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GiantMelCosta:
Nigerian international airport be like the local airport in the US

Local Airport in the US is better than Nigeria International Airport. There is nothing international in our international Airport...Nigeria Airport is the only airport the authority will collect money from the passenger before it can be used. Too bad.
Everything about Nigeria is cursed. They should open the airport immigrating and emigrating.

Late Abba Kyari has more power than the Vice President and the president himself. He singlehandedly makes a move for the government to pay our female football team.

Garba Shehu is doing damage control

lekki1444:
Dreams are ways your subconscious passes messages to you. This can be a message you need to act on to improve your family unit or it could be just any other messages

I dreamt about seeing myself in Ontario, Canada working and collecting good pay. Pls can you interpret my dream

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am overreacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with many terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Ladies are now wiser. You want to turn her to the lord of the ring....or probably the engagement ring was giving to you by Babalawo to tie her destiny up. I don't understand you gave someone sth and you are still monitoring her maybe she will use it or not. Op, I put it to you, the engagement ring you gave to her is not an ordinary engagement ring but a Juju ring.

I want DSS to track you down in case there is any crime related to a lady, you will be the first suspect

An average aboki doesn't know what isolation center is...all dey know is their Quran and mosque and the jihadist war against non-Muslim...
If you have been to Kano state, you will understand what I'm saying...

yvelchstores:
let me be honest. I do not agree. Are there men like you describe, yes but does it mean that the traits I listed is not linked to the same type of men, no.

Madam, I can write volume of books on who a misogynist....infact, I have promised myself to write a book on celibacy..
You will agree with me that there are differences and similarities btw a rapist and a fornicator but they are not the same. All rapists are fornicators but not all fornicators are rapists

lilioj:
For sale. WatsApp 07064520437.
8k (negotiable)

How.many year guarantee?
And how long can it last? Nobody want to throw his money into bush...we have all sort of fake batteries...abi Nah follow come?/

Alero3Arubi:
#17.00
Yes you saw right.
Its SEVENTEEN naira.

Apart from N17 what about hidden charges or hidden burdens? Because it is good to pay N500,000 for bride price that comes with a lot of hidden benefits than to pay N17 that come with a lot of hidden burdens, bondages, family woes...


Think about it..

Maybe one of her former bf was incarcerated....

Kudos ma, the make up paints on your face is enough to paint my 3 bedroom apartment

yvelchstores:
acknowledged Sir. So what do you call a man that exhibits the traits mentioned in the write-up?

As I said, those traits you mentioned are totally different from who a real misogynist is. Those traits are all evidence of a dysfunctional relationship or marriage

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/davewillis/the-7-types-of-dysfunctional-marriages/

https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/7-deadly-signs-dysfunctional-relationship-fiff/

Lemme help some guys here..one of the abrupt ways of operating as a temporary or permanent celibate is to be a misogynist. A real misorganist can stay for some years or for life without sex, ...because it doesn't appeal to him at all.
Misorganists are not like normal men...they don't have any intention to marry at all.
Madam, I'm not writing theories, what I'm writing is as real as the back of my palm. I have seen one...He hates his mother, sisters, female cousin, female colleagues, and anything called the female gender...
And we have the misandrists who also hate male family members, male colleagues, and anything called male gender.

yvelchstores:
I belive you are pointing out an extreme case of misogyny. There are various stages of this unfortunate trait just as you will have mental disorders in varying degrees. For you to say there is NO MARRIED MISOGYNIST IS DUMBFOUNDING

Babe, you dont have a full understand of who.is real real misogynist being a lady or a woman...your idea about a misorganist is limited and theoretical.
From.your point, you said there are various stages of misorganist....no ma! There is no stage of misorganist...a misogynist is a misorganist.. He hate woman or female gender with passion.
For example, a cultist, or hired assassin, hermit, etc a cultist is a cultist any time any day. He always have the consciousness that someone really hate him or he hates someone....A buccaneer doesnt have any affinity with Eiye confranity.
A real misorganist doesn't think like a normal man....for example, a normal man will scheme towards a beautiful lady that he like but a misorganist doesn't like any female gender at all talkless of marrying her.
Your above writeup can be distilled to dysfunctional in marriage and with time it can be corrected if either spouse go for good counseling

Romangalactic:
In Nigeria, it is culturally the responsibility of a husband to be responsible for the financial needs of the children & wards under him. In families where wives are the providers there will definitely be no peace if the situation does not change for a long time.

I had an issue which I brought here sometime back regarding my fiancee and her pregnancy. Thank goodness my doctor allayed my fears regarding her fidelity by confirming that it's possible I am the father.
I know for sure that after she gives birth and I find out I am not the father, I will not accept responsibility for a child I did not father because I don't want to raise another man's child with my money. If I felt the need to do such a thing, I will adopt a child. That's my decision.

Now the matter here is, what if it's a man who got another woman pregnant and wants to bring the child into his family? It's my opinion that he has the right to do so because it is his money that will be used to take care of the child. The role of a mother can be performed by anyone if you pay them to do it and people need jobs, but you can't pay someone to financially provide for a child he did not father.

A wife who has a child from a man other than her husband should get child support from the biological father or just go to be with the man who impregnated her. The other option is to cater for the child's financial provision with at least 90% support if she wants her husband to consider accepting it.

I will like to read opinions from other people here

Plead
Ybaby
Mizwisdom
Pdudd
Risenphoenix
Capslocked
Pansophist
Bukatyne
Mstick
Lalasticlala


Edit: Between a husband and wife, who is in a more favourable/advantageous position to raise their lovechild inside or outside the marriage? With reasons.

The father of the bastard children should answer the questions...

Najja wey everything dey red Nah him someone go come add his own irresponsible Join my own responsible routine works....come to think of it...nah me go provide financially, morally, spiritually, medically, intellectual and all the burden you can think of is on me, and I will not like them more my own children.....
After you don train am finish, the papa go come appear from nowhere and start faking a cry for her children so that dem go know him as the real father....so, what is now my benefit? Are mine a guardian or caregiver? Abeg, make dem carry dem to the rightful owner...

rockstarB:
Being irresponsible.

...typing from experience....if you know you know

Op there is nothing like a misogynistic marriage relationship...
A misogynist doesn't have any close relationship with a lady or a woman at all nor marries a woman at all. I have a seen crude misogynist man, if you meet one of them, you will know that it's different from all these epistles you wrote.
A real misogynist is a real woman-hater. He will hate a woman with every pint of his blood.

Op should summarize her craps and let us contribute I don't have time for "copy and paste" note.

emmy2fyn:
yeah guys in the house, I meet a girl sometimes a go and as I toast her, I collected her number though she work with a bank and I have my job too .
So after all I tried to see her but my nature of job doesn't permit me during the lockdown not until second week. Although I do call her and chart her everyday. As I just called her that I needed to see her then, she quickly said we should meet at a fast food joint and as we meet there, she was forming and I bought her something as normal and I think we had a wonderful day that time but thank God am a kind of person who watch before I sent or give money to girls that is, I don't wastes money on girl who don't deserve it.

later I just discover when I call her she will be receiving calls at night if I asked who's is calling she would say she don't like it ooo that it's a customer from the bank then I begins to suspect her because she received too much calls and we were already a month in that relationship. so when I tell her I want to see her she would suggest fast food joint so, I told her I was not paid salary due to lockdown but she's just willing that I should waste my money on her and she refuse to come to my place.
Also she don't use to call me as she claimed she has no credit blablabla though I only sent her call card once and she didn't call me with it so she call again the following week that she needed a call card I simply told her to go and buy and she said no money and I said me also have no money.

So all of a sudden she just begins to call and chat that her birthday is coming, I should prepare money for her. me money ko money ni that is how I quit the useless girl. I could sponsor her birthday bill but she's very stupid and though I wanted to marry her but all her thought for me is to waste my cash on her and her boy friend but I rejected oooo thank God as I finally find my own girl

Op you fall. my hands...why you leave her? Since you don discover the kind of girl she is, that she is a serial dater girl and that she date guys for a living...., you for dey play along and and sure you chop her ponmo well well and later dump her like a pack of cigarettes...

Op talked about the dark side of the guy but he failed to talk about her own sister irresponsibility...

Since the guy is 35 years, definitely your sister should be around 26-34 years...so, what has your sister gather up together to augment the weakness of the guy for marriage settlement? or Nah just toto be the value wey she fit offer...? (Products of bad upbringing)

Op, there is no free food anymore. Guys don wise. If you are a husband and you are the only one fending for the family with this present naija condition, you will soon die and what will kill.you Nah the burden that you suppose to share that you put for your head alone..and if you die, you wife go marry another man and continue with her life even spend your wealth on her new husband...
A lady or guy that doesn't have any sources of income is not fit for marriage...in fact, he or she is a disaster. So, let your sister also get a job and have her own money then she can determine the kind of wedding she will do and the kind of house she will live otherwise even if she callam make she come live under the bridge or cemeteryshe suppose not to object because she solely depends on the guy for everything.

Op some family houses are more comfortable than some thatched house which some of these guys are living in....

As far as there are boundaries and they are not troublemaker family....

If I'm a lady, I prefer to live in a three-bedroom en-suite apartment in husband family house than to be living in one dangerous area like ikorodu, oworonsoki, egbeda, ogijo etc....do not forget the guy's income is still poor being a beneficiary of N-power project. You don't expect him to give what he doesn't have.

We only hear your gf side, we didn't hear your own flaws...
Let him that sin not be the one to cast the first stone
Maybe when she also check your phone, she will meet her own shocker...
Guys, do what comes your.might...a lot una do the worst and you cover your own

I attended one of the public schools in lagos. Thank God for the extra efforts and grace of God, maybe I will have become a vulcanizer or battery charger....

Lagos Public Schools are wishy-washy. They are filled with all kind of unqualified teachers probably because of the salary being paid to those teachers is small. So, you can't get the best in lagos public school.
More so, the lagos state government uses all this vacant opportunity to reward their party loyalists...you will see so many of them at Alausa who are not qualified to handle the position given to them.....some cannot even read and write and they put them in the office.....

BranddesignerH:
Frankly, speaking this guys are total embarrassment not only to the Party but our politics. Please people should call Oshomole to order

Naija politics is a dirty game...if you don't have a dirty habit, you can't play it..

Oshimole used direct primary to install Obaseki as a governor then, now, he wants to you indirect primary to pull him out.....


APC = All promises cancel.

nairavsdollars:
Temidayo Akinsuyi, Lagos



https://www.independent.ng/edo-2020-oshiomhole-dumps-odubu-ogiemwonyi-airhiavbere-others/

Edo State election will be brutal this time around.


I beg strangers in Edo State do not belong to any cults or evil society as some of the people in Edo State do should take their leave out of Edo state during this time of their election...

An average Edo son or daughter is a cultist.
Except for some few that are born again and the some Muslim faithful

dre11:
https://punchng.com/fg-threatens-to-dismiss-workers-leaking-official-documents/

This woman is still living in the stone age. There is nothing going on the Nigerian civil service that can't be accessed.. If the Russian can hack the Ameican voting sites talks of your wishy-washy organization here in Nigeria systems...


Aunty esan no provoke me o

oluwasegun007:
May our children have a wealthy father

Provided you hustle to be wealthy

Cc means crazy cum

When you go outside of the country, the foreign people will treat you right but when you come to the country, even your own people go dey look for your downfall.....
Naija is cursed.....
NFA might not contribute anything to victor papa burial. Just wait and see.
It is better to do a cleaner job in the country that will appreciate my time and effort than to be a bank manager in the country that doesn't have any plan for me and my family after retirement

Dreyton36:
They should continue jare , our population sef don too much

If they continue, one day it will affect one of your family members

Melv4:
Where is oworonshoki?

Oworoshoki dey for Aso villa...

Google map is your friend

IBB said if he is sleeping and he hears the sound of war from Yoruba people, he said, he will go back and sleep...

Babysawale19:
This shows this President is very lazy. So he’s leaving government of a whole country to a secretary. Secretary approving things in his name that will become a problem for him and his family in the future.

Nah you talk say the president dey lazy and dunce oh...DSS on patrol

Women are the most dangerous creature on earth. Deadlier than anaconda or black mamba.

If you can stay single, pls do stay single...

There is no woman that you will not see crafty attitudinal traits in her...

Samson was strong and anointed, it takes ordinary Delilah to kill his dream and destiny...
Have you ask yourself why the snake in the garden of Eden didn't approach man (Adam) but it went to Eve (woman) to deceive Adam. Because Adam and snake doesn't have any similar character traits but the snake and woman have some similar character traits.
They know how to pretend and how to do fake laugh....and how to sell baits for their prey. No matter how great a man is, it takes just a crafty lady to pull him down...

They are weaker vessel but they are deadly and manipulative...
It will be stupid and unwise for any man to put all his hope and life on a woman...

No woman, no cry...

Guys, don't do the mistake of putting your wife's name as the next of kin...let all your property be willed to your children because when some woman know that you have willed everything you have to them, the next thing is to kill you so that they can enjoy your gotten wealth to the fullest....


Talking from experience......pls the younger youth, you may not see any sense in my comment for now but I pray you will not fall, a victim of all these good-for-nothings ladies who, are there to entice you with their cleavage...
A word is enough for the wise.

Heiress007:
Hello House

Any info on when the embassy will reopen?

You still want to go to the UK. 300 pounds for 2 weeks quarantine...aside hotel and other expenses....