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Naijadeyhia how far? Where you able to reach anything regarding the poster for baby Light?

Ayolight when you are strong enough add those document and pictures, also state that mynd has verified the case as can be seen from the link above.

Sorry, dont break down yet for light's sake.

ayolight:
how do I do dat.

Ok.

Ayolight when opening the new thread, add baby to the tittle to catch attention, something like; SAVE BABY LIGHT.

naijadeyhia:
Hi Any news per the poster being made?

I dont think she will respond any soon, please see if you can get info on the poster from Donald3d or the link he pasted on page 13 of this thread, he is the guy she is working with.

mutter:
Ayolight there is need for the plans to be more concrete I sincerely hope that other members cam help you achieve this. That would help matters.

I dont think ayolight understand what you mean by concrete plan, explain in details to her please. I dont understand it either.

ayolight:
gudevn house, I'm moved to tears wit all your show of love. Glad to knw dat Light has dozens of parents. I ve Evn started visiting churches to beg for assistance though its not yeildind results yet.
But, now I'm prepared for anyting, let d will of God be done. He ll forever remain God.
Tnk u so much.

Quickly open a new thread in family section and attach the link to this thread.

Bloomingbud:
Your post moved me to tears but am sure God will raise help for you. He Nevers sleeps nor slumber, just cast your cares on him.

Mistake! Sorry!

dominique:
The previous account number has been removed. This is the only one valid for donations.

Ogunruku Mercy Itunu.
UBA- 2056071186


Thanks and God bless you for your concerns.

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Idowuogbo:
BINGO! SMART AZZ! I told tearoses on that thread seun will never move any charity to front page. The guy thinks we can't see through him. Abeg!!! Yeye dey boom.

You know God is smarter than the smartest let alone than the smart wannabee.

Funjosh:
Please let him go ahead with whatsover he wants to do. I know by God grace Lights will survive her sickness. If Nairaland stop allowing Nairalanders that genuinely needs help to solicits for it here that is a big shame and a slap on the face of the owner.

Thanks for showing Naijadey.. baby light's thread in health section.

Funjosh:
Na You get your site, na you know.

You know for all the time scammed people called his name, he never came out like this. Light's case prompted this. He already made the decision before coming here. This thread says alot!

ayolight:
gudevening. the house is silent, no one is saying anytin. all my mothers and fathers, happy Sunday.

God is not silent.. be of good courage.

prissyluv:
My sweet sis. Captain is fine oooo.
How has it been?

Its been fine. Nice and comforting to know you guys are good. Stay well.

Prissyluv, how's captain?

What do you expect wen dem no flog sense into the boy. She never start, na CNN she go use remind am next time.

You really dont need to ask his personal take for a start and especially as he isnt forthcoming. Introduce general sex topics, his inputs and reactions will tell how far he is gone..

You didnt understand her before either. You didnt really know her or bonded before you left and the bond is still not there. If any of your sibling lived well and long enough to know her not to be like this before then do more to help.

First of all you cant help her by standing from afar. You see her as one to whom you owe not as a mum, mind you i aiint faulting you as i dont know how it was before and after you left. Unless you have one that can be a mum or you can do without one, savage her for she is the bird at hand or for the old sake of being your mum. If you are hoping for one mil or woman to play mum role, dont let experience give you a rethink.

She might be having menopause troubles and not know. Her being aware and armed with ways to manage it can make a huge difference. Also she is petty and her village orientation is worsening it. You or your sibling closest to her should lovingly re-orientate her, sometimes softly or other times harshly. Finally she could have issues that is making her bitter. It will only get worse with the way you and your siblings are touching her with a ten foot pole, except she is just as you people say.

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Chinum:
No see ojare. I understand. Just needed to draw u back so u don't descend to their level.

How's that ya babe?

Dnt mind my tatafo. I sha want to hear gist.

While me cant wait to see you two hook up. Now i see why he keeps coming back, he succeeded in dragging you out in this dark.. *winks*

This una tale wey una take dey scam and do illegal things!
Btw, try new title next time, una don too recycle this one.

I'm not exonerating your wife, it is often said there's a reason for 'her' nagging.

From what you put up there i can deduce she nags because you are not good with managing finances, may be you are the type that must spend as long as the money is there unless you want to confidently tell me you married an insane woman.

From my screen, you dont speak of being responsible, much more to your wife who is close to your skin. The lifestyle you have up there says your pay is not so bad yet you are always broke, people who earn less are managing better. Why is it that you guys have get to the point of recurrently waiting for the next pay like your life will stop if it dosen't come in the next one week? You dont have savings, investments, future financial security in case of the unforeseen and you say your wife should not fear for the remaining days of her life from what she has seen these ten months.

She may have food to eat but just decide to rub the "brokeness" in your face to see if it will make you sit up. Man, you are no longer a bachelor that can live only for today, you have to make your family financially secure. Seek ways to improve on your financial management and stop using the word broke more than the jobless or a student. If your wife is better with management, keep ego aside and let her do the managing. Also assist her to get any small job or business. You get work, e be like this, naim be say you for run comot house if you and her no get anything.

Stillfire:
Woged has come again with her kindergarten threads...lol
Girl, you no dey tire?
When will you post a thread I would like?

I tire o, i think say na only me sabi her and her useless tales. No day wey e no go be her friend, sis friend, she cousin, she collegue; all these she(s) wey men don jilt badly too, she nor dey talk about the bad men. If this her friend defriend her because of this her aproko, she go say women are their worst enermy afterall na help she dey offer her. I know say all the men for real life don hear about her friend, now na nl men turn.

Infact, i never see her say anything good about the women in her life. So much for the good woman surrounded by bad women.

Hehehe, why not run to dat reddoil that told you she wont do anything, husband is scare now that there's confusion.

You can lie o! She did not want to settle down with you abi na you no gree settle down with your babymama, in your words "...and that i dont want to settle with her...". It speaks alot of your person to get down with a married woman with kids abi no be you say she was not divorced. I know you also didnt include this part in the affair story you told your fiance.


The last time you came here you where advised to tell her the truth but your cheat of a person jumped at the advice that said you shouldnt its your personal business, so you really went for it? You where cautioned on nemesis by another, you asked then nemesis? I bet you know the meaning more than that person now. Nobody should blame you anymore but people will keep blaming your fiancee when things go wrong in the future, infact the people telling you here to beg her would have told her not to marry you had she brought the story instead, your family begging would have long canceled the marriage were she the one in your place.

I dont even trust this undying love you are professing, i think you are gaining alot from her, i'm sorry your history screams gold digger. I still see lies over you. You didnt even bother about your child, who do you want to foool with the she said she would cater for the baby alone line? If you want to change, learn from this one and be honest the next time you get into a relationship or better still dont be confused anymore, return to your babymama calling you to settle business. You thought you could chop her, just move on and start afresh, do you know how much the seed you sowed in her is prolly ruining her? Good she is making you have a re-think on two played and can still play the game.

goldmine:
@GHoJes, you're so on point about the thick skin part and the western laws that favour women over there as it relates to my sis. He won't be able to try nonsense with the new wife and get away with it. The funny thing is that the guy is just 2 years older than my sis o. He is even trying to get into her good books now and get back together. And we don't trust her not to budge when he mounts a lot of pressure considering how she went back to him several times in the past. And she's saying her Pastor told her not to shut d door completely on him cos he is her destined husband.

We are only praying for her. That God would guide her to take the best decision that would favour her and make her live in peace. He's probably being stiffled by the western laws and is tired. In as much as I would love the kids to maintain a good relationship with their father despite d divorce,we feel it's best they remain divorced. Enof of her being used as a punching bag and embarrassed in public. The little girl actually lived in terror of him while he was still married to my sister. It is well....

God forbid say na tory of if he no kill your sister, your sister na go kill am. Make una dey pray make their paths no cross again o and cast the spirit of sufferhead commot your sis body. If possible sef convince her to change dat church, because na only 10 dollars her ex go give the pastor for am to see vision say they were matched in heaven.

My dear, i have seen such cases of reunion, it almost always take the woman back to square one and never works because antelops dont change their spots. It is indeed well.

Fumbaby:
Ahnie might have her own fault but are you advising her to stay in an abusive relationship (hell NO) which reasonable man beats a woman because she's no longer caring, why can't he just take a bow instead of the giving her the beating of her life why she was pregnant? woman are bound to be naughty (in my dh voice)....... Am totally against the man's attitude alhaja zainie is even more naughty than ahnie in her dairy but dh didn't maltreate her....

@zainie I love your dairy and I have every page in my head....... you made me cry and laugh out loud so much ( my self and dh read it together) God bless moyo and dh and atinuke........ E hugs

That's how you can know them! They have been abused and stripped of all self worth to the point of believing they must be the one doing the wrong.

@goldmine, what a story you have there?!

The sad thing is that some will still see this your story and foool themselves that theirs will be different. The problem is with the abused person, there's little family or anybody can do for them. Imagine all you did for her yet it was until she made up her mind herself. You could have saved her after the wedding night, after one child but she prefared staring death before she could run, now imagine what impact you will make through the screen without the person involued reaching a tired point. The more they survive one abusive episode, the more they think they have grown thick skins to weather it only for them to realised that years have been wasted, kids are involued and are good as fatherless, even them are worse than singles thats if the man does not even abadoned them, then they realised they took their lives to an abuser so that he can ruin it and move on. There are two things involued with that you sis husband, either he has been divorced again or the new woman is having a upper hand especially with western laws that favour women.

The thing with wide age variations is not that the man want just respect but that the naive young girls who see a man of 40years or more not knowing that such a man usually has a lot of questions that need accurate answers. Most of the time, they have been married before unknown to the girls or have had strings of relationships that led to nowhere because non of the women could manage them. They then go for a small girl that have not finished understanding herself let alone her father's age. They will quickly rush the marriage so that the girl does not have enough time to know or hear things. They will be happy they finally found their dream slave of a wife while the small girl thinks she found a father and husband in one.

This one no be surrogate mama so? I no trust that boy!