soulamanne:

PELE OOOOOOOOOOOO.IT IS PART OF THE GAME!
REALLY IT IS TRUE WHAT You JUST SAID BUT THEN I READ UR 2POSTS.THE FIRST ONE ON THE RADIO GUY HAD You LOOKIN SO CHEAP.You MADE IT LOOK LIKE UR LIFE DEPENDED ON THE GUY THEN You CAME BACK TO TELL US You DIDNT LOVE THE GUY BEFORE.THEN THE SECOND ONE LOOKED LIKE A FILM.You SHOULD PEOPLE ARE SO BADMOUTHED HERE SO POST THINGS THAT ARE REALLY WORTH COMMENTIN ON.
ON SEUN SCANNIN,GF IT IS NOT POSSIBLE.INFACT YABBS IS ONE OF THE REASONS WHY I LOVE NAIRALAND SO LIVE WITH IT AND You WILL NJOY IT.IF You GET UR SELF FRUSTRATED IT MEANS NOTHING COS You CANT SEE ANYONE TO FIGHT.ABI You GO BLOW UR COMPUTER?SO BIG UP BABY AND DONT LET THEM GET AT UIF THEY YAB,YAB BACK AND WE ARE ALL PALS AGAIN, FINITO

Thanks. I knw they were trying to correct me in my post bt I closed my eyes to the corrections when the insults were just too much and kept pouring in. I mean, I almost regretted doing the post initially bt I think they av to read it again cos I'v in4omed that the guy came back pleading and gave reasons for his behaviour.

For God's sake, I hate when you guys say I am girlsocheap or all this bullshit. I said I never had sex with him. Can't you guy's get the point. I am just going to ignor ur insults, You can say whateva you like, all of una get ur own skeleton for una own cupboard. Payback time is knocking at the door.

Well for your information, the guy has called me and is pleading for forgiveness few days after I did this post. His reason's:

The friend who introduced me to him in the first place was jealous of the relationship when he got info abt it and said some evil things about me that made him ignore me all the while. Another colleague of his who later got the gist told him that his action was simply immature and he should have confronted me b4 taking the step he took. Anywy he is seriously pleading and snt me gifts(a way of bribing me which I rejected with all pleasure). Nw I'm really baffed up and ready to pay him in his own coin. I'v stopped receiving his calls and his colleague got my nunber from him and pleads seriously on his behalf.

Its more than mere words. The girl has more into it. Just stay away from her b4 she stains u. Such kind of friends are nt worth keeping and the trouble.

Gamine:

This gyal, Becos u no find Loff for Studio

na for Hospital you wan pitch ya tent na

Girlsowit, Girlsoneedsalife

You hurt me girl. Dnt force me to say something evil please. It hasn't reach this point. You wudn't want us to be enemies on Nairaland. Be careful. Didn't you read the post well. We are nt talking abt me here ok.

Why are nairalanders so abusive? Why can't people just reply a post without been insultive. Why has craziness eaten deep into some people's head and never put into consideration other people's feelings. Fine some people do it jokingly but some are so insultive dat u feel like breaking their head and feeding it to the birds. I got my filll in the last post I did. Haba why. I think Seun has to scan some brains so that no nonentity will come and hurt other people regarding their post. If you feel the poster did something wrong, why can't you just reprimand without being insultive. It's really disgusting and I feel there should be an effective change. We could do it for fun quite alright bt why do we get to serious and throw caution in the wind. Please lets answer with all maturity and be real.

All you are thinking Iacted cheap and desperate. You guys dnt even get the point. Your mouth just dey rush like fountain of water. Just learn from topop. She did a nice reply.

sylvao2000:

I gues your profile show you are too loose and cheap for any guy, just incase you forgot your house address and phone number is missing in your profile

You are really single and you don't need to prove that to all guys that comes your way,

I DEY SHAME FOR YOU,

Gucci_Babe:

well said!

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]Oh babe you cheap no be small
Cheaper than pure water sef
Y were you chashing him around in the 1st place
The bobo ignored your calls,texts, and even went ahead to switch  off his phone
Can't u read between the line that he doesn't want you
You were acting so desperate[/size]

All of una dey craze. Abeg carry ur wahala day go jor. Most unwanted people. I'm nt Cheap. Think well b4 replying this post. Busybodies.

Gamine:

Girlsoswit

mo like

Girlsodim

God punish you! Gboom. Get lost.

nj11:

Girl, you must be really desperate for a man to call him that many times.
OMG,it was a fling,how old are you anyway,you should know what men are like.

I can't stand when girls make men feel like they are allthat.

I am not desperate Mr man. I was only trying to clear myself so i dnt have any fault. Is dat ok? I'm in my early 20's and I knw my left 4rm my right. If u'v nt gat a beta thing 2 say, Pls walk away.

CY_clone:

Guilty consience lo n damu e.

LadyT:

I'm going to be blunt did you have sex with him? If you did please don't make that kind of mistake again. Men need to beg for it before you even consider giving it up.

I neva had sex wth him miss. There wasn't any room for that. I said earlier on that we only met at his office and studio depending on where he was. So girl sex wth him is a no go area.

When you see a player, go find out u wud see its in their gene and is been passed on from generation to generation. It's a family bisness that cannot be joked with so it's you that pray yopu dn't fall a victim so you dnt bear children that would carry on with daddy's big enterprise.

topup:

One thing I must point out was that he approached you with the initial belief that you were already attached to his friend, this shows the guy is not a good guy, he doesn't know you, he only saw you and found you attractive, he definitely could not be in love with you like he claimed he was. Also, it just shows that he doesn't care about infidelity, adultery or even respect you or his friend. Does that sound like a guy you should still be chasing after?

NO!!!

Leave him be, he may come to realise that he was a jerk, he may not (probably not), by ignoring your calls by the third time, you should have realised that he was trying to get rid of you, yes I know you're wonderful, but really he hasn't gotten to find that out, he started misbehaving just a week into the 'relationship'.

I suggest you ignore him, he's not worth your worry, he really isn't and he probably found another girl who was willing to sleep with him quicker.

As for all the suggestions about you being cheap, ignore them, always go with your gut and don't play games, but I would advise you to only enter into a relationship with someone who you know fairly well, not just a few dates or him professing his love. There must be more, and don't just assume you're honest that he will be too.

Also, maybe he just didn't click with you, he handled the breakup really pathetically, but guys often don't like breaking up with people (saying the words), so he hoped you'D get the signal.

Don't worry, you can easily replace him, thank God that this happened now and not 3 months down the line when your heart becomes involved, right now your ego is probably hurt, thinking 'what did I do wrong', you didn't do anything wrong. He just wasn't serious.

Take care!

God bless you sweet heart. That's more like it. You sound more responsible and matured than those useless jerk that are sounding nauciating. Wa sere omo. No one like you jor.

topup:

It's like I want to advise her to take longer to decide, yet at the same time I don't want her to be playing hard to get, because though guys complain about 'easy' girls, they also complain when girls play hard to get.

Thank you jare. When you take them through hell b4 saying yes to them they complain. If you save them the stress, they still see you as cheap. Wetin be guy's wahala self. Why can't some of you people think.

richo:

the story is too long to read sef!!

Then find your levels

All of una dey yan say shey him no chop fruit. Well, all our meetings were at his workplace and we never had the opportunity to be secluded bt we kissed twice and nt the french type o. There was no room for that.

My saying yes to him early enough wasn't because I was cheap o. But I had something I wanted to pursue in the media house which I knew I cud get through him. And which of course he did for me after agreeing to be his. At least he saved me when I needed it.

superstan:

his main girlfriend is back from vacation.

he can no longer keep u under his wings without the other woman knowing so his best option is to let you off.

the guy will call back again begging for forgiveness but that will not happen until his main girlfriend travels again.

Hmmmm, I feel you man. I also thot as much. Such an Idiot. I really didn't love him though, I only wanted to catch my fun. So coming back for 4giveness is just bullshit and wasting of his useless God forsaken time. Chikena.

rampagain:

was about saying d same thing

My dear, BE YOURSELF.

spikedcylinder:

You and you "true life" stories sha.

Pele o. You think I'm like you- _{A FAKER}

Can somebody please tell me why this guy behaved this way. I met him recently through a friend whom they work 2geda. D guy is a presenter in one of the media stations. I recently had the course 2 go there so I just used d opprtunity to say hi 2 him. On seeing me he was really happy and told me to see him b4 I finally left. I went back to see him and we started a discussion. He asked if there was anything going on btw I and his friend bt I told him no which was actually true adding the fact that I wudn't knw if he had anything in mind concerning me. So he was rest assured and said since the first day he set his eyes on me, he was carried away and asked my friend who I was bt the latter told him I was his girlfriend which kept him off the hook. Bt he told me something kept drawing me towards him and was happy I came around that day. He collected my number after much talking and I left. We saw after then, and dat day he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend.

After much consideration, I finally agreed a few days later. We saw frequently after then until abt 2 days to the relationship clocking a week. I noticed he didn't call me throughout that day which was unusual cos he cud call me more than ten times in a day. So the nxt day I called his line several times bt he wasn't picking it. I kept on trying and after sometime it was switched off. I was disturbed and rested my case till some few hours later when I tried again. It rang bt there was no response then I sent him a txt showing my worries. Bt he didn't reply. I called the studio line and I asked the operator to link me up wth him bt told me he wasn't there at the moment. After a while I called back and he picked it. I expressed myself to him and asked why all the sudden change and while he refused pickn my calls and replying my txt. All he cud say was that he was very busy and he said it with a cold tone. I accepted and ended the call.

After that he neva called me nor evn snd me any txt. I was really worried and wondered if I did anything wrong. So I called him on a Sunday evening a week later at a business center cos I knw he wudn't pick my call. He picked the line and when he heard my voice he told me 2 call him back and then cut d phone. I called back some few minutes later and when he picked it I asked him why he was behaving thus to me, asking him if I did anything wrong and that I was ready to apologise bt he kept on saying I didn't do anything and promised to call me back in the night and that we wud see the nxt day. I expected his call at night bt he didn't call nt to talk of seeing me. I gave him 2 days after that bt he didn't call still. So I snt him a txt asking if he didn't want me anymre cos I was sick and tired of his attitude. Still he didn't reply.

Then I took his silence and non response to mean it was over. I then snt him a txt again saying a final good bye and ended with this "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND". Still and up till nw, he never replied. What cud have warranted this behaviour of his towards me in such a short period of time. I just keep wondering.

Hey pips in the house, do you have the courage this guy had on the hospital bed. This is a true life story o and nt a mere fairy tale or home video. Now listen to his story. He was an Official in a programme that was supposed to hold for one week. Un42nately for him, on the third day, he suddenly collasped in the middle of the programme and was rushed to the hospital. Two days later on his hospital bed, he was being attended to by the nurse on duty. As she approached his bed ready to give him his injection, this guy's eyes and heart opened. After she left him, he called his friend's attention who had been by his bed side all the while he had been bed-ridden. He told him he liked the lady and was going to woo her right on his bed when next she came to him. The friend kept laughing at him and asked him if he had 4gotn that he was in the hospital and was been passed drip. But the guy replied him that ONLY HIS BODY WAS SICK AND NOT HIS HEART.

The nxt time the lady came to attend to him, he expressed his feelings to her bt all she was doing was to just laaf it off as she cudn't believe a sick and bed ridden person could still fall in love. She didn't take him serious at all. So after he was discharged he went for her and they started a blossoming after which has lasted up till this moment. As a guy or babe when you are sick do you still open your eyes to love when you see it or you simply ignore it because of your ill state? Comments please.

spikedcylinder:

huh?

I'm innocent o!

See, chamo, you don get wife, you wan chase all my husbands away?

Why are you shying away. Bt he asked me to enquire 4rm you. Meaning dat you av tasted adventure 4rm the playboy.

Brash!:

Me i can take it nicely but the problem is that i have never been rejected!

You are hereby evicted from the Ladies Locker Room-LLR. You are to leave with all your bags and baggages nt even leaving a strand of hair b4 zero hour. You don hear.

UNLEASHED:

  Arggghhh!!! I "mis-clicked" the wrong thread  

Run for your dear life b4 the table turns to ur side Mr wakaabout.

Kini ma n se iwo okunrin chamotex abi kilo ti pe yi na. Ose a mo ju kini yi lo bayi. Sora re gidi gan o ti o ko pa fe,

sistawoman:

Why is it that some of the Nigerian men from this site can't take rejection nicely?

Why is it that when they hit u up on YIM and you say, I have seen your posts on the site and am not interested in talking to you do they then start to hurl insults your way and threaten you?

I am a big girl and know how to hit ignore and do so, but i don't get that response from men of different cultures. If i reject them they thank me for my time and keep it moving.

Is it that they feel they are doing me a favor by sending me an instant message?

Don't mind them o jare. They are all bunch of Nicompoos.

chamotex:

Action speaks louder than words

mo buru gan oo. Lo bere mi, won ma so fun e bi mo she je. I am very aggressive . . . . . just ask Spikecylinder

Pele o omo jaye jaye. Ase oje re ga to bayi. I dnt knw dat spikedcylinder has also tasted of the hmmmm. Ha asiri yin ti tu o. I'll go and report 2 brash. So you don te 4 inside this game. No wonder ur mouth dey take draw like okro soup. Oluaye foshofosho I tua u sir. Go on sohun o jare.

Ma da won loun o jare. Oro awon kini yen ti won pe lokunrin tie ti sun mi. They are never satisfied with anything and always murmur at ur progress especially when u are progressing far beta than them bt they expect you to worship them and lick their feet like a god wen it is their turn. _{Were n da won lamu gidi gan ni.}

chamotex:

lai lai . . . . JAMES BOND no dey die for film mo gbona feli feli like HOT ROD

yeparipa, _{mouth wide open}. Oya now show me ur colour and I will tell you that u are not mouthed.

@ 8ball, that's rather 2 harsh. Abi @ poster no gree be ur own.

@ poster, ask the night workers I mean the prostitutes. They would give you a perfect answer.

@ sistawoman, true yans.

@ rotoye, ori re pe jo.

chamotex:

omoge, Chamotex eleyi o need shock absorber abi kilo pe

eleje tutu ni mi. Emi gan mi o fi gba kan kan tura sile.

wa wound

Oh boy this no be joking matter o. I tell you u no get liver 4 inside this matter. Na u sef go wound o. Just accept and I'll let u rest.

chamotex:

i go do u, do u, do u, do u, do u, do u, do u (man no go vex)

Person wey won do wey no get shock absorber. Wo O TI E LE. Gbogbo ti n fese hale niwaju omoge. If i handle pere, u will 4gt ur name walahi.