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When it comes to relationships, girls and ladies seem to understand the scripts and are able to manipulate the outcome of a budding relationship.

A guy walks up to a woman and he tries to impress her and all that scrap.

If she is into you, comrade, boom you are in a relationship.

But if she isn't, then you will find yourself friend zoned. That's actually factual.

The tendency for girls to cheat has increased and they have this Halo effect.

Let me talk a bit about this. Women are blessed with a nice figure and men are normally impressed by the overall outlook other than the character of the lady. They see an angel, not knowing a demon lives into the beauty body.

A good example is Chidinma. She is an epitome of beauty and she is angelic but beyond her charm and poise is a killer. I can make a wild guess everyone knows what went down before she found her new residence in the prison.

This is another reason women can do a crime and walk scot-free.

Beautiful women based on the attention they get have learnt to friend zone guys and manipulate them into doing stuff for them. They have honed this skill and have turned intelligent men into simpletons.

The reason is simple, she doesn't find you sexual attractive but you are gonna be doing manual labour.
She will be getting your attention and favor while another guy will be smashing.

Women crave attention and the simple guys will be dishing their time and money in hope for a relationship.

The ladies will tell you that you are like a brother, Cumrade, run o! That any girl in their right senses will be lucky to have you that you are too nice.

As if she doesn't want good things. She dey whine you, Cumrade. That's an angle they explore to bring the simp in you.

Guard yourselves, na friend zone she want post you go.

Another thing that ladies find attractive is a guy with musculine tendencies. Women are drawn to men who are in control and are not perceived as weak. They like men who are confident and are not afraid to take the lead or take a chance knowing they could fail.

Put differently, women hate men that are feminine. The brasher the better.

They like men who are bold and know what they want.

The tendency of men getting caught in crime or whatever it is they find themselves is because women enjoy that hola effect I mentioned.

The other day, I was in a corner in the streets and this beauty lady with a nice figure and dressing with aura dipped her hand into her tights and brought out wrappers of weeds

I was blown. But it makes sense, she could be a mule and would pass through many sensitive points undetected.

Women are hardly stopped for search and interrogation but guys will always account for the most count anywhere police, army, Ndlea check points.

In summary, guys should understand how the game of relationship, love and sex is played.

I love you, I love you always ends with sex.

If the lady wants to have sex with you then the relationship will be smooth.

A word of advice, ladies are very good in cheating. If she is cheating then you will hardly find out except she wants you to know.

They are built better to run the hearts of men.

Men be wise.

What should you do?

The answer is simple.

ASSist her.

She got deceived. After all we all get it wrong every once in a while.

Help her. Give her all the ASSistance she will need.

Even help her train the child her excessive unprotected knack created

Rent house

Give her money for upkeep.

It's like the break fast her served you nor belleful you na lunch and dinner you need.

You dey build house, somebody roof the house claim ownership.

You want give am C of O

Someone got me up there.

She got pregnant due to excessive raw knacking.

Best believe that.

In any case, early child birth comes with it's rewards after the storms is over.

You get to have your kids while your body is still young and get to enjoy them while you are still youthful.

I met a lady who is 28 and her mom is 45. It means the mom had her when she was 17.

The mom's still young and kinky

Good luck.

joechima:
I did the DNA test immediately after their birth cos I was worried but God was faithful.....

Congratulations.

Man spill it all out..... No holds barred

It's rather sad to hear such shameful stories.

I have a brother from another mother who has a policy.... A lady he is paying for sex must not enjoy the act, after all she is getting paid for an agreed service.

After pleasuring and smashing her, she will demand for pay. Is the pay for business or pleasure or business of pleasure or pleasure of business.

So it's annoying that the lady gets pleasure and gets paid for something that's mutually satisfying to both parties.

It's sad.

However, medically there are sex determination measures that can be practiced to improve the likelihood of having a boy.

Surely, your friend should have searched the net on such practices.

Or he could go for IVF........Sex determination is also handled in an advanced way.

Owing to the fact that your friend is blaming the wife, the level of enlightenment of your friend is called into question: it is what you put in, you get out.

It is like the law of the farm.

If he plants a boy, he gets a boy and vice versa.

No more, no less

So I was reading a thread about a one handed man that battered his lover because she refused him sex after he bought her a phone.

A nairalander advised: don't give a woman a gift you can't afford to forgo.

I will give you the same sort of advice.

Don't give a lady no matter how pretty she is that amount of affection that would lead to premium heartbreak and tears. So you can chest her antics.

Breakfast gets served daily.

Indeed he is crass and lack the demeanor that comes with the position of the governor of a state.

There is a lot of sound logic behind the postulations dropped here.

History has always repeated itself.

You do not need so much fancy words and sentences to make your point.

Communication is basically passing of information.

That been said, I do think you have a point there.

However, regardless of where these ladies find themselves, family and home upbringing plays an important part in the way these ladies will behave in the future

Nairaland na place to see psychiatric escapees.

Skyfornia:
Lovely... congratulations. To find a faithful partner in today's Nigeria is worth more than diamond. I wish you a blissful union brotherly. Where's the venue? I'd love to attend, probably I will see mine there too.

When you go marry. Sky?



Infact, when you go come east side?

Your mom should not chose a wife for you no matter the relationship you enjoy with her.

When it comes to human nature not everything is true and entire

At 5 months it's too early to start visiting your girlfriend at her family house. However, it's really up to you and your intentions. If they are pure and true. Go ahead rock the relationship till the wheels fall off.

My preference is for the relationship to grow on its own before any outside distraction.

Dating for marriage is a big deal.

Here are checklists before you walk down the aisle

1. Discuss parenting styles and raising kids. What kind of beliefs that will be instilled in your kids.

2. Dealing with family members and load of emotions that comes with it.

3. Dealing and accepting your flaws as a couple. How your want to run your relationship. How you want to get this done. Would you like a push, babysitter or a caregiver in the relationship. This is the main one. How you would handle matters as a couple generally.

4. Discuss your childhood trauma, sexual, financial, spiritual, family and partner expectations.

5. Discuss in detail how conflicts will be resolved.

6. Discuss and investigate family health history, family mental history and overall family inclinations...... Some families are notorious for hard work and industry, others maybe lazy or stealing.

7. Discuss dreams and aspirations, careers and even political views.


8. Infact discuss any nuance that comes to mind

1. Fat bank account gives me peace of mind and keeps my blood pressure normal.

2. I am a foodie..... Well prepared and spiced local soup with lots of meats, fish, shrimps and dry fish with akpu will do.

3. A babe with big ass massaging my sensibilities will just do.

4. An unhurried trip in a luxury toilet to decongest my tummy is sheer heaven.

Op, the fact of the matter should be what's your plan for a relationship that have spanned 3 years?

Is it a fūck fest?

Do you have well laid plans for the lady?

Did you discuss these plans her?

Certain men will date a woman while adding value to her.

I said value not throwing money at her.

These senseless pitfalls and traps most guys set for ladies to ditch them is tomfoolery.

Well, Romanoff have spoken my mind articulately

Men are scum, all they want to do is cum.

Op, it's your type that gives vawulent men like us a bad name

My late dad once told me.

Date a lady if pregnancy happens...... You can marry her.