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Should that be an issue if the lady doesn't have ulterior motives?

In the words of Tupac: Here is the message to the young black male, protect themselves......you're precious

See money

Them don see your six pack.

Them conclude say you nor get dough

Guy, stop advertising your ineptitude here.

Go download Badoo and SIMPly sort yourself out. By the way, wipe off that sick smile on your face....it's making my phone hang

Go and take your medicine

However you choose to live your life should be your prerogative. Coming here to sound off doesn't add up. Be cool, dude.

Looks like something Kwale village deity refuse

For Sexual orientation and extracurricular activities

When it comes to making money online........ crushing it in the relationships niche brings cold Kesh. Doubt me Study case: Nairaland Romance Section.


Back to the matter at hand. Guy, when your lady has restricted you from viewing her status. It's time you restricted her from being part of your life.

There is something she wants some else to see, she doesn't want you to see. She wants to keep you in the dark, probably, she is double dating or something. You know what. It don't mean nothing. Restrict her and move on. She may have moved on but don't want to let you know. Just screw it and get on with your life. No Lady is worth your heartbreak

This redpill shit doesn't do justice though. I am for first and foremost for self awareness. There is a game people play behind the scene. Manipulative games at that played by male and female alike. Life generally is a game of appearances and what happens behind the scene is best left to the imagination.

Going after Ladies is fine but how about guys who try to sabotage guys like themselves. Shouldnt one be bothered about them too? Granted women are the mistresses of the game of power and money along with diplomacy and manipulation tied with the art of seduction. They were born handicapped. They had to reinvent how to play to win. But how do we deal with our parents, family members, friends and foes alike who play underhanded games with us? Who hide behind a mask and unleash mayham. You see, the scope goes beyond hating women. Hating by itself depletes you of your own energy without getting the job done and most times is rather counterproductive.

The game is simple: it's either you play it or be played upon. Being aware of the wiles of women and the ill will jealous men hold for each other changes the playing field.

Pūssy

Without beating around the bush, let me add this here:

In relationships regardless of the gender, it's important you watch closely who you spend much of your time with be it a guy or a girl. If the person isn't willing to go a mile or two for you when shit hits the fan, you are better off without each other.....simple.

There is Love, respect and loyalty....these are scarce resources as it seems. But the greatest is loyalty. Anyone can claim love but respect trumps it. Lots of guys get their hearts crushed because they fail to observe their close associates. The most difficult enemy to deal with is the one that in close embrace with you. Easy to back stab you with a dagger or lace your drink with poison. Your enemy may hate you but still respect you. Loyalty is on another level all together. It's fanatical.

So if a lady or a guy compromises on any of these, we split. No wasted energy.

The Bible said: Love your neighbor as YOURSELF. Loving yourself is a cardinal point and a pillar carrying the weight of a relationship especially when love with the opposite sex is involved.

Op, it is very clear that you do lack self love. So let me simplified this little matter for you.

Your mental peace should be defended ruthlessly.

Anyone regardless of who that person claims to be that plays with your peace of mind should be kept at bay.

There are so many red flags here.

A lady that has chosen anybody including prophet, boyfriend or whatever isn't worth a dime. Choosing another guy over you means she is cheating on you for that matter. And you shamelessly went back to beg severally.

Bro, is she the only one in the world? You are simply setting yourself up for a heartbreak. Trust me, you are her spare tyre that she uses when stranded and drops you when not needed. Put simply, she dey use you like toothpick to commot dirt. When she finish, she go throw you away.

It's better you salvage the little dignity you haven't been giving yourself and give yourself some respect

Forgodsgrace:
Anybody with viable/lucrative business ideas should contact me immediately.I am ready to invest at least 3m naira,so far it’s genuine,viable and profitable.

Eat up all you can about grass cutter farming......

........you will thank me later

This distraction is just what the federal government needs so they can go about their own bumbling objectives unobserved.


This is what it is.

The leadership of this country cannot protect it's citizen yet chasing after an unharmed man. What a misplaced priorities. This is what you get when you vote in clueless leaders.

So at this point in time, the honorable Judges without recourse decides to go on strike at this pivotal timeline in the history of this country. The energy and inactions of this government is just disturbing from kidnapping Nnamdi KANU at stupendous expense to deciding not to immediately prosecute him shades a glimpse into the twisted and diabolical machinations running the affairs of this country.


One cannot expect anything better from these hypocrites dishes out. The question really begging to be answered is this: if this government had put in this energy in clamping down on boko Haram and bandits, wouldn't Nigeria be a safe place to live especially at the north. The gun carrying terrorists have been handled with kids gloves albeit negotiated with. But should such happen in the south, they would launch full scale war on men, women and children.
Misplaced priorities

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Widkid does his talking in the studio and we feel his greatness on the music sphere. A Grammy award winner without being snotty like Burna boy. No drama no noise yet delivers like a mid wife

In this country with the bandits and book haram on a collision course, kidnapping and loss of life the order of the day, one confused fellow decides to open a thread about another confused lady.

Wahala be like bicycle, e no dey hard to start

Sound sultan has finally gone the way of all flesh.

It's heart breaking to see your loved one gone and about to be committed to mother earth

So say you need money in exchange for your services