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RealGboy:
And you couldn't see the sarcasm in the reply... besides this is. not my thread ... and from your small pep talk I can tell you're the boil in the armpit

Sighs!!
Where dem dey carry all this trouble makers from ?
No energy for this stupid banter. Suit yourself. At my age, it would be an embarrassment to exchange words with a kid.

RealGboy:
see your mouth like if it were me... so if it were you means that you would also be interested if it involves money

Oh my gosh!!!
Comprehension is so hard to grasps after all. Here was I, thinking I was being funny and engaging in a talk. Here is he thinking like an over serious boil in the armpit.

Now I see why the lady never answered you ,you're too serious and boring. And meanwhile , carry your doom attitude away, I was only being funny and engaging. No come insult me cos of your boring thread.

Modified*
I thought it was the op. Sorry .
As for the poster. . you better change .

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This is so funny

If it were me, I would be so embarrassed to send my account. She couldn't bring up a topic to lighten the mood, she sent the account number straight.

Esales:
You've been dragging Iamafinegirl as well and I'm sure you misunderstood a certain comment thinking she was insulting you not knowing she was attacking the op.

As you can see, I'm not insulting you cus I have a very good sense of comprehension. If you quote me further to quarrel, you'll be duly ignored

I hate hypocrisy. Go up there and read the chats and banters to see how she suddenly turned it to a toxic banter.

You came at me like I was the one at fault , between me and you, you are clearly the one immature.

You're totally ignored too , you hypocrite ! You should have called her too na if you weren't stinking like the hypocrite you are.

Esales:
Aunty what is your own? You sound more immature than the op you're condemning

Uncle, if you're not an hypocrite, you would see where she started an argument with me minding my own business.

Your immaturity won't let you see that .

DrFunmisticGlow:
stop sounding so self righteous. It's disgusting.

Disgusting like your one sidedness.

DrFunmisticGlow:
for people to move on. It is important to have CLOSURE.

One way is to air out their grievances. If flogging a dead horse is what is needed to move on, then so be it

Stop taking sides stupidly.

crackhaus:
It's like they used this petting to swear for you people.

Always looking for who will pet una... Pet me, pet me, I love petting! LOL

Are you people pussy cats? Pun intended

It is very sweet to be petted . in fact , I for one will directly ask you to pet me then sit on your laps, rest my head on your chest and mutter like a baby .

bwambasolomon:
Yes, she left with her bags, and seriously I feel a kind of peace inside me.
I was already tired with the constant arguments over things that were very glaring. And at least, I can be sure that I won't be receiving insults again.
The only thing I have to worry about now is how to neatly pack one pair of the things I have in two pairs, and move them to one of my houses when it's complete, cos I have two big houses I am building.
Yet she's there saying I am wasting my money, how can someone building two houses at the same time be seen as a waster of resources?

Never take her back.

DrFunmisticGlow:
of all the people to show decorum for, it the petty immature op bwambasolomon that cannot pay a bill without complaining like a woman.

Olorun ma jé!!

There are men that are worthy of respect and submission. Then there are male children like op.

Father lord, send his type far away from me and my loved ones.

The issue has already been resolved they go their separate ways. Pray tell of what use is the endless banters for if not for validation? Do you keep flogging at a dead horse ? Doesn't it make you look stupid at the end ?

Pray not to have a man like Solomon all you want, but you should not strip bare your buttocks which is filled with poo of your own flaws you're blinded to see.

Pls it's like when I get pregnant, my mommy will come and take care of me cos I don't like stress.

I'm praying everyday to marry a man who is understanding and pets me cos I'm suspecting, my shakara will increase once I get pregnant. I'm a picky person by nature when it comes to food.

DeeMain:
bwambasolomon, you, my friend, are the definition of immaturity and pettiness. Can you read what you, a full fledged man, just wrote above for rhe reading pleasure of a million strangers? Damn! Shame dey catch me for una matter.

I would understand the flippant mouth and the nagging woman part your fiancee is displaying, even though it's a no no for me, but for you as a man to compete with her ad infinitum on nagging and pettiness and flippancy is the zenith of immaturity.

And to think that despite all the mutual mudslinging and all the NL advice that you two are still living together at this very moment. Chai!

This is what I'm talking about. She's so petty . why bring out boxers to shade him in a public forum?

Abeg who does that? The lady is all shade of toxic. She's so toxic. Gosh. She's the type that even when a man doesn't want to talk, immediately she says a word , the man go begin nag and talk like pregnant woman .

TypicallyBrunt:
My dear, people may be willing you on & singing sweet nonsense to your ear but at the end they mostly don't even care. It's probably all entertainment to them.

Stop stoking the fire. If you win the war of words & post all his shortcomings here to the cheering of your fans then what next?

Give it a rest now. Even if you don't intend to continue the relationship, must you burn every bridge on your way out?

I'm still wondering what your two are looking to gain continuing this exchange on nairaland. Like if you too can still exchange texts, why not do privately?

She's very toxic herself . I can't come online and exchange words with someone I know offline let alone someone I went into relationship with . it would be a waste of time and energy.

She counters him word for word , wanting to have the last say. Solomon is kinda right about her arguing and she looks like someone who would do that till her last drop of blood.

Her energy for exchanging words and arguments is very pronounced for all to see. She's very petty , boxers isn't left out of her need to justify righteousness.
She's needs to GROW UP! As a woman, you should know when to talk and when to stay quiet. She runs her mouth like tap water.

Madam Lamafinegirl, money without class is useless. Show some decorum and stop with your show of shame cos ironically, you are exposing your own flaws the more you talk.

Solomon should stay away from you. He's faulty but your type of woman prolongs plenty talk.

Iamafinegirl:
Ok that chat is quite recent and I think I explained already why I said “you no dey understand English” Cus you said I should send all my contribution to your younger sister account and you would send only some to her while you keep your remaining to do stuff on your side because you don’t trust me financially in ur words so I must submit my “all” my contribution to her for her to be dishing out money for feeding and all to me who is the one working since joint account couldn’t be open.
In the chat I was saying so u want me to give “all” to her and you keep “some” because ofcourse it’s stressful to be tying “ all the contribution “everytime” since he already should understand what we talking about
That’s how uncle changed d topic entirely to that me I said he said “I should give all my salary to her”.
How would your younger sister be our financial manager in your own home.
I told her and she said she doesn’t want to be sef as it doesn’t make sense?
When your account wasn’t opened I said you can hold the contributions since u don’t trust me with money or you can give me to hold. That’s what I meant by any account.
I didn’t know I have become so nothing in your eyes that I must submit my income to ur younger sister so she can monitor me when you are not in the house ooo you still want her to be the one controlling your wife’s spending etc. Yet me and the younger sister had been chilling, eating out etc having fun and he carry our matter put for head for where he dey.

It is OK. You're prolonging this talk. Both of you are not compatible and no level of understanding can make you guys marry. Marriage is a doom disaster if you two ever venture into it.

Quit with the episode of who is right or wrong. You both are wrong , nobody is right. See way house bill responsibilities are shared like government work with no love.

Na waaa o. This one pass me.

Sell one kidney .

Tell her to buy land for herself , establish a business and make investments.

Her baby daddy would be the first to throw her out and without hesitation scream on top of the mountain how useless she is, an ashewo who has slept with all manners of dick if she goes to complete and furniture his house.

I and 4 other stupid children saw baby rats at my grandmother's house . the rats had no hairs and were pinky in color, their mother was no where to be found. So we decided to wait for the mother , we waited and waited , no mother in sight.

We decided to throw them in the bush so they can fend for themselves but I brought the ideal that they were too small to be in the bush by themselves.
We all decided to dig a hole and put them inside so they find their mother. That was how we buried those rats alive thinking we were doing them good.

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I liked bathing outside as a kid even when I started having boobs I didn't stop. I would come out when everyone has slept and bath at the veranda.

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Whenever the year wanted to end, I would think it's the world coming to an end, and heaven wants to open to take souls. So I stand in front of the calendar every december and say "world go soon end o ."

In fact, I can't type all.

Is it when I went to fight and got the beating of my life?
Or when I went to wear my aunt's pant cos I couldn't find my own, the pant kept dropping off my waist and I would hold the corner of my uniform so the pant won't drop to my toes cos it obviously wasn't my size. My teacher even flogged me on top the pant matter.

So sorry dear.
May God comfort you. Arrest him if you can pls, he has to answer for his crimes.

Post his pictures online so girls should beware of him and avoid being a victim.

You have 22 likes already.

Ask more foolish ones to get it to 100.

Attention seeker . anytime she changes her profile picture she asks dumb questions a 5yr kid won't ask at this stage of life.

Shame on you. Continue being the attention seeker that you are.

Congratulations dear.

Happy married life to you and your husband. With the way he stares at you , it shows he will cherish your cute sweet chocolate pretty face for the rest of his life.

Your sister is cute too.
Congratulations. Born fine oyinbo children o

Beans o..

Wenti beans see for my hand, e no go fit talk.

With 20naira dry pepper, 20naira onions beans don done.

School life is sweet sha

dumahi:
This post has again revealed how WICKED most Nigerians are. Someone had the gut to expose himself so much because he is in dire need of help but not a single compassion from many commenters here.

As for you OP, my first advise to you is to STOP cursing yourself. For instance, your moniker alone is self-curse. Again, the title of this thread is self-curse.

I understand you are a very HONEST person due to your Catholic (I bet) background. It makes you to have very honest attitude but you are now honest TO A FAULT if it now leads you to a negative self-image which is very clear from your post.

Know this: Negative self-image is not a virtue. For instance, it's not genuine humility. It is the function of subconscious ingratitude towards your Creator who made you so fearfully and wonderfully! It doesn't lead to repentance rather, it reinforces bad habits SINCE YOU THINK YOU ARE WORTHLESS ("after all, worthless things should be treated dishonorably" is how your subconscious puts it to you CONSTANTLY.

So, what should you do about this situation?
1. Start NOW to change your self-communication from negative to positive. See how: In your privacy, always tell yourself "I am a handiwork of the Most High. Therefore, I am great. I am honorable. I am grateful to my Maker for making me so great" and more like this. As you are doing this, DON'T STRUGGLE WITH YOUR BAD HABITS. Instead, they will go away by themselves. Think of what happens to a drowning person: if he struggles with the water, he gets drowned finally. But if he lets go and relaxes, he gets saved. So, don't struggle with your bad habits. For instance, if that girl comes and you find yourself sucking her as usual, don't worry about it. BUT DON'T BE OBSESSING ON SUCH THOUGHTS. Instead, spend your thoughts on being grateful for how great you are (which is NOT EVEN A LIE, judging from your writing ability). As your self-honor increases, YOU WILL NATURALLY STOP THOSE BAD HABITS. But, be warned: they are going to ease off on their own as you continuously impregnate yourself with POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS.
2. Don't listen to Devil's voices telling you how useless you are via other people (like your boss or colleagues or Nairalanders or Facebookers talking down on you.
3. I will introduce you to an audio that will help you to IMMEDIATELY start transforming your finances by transforming your mindset. You will see that EVERYTHING about you actually depends on your mindset. Let me get the link (I'll be right back).

You just wasted your time to write long story on top childofdoom.hahahahah

People more sympathetic and soulful have contributed their quota of advice but nothing changed. Don't bother yourself thinking you are better than them .

When the movie is interesting , I sit for a view.

Houseofglam7:
At the end of the day,marry your type.
Supposedly crazy couples last longer than supposedly sane ones.

Not 100% true. I don't know what they have to prove by doing the challenge. Their need of social media attention is sicking, couple do crazy things but doing it in full glare of the public is unreasonable.