Romance › Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Guys That Wear Necklace Or Chains Around Their Neck by gj22(m): 12:58pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Yeah. It's like they're trying too much to emulate the American thing. Which I also find unattractive, btw. Most guys are just as fake as the females these days. Fake accents, fake timbalands...just fake. Not the rick Ross chain o, like the tiny chain that you girls wear. I hate my neck being bare especially on a casual shirt. But I can't afford a decent chain yet so am just bidding my time. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 12:39pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
sarutobie: my point was/is if you are going to shave off some parts in the story fine by me, but at least leave the 'unshaved' part like it were in the original story..the storyline in the book is interesting enough already, why alter it?? Because that's how adaptations work in literature (most of the time). Also, a few reasons could be -budget...TV is usually on a tighter budget than movies. Novels have more creative storytelling freedom because they have little budget to deal with. CGI is really expensive (ask Nollywood). -mediums... What works in one medium might not work in another. - Money... TV has a larger audience than novels. It will be pointless reading the novels when the show has already said everything the novel will say. Therefore, GrrM makes small money. But by telling them differently, he is making money from both the show and the books. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 12:17pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Gbola5: And why not ? gj22: You do realise that the point of the show is to make money and sell more books right? Now, tell me what will be the point of reading the books anymore if they do the show as exactly as the book is? A lot of whys and whats are omitted from the show (depending on their importance to the story)and the story is kind of changed so that people will buy the books. Same thing happened with the Harry Potter series and twilight series. Even noah, exodus, x-men, the flash, etc didn't tell the story as is. What works on print doesn't always work on TV This is how it works. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 12:16pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Gbola5: Even when this happens it still follows the story, though not completely. But changing things even out of that cut part is different, it sucks. These two statements are kind of contradictory. The first admits that they can change the story, while the second says it's not right to change the story. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 12:08pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Gbola5: You're burbled baubles bore me. Now i think you're a contra. What happened to telling a good story ? Strawman's argument. Telling a good story has nothing to do with what I am saying. A "good story" is subjective (based on opinion). I am just telling him why the stories cannot remain the same. Mention one top novel or whatever in which they changed mediums and the story was the same, just mention one. This is how things are done. That's why they write " based on the novel" in the credits scene. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 4:40pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
sarutobie: But you know the books comes out before the movies right? Obviously, that's why the books are the source material. What point are you trying to make? Am jus telling you why the stories cannot remain the same. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 9:19am On Aug 26, 2015 |
sarutobie: my only grouse with the director(s) is, if you are going to cut a story short atleast tell it is at originally was.The heck with Briene killing stannis? she was never close to the battlefield in the book..and sansa marrying the Bolton spawn? they deviated A LOT in the last season... You do realise that the point of the show is to make money and sell more books right? Now, tell me what will be the point of reading the books anymore if they do the show as exactly as the book is? A lot of whys and whats are omitted from the show (depending on their importance to the story)and the story is kind of changed so that people will buy the books. Same thing happened with the Harry Potter series and twilight series. Even noah, exodus, x-men, the flash, etc didn't tell the story as is. What works on print doesn't always work on TV This is how it works. |
Romance › Re: Guys Why Do You Send Pm's??? by gj22(m): 2:04pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Aminat508 shey you dey see  If you wan send me pm Abeg tell me before hand, that will make it more easier as I would have known your motive for the pm  I don't understand how you want someone to tell you beforehand. That makes no sense. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 8:53pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
tobiboss: What do you mean by body double?? They have body doubles the same way they have stunt doubles. It's basically someone that stands in place of the real actors for a part they can't play. I meant it wasn't Lena (the actress that played Cersei), it was another actress who stood in place of her. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 8:52pm On Aug 22, 2015 |
tobiboss: What do you mean by body double?? They have body doubles the same way they have stunt doubles. It's basically someone that stands in place of the real actors for a part they can't play |
Romance › Re: MY Friend Ex Wants Him To Marry.her Husband's Sister. by gj22(m): 1:48pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
What advice does "your friend" need? Weather to marry the girl or not? Is it nairaland he wants to use to decide his future? |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 3:43pm On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Why You Will Be Raped (must Read) by gj22(m): 3:11pm On Aug 13, 2015 |
Drabeey: [b] Whao, you are welcome here.... I actually feel it as an obligation yo enlighten Ladies on here about rape... yeah rape is real. but do u know what? If you are been raped its still boils down to you. I know many wants my head on this statement.... but before you do hear me out I know at one instance or the other you have been abused or wanted to be abused... have u ever checked if you had anything you have done wrong too? ok, he invited me over and started caressing my breast later he wanted to rape me.. .your fault? you went to a guy's house without enough rigid evaluation of who he might be? Hey sis if he is successful on you, then u are well dealt with.. I met this guy, we exchanged number and we started as friends. He invited me over and I went. .... ma'am u are a fool. why? my Yoruba people will say 'ore kini aja n Ba Ekun se' meaning what kind of friend can a dog and tiger be... yes, you might believe its a normal thing, but it ain't normal when you visit a guy who is your friend without taking other friends along..... its the bitter truth. now, do you think he is a fool? its not a need that girls like syphoning money from their male counterpart.. ok , the last time he took you out, you enjoyed yourself. whao! he spoiled you. lolz, CU's of is generosity you wants to extend the kindness by visiting in a dress to kill outfit. ma'am u are doomed. firstly, is he a philanthropist? even a philanthropist wants something in return. I think he would take advantage of you CU's you have shown him you are giving yourself out, yeah with what you are wearing. I'm yet to see a guy in his right senses wanting to rape a lady who gave him a lot of stress before even saying 'well I might do'.... He asked you out last month and you already visited this week. whao you must be gangraped CU's u are very cheap Who knows maybe you have been sent money many times and you are still demanding like he is your Dad's lose account manager. well that guy kept sending you hefty recharge cards and you think he is a good guy. The more you collect from that guy, the more your value is reduced before him. I was forced to watch some clips that went viral on the internet, where some guys had to rape two secondary students,.. they were actually speaking Yoruba language. and with what I unleashed, those girls were actually caught in a bush behind their school(what were they doing too). All this places are where the bad guys perpetrate their doings. they shouldn't be there too.
another case was a girl gang raped by six guys. also what I decode there was that this girl actually went there on her own and was not abducted there. why? Girls, you need to be careful and not all the time dining with the devil.
on the final note. I don't condone guys raping girls and Im still an advocate of the government creating a center where rapist would be kept.. nonetheless girls needs to guild against rapist who poses in a human cloak..
Now I want to reach to those who would castigate me... itsy own opinion
Drabeey [/b] Girls need to do things that will keep off predators and be really careful but it is stupid for blaming girls for getting raped. That's like blaming murder victims for getting killed. |
Romance › Re: Can This Happen In Nigeria? by gj22(m): 3:04pm On Aug 13, 2015 |
Johnnoah1st: guys can you be a full house husband for your wife (baby sit)? like ur wife is working in a big company and you are jobless and she ask you stay at home for you to baby sit for her and she will foot your bills (anything u need), guys can you do it? I can. If I don't have a job or something. I will stay and search for something after all, most job apps are online nowadays. |
Romance › Re: My Encounter With A Man On Heat by gj22(m): 2:44pm On Aug 13, 2015 |
chachanga: Thank God for tact. E beta as you free the guy.
Meanwhile, be more conscious of your environment for now and watch out for him o.
Sometimes, Pervs like that just need anyone aroundd to express their wierd intentions to while some other crazy fixated sicko types like that take a shine to you and start stalking.
/Intones in Revd Father Ramsey Noah's Voice: Go with God My Sister! So, because he was sexually attracted to a girl and got erect, he is now a pervert? Nawa for you o. |
Romance › Re: Does It All Become About The Kids? by gj22(m): 2:33pm On Aug 13, 2015 |
vizkiz: shut the furck up dummy!
You should think with your head not your empty stomach! Did I type "ignore your kids" you should pray for intelligence before you stay typing shiit on social networks Your kid comes before your wife, simple. |
Romance › Re: Does It All Become About The Kids? by gj22(m): 8:52am On Aug 13, 2015 |
vizkiz: so you are telling me the major reason why you wanna get married is tohave kids and when you are at it, you focus most of your attention on the kids
Now I see why most married men cheat No idiot. But when you DECIDE to have kids, they must come first before anything else. You can't just bring someone into the world (don't forget they didn't ask to be born) and then start to ignore them. Life doesn't work that way. |
Romance › Re: Does It All Become About The Kids? by gj22(m): 8:49am On Aug 13, 2015 |
vizkiz: seems you are new in marrigae...btw, it is never and has never been about the kids bro, your husband/wife comes first then the kids This is wrong. They didn't ask to come into this world, you made that decision for them so they must come first |
Romance › Re: Does It All Become About The Kids? by gj22(m): 8:48am On Aug 13, 2015 |
DDoubleUps: I really need the matured minds in the house to talk about this cause i have been experiecing it and few of my friends too,but the thing is that anytime we talk about it we all come to the same issue, how do we say it without being misunderstood? Does a man life with his wife end as soon as the start having kids? does every outing have to always be with the kids? Do the couple have to give up their own private time and dates together just to make sure the kids are always involved?Really sometimes i feel more like am running a kindergarten than in a relationship and the last straw that breaks my back is putting our 5months baby in our bed every morning and thereby robbing me of the early morning cuddles and the rest of it... how really should this issue be handled? You put the kids first. They didn't ask to come into this world, you made that decision for them so, you are obligated to make them as comfortable as possible. Your kids come before yourself or your wife. |
Romance › Re: I just slept With My Cousin & i Don't Feel Remorse, am I Possessed?(screenshots) by gj22(m): 8:45am On Aug 13, 2015 |
Atlantian: Adam slept with his daughters according to the fairy tale. Cain and Abel married their sisters according to the fairy tale. Chinese married their sisters according to not-so-distant history. Its not an abomination, but it is not just right. And who r you to decide what is right or wrong? |
Romance › Re: I just slept With My Cousin & i Don't Feel Remorse, am I Possessed?(screenshots) by gj22(m): 8:44am On Aug 13, 2015 |
oliviacute: it's a big abomination... pray to God for forgiveness....and desist from such acts,if she is the one pushing try to avoid her in one or two ways not that u won't communicate with her but try and avoid every thing related to catching anymore feelnx..and for d guy...check urself properly so that something lyk dat ll not repeat itself... we just have to be careful in life But how do you know the guy is religious? If he was, he wouldn't do such obviously because it's a sin. |
Romance › Re: I just slept With My Cousin & i Don't Feel Remorse, am I Possessed?(screenshots) by gj22(m): 8:42am On Aug 13, 2015 |
coolsix: I do not think he is possessed. Such cases like this can be handled easily, first:
We need to know the basics:
- Have the parties (The Guy and The Cousin) being in close relationship than other family members over the years? - Did they grow up together? - Do they live in the same house over the years? - Do they have things in common? Such as Likes, Dislikes, Favorite Movies, Favorite Places, Favorite Food etc.. - Has there been any family member living around them ? Or its just the 2 of them for so long? - Where is the Nuclear family of the cousin?
Possible Solution:
- Deliverance!
Deliverance is the only solution as i am wondering which type of sickness or sexual urge will permit someone to sleep with his cousin! Unless he was seduced by the cousin and depending on where he is coming from, when nature presents one with such a grand opportunity what is one supposed to do?
But jokes apart, i think he should see a psychiatrist or psychologist. Because he had consensual sex with his adult cousin? Tell me why he needs psychiatric help when he isn't a danger to himself or anybody else. The only difference between your cousin and the girl you toasted last time is that you are aware she is your cousin. People feel sexual attraction differently and yo don't have to stigmatise them just cause they don't feel it the way you do. Or don't care about these "rules" that have no basis. Unless they intend having a child, they are safe. |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 11:52am On Aug 10, 2015 |
hifaif: You can't just define words anyhow, ma'am. Liking sex a lot may make you a sex addict but doesn't necessarily make you a chronic lover of sex. Chronic masturbation may be an offshoot of an addiction to masturbation, but that doesn't mean they are the same thing.
Imagine masturbating twice everyday but still getting your works done and masturbating so much a day that it interferes with your works. The first is an addiction, the second is chronic. You are partly correct. The first is a habit, not necessarily an addiction. |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 11:50am On Aug 10, 2015 |
ahsekeena: Its healthy to masturbate 2wice everyday
Abeg that's an addiction o jare. For u to masturbate twice a day, that's addiction. And I know that anyone who masturbates that often is a chronic masturbator and being a chronic masturbator means u are addicted. When will ppl stop defining words how they perceive them? You are wrong on soo many levels. Masturbation is called chronic when you do it, it's affecting your life negatively, you know it but you can't stop.Someone could masturbate 5 times in a day and not be a chronic masturbator but someone who does it once a day might be chronic. It all depends on how it affects your life. Masturbating 2ice a day doesn't automatically make it addiction. It might just be habit. all chronic masturbators are addicts. "In the vast majority of situations masturbation is completely healthy and concerns about chronic masturbation are unwarranted (and more related to guilt than anything else). But for some people the amount they are masturbating causes significant distress, and in those cases the behavior could be considered to be chronic masturbation. There is no specific diagnosis for chronic masturbation, so there is no simple test to take to figure out if you’re masturbating too much. But here are some questions you can ask yourself, and some circumstances when masturbation may in fact be a problem for you." Here's the full article: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/a/chronic_masturb.htm |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 11:38am On Aug 10, 2015 |
MuhdG: I will rather say it is 70% dis advantageous and 30% advantageous.
Although, I Don't support it at all. Okay, start listing advantages and disadvantages to backup your bullsh1t stats. No one cares if you support it. |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 6:42am On Aug 10, 2015 |
ahsekeena: I don't believe it! Why would one who has a healthy and active sexual life masturbate? Why? Just tell me?
If u are an addict, ur sex life is either non existent or unhealthy. Eeew. Whether you believe it or not, is your problem. I know guys and girls who do it often. They are in relationships and even their partners know and are okay with it. Some people do it to manage their high sex drive, some do it because they can't have sex. Like I said, if it doesn't affect other areas of your life negatively, it's not a bad thing. |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 6:24pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
ahsekeena: I think people who are addicted to masturbation are also capable of rape and paedophilia. Its a mental disorder.
Its ok if its just once in two months or 3months, but every day? That's craaazy! WTF. People do it a few times a day every day. And they still have a healthy sexual life. What the fvck is the point in masturbating once in 2 months? It's bad when it becomes a habit that starts affecting other areas of your life negatively. |
Romance › Re: huutfbkoyesghg by gj22(m): 6:16pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
rawswag: okay so on a sunny day i came back from my exams a little too early and heard sounds of ecstacies coming from the bathroom i went there and saw my roommate masturbating a boy to b precise he didnt notice me so i left it bothered me to an extent then i considered it normal after that i caught him several other times and decided to advice him cos hes a really shy guy i talke dto him privately told him d implications and so on but the guy said he knows all that but anytime he takes it upon himself not to masturbate the urge keeps coming back and he doesnt just know how he just jump back into the act he has been masturbating for about 6 yrs now according to him ....we tried many things browsed the net but to no avail he always masturbates as i type right now he just masturbated few minutes ago and is very sad and i saw a tear running down his cheek i asked wat is it and he told me he just masturbated pls pple help me with advice six yrs is no joke my pple pls help Leave him alone. Don't make him start hating himself for it. Don't make him feel less human cause of this. Leave him alone and tell him to accept himself the way he is. There are no scientifically proven side effects of masturbation. Unless he is a chronic masturbator. Leave him alone |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 11:36am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Gbola5: Yes, but like YOU said, what makes you think they'll recognise him ? Unless he says who he is. I said that people don't get recognized easily in the show unless they introduce themselves. And I gave tyrion and the c0ck merchant encounter as an example. He wasn't recognized despite being a popular guy. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 12:38am On Aug 09, 2015 |
Gbola5: What makes you think Tyrion is popular. There are dwarfs all over the known world. In season one, it was implied. Also, house Lannister is one of the strongest and richest houses, them having a half-man for a child is really going to be news. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 5:07pm On Aug 08, 2015 |
BraniacX: But in this particular case, khaleesi as she is known is not unknown to the dothoraki as she was once wife to the mighty khal Drogo who as khals go was very famous (being undefeated) among the Dothoraki and also her fame as the dragon queen of slaver's bay would have made her easily recognisable in most places in essos. All that will just make her story known. It doesn't make her recognizable. Don't forget that those might not be Drogo's dothraki. They might have her description but might not know what she looks like. Stories travel far and wide but not the faces attached to those stories. They have no camera or Internet so, unless you introduce yourself, people might not know who you are (unless they have seen you personally). The slavers didn't even know who tyrion was despite him being very popular as the half-man is a a womanizer. |
TV/Movies › Re: Game Of Thrones Discussion (Beware Of Spoilers) by gj22(m): 10:09am On Aug 08, 2015 |
BraniacX: I can only speculate on this, but daenerys removed her ring identifying her as a khaleesi threw it to the ground and stamped on it when the riders were approaching her.....any ramifications or significance as to this behaviour? I have no idea. It's common for important people to try to hide who they are when being kidnapped until they know what they are up against. It's not like they have Internet in Westeros to just Google someone. My best guess is, she just did it to hide her identity /importance. |