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PunkyVeer:
Hmm...sounds like you're interested. Are you? I wouldn't go out with the one that's all about sex if I were you, even though his honesty is commendable. One out. Now you're left with one. Problem solved. No crowding. The rest depends on your observation skills. Only you can tell if this guy is being sincere or not. I think men are just men. You get the good, bad & the ugly anywhere. There's no one single mould.

I'm also South African, btw. However, I have no experience with Nigerian men. There's three South African ladies here in relationships with Nigerian men. Maybe they can give you a few pointers. It's soilsista, humbledbygrace & cherlene (or something like that). All the best

Ubuya phi in Mzansi? Just curious.

Well, she didn't say if it was love she was looking for or just fun

Well for starters, Nigerian guys have a d1ck like EVERY OTHER NORMAL MALE ON THE PLANET so, my best guess is, WE ARE LIKE EVERY OTHER MALE ON THE PLANET.

Why are you living in an area that has "well known prostitutes" as neighbours?

You sound like you could afford a house in a decent neighbourhood

Oysters, Clams and cockles

XavierBlue:
I advice you go purchase a bottle of acid/ on his dick you should pour to make it placid/ maybe get him castrated/ lady why behaving as if you never cheated ?


XavierBlue

You are an 1diot.

etiosa97:
There is this girl coming to my house tomorrow, we ave known each other since 4 year ago, when I was writing my neco exam. recently she uploaded a picture of my friend on whatsapp which is in the same class with me at auchi poly and I ask her who he was to her and she said his bf. This babe is coming to my house tomorrow and I wanna make sure I have sex with her either crook or nook. Pls guys whc format am I going to use??

She soppose come today, buh my people com plenty 4 my house

Abg, whc format I wan use, I don even try package the girl, buh she said 'you know u are my bf friend'. I jst lock since then..

Found the secondary school boy!!!

Andropod:
what could have made a 5 or 6 yearx old kid curious about sex when according to psychology,whe experience sexual curiousity before it metamorphose into sexual desire during puberty

Exactly. It's during puberty that it becomes desire but before then it's curiosity. Maybe you watched a few movies with sex scenes in it and got curious about what happens. You were exposed to 18+ contents at a young age and hot curious.

0luwatope:
Why did the OP say especially with the opposite sex? Is he gay?

Only in Nigeria that "relationship" is for only male + female.

Don't you know friendship is a relationship too?

It was curiosity. People have sex for different reasons. Some have for fun, some just to fulfil urges, some out of curiosity, some do it because they can.

cao:
So, yup there were two after credits. A mid credit scene that hinted on the continuation/creation of a character. The second is about the discovery of another character.

Anywho, it wasn't bad, you can definitely feel Edgar Wright's (the former director) touch and it felt a bit more dramatic than the other MCU films. Plus, it does have its comedic moments especially when Michael Peña's character gives his succinct tips. The third act's fight scenes were brilliant - the combo of shrinking and growing was quite entertaining with some tongue in cheek moments - and absurd - who the hell shoots those with a gun, while they're in that?! We will blame it on the excuse we were given earlier...

Plus, the opening scene had one slightly weird moment - they used CGI to make an old person look younger and practical effects to age a young person older. Oh and someone makes a rather awesome cameo...

All in all, it wasn't a train wreck, maybe not as crowd pleasing as GotG, or as in your face as Iron Man, but still better than Thor*. We've gotten a bit used to Marvel giving us action and a punchline every 3.5s, but sometimes a change of pace is good. Plus, we get another strong female character in Evangaline Lilly's Hope Pym, who I hope gets more to do in the future. Oh and please...girl we need to talk about that hair, I'm not the most fashionably conscious woman, but that hair doesn't really suit your face...

*Although, some folks will probably consider A-M as the weakest MCU film. I'm not going to lie, there were times I kinda thought the film was the worst in the MCU. I felt like I was almost watching another film (maybe it's the Edgar Wright effect). I liked Paul Rudd in this and A-M could pull a Captain America 2 with his sequel/next appearance and become a hot MCU property.

Honestly, I haven't seen the movie but the it sounds like something that can only do well for cartoons. Not an actual movie. Will still see the movie tho, probably on Wednesday. I don't even know if they will show it around here.

5minsmadness:
Any keen observer will know who the desperate strawman is here.
Any way:





I have said it twice already and I reiterate it again; Christains(true christains who believe in thier faith, not like some other kind of christians I know) do not hate homosexuals. just like they dont hate prostitutes or thieves or adulterers. Love the sinner, hate the sin. What christ hates is the sin, not the sinner. I dont know how else to put it that you will understand. The Pope welcomes gays just like he welcomes prostitutes, adulterers, fornicators, 419ers, child molesters etc. Salvation is for everyone,not holy people. So the Pope welcoming gays doesnt mean the Pope supports homosexuality. Stop defending the homosexual stereotype stand fora moment and pay attention to my posts.

Of course incest is wrong from a moral standpoint. Incest itself is a derivative of the latin word Incestus, meaning impure, unchaste. The incest taboo is and has been one of the most widespread of all cultural taboos, both in present and in many past societies. Most modern societies have laws regarding incest or social restrictions on closely consanguineous marriages.
But, good news for you, all that is about to change with the legalisation of homsexuality. If homsexuality succeeded in bypassing morality and has even become LAW, then you can bet incest, pedophilia, bestiality, necrophilia and all other forms of revulsive practices are not far behind.
In fact it has even started with pedophiles making thier case and your precious incest following quickly behind. Happy happy day.

A case for Incest, nothing wrong in showing your siblings some 'extra' love http://bigthink.com/think-tank/is-incest-wrong

So you see, Pandora's box has been opened. The world is going to be an even happier place with everyone having sec with anyone or anything they want. Hurrah for freedom.

A true Christian would be repulsed by this. Heck, any NORMAL human being, even an ISIS member, will be repulsed by this. But nooo, lets allow freedom for everyone. Live and let live.


Until there is nothing left to live for.

Wait, so why are we arguing then? You agree with me that we should not hate gays but you are somehow still arguing with me over what?

Let's make fornication illegal then right? Or anal sex. Gays have rights. The right to choose to have sex with whomever they want so far it is consensual.

It amazes me how you think that homosexuality and pedophilia, bestiality etc are the same. They are not. [b ] consensual [/b] is the key word here. A child cannot consent to sex. Animals cannot consent to sex. The dead cannot consent to sex. But adult males/females can consent to sex.

If you think that homosexuality and pedophilia are equals, I rest my case.

5minsmadness:
With all authority bro, you are the one who's ignorant.
Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM) of all races and ethnicities remain the population most profoundly affected by HIV.
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CCAQFjAAahUKEwi4gN-L-9_GAhVJXBQKHX41CBo&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.aids.gov%2Fhiv-aids-basics%2Fhiv-aids-101%2Fstatistics%2F&ei=G82nVfiGOsm4Uf7qoNAB&usg=AFQjCNFNmI8PtN6iINHXUiFKoW_FRhXxeA&bvm=bv.97949915,d.d24

As the world’s leading AIDS researchers gather for the International AIDS Conference in Washington, D.C., scientists report that despite gains in controlling the spread of HIV, the disease has continued to spread at an alarming rate in the very population in which it first appeared — gay men.
[img] https://timewellness.files./2012/07/964749-001hivmsmcrop.jpg [/img]

There is an 18 times greater risk of HIV transmission through anal sex
http://healthland.time.com/2012/07/20/hiv-continues-to-spread-among-gay-men-studies-show/

While CDC estimates that only 4 percent of men in the United States are MSM, the rate of new HIV diagnoses among MSM in
the United States is more than 44 times that of other men (range: 522 – 989 per 100,000 MSM vs. 12 per 100,000 other men)
http://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/docs/CDC-MSM-508.pdf

Biology Leaves Gay Men Highly Vulnerable to HIV: Study
Virus transmits much more easily via anal intercourse, research shows.
http://health.usnews.com/health-news/news/articles/2012/07/20/biology-leaves-gay-men-highly-vulnerable-to-hiv-study

Pray tell, how do gay people have sex?

Animals can consent to sex
http://www.onlinedebate.net/forums/showthread.php/14297-Animals-*can*-consent-to-sex

Animals show love and affection
Dog: Dog’s equivalent to kiss is touching nose. They also embrace each other by standing up on hind legs. They also wag thier tails in the act.

Chimpanzees: They do tongue kissing or what we humans called smooching

Cows: Cows kiss with lips and they are known to kiss for hours

Rabbit: They scratch and do fisticuffs to show love
etc etc.
http://www.pinkjooz.com/index.php/we-hug-and-kiss-what-do-animals-do/
So i guess bestiality is next on the "what's normal" list. Ok.

You can search the rest for your self. You have been educated free of charge
You are welcome.


Your words^^^^
And yet _vvvv are your your words as well.

Arguing with yourself? So you agree there's something wrong with incest but you supported it anyway just to display your arrogant ignorance?

Religion:


If you really are a catholic like you said then you should take this seriously. But you dont. You dont really believe in your faith. you are just a nominal catholic and a conformist(thanks dinachi for this word)

Like I said, a true christian will not hate a homosexual as we are all brothers and sistersin christ. What is hated is the sin of homosexuality. Christ came to call ALL sinners to himself. Including gay gays(sic. my words.)


You see how your answers are less functional knowledge and more white-man worship and arrogant but ignorant outbursts?


The funny thing is, actually, your post is the dumbest most ignorant post on nairaland because you posted it with full confidence.

Well, we all learn everyday don't we?
I hope you put this new knowledge I've given you to good use.

I said 1ncest was not wrong but inbreeding is bad. It's the stupid automoderation that changed it.

1ncest is having sex with family members while inbreeding is having a child born out of 1ncest. They are different.


Inbreeding is putting the health of a child at risk while i1ncest is just sex.

You are making a strawman argument here. I did not in anyway say that having gay sex is not a sin, I said they have a right to sin or not. The same way fornicators can choose to fornicate or not and no one is fighting against them. gayism is just another form of sexual immorality according to religious standards. Why don't you hate on fornicators?

I know my bible and the bible doesn't say you should hate on gays.

It's really pointless, in my experience, arguing this with a Nigerian. But just think about this.... if the Pope says the church should welcome gays, why are you hating them? and by welcome, I mean treat them like any other sinner, nothing more.

Also, your quoted article says gay men. What about gay women? Huh?

5minsmadness:
4. Gay people are gradually forcing thier opinions down the Christians throats. If you are gay and you want to get married then by all means go to court. Coming to church to force a priest to marry you otherwise face litigation is impinging on the priests civil rights to hold to his belief and carry out his duties without being bullied or forced. The bible has said homosexuality is a sin. If you don't like it, fine. Kindly go elsewhere to get married.

5. Oh we don't hate them. Thier acts however are disgusting and naturally repulsive. Taking me to psychological classes to brainwash me into thinking otherwise, usually by force, is again impinging on my rights and trying to deceive my natural instincts.
You will see real gay hate when the serial gay killers come out. Funny enough Christianity won't support that either but the gays will say they do.

6. From the above you can actually see how complex it is.

Just because AMERICA says something is right doesn't mean it is. We have too much low self esteem in this country. At least the kenyans are standing up for what they believe it. Nigerians will probably kiss Obama's feet as long as he drops some dollars. But let's see how it goes.

I already posted before I say these points.

4. Oh, but you want to force your opinion on them? Gays are not forcing their opinions on Christians. This is the problem right here. We are feeling threatened by a non existent enemy. Gays are not saying you should accept that their actions are right, they are saying you should accept that they made the choice. Don't hate,simple. even the Pope has said the church should not hate on gays. Yes, you heard me, THE POPE. He said they are welcome in the church. Not for marriage or anything but just the way liars, thieves, adulterers and fornicators are welcome. I am on mobile right now, will send you the article when I can or you can search for it.


5. You think gay hate doesn't exist?lol. Are you joking or what? Stigmatising gays alone is gay hate.

Also, no one is trying to brainwash you. Accept their choice is all they ask. Not their actions, their choice.

Do you also know that the anti-gay law in Nigeria is a violation of their human rights?

6. It's simple. You don't have to agree with their actions. Is fornication not a sin too? I don't see Kenyans running around naked fight it.


Your summary is inferiority complex talking.

They are not trying to get married in the church. They just don't want you to stigmatise them.

Just so you know, I am a Catholic and I am not gay.

5minsmadness:
1. consensual sex
Sex in which consent was given by both parties. Sex with mutual consent. _{The urban dictionary}

So according to you, it's okay for a 60yr old man to have sex with his 18yr old daughter as long as it's consensual sex. It's okay for a mother to have sex with her son who is of age. It's okay for two brothers and two sisters to have sex. Nothing wrong there, it's consensual.
In fact men should have sex with dogs and women have sex with horses as long as the animals give consent i.e are not being forced to restrained in any way. An animal may not talk but it can give consent by wagging it's tail and agreeing to the act without protest. It's a free world after all. All barriers should be removed because it is now a free world. It is also pure coincidence that the number of sexual diseases increased from 3 to 128 following the sexual revolution. Pure coincidence.

Words associated with/related to consensual sex according to English authority: rape, sex consent, draft, Bleep, gang rape, military, premarital sex, age of consent, crime, erotic murder, porn, pornography, pre-marital sex, pre-martial sex premartial sex , sexual harass, statutory rape.

These are key words used when discussing consensual sex. Show me your friends and I will show you who you are.


2. Religion aside is what landed us in this mess in the first place. Religion not only upheld good morals and love for each other but also kept order. Once order is absent, chaos ensues.

3. Things wrong with being gay
1. It is unnatural. God made humans male and female for a reason, to procreate. It's the same reason a man has a pen1s and a woman has a vag1na. Even if u are an atheist you will scientifically agree that if nature wanted men to sleep with men, we would all have vaginas and pen1ses at the same time. Some animal species have the ability to turn female if there are a scarcity of males. Humans don't have that ability. Putting your pen1s into a hole lined with naturally unmoisturied mucosa is unnatural. The vaginal can stretch almost limitlessly to accommodate a huge pen1s or even a full grown baby. It is naturally adapted for sex and procreation. The a us is elastic but only cos of its mucosa. Hence the excess lubrication needed for analysis sex. Hence the bleeding and the pain. Hence the loss of elasticity of the anal sphincter and subsequent fecal Incontinence i.e shitting your pants uncontrollably.

2. Gay people are 18times more likely to get HIV than heterosexuals. This is cos of the langerhan cells which are found in the a us and take up the HIV virus easily. In fact hiv was first discovered among gay communities in new York before spreading to the heterosexual populace.

3. Gay deprives a man the unique company of a woman. No matter how effeminate a man is, he can never have the touch or psyche or homelinness of a Woman.

4. Gay marriages will deprive thier unnaturally gotten children the right of a father or mother figure. And for a well balanced brought up child it is natural to have both a father and mother figure in thier lives. It is bad enough that heterosexual marriages are failing and single parenthood are rampant and churning out psychologically unbalanced kids. But gay marriage will deny these children the opportunity to have role models of father's or mothers from the unset.

And you really think those kids will have any other choice of a relationship other than being gay?




4. Gay people are gradually forcing thier opinions down the Christians throats. If you are gay and you want to get married then by all means go to court. Coming to church to force a priest to marry you otherwise face litigation is impinging on the priests civil rights to hold to his belief and carry out his duties without being bullied or forced. The bible has said homosexuality is a sin. If you don't like it, fine. Kindly go elsewhere to get married.

5. Oh we don't hate them. Thier acts however are disgusting and naturally repulsive. Taking me to psychological classes to brainwash me into thinking otherwise, usually by force, is again impinging on my rights and trying to deceive my natural instincts.
You will see real gay hate when the serial gay killers come out. Funny enough Christianity won't support that either but the gays will say they do.

6. From the above you can actually see how complex it is.

Just because AMERICA says something is right doesn't mean it is. We have too much low self esteem in this country. At least the kenyans are standing up for what they believe it. Nigerians will probably kiss Obama's feet as long as he drops some dollars. But let's see how it goes.

Lol. This is the longest ignorant comment I have ever read on NL. You didn't even give one single reason why it's bad. I am on mobile so will try my best to show you how misguided you are.

Firstly, gay sex doesn't increase likelihood of contacting STIs, anal sex does. By your logic, anal sex with your wife should also be illegal right?. What about lesbians that don't go anal? Ignorance is bliss.


Secondly, animals can't consent to sex. They don't posses freewill or the complex thought involved to consent to sex. All they have is their animal instinct to guide them and it's not the same as freewill. Have you not seen animals taking their females by force? Are you going to charge them with rape too? Animals have rights too, don't you know? Again, ignorance is bliss.

Thirdly, yes, any adult can have sex with whomsoever they want so far it is consensual. Being an adult means you know right from wrong and are willing to bear the repercussions of your actions. A man can have sex with his grandma, it's non of your business. ignorance

Fourthly, we are putting religion aside because not everyone is religious. Do you want to rule non religious people with religious laws? boko haram in the north are trying to impose their religious ways on us and you obviously don't like it yet you think it's okay to impose your religious laws on the non religious? or are you saying being non religious should be illegal too? Or do you even think that Christian and Islam are the only religions in the world? Again, ignorance is bliss.

Fiftly(if that's a real word), are you going to start blaming gays for global warming too? do you think that gayism is a recent invention? Don't you remember the story of sodom and gomorrah? Or you don't read your bible? Gays have always existed since the beginning. it's unfair to blame them for rise in diseases. Go and read the theory of evolution as well as mutation or do you think viruses and bacteria are excluded? Everyone is at risk of catching/creating something, not just gays.





I understand your frustration but you have no point. The same dangers gays create is the same heterosexuals create. So get off your high horse and try to apply some logic before commenting or at least do some research.


While religion is a blessing to mankind, you should also know that everyone has a right to believe or not. You shouldn't impose your beliefs on someone who doesn't share them. The law comes first before religion. Salvation is personal.

Let me add that while incest is not a bad thing, having an in-bred child is dangerous for health reasons. That's why incest is understandably illegal in some countries. It is rare anyway unless of course, you are a Targaryen.

Words associated with/related to consensual sex according to English authority: rape, sex consent, draft, Bleep, gang rape, military, premarital sex, age of consent, crime, Intimate murder, porn, pornography, pre-marital sex, pre-martial sex premartial sex , sexual harass, statutory rape.

Haha. This is the dumbest thing I have ever seen in my life.

What has this got to do with romance?

It's not just girls bro. A lot of people, guys included, do this. A lot of people fail to see the beauty within and fall for the beauty without. Also, they might just be making jokes, it might not be really what they see. Humans are unknowingly deceptive, what they show you might not be all that there is.


It's also disrespectful to call someone "shallow minded". Even rightfully so.

A bad wife is not an excuse for cheating tho. And vice versa.

At the end of the day, everything boils down to protagonist vs antagonist (good guy vs bad guy) on a very basic level. The starks are the good guys and their family is almost extinct.

Game of thrones shows the reality of our world. The bad guys mostly win because they don't play by the rules. That's what happened to Nedd, Robb and Jon. It's why policemen get killed every day defending the citizens. The bad guys don't play by the rules and the good guys pay with their lives. It's a sad reality of our world.

But at the end of the day, good will still prevail. Even if it's just one of the good guys that are left.

5minsmadness:
What's shameful about being homophobic?

Everyone has a right to consensual sex with whomever they want. Religion aside, there is nothing wrong with being gay. You don't have to agree with them, just don't hate them. Simple.

Africa really is homophobic. Such a shame

How can you SHARE SEPARATE rooms?

Either you are sharing a room or sleeping in separate rooms. You can't do both.

Davena:
So? Must that translate into the fact that she's cheating on him?

Oh, am sorry. Go and catch your BF of 3yrs hanging out with a girl at 5:25AM then as soon as you see him, he turns around and walks away. Then come and ask me again.

It might not be cheating but it is a reasonable cause for suspicion.

Broke guys are more likely to be faithful.

I don't get it. Was she really expecting you to give her your FB password? Do people actually fall for that?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Comprehension is really a disease to cave dogs like you.

What part of "probably" in my comment did you miss out?

Oh I forgot you are a blind goat.

Besides are you even the man in question?

Why are you putting it on your head like gala?

Next time read properly before you jump and quote someone out of context like a foolish and confused hyena.

Ode![/color]

Call me names, whatever. You gave a sh1t diagnosis. Girls get scared easily when they hear those words. What you said could end their relationship if she thinks it's true. You don't just utter words anyhow.

I know what it's like for a girl to think her BF has Erectile dysfunction just because she is ignorant.

boboLIL:
all expect sex......

Don't deceive yourself. Sex is the least important BUT it is still important. Body no be firewood

Ajibo111:






color=#770077]DEAR
NAIRALANDERS,i will be happy if you people advise me this.

READ IN DETAIL..

i grew up with this girl in my village but later she went to live with with her parents in lagos state.
i missed her so much as we are intimate good friends.
TEN years later she returned to my village again,we are so happy to be united once more.
our love started growing,she visits me everyday,we spend times together.
AS WERE are dating,something come up,even though she is my girlfriend,i never slept with her,because i don't want anything that will tear our deep relationship apart.

situations began to change,sometimes i catch her with other guys ,standing on the road,chatting,i maintained that am not jealous.WHENEVER i ask her she insist that they are just MERE FRIENDS,
some of my friends advise me to breakup up with her, that she is cheating on me but i refused because i love her and can not afford to lose her.

ONE day,i ask her for sex and she refused,saying that,she is a virgin,that she has never knew a man .
but i doubts her in my mind, SHE FLIRTS WITH OTHER GUYS,MAKES UNNECESSARY OUTING WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE,DRESS in modestly
and still claimed that she is a virgin.

i don't know whether,because am not spending on her that makes her to reject my request or that it is truly that she is i a virgin.

SO DEAR NAIRALANDERS,ADVISE ME ON WHAT STEP ,I WILL TAKE AGAIN CONCERNING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.

THANK YOU ALL.



CC....LALASTICLALA

Dude, don't blindly listen to friends . Follow your heart. Your friends will not be there to bear the consequences with you if you f*ck up.

Ask her if she is a virgin. Let her know you are concerned. Let her know you love her.Don't pester her about it. You just have to trust her. That's the best I can tell you.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Your fiancè is probably suffering from erectile dysfunction.

So his dick can't rise except a blöw job is given to him.

But in my opinion blõw job is a part of fore play before sex and besides that's the only aspect a man can enjoy in fore play before sex. While you women enjoy getting sucked and licked and fingéred and all other sorts of stuff.

You can't tell me your fìance doesn't return the favour to you too.

I honestly see no reason why you should be worried. It's part of sex.

On the other hand I think your fiancè should see a medical practitioner for help to solve the problem of erectile dysfunction. Drugs could be prescribed for him.

I hope this helps. [/color]

Shut the f*ck up. He isn't suffering from erectile dysfunction. Jesus christ.

That's what works for him obviously from habit.

Is everything erectile dysfunction now a days?

Seriously, I am shocked that a lot of girls don't know how a d1ck works.

We really need sex education in our schools.

firstEVA:
It happens, lots of girls have more than 1 boyfriend, the girls are beating the guys to their game, tell your friend to take heart.

How old are you? You think dating for 3 yrs is a game? Smh

Davena:
so coz she's dating or friend she isn't allowed to hang out with other guys?

Hang out with other guys at 5:25AM?

blackiridis:
Jon snow is not dead. that red witch melisandre will raise him up and he will become azor ahai

Don't present theory as fact. It will confuse people.