is a devilish liar and unrepentant cheat.
if it doesn't match, that means the child is truly not hers, and was birthed by another mother.
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Ideally, a child usually matches both father and mothers gene. It's only during child swap that it won't match with both father and mother.
And during mothers infidelity, it won't match with the man, but will match with the mother, except the baby was swapped.
DNA can never lie!

Stop watching Nollywood

Shebi some idiots are still calling it a scam

Hendrixxmalo:


Pls does he do ghana cus it's ghana I want to send to

No..
Is it cedis u want to send to someone ni

And some fools are still saying this covid is a scam