Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:22pm On May 11, 2021 |
Casham: Right now, the best thing for the guy to do is to cut himself off from you seeing that he can't get what he really wants from you. The more he sees you, the harder he falls for you. So, really, if you are sure you don't want him as "more than just a friend", I will advice you let him be. He’s one of the most realest person in my life. He’s not replaceable. I will try to let him be.  |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 8:19pm On May 11, 2021 |
Doja2000: This is one of the reason why I don't like having male as bestie because one day him go just shock you dey tell you say him get feelings for you and e go dey very difficult for you to feel the same way for am. This thing don happen to me and I no want make e happen again because e no dey sweet for body ooo.
Just leave am make him rest. If him vex finish,na him go call you.
Hmmm ok , thanks sis. Lol |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:57pm On May 11, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Relationship will spoil your friendship..give him space he will come around later on.. Ok. I just feel thing may not be the way it used to between us. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:56pm On May 11, 2021 |
paulolee: he never mentioned it for the past 6yrs?? dt gee na real simp abegi.. He’s not a simp . He’s a very deep minded guy, not everyone who sees a girl start talking about feelings ok? |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:43pm On May 11, 2021 |
Born2winnx: So is he gay? He’s not an irresponsible guy. He has morals . |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:41pm On May 11, 2021 |
Born2winnx: Better style...nigga finally had the balls to tell you he wants a taste of that cookie...after 6years.. He’s not a cookie type of guy. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:40pm On May 11, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: @Ginaz
Great friendship doesn't have to end in love relationships, however I know that great love relationships is deeply rooted in great friendship.
Well if you aren't attracted to him in such a way that will give room for love relationship to work, then let him know, but know that this will change the general dynamics of your friendship.
I'm more of a recluse, but if I find any lady that I connect to deeply on a friendship level and she's willing for something serious, omo e be things, who do I date? My acquaintance? Hell no my paddy that I freely relate to and who knows me inside out. However do your thing, more importantly pray about it and let God lead, this the major part. Not all that glitters is gold, love relationship to a believer is not a game of choice but an assurance by the holyghost. Ok. Thanks |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:39pm On May 11, 2021 |
Lovecars501: Ginaz dear, you don't need to reply that paulolee guy, he doesn't understand your predicaments Thanks. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:36pm On May 11, 2021 |
paulolee: stopped reading when I saw "known him for 6 years"....meaning he have been friendzoned for dt long all in d name of bestie?? and even after dt long time you are still not sure about dating him abi?? some guys dey this life o, that gee is a simp n dnt need a girlfriend so pls leave him in dt zone n dnt gv him promotion to EPL since he isn't sharp... Mrs op, na people like u be d reason why naija no dey go forward, 6yrs in friendzone n i know say u go follow dey insult buhari for keeping naija stagnant after 6yrs even If una two na almost d same.. Na wa o. Friend zone as in how ? He wasn’t about feelings in the first place . He never mentioned it during the early day of our friendship. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:30pm On May 11, 2021 |
paulolee: just imagine, I dnt blame you sha...na dt gee i blame because I was thought dt such nigees are no longer in this country going by our intense spreading of the gospel of redpillz... Oh pls!!! I care about him , I do! It’s not all about red pills and shiittt. I really do care, I’ve never manipulated him for anything. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:27pm On May 11, 2021 |
Lovecars501: If you don't mind me asking, are you in a relationship It’s complicated. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:22pm On May 11, 2021 |
Hashabiah: You can't eat your cake and have it. Just call him up and tell him how you feel. And if he can't deal with you on your terms, then him space. Or do you want to go into a forced relationship... ? Haba... He’s no longer picking my calls. He’s unreachable. He had a girl but he broke up with her. I don’t know where this whole feelings for me came from. I thought we were cool about our friendship. The reason why I can’t returned his love is cos I don’t want to break this bond and happiness we have around each other . I have a history of not being responsive to love. It’s very hard for me. Putting this topic here is out of my frustration. What can I do to make him understand I can’t date him cos I don’t want to hurt him? |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:12pm On May 11, 2021 |
STARGREEN: Follow your positive heart Hmmmm, don’t even know what to do again! He’s one of those people that I really do appreciate. |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:11pm On May 11, 2021 |
Hashabiah: Simply tell you're not interested in a relationship and if that doesn't suit him, then move on. He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?  No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end? |
Romance › Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:08pm On May 11, 2021 |
PinUp: You can give him a chance. I can’t . |
Romance › My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(op): 7:05pm On May 11, 2021 |
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded . We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him. He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly.  I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ?  Pls advice me. I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day! |
Health › Re: A Lump In My Scrotum(3 Testicle)......medical Advice Needed, Pls Help!! PHOTO by Ginaz(f): 5:57pm On May 11, 2021 |
Pls go to the hospital without delay |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 5:37pm On May 11, 2021 |
Tutu82: Yes there are quite a few different views and i can understand avoiding clomid but not folic acid.Folic acid is important for the production of red blood cells and a lack of it can lead to anaemiaTaking folic acid will help treat or prevent anaemia and iron deficiency especially when you have heavy and/or long bleeding like most people with fibroids. Please when you find the time put up the research that says folic acid has been linked to fibroid,ild be quite interested in having a read as no knowledge is useless. Thank you. There is none. I’ve spent my afternoon researching about folic acid and fibroid as side effect was not mentioned. Pls discard the knowledge as it was based on a false statement without prove. Folic acid is very essential to the human body, not just for even pregnant women. A man can take folic acid too. Infact, it is highly recommended that women who are at child bearing age should start taking folic acid irrespective of pregnancy or not . Folic acid in the USA is required to be in foods such as cereals, wheat, grains and such for fortification. If folic acid aids in the growth of fibroids, there would have been a general alarm about it. And moreover , the cause of fibroids isn’t medically known , so how come the conclusion that folic acid aids in the growth or cause fibroids in something that has not be medically known what causes it ? It’s not factual and she didn’t do a research about it on her own but she took it to heart and is giving a unreliable , unproven advise already to a lady to run away from folic acid . Someone who doesn’t know it’s not true will take it to heart too. Besides building red blood cells, folic acids helps in giving you good skin, healthy hair and fingernails. Let’s be doing research before giving advise here cos someone may come in to read this and accept folic acid give or grow fibroids. |
Fashion › Re: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by Ginaz(f): 3:46pm On May 11, 2021 |
minicky: what about the redness It will reduce it later with time . I used a face cream someone sold me here on nairaland and immediately after 5days I developed a severe sunburn. I’ve never had sunburn in my life before o. It was vitamin E capsules that removed them from my face . Mine was so bad that I though it was over. It took 2months of everyday usage to bring my face back to life . Mine was black and very bad. Pls use it, it will heal the skin first before getting rid of the sunburn. Don’t apply anything harsh , it may worsen it. |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 3:39pm On May 11, 2021 |
cherishyy: Haaa mama please calm down. You clearly misunderstood her. She didn't say the cause of fibroid is folic acid. She said in her first post that research said folic acid cause fibroids. Na wa o. |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 2:35pm On May 11, 2021 |
nneejima: Please read my post again,we no dey fight.my stay in this forum also taught me that folic acid grows fibroid same as garlic. am saying based on people life experience. Those people may have had the fibroids before they noticed it. Did they do scanning of their internal organs before taking the folic acid to know it was what gave them fibroids after they took it? And if this was the case , then it would have been known medically in the medicine world and alarm would have been issued out to warn people about it. The cause of their fibroids wasn’t folic acid! |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 1:24pm On May 11, 2021 |
And for your information, the cause of fibroid is still medically unknown. Nobody knows what causes it and why they grow, rather the assumptions are high estrogen or genetics . your logic about folic acids is not factual.
Folic acids do not cause fibroids in women who are not pregnant none do other supplements . |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 1:15pm On May 11, 2021 |
nneejima: There is no scientific evidence that folic acid causes fibroid but research said it. The logic was that folic acid helps baby to nourish & develop/grow baby in the womb but when there is no baby,it prevents total shedding on lining during menstruation thereby leading to development of fibroids.thats why they advocate people with fibroid not to take folic acid. I stand to be corrected because no be me do the research. Folic acid is not just for the development of baby in a woman’s body. I beg to differ! If that logic is scientifically proven, WHO and health organizations would have spread the alarm on folic acid relation with fibroids. Besides, folic acids aids in developing new red blood cells and also protect cells. Body builders do take folic acids. Your logic is not factual and truthful. Pls do a thorough research about folic acids before you recommend someone not talking it . Infact, WHO gave advise to women to take folic acids irrespective if they are pregnant or not . |
Health › Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Ginaz(f): 12:16pm On May 11, 2021 |
nneejima: From my little knowledge, you have fibroid according to the scan which is located at the back of the uterus.there are multiple eggs too.i don't know if you stimulated ovulation or prenatals but please avoid folic acid and clomid.the fibroid size is increasing, with further stimulation of ovulation,it will grow so big which will require myeomectomy. Let's wait for other Sabi Mama's to come and put their knowledge Do folic acid causes fibroid? I do take folic acid cos I read in a magazine it’s good for women to take folic acid. One thing I’ve noticed from my usage of folic acid is I get extremely wet. I may just wake up from sleep and find out my vagina is wet like okra. Any small thing I’ve gone wet. My ovulation days are hell... I have to go to the bathroom to wash off every time to take off the okra discharge. |
Fashion › Re: Reviews Of The Best Skin Lightening Products You Have Ever Used. by Ginaz(f): 10:41am On May 11, 2021 |
minicky: Hello house does anyone knows how to tackle this my face seems to get oily easily and when it's oily it makes my skin dull am fair in complexion and am a guy I just want any good cream for face and also I have sunburn on my forehead and redness around my nose region I will appreciate if someone here tell me what to do thanks For sunburn, apply vitamin E capsules to face every night before bed. Use small amount as it is thick in texture. As for oily face , don’t know . |
Phones › Re: Iphone XR For Sale@120k by Ginaz(f): 9:10am On May 11, 2021 |
Simran94: Don't mind them. Especially that one that said 50k, those ones have the tendency of carrying gun one day.  |
Romance › Re: Village Girl Or City Girl For A Wife? by Ginaz(f): 9:02am On May 11, 2021 |
richmond500: Op, why did u steal neztar comment? Lalasticlala mynd44 Dominique seun rule 8 FBI  |
Romance › Re: What Was The Most Embarrassing Thing You Did In A Relationship? by Ginaz(f): 11:09pm On May 08, 2021 |
AyarmBoye: mehn ...... you be DJ cuppy ni? Hahahah, I won’t do that at this age I am now . Lolz. How time flies . When kids were kids .  |
Romance › Re: What Was The Most Embarrassing Thing You Did In A Relationship? by Ginaz(f): 10:53pm On May 08, 2021 |
Lol, he wasn’t my boyfriend though but he was my crush at that time .  I happened to be scratching my ass jeje inside my house when he walked in with his sister to visit my aunt . My right hand was deep inside my pant , skirt don shift go down , scratching like I don’t give a damn . Then I heard a sound behind me, on turning I sighted him and sis. I walked away in heavy shame.  I was 16yrs then.  |
Phones › Re: IOS Iphone Anyone? Find A Solution For Ur Iphones Here by Ginaz(f): 9:00pm On May 05, 2021*. Modified: 9:40pm On May 05, 2021 |
Pls I need help, I recently bought my iPhone xsmax brand new last week. Yesterday I was about to sleep and decided to keep the phone at the corner of my bed but it mistakenly fell down. No broken screen or visible damaged but I noticed before morning the phone ran down . The battery seems to drain faster than normal . I’ve checked the health of the battery, it shows 100%. What could be wrong ? I just bought the phone brand new last week o.  Oh I forgot to add the phone gets super hot while in usage. |
Family › Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Ginaz(f): 2:06pm On Apr 20, 2021 |
Ess3nce: Please I have someone who's in dire need of this. She has been ttc for 4 years plus and she resides in delta state too I just saw your dm right now . His numver hasn't been available since o, he was working at a government hospital but I just heard he have built his own hospital and have located . I am putting more pressure to know his whereabouts, I will let you know as soon as possible. When I met him, he was working at the government hospital. |
Family › Re: Am I Overreacting? by Ginaz(f): 11:45pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: It's wonderful bkos it buttressed my earlier notion that you can love whole heatedly! 
Who knows if I'm the Lipton tea self. Haa Chineke come to my aid! Lols *runs away* |