₦airaland Forum

4realwoman:
Homemade shortbread.
@Cutiereborn, come and take your ma'am.

Coman gimme

Adanairaland:
Trust me.

You will be selling for your colleagues sef

Sent you a whatsapp message

Adanairaland:
Lol..

I'm laughing so hard right now.

I can show you where to get them at very very affordable rate still in Yaba.

You will be wowed

I miniri ihe a? Link me up biko nne

Adanairaland:
Thrift Wears?
Say the truth

Use your tongue count your teeth

Hypnotise:

Don't mention. Glad I could help. But does it mean you're able to go shopping in the midst of this lockdown?

Nope... before the lockdown I was able to buy some beautiful corporate gowns at prices ... And my colleagues are always like "babes, them don pay extra salary wey we no know? Because you smelling"money money" "... Them no know say if you know you know

So I didn't get Atmosphere eventually but men! hypnotise... I got some great stuff at tejuoso complex that you suggested (where you have the spar gangan)... I've been a regular there ever since until Lady Rona came along... Mark and Spencer o, Next o, Dunnes, Primark, River island gbogboero... You have no idea what you did for this sister ... Thank you nne... No more work clothes headache with my new job ...

bukatyne:
At least, you believe I am a woman. Fair enough.

Man pleaser, [s]that's another feather to my cap on NL

I am 100% fair and empathetic to women. Don't confuse giving tough advises towards a greater end as 'unfair'. I don't pander to people or give advises they want to hear. I give advises I see is best situated to their situation after evaluating their unique circumstances and their leverage.

I also do not do bandwagon effect and independently access situations drawing from real life experiences. If I ask you to quote ten posts out of my 19,000+ posts where I blamed a woman blindly, you would not be able to do so.

See me as that mother or elder sister that will 'beat' you to read your books so that you can excel and tie the biggest gele during your graduation.

A woman chooses her man so who do we blame if her man turns out bad?

At least, we would blame her for not choosing well.

If she thought she chose well and the man turned out wrong, she should sit down and backtrack to where she got it wrong and not make that mistake again.

When you become more observant and true to yourself, you will find out that the average Nigerian woman has placed herself in whatever position she finds herself relationship/marriage wise. She also does not know how to evaluate her leverage per situation hence keep making funny decisions.

I used to be very up in arms that Nigerian men are 'bad' till I saw that the woman wailing her husband does not do any chores is the same woman telling her son 'he is a man' and pushing all chores to her daughter; the one wailing about a cheating husband is the same one excusing a cheating colleague or her brother that had a kid outside. The one complaining about an 'abusive' husband is the same one calling another gentler man weak.

So I changed my approach: build yourself to a standard woman, choose a good man and be good to him. I believe a woman is to make her man happy so it is her duty to choose the man that will inspire that naturally in her.

You see, just how it is an anomaly darkness and light to co-exist, you can not have an expectation from your man and another from your male relatives. You cannot make wrong decisions and cry foul when the consequences of those decisions come biting. You cannot have your cake and eat it.

Are there bad men? There are. Infact, I always talk about the average 'Nigerian' man is not marriageable.

Would it now make sense for me to marry that average 'Nigerian' man and wail three years down the line?

Would it not make sense to make the right choice of a man and live happily ever after? As much as we complain that Saudi Arabia is unfair to women, some men still taught their women how to drive. What does that tell you?

The quality of a woman's life is dependent on the men around her that is why the Ibunkun Awosikas, Sheryl Goldbergs and Folorunsho Alakijas keep emphasizing on the quality of men young women marry.

Maybe your post makes more sense today hence my willingness to type this epistle[/s].

@the bolded, u are more than a man pleaser nne... Going about kissing asses of all the nairaland dudes so that they'll like you is what you live and breathe on ... Everything a guy does, you try to twist it and eventually fault the woman... Asslicker oshi like you ... Don't bother quoting back 'cause I'll ignore your very existence

Good afternoon local men and women... Mehn! E don tey o ... Hope y'all are good and keeping safe... Anyways, thought to say hi ...

Bye

Akposy:
Oyel (oil) local rice and oven baked sawa

Akposy:
Flaky fish pie

This is beautiful ... Akposy, Ye art reigneth ... Kee them biko

FnbAutos:
If you go on looking for virgins, I hope you can cope with a Virgin with awful character, abi you think say na all Virgin get behave well? They can even use the fact that they’re virgins to take advantage of you, times have CHANGED!!!

being a virgin and having an awful character are not mutually exclusive sir... Abeg try get small sense

bigpriik:
It's only a foolish virgin that will keep her virginity till marriage and end up giving it to another other than her husband...

God bless you

Akposy:
Peanut Garri Cookies

This was made with the ingredients we use in soaking/drinking garri. I decided to do something outside the norm

I challenge you all to try it and drop your feedbacks

Creatively beautiful

macaranta:
Kingly king is having a bootilicious party featuring dj Maurice and the sky spirits. Happy julianuary

lol

typicalgamer:
KING JULIAN IS THAT YOU

The sky spirits are with him so they could never be king Julien

primesoccer:
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

Kindly throw more light... I'm interested...

Kind regards,

Gina

Seun:
Pls we need to provide protective equipment to everyone, not just health workers. If we don't get sick, doctors won't have to risk their lives for us.

what have you and your atheist brothers and sisters donated so far? Na to dey open una big mouth anyhow to try discredit Christianity and pastors una sabi... Tueh! Yeye dey smell

Ozbee:
Infinix S4, very neat, no scratch. Colour purple. Battery life 100 percent. Comes with box and charger. No Exchange. Call or WhatsApp 07033908699. Price is 34000 and firm. Location is Awka.

25k bro. I am serious. No jokes

s33d:
Available for sale

Location

Joeysage:
Sold already

Available?

Gentlelove7:
Available

19k
The camera is a write off.

Tyteeso:
Available

What is wrong with the phone

Girlwhocares:
No i haven't cheated on him before and I dont plan to except if we eventually go our separate ways by divorce which i really don't want!

As per him cheating on me,i honestly can't say cos he hasn't given me any suspicion.

Yes, you have cheated him and probably on him.
Cheating is not only physical but emotional too.
All those times you withdrew from him, you cheated him, and if you have been having intimate conversation with someone else, you've cheated on him.

Girlwhocares:
Yes,have been dating my bf for (15yrs)he was my first nd the only one have ever loved,our problem started when my dad said he witnessed where exhibited an unruly characters to some elders and also cos of the friends he moves with recently as at then and that he wasnt comfortable with our relationship (which i pleaded and made him understand everyone deserves another chance but cos how principled my dad was he insisted he won't consent to our union)
To be candid,this is the guy have share all my life with,he's all i wanted in a man but my dad opinion ruined our relationship.

I think seperation from my husband is all i need just for clarity sake but honestly,the more i try to make the marriage work the more i drift away from him and I dont know how to go about it.

I have visited two marriage counsellors without informing my husband all in my effort to work things but not yielding results as expected

Is your husband not good-looking enough? What you need to do is let go of your past and open up your heart to him.
You love him, you just don't know it yet.
I pray when you realize it, it is not too late.

concept65:
Me im just looking at that round asś in those fishnet stockings on the boy's screen

If only the mum saw that

crackkhaus:
I don't know which is worse, the infidelity inside her own matrimonial home or the fact that they were doing it without condoms or quick-withdrawal method.

[s] Some people just know how to use their own hand to become a problem to themselves, and by some people, I mean the woman here.
The lesson teacher has absolutely nothing to lose, guy-man will just move on with his life at the end of the day.

[/s]

Borgetti:
I know people are still grieving. I hope this joke didn’t come too early, and I apologise if it does.
Those that returned extra transport allowance to King Anyam and Farouk but didn’t get APL, how do you guys feel? Let it out.

I was paid twice and I still got APL me 3 NNPC 0

LMAO. Ahswear guy you don high

joobseekar:
Oshey?! Kardinal Official Bae'bee, let 'em know.


How work nau?

Lol chairman happy new year... It's been a wonderful experience so far I must say...

NosaJBourne:
And if Ginalex finally gets the APL, would you commit suicide?

Share your family history if you like

People with nonsense

You are special ahswear

GambaOsaka:
As i said earlier and would still continue to say, I hope the system have changed - but i guess it hasn't.
Ginalex.... I hope you get your APL soon, but when people share their experiences on this forum, don't castigate and make them liars.
Grow up, Grow up, Grow up... Nigeria doesn't work the way you think.

Lol... see this one So you still dey think this thing since last year LMAO ... As for the APL, the question now should be "will you accept the APL when it comes"? And my answer; I don't know yet ... But hey, let's see how it goes.... Until then, tata

daddytime:
Teletubbies....

Sarah and Duck....

Quack