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Andre Uweh: Utter nonsense. How can one take Onitsha out of Anambra state. Onitsha is Anambra and Anambra is Onitsha. The people of Onitsha have never indicated their interest in joining Anioma as they are not part of Anioma.
ANIOMA stands for: ANIOCHA, NDOKWA,IKA AND OSHIMIRI. If one adds Ogbaru and Anioma, then it is not Anioma.
Anioma being created and zoned to the south east is a good idea but must not touch Onitsha and Ogbaru.

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Well done bro, these guys are so concerned with thier selfish interest thus becoming blind to glaring issues even with thier eyes wide open. River Niger has geographically designed the boundry of anioma and anambra state, I wonder why they want to plant future confusion with pleasant political names. What is wrong with our leaders

Andre Uweh: Utter nonsense. How can one take Onitsha out of Anambra state. Onitsha is Anambra and Anambra is Onitsha. The people of Onitsha have never indicated their interest in joining Anioma as they are not part of Anioma.
ANIOMA stands for: ANIOCHA, NDOKWA,IKA AND OSHIMIRI. If one adds Ogbaru and Anioma, then it is not Anioma.
Anioma being created and zoned to the south east is a good idea but must not touch Onitsha and Ogbaru.

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Well done bro, these guys are concerned with thier interest thus becoming blind to glaring issue even with thier eyes wide open. River Niger has geographically designed the boundry of anioma and anambra state, I wonder why they want to plant future confusion with pleasant political names. What is wrong with our leaders

Us will never speak the truth. For 12years now american widows has increased by 120%. Thus Americans no longer join the army cos of the thousands of life they've lost since the William bush administration till this barrack Obama administration. Now they're looking for people to fill in the empty space in thier army, they call it a program designed to fill thier crucial readiness. And our people are joining what will take thier life with great enthusiasm. I wish them good luck.

Red-Light:
asset declaration by any president is a high level of transparency, it shows he has notin to hide. Unlike mr i dnt give a damn. u are funny u said he is using turai, so are u now saying that first lady has access to public fund than the president? Besides u forgot she declared her asset including his sons own! What else do u want?



oh ho u forgot the man in the middle of subsidy scam (otedola) is jonathan second hands man.. Opps i forgot he even donated to him (jeg)
during yaraduas time, despite reducing pump price.. Its on record that Nigeria is paying 250 to 300billion for subsidy per year.. Buh uncle jonathan got in it skyrocked to 1.2trillion and u r still here defendin his rubbish


so who cares if he put northerners in care of nnpc or not.. Are northerners not nigerians? U forgot the same nnpc was almost on standstill all thanks to obj.. Until he reshuffle it.. U forgot its the same yaradua that chose jonaflop as running mate. He coulda chose sum1 frm the west or east since they are majority yet he chose minority.. Abeg give credit to whom credit it due

My friend don't say what u don't know. Yaraduwa was chosen alongside with Jonathan. It was obj that put them both there. Yaraduwa never dreamt of becoming a president. So pls stop that crap

Buhari, Ibb, Atiku and other prominent northerners are aware of the bokoharam issue.

thelastPope: How is asset declaration an achievement? You are very funny. The same guy who declared assets had Ibori as his right hand man and Turai was busy licking us dry. So what is the point in declaring his assets then. Ibori is one of the most corrupt Nigerians ever! Fuel subsidy scams were going on unabated just like it was in OBJ's tenure.

One of the first thing Yaradua did was to reshuffle NNPC. He sack the sixteen directors then and replaced them with 13 northern directors and 3 directors from the south. That paved the way for the northern cabals to freely continue the control of the ND oil wells. Look we know all these stuff. That is why he was Ibori's main man. The true ND leaders didn't like him because they knew what he stood for.

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Sir please tell them for me. They think we don't know how shallow thier brain is. U see where Ibori's mischievous fame has landed him.

Red-Light:
u are just being sentimental.. So becoz he was 4rm north, he shudnt do or build anytin meaningful in north.. Can u list the names of those he leased the oil blocks to?.. U call it nigeria not south south nigeria, buh u dnt want hausa president to control anytin 4rm south, is the president of northern nigeria.. Since jonathan became d president what has he done 4 south south?

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Gej has not and i don't think he will move anything from the north to the south. Rather he'll dublicate it. Why didnt he think of moving NDA down to the south south, or did obj do anything of such in his 8yrs in office ?

The ibo's should be allowed to go jor. Unity shouldn't be by force.

I am not against the okada ban in warri because the defect superceed thier effect. But the problem is that warri does not have road, and keke cannot substitute for okada with the present condition of our roads.

1supremo: 1. He is the only president who reduced the price of fuel- others do otherwise (They promise to initiate palliative measures after effecting the price hike but do nothing).

2. He knew when dialogue could resolve an issue. MEND should understand my stance.

3. He knew whom you shouldn't treat with kid's gloves in order to fulfil the presidential vow of securing the lives and property of the citizenry. Ask Boko Haram.

4. He is so transparent that he declared his assets on assuming office (He could have also said ''I don't give a damn,'' but he didn't)

I'm sure he would have beaten anyone else hands down if he had stayed long enough.

YAR ADUA is the man.

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Yara-dua caused the crisis in the naija delta 2day. He leased all the oil blocks in the oil producing communities to northerners and gave them lincence to lift crude oil, while jtf was killing the naija deltans at the creeks who wanted to do samething. He also awarded 50billion naira contract for pti to be relocated to kaduna.

For the above reason, i see him as the most tribalistic leader Nigeria has ever had. Just within 18months in office he was already frustrating the South south, how can northerners be lincenced to control the resources of south and we say its a democratic govt.

Thank God he died if not only God knows what would have been the case of our nation 2day.

Tedpgrass: Come on..... honeytrap needed here.

Simply set her up!!!!!.......... with your childhood friend as an observer
Dont let out to either party what's on except the "bait".
Make sure the bait is really "tight"
No room for excuses......
preferably with video evidence for loudmouthed relatives

That solves the problems of whether she's reformed or not, agro of telling your friend, no nasty reprisals!!!!!!!!

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Hmmm

Sam xiu lee: its not about who without sin sin cast the first stone,friendship and loyalty,we men av this thing between us when u call someone your friend you ve got to tell him right from the first minute he knew,that might not change anything depending on his friend choice,he might just take it has a thing of the past cos ppl do change.
Its not going to be easy,but its better he tells than keeping it,if his friend gets to know from another source then he should be ready to add one enemy to the squad....cos she might tell her husband after the marriage that his friend was hitting on her durring thhe wedding,just to separate the two friends..she would never b happy seeing them together.but I think its too late for you to talk cos your friend will still hate your ass cos u took so long to talk,what if you were in his shoes?would you like your friend not telling you about your Gf immediately he knew you were going to marry her?

. Thanks, maybe I should let them be.

gree-die:
And you waited all these while to tell him?

Im not saying you shouldnt tell him but just know that when you finally tell him, you ll have 2 enemies added to your list of enemies. Guess you know who they are?

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gwas: Better to let her be. Don't marry her. Both of you are not compatible in bed. There's a possibily that such lady would fucck around if you end up marrying her - your driver, gateman, brothers and friends might also taste her.

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Thanks gwas.

dmcdad: Lol... If you marry her, you will be her husband less times than other people will be her husband because you wont need a prophet to tell you that she wont be able to keep herself with your kinda job

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Thanks, i think I know where to start from. I appriciate.

Lovetinz: I have One who might match you better.
Can we arrange a swap?

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B:Pbut how?

MRbrownJAY: see all these clueless people talking shiit here...... so if you were the person in question living abroad, and your friend was A) fukcing your future partner and B) knew that you future partner was a local biatch, you would want that friend to NOT TELL YOU?!"
how many of you would gladly have your brotha/sista/son/daughter/family member marry the local (male) biatch?

@OP
your problem is that you were dishonest to your friend, because the minute you realized that this gal was the biatch you were fukcing, you should have TOLD HIM....and clean your conscience about this stuff. what are friends for?!

but hey, if thats the kind of life than any of you people here want, a life of dishonesty and deceit, then not even God can save you lot!

Mrbrown, when i said introduction i mean my friend has gone with his parents and some friends to the parents of the girl to make his intention to marry thier daughter known to them. They are not yet married traditionally.

caseless: The word 'love' is imaginary/abstract and it is clinged to mega fantasy. I'm sorry, u have what so many men out there are looking for....we all want the love our partners have for us to outsize the one we have for them. No body seeks advalorem in lovelife...so loving u more than u love her is not a crime, u can build on that and have a happy home. if u think marriage is concerntric to love alone, then , that love will somehow go away or diminish along the line, maybe after 2-3 kids u will confirm this. The goodnews is that u have a reason why u don't wanna let go cos u knw the effect ur decision will have on her, that's enough reason to marry her i.e, if u dont want her to die in ur name. If u were not really in love with her , u shldnt have allowed the r/ship to get to this stage. And how are u sure u'd find someone who u love 100% and she's ready to return the favour in similar size? Marriage is not 100% about love dis days, but about the woman that can help u build ur home. Bro, find time to correct her...u can shape her to become ur dream gal if she truly love u like u said. Do pray , ask God for direction b4 taking any step. Best of lucks!

So many guys out there are lookin for what u're kidding with, if I were you I will marry her.

Was it GOD or pastor cris dat saved you ? . .
Cos from ur story i don't know who u're thanking.

Go ahead and kill your mum so as to quickly inherit her husband. But be rest assured that what goes around comes around, may God erase ur memories . You are a disgrace to African women.

Mr. Globe:
I get irritated that whenever Lagos is mentioned, low lifes like you bring up yorobberland. Is lagos the only south west state.
opc can do nothing. nobody is afraid of opc.

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Since when did opc become law enforcement agency . It's high time federal govt let the ibo's go. Abi unity na by force?

In a situation where your girls sexual appetite is stronger than yours, and though u've been trying to meet up. Will you marry such girl as an offshore worker ??

Your girl is just been unreasonably jealous. She would have patiently tracked and patiently waited to catch u since she already knew u where inviting a bb girl to town. At least with that she'll have a valid excuse.

Maybe she has gone for her's since u're expecting ur's...... period.

For what and why are we rating this photos

[quote author=Queenisha]na wa o
all these cheating people on nairaland and their advisers.

Well my advise will be to confront him about that voice mail from his mistress and gather all evidence needed to prove your point and after he admits it, you release your own bomb shell so you can both start the healing process.
I believe in honesty,without that,the marriage is just a sham.
Gbamm, my brother u've spoken well. Madam u commited this sin against him and God, so you need forgiveness from both.

Orikinla: [size=28pt]U MUST BE AN ID-IOT TO FAIL TO KNOW THAT UR GUY CANNOT READ EVEN WITHIN 7 DAYS![/size]

[size=8pt][/size][b][/b] for you not to know that your bf can't read for a whole 7yrs is a clear indication that u're equally a dummy. Both of u need formal education.

It's even better for them to kprash themselves cos no man in his right sense will hang hook up with those skinny and repulsive scare-crow. Mithwwww

Nice one.

I met Amaka at mm2 when I went to drop my brother who was traveling that day. I offered her a lift but before she got to her bus stop, I gathered she was a student in my state university, she had a fiance who resides in Europe. Though we agreed to meet that weekend.

After that first encounter, i called her frequently so as to turn her on which yielded success after our meeting during the weekend. Though we agreed there was no future for us since she was getting married the next year. I started falling in love not only because she was pretty,but she was also good at knokkin (she's got skills and stamina).

One faithful weekend, I decided to pay her a surprise visit at school and enjoy those swell time once more. But to my surprise she introduced me to the guy i met in her room as her uncle. Later that night she came to my hotel room to apologise and blamed me for not pre-informing her about my visit and that the guy i met in her room was just a school bf. That was how it all ended cos i never visited nor called her again.

My problem now is that my childhood friend who's based in demark came in two weeks back and i just discovered that he's the fiance amaka told me about. As I type this message, we did her introduction last Friday, the marriage comes up on the 23rd of November and my friend has chosen me as his best man. Infact since his arrival, we've always been together making all arrangements for the marriage.

What should i do?
Should i tell my friend what happened between me and amaka and her life style or not? Advice please.

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From all the comment so far. U've really spoken well. I now know what to do, am a new leaf and am moving on as such. Thanks my nairaland folks.