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Op, a lady that's well behaved and also a bloody damn good cook is more than enough reason to shelve the plans for your former girl.


I am cocksure most of the guys trolling you here aren't married. My dear, if you have a damn good wife or girlfriend as a cook, you will kiss goodbye to every booker and restaurants out there.

For starters most guys are terrible at cooking and they flock in droves to eateries.

Sadly, the quality and taste of food found in these eateries these days is deplorable. Moreover, most food served at these eateries are unsavory. In addition, cost of doing business is poor and the profit margin is terrible. You can't find good foods anywhere.

If you are saddled with a terrible cook for a wife, you are done for in your lifetime of eating home made meals.

Mind you,there is a reason a lot of men rush to get married. It's not just companionship and sex. It's damn appetizing food. Don't forget, the way to a man's heart is his stomach, some ladies would go way lower.

I have a family member whose wife is as terrible as they come at cooking. My bro, stocks Pepsi to wash down whatever she serves him because he has been exposed to an amazing cook in his sister in law who he live with for more than a decade.

Knowing good food can be equated to been sexually adventurous. If you meet a boring sex partner.... E good red for you.

Op, there are a couple of things really important you have to review.

When are you going to marry her. If she means that much to you. Her time is limited.

Are you ready to support a family with kids?

Whether she disrespects you or not... What's really gonna hurt you most is when a kid you decided to marry insults you. Your spouse regardless of age with disrespect. Your kids will at some point even disrespect you.

My mom was 5 years older than my pops. My pops had to bear a lot of scarifice here.

He wasn't really a kid when he got married but his wife was 5 good years older. Kids didn't come quick.

He wasn't blessed with lots of kids however she loved him to death. They are a team. They died 3 months apart.

So you have to decide. If you got the finance, go ahead.

My mom respected my dad but as they got really old, we are talking 81 & 86, the respect took a french leave. But they were inseparable through and through.

Pique is a legendary defender and Nakamura

From a legal standpoint, he has something hooge coming his way.

Corporate companies in Nigeria should be savvy in the areas of intellectual property.

siofra:
God created dark tall men specially. I mean...

Especially dark men that are over 6ft tall with beard

God safe your daughter from these sons of Adam.

He's active on nairaland but a guest, very mature, not a redpiller, got his shit together. For a while we weren't talking but recently we started talking and I think I'm falling in love.

Please I don't want to fall in love with this guy because when I write my final exams after the strike, I want to join an international order and become a Reverend sister then get sent abroad. When I go abroad I will join a more strict convent and become a nun and shut out the world and its material pleasures. Amen!!!!


So, what do I do? Block him? Marry him?

Ride him till he goes bananas

It is indeed sad but logical as well as reasonable that a lady should choose a man of means in the hope that her progeny will not have to suffer or hunger for food for the rest of their lives.

Doubt me, argue with the likes of Buhari, Dangote and the rest that marry their kids to other super rich families.

There is a reason for this.

Women who marry for love in the past have schooled their girls to marry for money. As far as it goes, love is of no consequence.

So back to the matter at hand, you need to know what you want in a lady and go for it.

This rationale doesn't mean ladies aren't supposed to pay for their bills. They are supposed to hustle too.

In the animal kingdom, the strongest and the fittest animals get to mate the females, ever wondered why?

Well, to ensure the best genes are passed on..... The female species are entrusted with conceiving and birth.

The intrigues in this political transition hasn't been seen before

Continue.

BoredBerry:
Aww... Touching...

We plenty... Wishing you the best!

This is about the best comment I have had all day

edoman2016:
A girlfriend can NEVER love you more than your mother and sister. Blood is a bond. Family is everything

A sister cannot love you more than her child.

akanbiaa:
Fish still need to open mouth sometimes to feed itself so as to survive.

True.

But not when there is a trap around.

The mouth we use in saying hurtful things is also used to bless people

The moral of the story here is simple.

There is no rationale reacting to every insult hurled at you.

In between, they did not state the model and make of the car

Uniquetani1:
What if she is only seeing him as a friend and don't want to hurt his feelings

Explain that to him

If you still have his number, Whatsapp him.

Start with hi.

Then question him why he has been checking up on you and see how it goes.

It depends on both of you especially the lady.

Alternatively you can say you are both humans.... homo sapiens.

Women have this detective instincts in them when they come to your place.

They search for telltale signs.

This is just normal.

While the wise ones have learnt that what they eyes doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve about.

Besides, anger is counterproductive.

Desist from anger and hot temper.

Extrastiv01:
Quick one
My name is Jack(fake name) and my dad is gay ,I discovered this last month when he made several attempts to you know get laid with me...he even threatened me

SHOULD I TELL MY MOM
NAIRALANDERS HELP O����

You are not making sense.

If I got your right..... Your dad who could be your biological or step dad is trying to get down with you.

If that's the case scenario........ He is bisexual and he is committing an abomination if he is your biological dad or he is guilty of molesting you if he is your step dad.

In either case..... gather evidence and nail his Hot ass.

You got a girl not like other girls.

Enjoy it.

Girls if they give a rat ass about at all would buy you a boxer and a singlet..... Or just screw you silly as the best gift they can offer...

Just the other thread some girl broke up with a guy because of sharwama..... For just the darnest reason.

She went as if her kitty was an income generating asset. Imagine the nerve.

The thing is this.... Don't mess a good thing going on here with your fastidiousness.

Enjoy her.

She loves you, Cumrade

Demigod22:
Friend zone is not a place for me. If we don't date we go our separate ways. I used to think that the girls are the trophy, I wonder how I can convince a girl to be with me. But after some experienced, University life, maturity and all that, I realized I am actually the trophy.

Whenever my friend go out with several girls and I ask him, he will say that girls are plenty and if he marry only one how about the others?

You are operating on abundance mentality. Sadly, most of us operate on scarcity mentality.

Friend zoning happens when a guy is fixated on a particular girl. The lady then feeds on the desire of the guy to prove himself.

So embracing a lifestyle of abundance mentality ensures a life of healthy mental health.