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HeatSeeker:
Not entirely.

@8Ebisco based on technicalities, an ashewo is a lady whose only source of income is via sex for cash.

A runs babe is a lady who occasionally trades sex for favours, it may or may not be strictly for cash, and it is usually not their only source of income. They may have other legitimate sources.

Nigerians have bastardized the term hookup, unfortunately. It ordinarily should imply a connect between two people (previously unknown to each other) for a friendly meet, it may or may not be romantically inclined (it might even be about business sef). This was the original intention for most dating sites and match making platforms before it was bastardized

About the hook up explanation. You got it wrong

Nicepoker:
Igbos and Yorubas. Come and abuse yourselves here.

Sadly this matter goes beyond tribe shame.

Konji and lack of self control knows no tribe or religion.

It's sad that we commonize everything here.

That's someone's daughter and someone's future mother.

The victim's psychological and physical pain is unbearable.

We should do well and show empathy.

What's most important to note here is that what doesn't kill you will make you stronger.

Moreover, what happens to you isn't important but how you respond to it.

Your dad has shown a weakness exhibited by lots of parents.

The child they lavish with love and depend on often times, fail them.

Fryx:
I will think about how this can work.

She did something recently, and usualy I will call her to tell her how I feel, and how I want her to change. But from experience, it's useless asking her to change. She will make efforts and start watching her actions if I point out anything I don't like. But she will soon get tired of it and start accussing me of forcing her to be who she is not. She will start picking fight with me, will do exactly what I complained about and told me to accept her as she is. She is that stubborn, and I have learn to let her have her ways.

She is still young though (in her earliest twenty) maybe age will help her gain more control.

I am in my early 20 too. Maybe I will understand what you said with age. Because right now, I really don't know how to cope with this.

Hardest thing anyone can attempt is trying to change.

However, you shouldn't put so much pressure on her now.

It would kill the joy both of you could share.

While you are at it keep your options open.

Meet other girls too.

Expand your horizon.

If it didn't work with her, you move!

The question should not be about her changing.

But how you can put your differences aside and have something serious.

Just go with the flow and see how it goes.

DSC7:
Hmmmm...you have a point though ...

But is it normal dreaming of her often or it has some spiritual meaning too??

It's normal when you have kept thinking of her for a long time. But that's not a productive use of your time. As we speak it's likely she is collecting doggy right now.

She would surely have moved on so should you.

That you are obsessed with, will likely manifest in your dreams.

So you are free to dream on or activity do something about it

DSC7:
Shyness?How did you know about that?

You had a girl you desired. You could not express and articulate your feelings for her. You let another guy take over. She even had the decency to ask for your blessing.

Guy, forget that girl.

Work on your social skills.

Then you would realise that she is not the girl of your dreams but just an ass that you didn't tap.

Trust me.

DSC7:
I have one already,,,but she takes life too serious unlike this lady that we discuss almost everything about ourselves...

My present babe doesn't have the vibez i want,, I'm totally confused....

Get another. Find someone who vibes like you. Don't settle for less. You owe yourself that much.

As for the elephant in the room: have you fixed your shyness?

You are still obsessed with this lady.


Better get another girl and go on with your life....

Preciousgirl:
Whenever my husband wakes up, his mouth smells bad. It is better after he brushes. Is this normal?

When was the last time he changed his toothbrush?

Does he brush his teeth before the sleeps?

Last month

ravensckar:
Your own better, shebi na Ashy you carry. Me, it was my then ex-fiancee that we were engaged to be married. For three years, I didn't touch her. She was screaming 'no sex before marriage'. Then, after the engagement was fixed and done. Something just whispered to me to even make an attempt to see what I'll be enjoying for the rest of my life.

O boy! Na that day I know sey no sex before marriage na scam. Her breast be like Agbalumo, very tiny, but it appeared big all these while due to padded bra. Yansh self small like man own. To make matters worse, hanty come get broad shoulders join. I could have even overlooked all that for the sake of love, but the kind bad odour that was oozing out of that place was disgusting. I made sure I forced myself to cvm then I told her immediately that the relationship was over.

She begged me severally and called all my village people to beg me. I stood my ground and said it was over. As a respect to her, I never told anyone what transpired. It was after some years that I told my parents. Each time I think of that issue, I give thanks to God for helping me dodge a bullet.

G. Your matter serious sha.

I have always begged to differ on matters concerning no sex before marriage.

Any lady that brings that bullsh**, I just phase off.

It's just not only foolhardy but manipulative.

A woman that goes that path has something to hide......nothing more, nothing less.

Best regards!

This reminds of a time I got a lady home. I was hot and ready to go.

We got down to the business of the day then, I took of the bra......

I found out the bra was padded. Nothing dey up.

Even the pant dey padded.

That was it for me.

I gently disengaged and discharged her off.

Samantha124:
If I want to join social media and my man tells me this, I'll agree with him without arguing and secretly buy another phone and join with a different name and not use my pictures, or I'll disguise my looks just to confuse him a bit in case he ever comes across any of my accounts...

You are a bad girl

You are a very bad girl....

You are a very very bad girlie

BAT is in power.

The prices of goods and services is on the increase.

What's concerning here is the inflow of cash into your pockets.

You need a high income skill to reduce the high inflation on goods and services.

The sad truth here is that the dollar 💵 will hit ₦2000.

Petrol ⛽ will hit ₦700.

Cooking Gas is approaching ₦1500.

If you are a salaried worker or a stay at home mom or student.....I will be worried if I were you.

If you need help on this, you can reach me on my bio.

Here's the thing.

Women heal after childbirth and even surgery.

But they see sex as a weapon and sometimes as a bargain chip.

It's up to the man to deal or shift.

It's yet another day....the same shït

My neighbour's wife bed wets. First time, they slept together, he was shocked but he helped her through a rough patch.

He wakes her every night to urinate.

I think she has gotten the hang of it.

They are now married with kids.