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Gift is one thing, purpose is another. Gift use for the exact purpose is what bringeth before great men.
The gift can be use for many purposes but the particular purpose its built for is what makes it fulfilled. For instance a tea cup can be use for drinking water, measuring stuff etc so that it is useful yet not valued or significant but if it has been packaged, polished, place in such a way that everything about it speaks tea cup, then its more likely to be valued, significantly relevant and attract more purchase.

In essence, they can all sing that have the gifts but cant all fulfill purpose because all are purposed for different audience, genry, group, age etc and until each locate and use his purpose, he is only using gift not meeting purpose.

However, gift use to magnify the maker delights the maker enough to direct it to the right purpose where not purposely used.

If it was treese' account only, i also would have thought her husband does not totally love her.

Freelance still feel something for treese, something i would have love to trully ascertain. His posts closely looked at, exposed an insecure man scared of losing his wife to her ex. He says but for the kids, he would have walked out but i know a man who threat his wife as poorly as he does would not use that excuse if he doesnt feel anything for her especially with the seeming adulterous wife's acts taunting him, his tone was that of a man scared and for the first time he considered counseling in his heart which made him voiced out his fears by asking if it really works.

When he paid back his wife for speaking with her ex, it was out of jealousy of a man who cared even enough to further find out the mission of the ex by insecurely impersonating the wife. Yet he lied when the wife asked if he doesnt get jealous, because of his fat ego.

Treese took enough already, freelance pushed her to the path she took. Freelance has a big ego that dosent let him express or communicate his feelings, i also think his childhood contributed too. I wish i could see freelance' love language from his posts but treese's is that of physical touch and she is not getting it from her hubby. Its is in her posts, naggings to her husband, even the ex said it with the lack of hugs etc

Treese want to make it work, freelance admitted same for his kids sake atleast but they are not understanding each other because they are not speaking the right language. They will make it if they know and speak to each other their love languages as a first step to their problem solving.

Congrats!

It depends on the occasion too.