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emmabest2000:
These people sef

Una damage control na another level

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!
My question is when your bruh was in the university bdid he display any funny attitude? For me he should go and get busy doing something. For calling his dad a SIMP shows how stupid he is and also pulling a thief to threaten his own dad. If I were your dad I will disfather. He is not being the man of the house he claimed. I think you big sist abroad should stop giving him money. You and your dad shouldn't be giving him money let him go and work for his money. He will sit up tight.

masseratti:
good question, Lagos State Government allocated /sold the land to the new owners after the main purpose of acquiring the land for Government use was abandoned.

masseratti:
the landlords were people whose houses were demolished in the 80s most of them are Yorubas and yes non Yorubas are among them. Not ọmọ onile.

Insecurity:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/i-bought-human-head-for-n60000-to-make-my-life-better-islamic-cleric-confesses/amp/

masseratti:
oga read the post before you start coming up with stories that are not related to this, no one like land grabbers, these old men were landlords in that area in 1984/87,and they are still alive.. Some of them tho.

ocelot2006:
And how were these vaccines "bad"? Let me guess, Bill Gates & New World Order, right? Pastor told u they were bad.....even though he/she has probably taken their dose plus booster shots

bcomputer101:
Another name for failure is called Buhari
His complete left leg Joi . 90% of those bills are estimated. People paying what they are not using still no one to report to and fix the problem. Prepaid meter is a scam. You not having meter at all is death sentence




Nothing is working in this country expect corruption
For how long shall we continue paying this exorbitant rate for darkness?

Buhari, your left yansh

Remag666:
Plus our FIFA club world cup

SwissMass:
Learn to read, the federal government didn't buy the vaccines, it was donated to them by some countries when it was about to expire

Starboytwo:
Chelsea are a winning team. From 2003 that this Roman bought them, they have won the EPL 5 times, fa cup 5 times and UCL 2 times.

I don’t think any English club have done better since 2003 till date.

dettolgel:
I understand the human angle but I doubt if this was a new rule. The problem is that in this country we like breaking the rule or most cases we don't event ask around or try to find out what the rules were. Whenever we are caught we start seeking for sympathy and faring ignorance.

For pregnant students I would assume that being a medical student might expose them to some health risks than would a studying a non medical course (from my experience about nursing student some at to be on their feet most times of the day and are required to be at patient sides at least I have witnessed that in European universities. I doubt how a pregnant student is going to keep up).

Bringing babe on campus not only distracts but opens the school up for law suits. There is a reason why creche exists.


About being ignorant of the law. In my uni days security arrested a student in school for using his horn around lecture area. The student said he didn't know he was not allowed to and other students were like just pity him is it not this one time. The security operative told him it was his responsibility to look the rule before bringing a car into the campus.

My dear the truth is that we Nigerians take a lot of things for granted and we are self centered when it comes to taking the comfort of others into consideration.

thatigboman1:
that's discrimination. Direct discrimination even.

dettolgel:
You come to school with your baby to disturb other students that are trying to learn. Your child will start crying and you will distract other students. Some student that are early to class instead sitting comfortably to learn they will be guilt into learning their seat for the young mother.

This is not adult education, if you have a baby leave it at home or send the baby to creche don't be selfish. How many of working in the private sector have you seen going to work with their babies?

As for pregnant student I am not so sure why the school took that position unless some students are using it as an excuse to get a free pass from doing their academic work. Or maybe student accommodations were not designed to cater for expectant mother and might not only endanger such mothers but may also expose the school to legal cases.