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I think I’m liking white money oooo...

It’s like I will be a white money fan ...

He’s the first person I’ve bonded with, he has a lovely character and cooks too. I like men who cook.

If she can’t make simple decisions during her marriage preparations, what will she do for you in the marriage o.

She lacks the ability to think critically. Such people are extremely gullible and not reliable enough for tough decision making.

Dem go change like traffic light with any slight confusion.

You claimed hushpuppy lied to you about his friend after he had you arrest him on allegations of murder intent.

Same you freed the innocent friend to go ...

Same you, hushpuppy asked for the contact of your tailor.

Shuoooo. Hahahahha

If someone lied to me and made a fool of me , and have the effrontery to ask me about my tailor , I would be so angry and have him arrested.

But abba kyari despite the previous lies hushpuppy told him was comfortable enough to let it slide just like that?

Lolz, see abba kyari you are a liar . Your story no sweet, you had a lot to do with hushpuppy.

This year bbn interior design though, am I the only one not feeling it ?

The colors doesn’t fit and too much green. Last year was better And posh looking with class than this one.

She’s not bad at all, she may just have problems with her personal life and never did she let her personal failures stopped her from being there for you, the reward of which you’re enjoying right now .

I think she’s smart , just can’t put her personal life in order. Instead of you trying to fix her , why can’t you show extra love ? On no account should you ghost her, Na wa o.

Children of these days ... I thought she killed someone.

I’m not at home ....

I don miss o ...

“Yousef “

What kinda name is that ?

BarristerAlarig:
Welcome. Hopefully you won't Stan a LovePeddler like Erica and get casted like last year.

I never Stan her ... it was Ozo And kidwaya , nengi .

Asabe4:
You were TeamMike yea?

Yea

I’m present o...

Hurray!!!

Let’s go there . Thanks for the mention .

Thank God for your healing .

Vinnie2000:
Ahhh..
Finally, A Girl Joins us here..

But Why did you not Visit him and Have d goddamn sexx?
Why did you not Allow our Guy to Enjoy some sweetness?

Dats how of my Babes is acting now..
Refuses to Visit, saying she is Afraid of 9 months Contract ..

Don't know Why you Ladies will have a Cool, Handsome Guy as a Friend or Boyfriend..
Instead of Giving him d Coochie, you do all sorts of 'Unnecessary Yanga'

@the end, you give the Coochie to random or Undeserving guys such as Landlords,Agberos, Boss in the office, Choir masters, etc.

Hope ur Case is not like dis?

Don’t make me angry o ... oga lawyer wey sabi case well well . I have the right to keep myself if I want to .

And you wonder why girls don’t want to share their stories, it’s cos of mumu talk like this.

I met an extremely handsome guy, the attraction was like intact electrical shock . I went to meet a senior friend to help me with my work and he was there in the office .

Na so our eyes jam , he melted my soul. I rarely get attracted to guys but this guys ehn, maybe he used juju

He moved to my town for a short business trip , would be going back to base after he’s done . He walked up to me and my heart was just beating , actually I was praying he should . We spoke but he didn’t take my number. I was angry (first time to be angry a guy didn’t take my number)

Well, he took my number from a friend and we became really closed buddies , chatted all day, both on calls and all that. He came to visit me at home , with just a hug ... I melted more . The attraction was like a magnet . He got me chocolates, lots of gifts. Awwwww ( reminiscing)

He tried severally to make me pay him a visit but I never did. He stayed alone , so the possibility of us getting intimate with all the attraction going on was pretty high.

I don’t know why I refused to go see him till date but maybe it was cos I was afraid he would travel and not come back , didn’t wanna be emotionally too attached. Finally he left . Haven’t seen him for years but he still keeps in touch with me till now.

He has travelled out of the country, mehnn I miss him a lot . Very funny guy. We still talk via phone calls till today.

I miss him a lot .

ahnie:
So lizzyangel is lovchalic,Choi that madam is a case.and I dey here dey pity for her.
Cc:
Ginaz
Ladysarah.

That women is a serial beggar

Mute her then, abeg what is your personal problem and how does it affect you? Her boyfriend isn’t complaining. I really hate when people act like they don’t know the right things to do to solve minor issues.

Don’t come and complain to online strangers when you can simply mute or delete the girl’s number .

Na wa o. Tufiaaa. You’re actually the airhead you this O.P.

I rejected the food , but hunger chased me back to eat it. I saw hunger in different colors that day. Hunger is bad .

FOLYKAZE:
I was at work and couldn't type from there....

I didn't lock her out. She asked for separation two months ago. And we agreed she leave during school holiday. Well the window closes this night. So she is out.

Goodnight

Heartless wicked evil man. Did you send her and the child to the dread of the night? You couldn’t answer cos you obviously did.

If she ever comes back to you, she’s the biggest fool on earth! You’re not only physically abusive but your lack of affection for your children’s safety is disgraceful. I wonder what she saw in you in the first place . Worthless man .

larryjonze:
You beta calm down, blood tonic don increase fourth time in a row. its not as if your life is perfect, if you think you have all the wisdom to secure a perfect life void of mistakes lets see it. e easy yu neva secure marriage.

Roll eyes*

Marriage can never be the beginning and end of the purpose of my life .
Move from road joor, who marriage epp! Mtchewww

Ishilove:
Ginaz, this vitriol is totally unnecessary!! It is easy to pontificate when we are not wearing the shoes. I am sure that she has made up her mind on the next step but she is hampered by funds. She created this thread yesterday, less than 24hours. In the real world, you just don't pick small children and vamoose into the wind without a dime in your pocket. That shit only happens in movies. You plan and strategize so that you don't end up worse off than when you started.

Blunt truths are necessary, I beg to differ . No changes over the years , instead things are getting worse . Lack of money is the excuse that held her down over the years. There won’t be enough money and she better get that into her head.

Same money won’t be there for her when her baby daddy will carry out his threat and end her life one day. If she values her life , she will strive and find a way to cope .

dobnina:
Were you reading my mind?
I don't want to be harsh but
I remember when she got pregnant for her second child, she came to naira land to beg, one lady asked her why she got pregnant again when she can barely feed. Lizzy opened her mouth to say Any woman that has one child is no different from a barren woman.
Nairalanders pitied her, contributed money for baby things and hospital things.
After some months, her husband opened a thread again and was begging for money.
He claimed his wife was in the hospital and no money to pay for hospital bills and hospital materials.
People pitied him and sent money to him.
Do you know that the husband had the guts to come back again to beg for money to feed his baby. He said his bike was stolen in his house and that was his only source of income.
Lizzy and her husband fit each other.
When she is ready to leave, she will leave but for now, she is only looking for excuses to beg for money.
I won't be surprised if she and her husband planned this.

Abeg don’t mind them , that’s how they are . They will come and wail in self pity but won’t do anything to help themselves out of the situation. All they want is self pity and a pat on the back all the time .

They know the solution to their problems but have no mental strength to put an end to it . Let her stay with the wicked father of a man.. I tell you she won’t leave him. They rather die in excuses than moving ahead .

Lizzyangel:
The last time u checked, a room wasn't rented in papers and packing luggages ain't done on camel in 21st century, so what do you suggest I do without a dime? Ondo state schools has been on a week holiday, which we'll be resuming on Monday 5th July, Proprietors that hasn't paid all salary,is that the same person I'd go to for a loan? Or my co-teachers? I'm sorry if I'm responding rudely but I don't think you and Mstick are getting my damn point.

It is good to be rude . Now sit down and read what you have written, don’t you see how hopeless you sound ? How totally hopeless you are!

You don’t think outside of the box .

pocohantas:
Honestly her fears are valid. Parents away, a father that is angry with her and no funds. At least her kids are guaranteed shelter as it is. So it is normal she has these fears.

If he takes care of his kids, I would have said she should leave them for him…

She should stay and be the enduring woman she is and stop complaining.

If you have no money , then source for it . Do mini business at the school, sell sweets and biscuits.

Your complains are irritating, and stinks of self pity.

If you know you can’t do anything then why the complains ? Should we all come and drag you out of that demonic union and far away from that heartless man who drove his kid out to the darkness of the night ?

If you won’t do anything and you are absolutely sure your condition is hopeless then do us the favor of not complaining in our ears!!!!

Go back to your heartless adult baby and be the faithful and enduring woman you are. End of story!

Lizzyangel:
I guess you don't read all my messages on how my salary had always been on family spending, school fees,day care, feeding and upkeep...no single dime in my account to travel far or near, no family member around, where do we go from here?start roaming about or, I don't know.

STOP FEELING HOPELESS!
That’s the mentality you have that has brought you shame and disgrace. There are people who have no parents , no sibling , no relatives at all let alone being around them .

Start thinking about your life , the question you should be asking is, WHAT CAN BE DONE ! The odds are already stacked against you , and your poor kids are the victims of your lagging spirit to take drastic decisions.

You rather have those kids raised in a toxic environment? Rent a room and stay with the kids , it doesn’t have to be in another state .

You want to take huge leaps when you haven’t taken steps to better your life. Be looking for states or continents to run to, suffer never tire you.

The same man and home you want to keep, when you die lizzyangel , someone will enter and continue from there since you don’t value your life at all.

The kids you are thinking of today, when you die in sorrow and tears , will be same kids that will have you only as a memory and wished to God you were alive so you could’ve eaten the fruits of your labor.

you are acting like there is no way to get out from that toxic union . Excuses upon excuses .

There are women who had absolutely nothing on them when they left their marriage . They started from rock bottom again.

Suffer never entire you, Bath in your self pity and hopelessness.

My blood is running hot, what an extremely wicked and heartless man.

To turn your anger on your own children is unfair and evil. A fowl took refuge in my veranda on a rainy day, I drove it away but felt remorse and I went under the rain to capture it and took it to the owner so it could be properly sheltered and protected from the rain.

If I could feel pity for a fowl , how so much a child ?
A human being who carries your blood. You are a very wicked and heartless father .

If lizzyangel wanna kill and sacrifice her life for you then that’s her own cup of tea but she should pity the kids and create a loving environment for them . It is better for them to be raised in a broken home than a toxic so called family complete home .

chatinent:
Have you tired talking to her? One thing with neighbors is when you try to advise them, they'll find a way to tell you to mind your business.

Yes. She acted like she cared about what I said and went back to buy more viju milk for the baby.

crackhaus:
All these modern mommies sef... Is that child's body capable of digesting/breaking down Viju Milk?

Your neighbour might need to be taken in for mental evaluations, even arrested if possible.

She wants to kill her child.

What can be done to save the child ? Aside that, the drink is too sugary for him at the young age he is .

SportsHD:
Maybe she isn't lactating and due to the economy of Nigeria, she couldn't afford those baby formula foods. But viju? I think it's too young to be feeding these youngins with chemical made milk.
Maybe you should suggest alternatives to her. There's pap and co.

I did give her alternatives like pap, and she got milk suitable for child his age to mixed with the pap but she just like giving the child the viju milk, refused to listen to my warnings to stop giving the child viju milk.
She said it’s the child favorite food and cries whenever it isn’t there for him.

chatinent:
Some parents are funny.

I like you, you supervised the child to its poo. Wow.

I didn’t supervise, I accidentally saw the poo when the mother was cleaning the baby up at her veranda .

Augla1:
May viju company catch you, after them sue your ass finish you go know say ojikokoro no good at all

What did I do? Someone is feeding her child with unhealthy drink not suitable for his age .

There’s this neighbor of mine who gives her child viju milk to drink, note that the child isn’t up to 6months .

She said the child stops crying whenever the drink is placed on his mouth. But I warned her that the drink is too harsh to be given to a child not up to 1yrs, let alone to a child who hasn’t started sitting unaided.

The child just grew his first tooth 2 months ago, hasn’t started walking or standing on his own.

She went to buy the viju milk in large quantity recently and stored in her house for the child .

Would there be repercussions ? I saw the child’s poo and it was yellowed and slimy.