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Go to a tertiary hospital where u can get the services of both a dermatologist and a plastic surgeon. It's treatable. Don't believe in the lies that only the herbalist can treat it. In fact, they don't even know it well.

NAIRALLANDER:
Hello guys, please I need your help.
I started having acne about 5years ago.
well I looked for different ways to stop it but It just couldn't stop.

When it finally stopped, or should I say reduced, I didn't know my skin was prone to keloid. When the pimples finally started disappearing, it left little scars which turned into what you're seeing in the photos below.
Please I need help or advice on anything I can do to reduce its appearance and make it less noticeable, even if it can't be removed completely.

Please I don't need people telling me " it doesn't matter what people think about you", "Just live with it, there are people whose case are worse than yours". I only need advice. And also is there anyone who can refer me to a good dermatologist so that I can go for laser treatment?

And does anyone know how much laser treatment for this scar might cost? Please forgive my long story, I'm just too self conscious and in dire need of treatment. No insults please, just advice and good recommendations, thank you.

We're to choose the lesser the two failure brother. We are aware of their respective crimes but want manage what is available to us at the moment. Going by the saying "when desirable is not yet attainable u make attainable,...

Nevee:
Atiku, Saraki or Kwankwaso in no particular order. Irregardless of who ends up being the flag bearer, PDP is a dead on arrival project. The little hope they seem to be having is largely due to the incompetences of the present government. I don’t know why it’s hard for Nigerians to be forward-looking. Why should we make it a choice again between PDP and APC when both of them have failed us?

We're to choose the lesser the two failure brother. We are aware of their respective crimes but want manage what is available to us at the moment. Going by the saying "when desirable is not yet atta

Nevee:
Atiku, Saraki or Kwankwaso in no particular order. Irregardless of who ends up being the flag bearer, PDP is a dead on arrival project. The little hope they seem to be having is largely due to the incompetences of the present government. I don’t know why it’s hard for Nigerians to be forward-looking. Why should we make it a choice again between PDP and APC when both of them have failed us?

My dear men are ordained by God to head the family and so must be qualified both in experience and character to do so, otherwise it will be the other round which is too bad both for the man and his family. This kid is too young for this including leading the 39 year old lady. Think am...tnx(quote author=Mizk post=71788814]I see nothing wrong with it, as long as the guy is not underage and they like each other, holier than thou nigerians with over sabi, ladies marry older men, i don't see why guys cant. [/quote]

[Guy it depends on the scale. I know a large scale bricklayer who owns trucks buitt a duplex and living large in my village Ozubulu for that matter. quote author=OlusegunAdedayo post=71798652]The husband is likely a Builder, Architect, Quantity Surveyor or Civil Engineer. With the daily pay of bricklayers in Nigeria, a bricklayer's wife can NEVER afford that cake! [/quote]

swiz123:
Low self-esteemed women can pretend for Africa.

She is indirectly telling us that she is OK with Khloe being her husband's side chick. SMH

she is used to it.....these are reality u must get adapted to when u accept to marry a footballer or a musician...

tstx:
The irony of life
Doctors pray u fall sick
Lawyers pray u get into trouble
Coffin makers pray for death
only Criminals wish you well.

I also wish you well so you can pay for your own business email.


see my signature

meaning....same boat with criminals. Too bad.. Repent or...end like criminals.

columbus007:
people are becoming like an animal to this religion of a scam

for telling u the truth. Now u go and take care of the nursing mother and the baby.....these mad people everywhere creating unnecessary burden to the society with their bad habits.... Any problem u create this time u gat to carry it....rubbish.

Fake prophets of the endtime everywhere! Oh Lord keep ur children let these wolves not see then in Jesus name Amen! They can deceive the children of the world but not us.

jennifermahan:
Prophet seen trying to win a soul, in style, at a wedding, over the weekend, in Ekiti State

Watch video

source :

https://www.made4naija.com/2018/09/prophet-seen-trying-to-win-a-soul-in-style-at-a-wedding/

Na only bed u believe and sabi .spit on all these end time posters.

boiz2men:
Looks fabricated

But lets assume its real

Our unreal babe was marketing her qualities.

I'm beautiful and neat, she said

I find that hilarious.......


The author could have made her say

"I'm very good in bed and I know all the positions"

Naughtytboy:
If it me am gonna love her without penetration, and i wil also make her cum. Dx girl is not small at hrt

end time poster mtcheew

If u cannot see then u're blind ASAP

Mbaebieb2r:
I honestly don't see anything wrong with the letter, she only spoke her mind. Emotions are not be hidden. So it's left for the corper Jide to know what to do with the girl feelings. Left for him to accept or decline the girl proposal. Love is a beautiful thing it doesn't matter the age,level or class

EggSauce:
I was opportune to taste a tight virgin milk jar once... So i know how sweet and heavenly it feels but that hasn't ever made me think of following a girl below 21 of age... People who rape minors deserves to be killed not flogged except he will be flogged to death

your own judgment is coming olosho. It's people like you and him that have so corrupted our girls, defiling them and made them so used to sexual activities that when they got married they are hardly satisfied by their spouses. When God begin to judge don't ask why? Because I've already told u, ashawo!

You're heartless ooh! so there is no freedom of speech again in this country to campaign whoever is your choice. author=maxtop post=71498514]That serves him right.[/quote]

So if the crowd weren't there she will no break the glass to rescue her own child ni some people dey never reach to be mothers are mothers today..endtime loading..it will be soon.

midastouch040:
A yet to be identified Nigerian lady who accidentally locked her child in the car and forgot the key, has refused bystanders to break her glass to rescue the child.

According to facebook user identified as OG david, the woman did’nt consent to breaking her car window, rather she pleaded with the crowd to find another means to gain entry into the car to rescue the trapped child.

'Aunty susu pls post. On my way back from saloon yesterday at Benin city, agip @6:03pm. We saw a crowd. We decided to park and check what’s going on. A lady locked her child in the car and forgot the key inside. The child was crying and sweating. I stood for over 15minutes watching the scene o.

People were busy shouting “madam make we break d glass”
I was shocked that the woman didn’t agree, She was pleading for them to find a means of opening the car with a child sweating and and crying bitterly.
What’s the world turning into oo please. People now value property more than life. God please blow trumpet!, he wrote.

https://www.gqbuzz.com/shocker-nigerian-mother-refuses-to-break-car-window-to-rescue-her-trapped-child-photos/?utm_source=operamini&utm_medium=feednews&utm_campaign=operamini_feednews

Why not make the relationship official I.e do a wedding ceremony with him and now run a family businesses I.e combined business with him
Then ur fears will go and u will make sure that the business do not collapse by being part of it. Thank me later

Suzzyyy:
Hello Nairalanders! Plz help! I hv been scared and confused abt a risk I want to tk so I decided to share for advice.

Im 29 and I hv a boyfriend who is 33. We hv been happily dating for close to 3 years now, he once helped me financially in a good way with 100k when I had problem with my little business, then he was doing pretty fine with his business, I sell plastics and hez into cloth business. But somtin happened last 2 months, he had terrible problems with his business and lost almost everything including his shop and in a bid to salvage his situation he ended up owing many pple, when all these started he didn't tell me, thou hez a kind of person that likes handling his problem alone without disturbing or telling me which I don't like bcus it somehow makes me feel less important and useful to him, I got to know when he changed, his attitude, moods and everything changed, hez always disturbed, thinking and always visiting pple, he payed less concern and attention to me, don't even call and when I call, he will be in a haste to end it, I became confused, so I had to asked what was going on, he said nothing, I got upset and insisted he must tell me, he then opened up, I felt so bad and almost cried, since then I have been trying to maintain his upkeep and sometimes give him money which hez not comfortable with.

The problem now Is that im scared, he asked for a huge amount of money from me which is 700k, he wants to start all over again in his cloth business and also clear some debt, and I can only boast of 820k home and abroad as a business woman, i just feel he saw my account balance before asking for this, Im scared to loose the money and him too. I love this guy but im so scared of doing this, he helped me when I needed money, but this sacrifice is bigger than me, he showed and detailed everything he will be doing with the money, Im just confused to gamble with my life savings, I know I might sound ungrateful what if the business or our relationship crumble? Won't I be stranded and doomed? My business is not that strong and we all know how most of sacrifices like this ended for people. Is this kind of risk worth doing for a boyfriend

Plz advice me on what to do, plz.

Yet he need to make that marriage official so that it will not be so called "Abuja marriage" tnx

ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Princeofnigeria:
before this year ends you'll be a victim of kidnapping and ritualist.

Since you don't have courtesy to be happy with this girl God almighty saved from the evil ones.


Unless you ask for forgiveness


If this doesn't happen to you know I'm not a Man of God

take it man everyone is entitled to their own opinion. She may may have delusion going by time she board the taxi. My option though only God knew what transpired. Tnx

Yet there's need for all public office holders to purge themselves of corruption. quote author=Donald95 post=71373160]



Buhari and Poverty is like bread and butter. As if 1983 mission wasn't accomplished, he came back in 2015 to continue.

I spit on his cursed skull,his supporters generation,and also on that foolish mod that banned my brother [/quote]

[Mad people everywhere. The most industrious people on end are the biafrans.it's on record . so you and your pay master should tell us why we are our children and our belongings even our sweat are no longer safe in this country. quote author=buhariguy post=71353450]And the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of bia-fra terrorist said they are not a lazy youth.
It is only jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of bia-fra terrorist can do this.[/quote]

Oga they used this decade's result sheet to copy out the result. this is a statement of the result. Where is the certificate to confirm the authenticity of this result? quote author=Nbote post=71340699]



See as spit dey drop for una mouth as U are salivating over d news.. See Buhari's so called statement of result. D sheet was printed dis decade hence d year had to b cancelled from 20... to accommodate 1961 lol... Our President is Muhammadu Buhari abi how come his Oluwole result carries Mohammed[/quote]

McStoic:
All these rituals sha. It varies with cultures/locality. There's one that i remember which an uncle told me some years ago, that was in the old Imo state, Isiukwuato to be precise. They would conjure the dead man to move into different postures. Na there you go know say jazz dey.me ults like Ekpe in Akwa Ibom and some parts of Arochukwu are privy to this.

Lie this never an Igbo culture

Nogodye:
The man is a dead sitting being...That's Togolese culture.They give there corps numerous posture while celebrating his/her before buried him or her.But they make sure its return to the normal posture before placing it below the ground.

that culture need to be scrapped because funeral ceremonies is a mourning ceremony and not we make fun of the dead. We should be concerned about where he goes rather spending such a fortune that would've been used to take care of the living . thanks

akdjr:
I like this idea. Sitting on the throne!

where? Hell or the Paradise of God?

If she wan con dey control me!

ladywriter:
That’s it. No calls. No text. No visit.

Another day is over without his usual calls to check up on you.

You raised the issue with him, but he gave you a load of excuses on why he has not been calling as usual.

In fact, you have been the one calling lately.

And you can’t help thinking...

Is he losing interest or just busy?

Hmmm! Sister, it is time to wake up.  

There are telltale signs of a man losing interest in a relationship and in this article, I will deal with 5 of such signs.

Are you ready?

Let’s get started.

1. He is an "apartment renter" and not a "home buyer"


There are people who rent houses and those who buy them. Some men are like people who are looking for houses to rent. They are just looking for “ladies to rent”. They are not looking for a long-term relationship. They only want a lady who will be there to satisfy their needs for the meantime.

Some people who are financial buoyant can buy a house. Such people are not looking for houses to rent. Likewise, there are men who are looking for women to marry and not ‘rent’.  

If your man falls into the first category i.e. the "apartment renter", he will lose interest in you very fast because he is just renting your “space”. When he is done with you, he will move on to other available “spaces”.
 
Are you dating an “apartment renter," or a “home buyer,"?


2. He cannot chase someone who is behind him


This one will sting, so get ready ladies!

Some men are achievers. They are gunning for the top of their profession. They are professionally certified or reading to get certified. They are running one course after the other either offline or online. Most men who are achievers always love their women to also tag along educational or otherwise.

And you are there sitting down with your Diploma, HND or Bachelor’s degree. You are satisfied with where you are. You have no plans to move forward in your professional career. You are done with education!.
 
Perhaps, he has even advised you on several occasions to up your game, but you are just comfortable with whom you are and where you are. 
Hmmm! This is a recipe for your man to lose interest in you very fast.

3. The dude has his eyes on a new “hottie”

Remember the apartment rental I mentioned above, most of them don’t stop renting. They will go to other fine places to look for newly built modern houses that are modern. 

Some guys are like that too. They are constantly searching for slaying ladies in their office, entertainment places, school, etc. Whenever they get a new lady, they lose interest in you very fast. 

The truth is, men are fired up with the thrill of a new chase. He will stay with you for as long as there is no other option in sight. But as soon as a new opportunity arrives, you become an old story.

4. You are not a “ride or die”
“
A ride or die” means you are a liability and not an asset to your man. Your man will evaluate your value based on what you bring to the table. He will consider the value you are adding to his life and goals. 

If instead of improving his life, you made it bitter; you are not adding value to his life. 

If he feels that you are not beneficial to his life and his dreams, he will pack his bags mentally and follow suit physically in no time. 

5. He has eaten the forbidden fruit


Call it old school or something else, I still believe in no sex till after marriage. 

When there is nothing to look forward to in a relationship, it is boring. 

When, instead of keeping yourself, you freely give yourself to your man for as many time and he wants, it will be boring. It is a matter of time, it will park up. 

6. You turn him to your ATM


This is common. In fact, most ladies go into relationships because they need someone to take care of their financial needs. 
Once a man comes into your life, you automatically become his responsibility. You want him to be responsible for your daily upkeep, your pocket money, your recharge cards, your school fees, etc.

This is the reason you see many young and upwardly mobile men running away from dating relationships. They can’t cope because of incessant demands from ladies who have turned them into an ATM.

It is time to wake up and start doing the right thing.

It's your turn GUYs, add yours.


Curled from: https://relationshipmatas101.com/why-a-man-lose-interest-in-a-relationship/

Owned:



My Girl Told Me That If I No Pay Money, No Pussy For Me

What Should I Do ?

mad people everywhere. Rubbish!

excomarow:
Na that ATM own they vex me I swear

aka gum!�

hisgrace090:
The maradona have spoken aka, evil genius!

to give a failed support. Ur father support resulted in my failed presidential ambition. My support will also result to ur failed ambition. Do me I do u

[quote author=babajeje123 post=71254652]This guy is a nuisance. Go and do Uber if you no get work.[/quote yet every action has a reaction, he never reach to take that action see now he already crying when the reaction never even started and he cannot do the Uber job because he never reach. That's foolhardy of him next time know ur mates and never make the mistake of challenging those higher than u because if they so wish u go hear am.

babyfaceafrica:
the way people support cheating these days is appalling!!... some people are ready to break homes because of their selfishness.....rabbish post

why? Are u perturbed by this rubbish post of a halot. What do u expect from a shameless LovePeddler?

buharitill2023:
As far as the news is from deji is a fake news.
But if it is true,
He should be there till next year except he name his sponsor.
Just imagine the corrupt hungry guy saying thief saraki is what he want,
What a shame?
And the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of bia-fra terrorist are applauding the jobless lazy guy as their hero.

he was applauded due to his bravery not because of his status, even you cannot do it because of fear and timidity despite glaring maladministration of this government.

vedaxcool:
In cases like this, it is always better to learn from his mistakes than publicize. Least karma comes knocking on your door.

he's exactly his dad so so selfish his mother could neither help either too to come out from this crude mentality. Only Jesus can save!