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ManOfSteel2:
A lump sum can only do go with an already mapped-out investment strategy that has been test-run and will most likely succeed.....

Only an investment savvy individual get to "pull weight" in an enclave littered with corruption amidst very bad economy!

If you are not a good risk taker like us,

[s]ManOfSteel will advice you choose to make regular love with your bae for 10mins anytime you so desire, than choosing to have a one time sex romp of over 15hours, if such offer is made.[/s]

Every other thing you said is spot on

Beans and Sweet potatoes

Biingoo:
Bribe? Jesus baby dey collect bribe too?

LMAO I see what you did there Yeye guy lol

Biingoo:
Ogom don't expose me oh! I use God name beg you

LMAO... Ngwanu bribe me

Biingoo:
Oshey!!!

Biingoo:
Asa how are you? Goan reply my message on telegram

LMAO... So you're now Bingo... Issokay

... Buns... Sharperly bought this to hold bele before breakfast comes

dataking:
Africa is just too blessed but full of useless leaders

What has that got to do with the topic?

frozen70:
Am surprise at your comment

He came out openly to tell us his confession and you are here telling him its not his fault

Did you read where he said anything about his wife character that is bad

Your type is not supposed to be making comments in matters like this because you lack the simple sense of judgement

I will implore you to do the exact things he did when you get married

He is lost and frustrated now,
Infact, he is in a worst situation worst than that of the wife

A man that lost his wife a d children through his own carelessness

Abeg Park well and dont support stupidity until you wear the shoes of marriage

She was being sarcastic nne ... If you knew Bukytane, you'd understand better

Akposy:
Cococandy this is my Dalgona! I made this without mixer and it was yum yum yum. Damn! I'm feeling like a pro chef already.

Thanks for the inspiration o

Choi Inukwa... Akposy, I know your plan ... And it's working

Eni333:
I sat down last night and thought about my life, there is nothing enjoyable in the marriage. And I don't want my sons to grow up and become wife beaters, he doesn't mind beating me in front of them. I can't wait for the lockdown to end, I am certainly leaving, I have had enough.

I admire your strength dear... All those ones (the guys especially) saying "you should look inward" as to why he's disrespecting you by sleeping around and beating you... Like trying to fault you one way or the other for the actions of a grown ass man, will they give the same crappy advice if it were their sisters or daughters at the receiving end? If it were you doing all that to him, will they also advise their gender person to "look inward" or "be more loving romantic" etc?? Hypocritical lots... Look inward my foot

Eni333:
I am really tired of my marriage, my husband rarely stay at home, he just comes back to sleep and take his bath. He leaves as early as 6 to 7am and comes back by 12 or 1 in the night. Even in this lockdown, I see other men spending time with their families but my husband would leave as early as 6am and come back late. Any time I complain he would beat me up, he barely keeps money for me and my 2 kids. My elder brother is the one sending me money for my upkeep. My mother is telling me to endure it would get better one day.
My husband even carry girls around, there is one bar near our street my husband takes his girlfriends there. He doesn't care about my feelings.
I am thinking of leaving after this lockdown, my elder brother is asking me to come back that he would start a business for me, I am tired of enduring.

My dear, it is well. The Lord is your strength... Thank God you at least have a family member that cares (your bro) and willing to support you with a business... Because caring for the kids all by yourself with nothing would almost be impossible... Just leave that place for your sanity and safety before he infects you with an STI or even beats you to death... May God continue to preserve and strengthen you in Jesus name. Amen.

bukatyne:
Can you walk us through the history of your marriage?

History of her marriage so you can find where to blame/fault her okwaya?
Pleaser of men (especially nairaland guys) So u can tell her "it's because she's tying wrapper and blablabla" abi... Na your way na... I won't be surprised if you drop one of your funnily ridiculous advices if she dignifies this funny question of yours with a response

4realwoman:
Homemade shortbread.
@Cutiereborn, come and take your ma'am.

Coman gimme

Adanairaland:
Trust me.

You will be selling for your colleagues sef

Sent you a whatsapp message

Adanairaland:
Lol..

I'm laughing so hard right now.

I can show you where to get them at very very affordable rate still in Yaba.

You will be wowed

I miniri ihe a? Link me up biko nne

Adanairaland:
Thrift Wears?
Say the truth

Use your tongue count your teeth

Hypnotise:

Don't mention. Glad I could help. But does it mean you're able to go shopping in the midst of this lockdown?

Nope... before the lockdown I was able to buy some beautiful corporate gowns at prices ... And my colleagues are always like "babes, them don pay extra salary wey we no know? Because you smelling"money money" "... Them no know say if you know you know

So I didn't get Atmosphere eventually but men! hypnotise... I got some great stuff at tejuoso complex that you suggested (where you have the spar gangan)... I've been a regular there ever since until Lady Rona came along... Mark and Spencer o, Next o, Dunnes, Primark, River island gbogboero... You have no idea what you did for this sister ... Thank you nne... No more work clothes headache with my new job ...

bukatyne:
At least, you believe I am a woman. Fair enough.

Man pleaser, [s]that's another feather to my cap on NL

I am 100% fair and empathetic to women. Don't confuse giving tough advises towards a greater end as 'unfair'. I don't pander to people or give advises they want to hear. I give advises I see is best situated to their situation after evaluating their unique circumstances and their leverage.

I also do not do bandwagon effect and independently access situations drawing from real life experiences. If I ask you to quote ten posts out of my 19,000+ posts where I blamed a woman blindly, you would not be able to do so.

See me as that mother or elder sister that will 'beat' you to read your books so that you can excel and tie the biggest gele during your graduation.

A woman chooses her man so who do we blame if her man turns out bad?

At least, we would blame her for not choosing well.

If she thought she chose well and the man turned out wrong, she should sit down and backtrack to where she got it wrong and not make that mistake again.

When you become more observant and true to yourself, you will find out that the average Nigerian woman has placed herself in whatever position she finds herself relationship/marriage wise. She also does not know how to evaluate her leverage per situation hence keep making funny decisions.

I used to be very up in arms that Nigerian men are 'bad' till I saw that the woman wailing her husband does not do any chores is the same woman telling her son 'he is a man' and pushing all chores to her daughter; the one wailing about a cheating husband is the same one excusing a cheating colleague or her brother that had a kid outside. The one complaining about an 'abusive' husband is the same one calling another gentler man weak.

So I changed my approach: build yourself to a standard woman, choose a good man and be good to him. I believe a woman is to make her man happy so it is her duty to choose the man that will inspire that naturally in her.

You see, just how it is an anomaly darkness and light to co-exist, you can not have an expectation from your man and another from your male relatives. You cannot make wrong decisions and cry foul when the consequences of those decisions come biting. You cannot have your cake and eat it.

Are there bad men? There are. Infact, I always talk about the average 'Nigerian' man is not marriageable.

Would it now make sense for me to marry that average 'Nigerian' man and wail three years down the line?

Would it not make sense to make the right choice of a man and live happily ever after? As much as we complain that Saudi Arabia is unfair to women, some men still taught their women how to drive. What does that tell you?

The quality of a woman's life is dependent on the men around her that is why the Ibunkun Awosikas, Sheryl Goldbergs and Folorunsho Alakijas keep emphasizing on the quality of men young women marry.

Maybe your post makes more sense today hence my willingness to type this epistle[/s].

@the bolded, u are more than a man pleaser nne... Going about kissing asses of all the nairaland dudes so that they'll like you is what you live and breathe on ... Everything a guy does, you try to twist it and eventually fault the woman... Asslicker oshi like you ... Don't bother quoting back 'cause I'll ignore your very existence

Good afternoon local men and women... Mehn! E don tey o ... Hope y'all are good and keeping safe... Anyways, thought to say hi ...

Bye

Akposy:
Oyel (oil) local rice and oven baked sawa

Akposy:
Flaky fish pie

This is beautiful ... Akposy, Ye art reigneth ... Kee them biko

FnbAutos:
If you go on looking for virgins, I hope you can cope with a Virgin with awful character, abi you think say na all Virgin get behave well? They can even use the fact that they’re virgins to take advantage of you, times have CHANGED!!!

being a virgin and having an awful character are not mutually exclusive sir... Abeg try get small sense

bigpriik:
It's only a foolish virgin that will keep her virginity till marriage and end up giving it to another other than her husband...

God bless you

Akposy:
Peanut Garri Cookies

This was made with the ingredients we use in soaking/drinking garri. I decided to do something outside the norm

I challenge you all to try it and drop your feedbacks

Creatively beautiful

macaranta:
Kingly king is having a bootilicious party featuring dj Maurice and the sky spirits. Happy julianuary

lol

typicalgamer:
KING JULIAN IS THAT YOU

The sky spirits are with him so they could never be king Julien

primesoccer:
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

Kindly throw more light... I'm interested...

Kind regards,

Gina

Seun:
Pls we need to provide protective equipment to everyone, not just health workers. If we don't get sick, doctors won't have to risk their lives for us.

what have you and your atheist brothers and sisters donated so far? Na to dey open una big mouth anyhow to try discredit Christianity and pastors una sabi... Tueh! Yeye dey smell

Ozbee:
Infinix S4, very neat, no scratch. Colour purple. Battery life 100 percent. Comes with box and charger. No Exchange. Call or WhatsApp 07033908699. Price is 34000 and firm. Location is Awka.

25k bro. I am serious. No jokes

s33d:
Available for sale

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