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Haute:
Same here. But I do pray. Do you?

I do pray, who doesn't? You are funny.

This brought tears to my eyes, I remembered my pet milky, a monkey grandma brought from her work place. He made us laughed with his little tricks and funny facial movements when he gets angry.

I missed those little hands I find funny when he grabs my hair whenever I tried to get hold of him.

Pets are wonderful creatures. Sorry for your lost.

zolapeperenpe:
Hi everyone,
I posted this on family section so i could get a meaningful advice.
Im a one-girl-one-guy person and i made a promise to myself not to have more than one body count till the end of time so i kept my virginity thruout my uni days.

Fast forward to 3yrs after school,i met this guy,we were in a serious,well-defined relationship(he introduced me to his people and i did the same),we were already talking about settling down,so we felt there was no big deal having sex since we are meant for each other (atleast that was what i thought).

So we engaged in pre-intimacy,then he inserted a finger(which was painful),then after a day or two he tried two fingers(it was painful initially but later the pain was reduced) to my utmost surprise THERE WAS NO BLOOD! Later he tried using his joystick but i just couldn't stand the pain and he is a very impatient person,so we din't proceed. Then the next day,he started acting wierd asking why there was no blood after inserting 2fingers deeply(severally actually). I was just looking lost and confused.

During the period i stayed with him(he just got transfer to another city when we met,we only see like once every 6months,so i decided to spend my leave with him) i discovered alot of things about him,but i kept calm,this guy had numerous ladies on his contact and pay almost all their bills(from buying phones for them,to paying for their hair-do etc),but the most unbearable part was each time i tried to sit him down and have a mature discussion with him,he would never listen.....he automatically assumed i 'nag'. The communication gap was unbearable(even before the 'NO BLOOD' issue,hence i broke up with him)

The breakup wasn't the main reason why i created this thread but to ask if i could still call myself a virgin. I opened NL romance section few mins ago nd i saw 2threads of some guys talking about dis-V their gf and they were shocked not to see a single stain of blood. Trust guys comments; 'those hoes ain't loyal,she's a pathological liar)etc

I don't want complications in my life,and i would't want a situation whereby i would find 'D-one' tomorrow and he'll start calling me a liar.

So,the thing is ;this particular hoe is loyal but is she still a virgin?

Mature advice pls. Thank you

You are still a virgin.

Haute:
Haha! Smh for you. I'm home too. What's your reason for missing service?

I'm not a church person.

Haute:
Amen. But Ginaz are you okay?

And I hope you're in church right now.

I'm at home, I didn't go to church but I'm filled with the spirit right now. holy holy holy.

Ohbo:
Do you know that saying You don't appreciate what you have until you lose it? that's my present predicament.
I love her but I was so hooked up with work and other activities which made her less of my priority. Yes I know she is human and she needed the love and attention but I expected her to understand. This is a matter of setting things right for our future.

Now she is gone with nowhere to contact her and make amends. I love her and I wish I could get a second chance. Please nairaland help me create a second chance

O.p, what are you looking for her for? Am I not here?

That guy better not come online or else me and my goons will finish him. Ole.

God is great, his ways can never be known to man. He exist in high heavens, men have fled to space and higher above but none could locate him.

His ways are holy and his anger is pure and justified. His patience is like the sea that never dries, his love is like the breast milk of a mother that nourish a child.

Jehovah be praised, today and forever. We worship you cos your ways are not the ways of man.

They denied your existence, but whose image was man created if not you? Who blew the breath to the nostrils of man if not you.

This God is like sugar, long live the king of all the earth.long live the invisible God.

*modified*

I didn't know it will get to fb, but now that it has, I want you to know God love you, let's praise him in every situations it doesn't matter if good or bad. I am in the spirit.

Muuaal, kisses from ginaz.

People died and some people are busy arguing about motor.
Ona need flog.

I weak mehhhhhh God help the wife to regain herself.

So pouting my lips to take pictures will lead to sex

Calling my best friend "my dear" will lead to sex?
See you guys nodding your heads are just hypocrites, there are many stuffs that can lead one into sex innocently.

What about a child who has nothing to eat, goes to meet a neighbor and the uncle molest her.?

What about a girl, who was molested after going on a daylight evangelism?

See the world is ruined, Satan has put all means of bait and ropes to tie everybody into sexual sin.

What we should do is to be prayerful cos 100% of the stuff the o.p listed happens everyday. Let's be in the spirit of the Lord pls.

*and o.p, I pouted my mouth, hope I am not luring men to sin*

Buhari will do something, let me call him.

luminouz:
I imagine ur mouth singing that...n I laugh in spiritual powers..
BT d way...awayu!

I'm tired but OK, been working since morning.

annyplenty:
THIRD STAGE OF LUST (THE PLANNING STAGE)
Lust at this stage is given by the acronym below.
L -LOVE
U -UNDER
S -SECRET
T -TERMS

At this stage, a Youth begins to make a plan how to actualize what he/she has been longing to touch, taste or test in his/her heart.

Many youth call it ‘love’ but I call it ‘Love Under Secret Terms’ (lust). At this stage, a male and a female youth that are lusting after each other may begin to behave funny and secretively. They may begin to do things in secret- secret phone calls, secret text messages, secret chats, secret visits when parents are not at home, secret invitations and so on. Even toasting belongs here. It is during this secret stage that many youths roll out plans that take them to the real action (fornication).

Lies are also not too far from Youths engaging in lust at this stage because they need a lot of lies to succeed in, and to cover their secret loves and plans.

Proverb 7:19 tells of a woman, whose husband had travelled, and was planning a ‘secret love’ with a young man she had been lusting after.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the good man is not at home, he is gone a long journey:

This planning secret love is also sinful because, if you are not checked, it is what you plan that you will carry out as mentioned in Micah 2:1.
Micah 2:1 Woe to them that devise (plan) iniquity, and work evil upon their beds! when the morning is light, they practise it, because it is in the power of their hand.

Micah 2:1 explains the reason many young girls were raped after honouring secret invitations from their ‘so-called-boyfriends’. Their boyfriends planned the rape and carried it out when they see their girlfriends.

The acted drama video below shows a young man that is always engaging 'Love Under Secret Terms' (LUST) with young girls.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV-INLzV8FU

Any youth who is bent of having a 'secret love' with you will eventually end up in fornication, molestation or rape with you if not checked.

PRAYERS
1. Lord, Jesus Christ, deliver my feet from running to do evil.

2. Cast out the lust out of my eyes by the finger of God.

3. Do not allow me to fall to lust like Adam and Eve

4. Destroy every trap of seduction on my way by the fire of God.

5. Give me the power to flee fornication.


JESUScoming


ashez, DoctorAlien, Paddy247, ojayfrancis, oladipo322, obataokenwa, Ginaz, wandevincent, seuncoded and others that are following the teaching, here is the third stage of Lust.

Why am I mentioned on topics like this .

We lust everyday in our hearts, our prayer point is that God should guild our hearts from sinful thoughts.

Men and ego, is their downfall.

God is good, all the time. All the time, God is Good.

richommie:
Christ, you so cute.

#YOLO

Thank you

tk4rd:
You were banned ?? Na waa ooo.
Whoever got the mind to ban quiet Ginaz.??
WHO.??

It was the mods, they logged me out.

tk4rd:
Ahahahahah.. Let's believe they are working on it.

OK I hope so

KissChrix:
Nice shirt


Seun resolve this issue fast nah

Are you laughing me?

tk4rd:
Since this year, profile editing stopped working.

Oh no, they have caged me and my squeezed shirt on my profile.

Kushpapi:
https://www.nairaland.com/3552048/new-year-greeting-information-anomalies

Oh thank you for this, I was logged out for 2 weeks and I didn't see the information. But it's wrong for them to ban people when they didn't do nothing to deserve it. thanks for the info.

I'm sorry to be asking this question, but I'm curious to know if anyone has noticed that nairaland doesn't display "edit profile" which was among the options at the front display?

I tried to change my profile picture but could not see the "edit profile" on my wall. Is it a general problem or it's my account. I need replies please.

Josephamstrong1:
Vry inspiring dear.
Tot u controversial on Nl.

Nah, I only get hot headed when someone try shiiit with me.

Josephamstrong1:
Nah... What? U didn't write this.

I did, what's wrong?

ekanDamie:
aptly said. social media has a big part to play in all this feeling of depression u know.
alot of us have high dreams while in secondary school one thing DAT might seem to
me a mistake is that we add all our sec school friends on social apps like FB

in no time after graduation, u see some posting pics of admission, yet, u still struggling with maths, sometimes not DAT u dnt know it,but life.

before u know it, u see them graduating n puting on nysc after 4yrs, u look at urself uve not done anything tangible cos some odds have not been in ur favour

we refuse to try oda options, we want to join that education race n math up with our friends. just as u said, our personal life shouldn't be like a race rather a plant, ur seed can take long to germinate n grow faster, some germinate faster n grow slowly, while some will have best of both. d truth is, however how each tree groes it still makes part of d forest. one just have to grow at ones pace n stop using others to grow.

learning a skill too is good as ur doing, even me am considering learning one cos even tho I work, I wanna settle down with a skill someday.

Ya, we refused to try other options. I had an experience last week though it's not something significant but I learnt a lot from it.

I bought water leaves and decided to plant some so I won't go to the market all the time just to get water leaf. I didn't know how to plant it, so I implore the help of my friend who knows how things like this are done and we got on to planting.

The sand was hard, very hard we had to water it first while at the corner was a soft sand. He said we should plant on the soft sand and forget using the area we had picked for the planting.

I said no, we should plant on the area we had cleared cos we wasted a lot of time on it. He argued that no, the softer one will grow faster. I said alright, let's plant on both.

1 month later, after fowls and chickens have raided my farm , just some was left. The ones on the hard soil grew faster and fresher than the ones on the soft soil. 2 months later, they gradually died and struggled to grow, I uprooted them last week and transfered them to the hard soil, they are showing signs of revival.

I learnt a lot from this experiment, we should not judge by outward appearances and also don't give up when we think things are gonna be hard, break through might be around the corner.

Oh my God, just give that poor boy a pat on his shoulders and hug him. You don't know the feelings when you got a crush

Explain to him as a friend having a crush on someone is normal, nothing wrong with your son. You should teach him how to control his feelings and focus on his book. Those peeps saying you should flog him thinks they are in 1880

Kids of today are more exposed and rotten on the inside, a girl in my hood, she's just 12 years old but she smokes and sleeps around with boys. Her father has flogged the living daylight out of her, no changes.

they say it is the reaction to a problem that determines the solution to it. If you take on the harsh side, your son gonna think that what he's feeling is wrong and would have a psychological problem in the future. Of course, what he is feeling is perfectly normal, he is just too young to take it this serious.

I had my first crush when I was in primary 4, same class as me. I did nothing but eyed and day dreamed about him till I got to primary 6. He left the school and the feelings died, so it's sometimes innocent.

Sit the lad and start explaining, don't wait till next week to teach him about SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!

Or you can be hiding and sneaking behind him to read "nasty and naughty" chats of both of them till someone knock on your door and grabs you by your neck that your son " don give my pikin belle".

Sorry you have to feel this way, I was once in your shoes. I was a young chubby girl that wanted to become a lawyer, grew up feeling confused, studied a course in school I never heard of. Wasted my mom's time and everybody's time by going to a catering school and didn't stayed for long to see my graduation.

I was fuccked up, miserable and deadly unhappy. You are lucky you have parents who understood you. Mine didn't, it was shouts and war everyday.

Then I changed my mind set, life is a process not to be rushed. You have to take so many steps in life to find where you stand in it, sometimes you might fall, sometimes you literally don't have legs to walk on. For you to have a smooth pounded yam, it must be hit hard with a pestle.

Which means, a man has to be through some situations in life to be the best. O.p, if you see life like a race, you won't win. Instead see life like a plant, that needs to grow at its time. You can't plant a seed today and expect to see a tree none can you hurry it to grow faster than it can.

You should focus on your importance and achievements than worrying about your short comings and failures. See life like a journey, like a process, like a stages of a book, and be happy.

Now I don't get angry anymore, most importantly, I don't under value myself. I walk at my own space, and I don't let people compare me cos I know my worth. I'm currently learning sewing, taking my time at it. Exercise my body, sleep and wake up like every human being. I've never been happier.

Life no be fight, the fact that you got to your destination before me doesn't mean I won't get to mine.

Splinz:
What! No wonder you were so scarce here... kpele and welcome.

How was your festivities

Drying well thank God for chicken if not, it would have been dried.

ouzo1:
smellymouth,sinaj,firstking01,samuelAnyawu and ginaz...God bless u all

Happy new year, sorry I replied late, my account was blocked.

Omoluabi16:
sleekyshuga whizqueen ginaz nienie luvu2 menix cekhoe ivyy Happy new year to you! wishing a glorious and prosperous new year.

Happy new year, I had problem with my account, just got logged in today.