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For a relationship to work, there is need for authenticity.

I have a very good friend. When we started it was awkward. But she responded with the same energy that I was giving her.........

If you enter a relationship with games in mind, it could go south.....

Everyone so far has spoken very well.

There is something else is like to add. But first, let me ask you this: all this while she has been with you without visiting you, do you think she isn't smashing someone else?

She is getting laid by someone else that's the bottom line.

You need to understand that in as much as you desire a woman, don't get emotional invested with her if she isn't into you.

You need to disconnect from her.

Lastly, I ain't going to lie. You have temper issues which is something you need to deal with and very fast.

No one likes a hot tempered person.

Namaster:
Of course it's possible for a 37-uear old tongue birth.

But are you INSANE?

What do you want with an aging, nagging, jealous woman WAAAY past her prime when you have a young and fresh 20-year old on lock?

Firstly, the 37-year old now has money while you're still jobless. How long do you think she's going to put up with that before she starts abusing you and your generation?

You met her at 35. Do you know how many exes she's had? How many abortions? Any possible complications with the abortion(s)? Do you know?

ALSO, are you ready for her to CONTROL you? She will determine who you can and cannot be friends with? Are you cool with that?

She's already 37. Next year, she'll be 38. If you marry her at 38 and she gets pregnant same year, your baby could come when she's 39 if you're lucky.

Now you must understand that as a woman ages, the risks involved in pregnancy is greater for both the mother and child.

Is that a risk you're willing to take?

Dump the jaded 37-year old and hold on to the 20-year old lady FOR NOW.

ALSO, are you INSANE?

Who thinks of marriage and starting a family without a job in the current economy?

Baby things are SUPER expensive right now.

REMOVE marriage from your mind and focus on getting a job or skill in the new year.

Op, if you have understanding then you should listen to this unpopular advice.

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4 things that will easily distract me in 2024

(1) Epileptic power supply
(2) Cash
(3) Social media
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(1) Reduce my Sugar intake
(2) Being overly nice and friendly
(3)Reduce my screen time
(4) Reduce procrastination

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