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Truthabulabula:Unchain yourself. |
This sounds far-fetched |
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![]() Dump her ass like an annoying attitude. I don't have a problem with him but the girlfriend that encouraged him till it became an entanglement |
Truthabulabula:You come sign arrangements |
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![]() The guy above me has said it all. |
![]() Let me get this straight. You are out of this country? You are not without a job? And she is based in Nigeria and while at that constructed an agreement with you duly signed. You also found out about the main man. And you accepted being the one loved out of pity. Something fishy is going on....... How did you sign that document when you aint in Nigeria? Your story nor dey add up. Besides you pay her maintenance while another man dey do bodywork |
![]() Warren Buffet, arguably one of the richest men in the world, once said: honesty is an expensive gift, never expect it from cheap people. It is fair to paraphrase trust as in this breath. While I see your point which do holds true, trust still remains the foundation of virtually every relationship. It is quite unfortunate, relationships these days lack the virtues of trust, loyalty and honesty. A person who has the mark of loyalty surely is one stamped with the mark of trust. The childlike trust a child has for the mother is born out of an unending show of love and devotion spanning lots of years. You cannot really be in a relationship with a woman who you only trust her loyalty. Trust her loyalty is a play on words but in the same token highlights the fact that loyalty and trust go hand in hand. By the way, What are the parameters you use to gauge loyalty. Certainly, it can't be one that involves looking over her back. As far as it goes, checking up on her all the time on a lady is indeed a recipe for high blood pressure. What I find true that has withstood the test of time is to find a lady who loves you. How you know this is beyond the scope of this discourse. Get such a woman and your matter of trust and loyalty is sorted out. Another matter is studying the parents. Take my word for it: they play a part in fashioning the character of their kids. On a final thought. That lady you claim that she is loyal and obedient actually loves you. And you may not accept this: you actually trust her. |
Goalnaldo:Thanks. You are far too kind |
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![]() I don't see any consequences of him taking a chance on her and marrying her. But that's gonna create an unwanted rife with his family. Is he willing to go that far for her? Basically it is expected that he investigates why the mother's bride price wasn't paid. He should find an unbiased history about what went down. Because such matters will have an impact on his relationship with the lady. Yeah, family heritage and culture pays a part here. |
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![]() No wonder all the goats around your place dey wear pampers |
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![]() 20hrs. Met inside the bus. We connected. She invited me to her place. We had a roll in the hay. Next morning, I took a walk and never looked back |
![]() This matter has not gotten to the point of sending her away. Do you have a marriage sponsor? It's time to get them involved. Also you need to call a meeting among the elders to iron out house keeping and management. It is usually a male ego thing as well as a societal responsibility forced on men but at this age, it's not out of place for a woman to contribute to the needs of the family. It's imperative that she contributes to the family welfare or at least she takes care of herself alone this should include her clothing, needs and paying for her shop. If she cant afford to pay for herself it spells she doesn't know what she doing and the shop should be closed. About her insulting you, she should be warned in the strictest manner possible that a repeat cannot be tolerated. On a final note, It's obvious you didn't know what you were getting into. Her asking about your salary and demanding for a shop should have raised red flags. But I can guess you got carried away. It's not wise to spend so lavishly on a wedding when you could have had her choose between wedding and a shop. Your wife is a selfish woman. I hope the elders from both family can resolve this matter. Your marriage is too young for such misunderstanding |
![]() Anger in whatever form it manifests itself is counterproductive |
Kelvin581:Typo. So use her guilty conscience as a means to date her |
Young man, in life you have to know what you want and learn to manipulate situation to work in your favor. Since she fumbled, use that as an angle to get her closer. Set some ground rules too. And since you want to date, so her guilt to date her |
Theagnosticdude: |
![]() It's a weird world |
![]() I wonder the kind of rudderless kids handling smart phone these days. How can you be this clueless? What prompted you to break up with her? Does she love you? If she still loves you then it's fine. Unbreak up with her and still love her as you have always done You didn't leave enough details here. |
The power to make a stupendous amount of money |
![]() What a loss to the family of the boy. Little man went in search of his daily bread and lost his life |
What's the rationale behind all this? I bet they didn't flog your weirdness off you. |
![]() Cheese and crackers! It's downright crude going for a stickup. These guys signed their death warrant the moment they stepped out to Rob. What a way to make an exit. Sadly, the bullion van gang of thieves stealing with the pen remain celebrated. Ah, indeed that old saying holds true: the pen is lighter than the sword |
Sadly the entitlement mentality of ladies this part of the world has gone off the roof. It still beats my imagination that at this age ladies see men as a meal ticket and a means to the good life. I am sorry I have to say this: your kitty Kat ain't a office |
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Since we are talking about fantasies........ I have none |
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