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Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:43pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
You mean your maga is more important to you now? grin
My best friend is more IMPORTANT than anything you would ever think of in your life .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:41pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
lol.. fly!
Stalker !!! Leave me alone! I no open thread cos of you.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:39pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
who quoted me and tried to be rude on here? no one else but you! even though I ignored you and tried to be cool. And now you are hypocritically shouting "leave me alone" when you were the one that quoted with rudeness...

Your problem is, you always think gentility is a weakness... You think some people being tolerant is a sign of weakness and when the person you tried to bully stand up against you, you start crying.

Na who no know you go take you serious.
Obsession is real, you need to see a doctor. Your comments of yesterday were not enough right? Your texts were not enough for you right ? This morning you continued and jumped on a quote that you were not called to say I know what I am doing. If you’re not obsessed, then I don’t know what you are doing which doesn’t make sense . Keep your advise to yourself , I don’t need it .

My bestie is more important to me right now , I don’t have time for dramatic obsession. Leave me alone and stay away from my thread.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
next time, don't come online to talk to me rudely. In reality you can't try that to my face.

What is my business with how you wish to live your life? I can only advise like everyone does on nairaland. I called cos I do not keep malice lol but you should be bold enough to tell this forum that you broke shame someone that you are no where near financially....

Be bold enough girl... I mean run your hands like you love to do. I intentionally ignored you on here but you chose to want to be arrogant...

i MEAN be bold to tell this forum what you once said to me...
roll eyes
Obsession is real
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:28pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
Why would I be obsessed with a two face cunning person? For the life of me, the day you broke shame was the day I didn't want to have anything to do with you lol. You drew a line, you overstretch your luck the day you did that. And like you already know, I will never forget those words.
Kindly leave me alone. Biko. Why is it hard for you to do that ? Leave me alone and stop stalking my life .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 12:25pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Carry your fake concern somewhere else cos I don’t need it . And quit being a stalker and bothering my life. I’ve kept silent cos I like peace more than anything but it seems your head is blocked or shallow you don’t want to leave me alone .

Stop calling or texting , I don’t need it and I don’t care ,mind your business and stay away.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 11:55am On May 12, 2021
I888:
Bros, leave that girl. grin she knows what she is doing and wants him exactly where she has him.

Women are not as confused we sometimes assume. They are often intentional about their missions in any man's life.
Your obsession with me is crazy. Leave me the hell alone! What can’t you understand? Should I put a gun to your head before you leave me alone ? All the comments of yesterday no reach you? You don start today for comment wey no concern you. Leave me alone o and stop bothering my life or anything that has to do with it .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 11:35am On May 12, 2021
I888:
Let him go then. He will be hurt for sure BUT he will get over it with time and then, he will never ask again.
roll eyes
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 10:29am On May 12, 2021
Masturbator2020:
You already know you can't, so what do you want nairalanders to do for you?
I don’t want to lose him as a friend .
Fashion › Re: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by Ginaz(f): 10:28am On May 12, 2021
babythug:
Hi everyone!
Wondering if I can get some recommendations please! I have dry and wrinkled skin on my face , it’s also multi toned . What can I use please?
I think you need a face moisturizer. And buy a facial scrub , use twice a week along with a face moisturizer. I hope this helps.
Fashion › Re: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by Ginaz(f): 10:18am On May 12, 2021
minicky:
thanks alot about the vitamins how much did u buy it then
At the pharmacy
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 8:34am On May 12, 2021
Tutu82:
Thank you for your contribution Sugah.I spoke from personal experience as well my only successful ivf was done in Abuja at the bridge clinic Abuja and my fibroid did not grow but actually shrunk and my doctor kept me on folic acid and blood thinner injections.I came back here and continued it.
I had my submucosal fibroid surgery in 2018 here and my consultant insisted i remain on iron and folic acid because of my heavy bleeding.
Maybe it’s the foreign brand against local brand issue but am sure a Nigerian Doctor can recalculate and tell a patient how much to take dosage to take if that was he case.
I Would have liked to read something verifiable.It does “plague whites as well”even though mostly blacks like you rightly said but that has nothing to do with inability to find data.Consider there is no data because previous findings were not credible enough.Sickle cell for instance is carried mostly by black and Asians and there is wealth of information everywhere.Our blackness isn’t always a reason.
Perhaps we should all,use more advisory languages on this forum instead of telling a person not to do or to do something as in desperation most people take our advice to heart immediately without doing any homework on it.
Have a good work day.
Thanks for your contribution, you have done well. Tell them to do a thorough research instead of just telling someone point blank what to do or not despite no medical data to back up claims .

I was so surprised and shocked when the first poster point blank commanded a lady here not to take folic acid that it makes fibroid grow. shocked She went on to buttressed her point that they should be avoided like a plague.

All without medical proof. Imagine if a doctor recommend folic acid to his patient now, after reading the false statement, she will not take it . Then if bad thing happens they will blame doctor.

There is no database or proof, that suggests folic acid or other supplement causes fibroids. Let’s be warn that cos a lady here use her experience to give advise, doesn’t make it medically correct!

Folic acid build healthy blood cells, they help with healthy hair, skin and nails, their work in the body is not only related to pregnancy.
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 10:38pm On May 11, 2021
Points to note:
Fibroids are predominant in blacks .
Nigerian brand of folic acid (given at ANC ) is 5milligram(5000micrograms). Daily recommended dose of folic acid (foreign brands) is 400micrograms.


While there's still no data on how and why fibroids form (I believe if this plagues whites too there would have been ample data already), our doctors generally advise not to take the 5mg folic acid as it tends to increase the size of fibroids due to excess blood. Same reason why fibroid grows during early stages of pregnancy (for a coexisting pregnancy/fibroids) and sometimes degenerates when the baby starts growing bigger.

From personal experience, with symptomatic fibroids and 6months of nonstop bleeding my doctors only put me on iron tablets and monitored my pcv...before surgery.
With my second pregnancy and coexisting fibroids, my doctor didn't give me the Nigerian brand folic acid in the early stages of the pregnancy as I already had a case of threatened abortion (and he stated the reason too).

If you have fibroids with heavy bleeds, take iron tablets and stay away from Nigerian brand folic acid.

The reason why fibroids grow during pregnancy may be high level of estrogen and hormones . And reason why your doctor may have taken you off folic acid may be to reduced high levels of estrogen affecting you not cos folic acid making the fibroids to grow.

I have taken great pain to make thorough and deep detailed research and no where was it said folic acid and fibroids are related.

It has not be medically known what causes it so how come what isn’t known , folic acid increases the chances of growing?

If it was so, it was have been detected and folic acid won’t be recommended at all to pregnant women for fear they may have fibroids.
I need a medical proof or statement it has been known that folic acid make fibroids to grow or causes it .
Romance › Re: The Mumu Button Of Every Man. by Ginaz(f): 10:09pm On May 11, 2021
Toks2008:
Don't be too sure, things are not always what they seem to be so there may be an underlying issue you have no clue about, forget that she is my friend, I know her too well line..

And perhaps you are the one then it means you were unfortunate to be with a crazy guy or maybe one out of 100guys who are exceptions.

But respecting a guy is a confirmed trusted mumu button.
I’m not the one and I don’t stay where I’m not respected. It’s not only a man who needs respect too, you know!
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 10:08pm On May 11, 2021
molybdenum0012:
You see. There are two things involved. It is either she had his eyes on you from the beginning or along the line he developed feeling for you after his failed relationships

.

The guy is only good for friendship with you and not for relationship because he never attract you in that way If you know what I meant. This is for guys. No matter how good you are to a lady if you never build that romantic attraction, you will never get her.
Lol, I understand what you mean. But he’s a really handsome guy o , he works out too and hairy , beard gang grin which I do tease him that someday I will disappear his beards. I don’t understand myself too, maybe I need time to think things through.

Thanks for your input.
Romance › Re: The Mumu Button Of Every Man. by Ginaz(f): 10:02pm On May 11, 2021
Toks2008:
Show me a man that treats a respectful lady like trash and I will show you a mad man.

And I hope the trash you are talking about has nothing to do with unfaithfulness cos in the world of women once a guy is unfaithful to them then it means he does not value them.
He yells at her , talk rudely , he basically feels like a king and she’s a slave . undecided
Romance › Re: The Mumu Button Of Every Man. by Ginaz(f): 10:00pm On May 11, 2021
Toks2008:
Show me a man that treats a respectful lady like trash and I will show you a mad man.
They are many. A friend is passing through this , she was a virgin too when she met that useless guy. he treats her like she doesn’t exist despite the so-called respect . roll eyes.

Ladies, don’t kill yourself respecting a guy for a mumu button that won’t add anything to your life .
Romance › Re: The Mumu Button Of Every Man. by Ginaz(f): 9:55pm On May 11, 2021
Toks2008:
Mumu button is a popular Nigeria Pidgin English slang which means a person's weak spot and when properly triggered, in most cases, will make that person grant requests that is asked of him or her.

It is a general belief that every man has a mumu button and most ladies are always interested to know the mumu button of their men...

Well let me give you one time tested and trusted mumu button that works on every man since the days of Adam...

IT IS CALLED RESPECT.... Try it, it works like magic.
Hmmm
Respect ! What of those guys who their babe accord respect to but treat them like trash?
Every man Mumu botton is different.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 9:50pm On May 11, 2021
molybdenum0012:
You got a point. He was supposed to have struck long time ago, but he dull.
He was in a relationship at that time .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 9:47pm On May 11, 2021
cayorday89:
Yeah but you know better. Pay him a visit if he is not replying you at least to know his state of mind, very necessary..
His bro said he has left town. He won’t talk to me, I’ve been calling for days now .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 9:39pm On May 11, 2021
cayorday89:
A very dicey situation, my question now is how do you intend solving your like today and not like tomorrow issue when it comes to dating? As dating will one day become inevitable for you unless you have made up your mind not to tow that path.
Don’t even know . God knows best .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 9:27pm On May 11, 2021
cayorday89:
You are the confused one here, it's advisable you get married to your best friend due to so many positive reasons and you have known him for quite a while.. My question is what are you scared of, what will go wrong if you both consolidate the friendship with dating having marriage in view? The friendship has been flawless as you stated above taking it to the next level will make you guys to be able to communicate and trash things out in a friendly manner as it's expected in case of any flaws which is inevitable in every relationship, either friendly, communal,workplace, religious or dating and other forms of relationship.
Give him a chance and it's gonna be the best decision of your life with all the qualities you stated about him.
Except probably you are in a relationship with someone else which you already stated is complicated, try disentangle any complications, think through it all and make the decision which is best for you.
NOTE: You are already scared of losing him if you agree to date him which is like 20% lose, but the fact is if you refuse to date him, there is high chance of losing him 100%..
He asked me what I was afraid of and I couldn’t say anything. Truth is, I’ve been to his family house , just normal visit as you would visit a friend till his bro told me I’m only girl he has brought to the house . We have a connection but how do you love with a heart that is unresponsive? Everything takes me time ! I’m not the “I wanna be in a relationship and fall inlove “ kinda person and he knows it. Not that I don’t care about him, fact is I do.

I can like someone today and just get up tomorrow and don’t wanna have anything to do with you. I don’t want to treat him that way. I just feel a lot would change and I would lose this friendship I value so much. Like being free and happy with a human who is deep minded like you. I don’t know how to explain myself again sef , I’m tired! I will let him be, I’d be fine.

First time in 6yrs I would text him and he didn’t message me back . I felt it .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 9:02pm On May 11, 2021
bigpicture001:
Foolish girls everywhere.... U cooked down described a perfect companionship with this great guy, but you don't want.. What you want is a money bag who is opposite and who you wit come here and complain about...

Money no go kee girls
He’s got money , he’s not broke !!!
And Money isn’t the foundation of our friendship!
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:59pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:
And I don't know why I respect and like those who are not the cookies type.


But they're rare nowadays.
Ya! He’s rare and cool.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:57pm On May 11, 2021
I888:
It does not always work. If you stay longer before opening up, you will end up losing.

The young man needs someone better to be candid. women love mystery... not someone they have "see finish".
Back off and stay off my thread ! Thanks ! *Roll eyes*
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:54pm On May 11, 2021
Hashabiah:
Send him a good old fashion text message. And stop being anxious about him. Sooner or later he'll pipe down and see reasons with you. But one question : have you ever considered a relationship with him before?
To be honest , I did and later talked myself out of it . I’ve considered him cos he’s so sweet mannered and crazy same time. He’s like my nigga nigga kinda guy lol. He’s totally different.

We have had quarrels but we always got each other .
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:46pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:
Give him that toto
And fulfil all righteousness.
Your thoughts are irritating. Kindly refrain from polluting the atmosphere with your backward and rotten up trash coming from your damaged brain.

WTF! Dem use sex swear 4 you? Don’t quote me again. Thank God my bestie is the responsible type which drew me to him in the first place . If he had this low class mindset from the start, we won’t have had this great friendship. Fvk off !
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:37pm On May 11, 2021
Born2winnx:
She a selfish bîtch indeed...after draining the guy wallet for good 6years....I pity the simp nigga though..
Drains his wallet ? grin
Lol.

Una sabi make person laugh.
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:34pm On May 11, 2021
Lollittaa:
Give him to me. Jeon see your replacement sad
Hahahaha, I will tell him about you. cheesy

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