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dlordy100:
awon motivational speaker hope u give them a better life rather than hoping to sell them off to who get money as a way to augment ur poverty stricken life

It's really amazing how people like you think. Maybe as a result of watching too many Nollywood half baked movies. You have arrived at the conclusion that every rich kid must marry a house girl. That only happens in your dreams and fairy tale stories. But not actually in real life.


So because I don't want my daughter to marry a pauper, you have jumped to the conclusion that I want to sell her off. Is that how your mum and sisters were sold off? Is that how your dad gets his pay day?


What nonsense.

Ogaonos:
smh.as if white pple use money to buy true love.white ladies dnt leave a man because his broke or having financial challenges.didnt you see white ladies buying ps5 for their men.which naija lady will do that. am in naija but more refined than you.is poverty mentality pple like you that place too much emphasis on money in relationship.Have met beautiful rich ladies that doesnt act that way.

Stop advertising your stupidity.


Step out of the shores of your country.


Life doesn't revolve around your shithole of a country

Toks2008:
If I were you I will bail her out now by advising her to strive for financial independence so that she won't make it a do or die thing to be with a rich guy...

Wealth is a continuum and most young guys in their late 20s or early 30s are still developing their wealth so it will be unrealistic for her to make that a criterion

This is by far the most matured talk all day.


Bro, I am well vested in financial education.

Thank you all the same

Ogaonos:
sharapp.there.gold digger..if u be guy and Ur thinking is money buy true love and happy marriage I pity u.in every marriage of 20 to 30yrs there always a time where money no go too dey.esp. in Nigeria economic nature.that when u knw whether u get wife or stranger.

What makes you think I reside in Nigeria?

Take your frustration outta my mentions

Nuel4:
you talk like a child who has never experienced anything in life.

You spewed this because this is a faceless forum. Debate a case with facts and don't be sentimental. What do you know about life? Eating from hand to mouth. Watching your kids and wondering how to make them better.


Have you started businesses and watch them fail?

Have had a difficult upbringing and success isn't a option but a must.


You are the child here.

Nuel4:
you talk like a child who has never experienced anything in life.

You spewed this because this is a faceless forum. Debate a case with facts and don't be sentimental.

There aren't no loyal people anymore.

Even your shadow leaves you in a bright light.

victons:
Your comment is quite silly, what is loyalty all about? If everyone jumps to the moving train.
Is the girl disabled to provide money to support her guy?
This is a guy who have always provided for her, and she lacked nothing for 2years.
She suddenly dumbs and block him.
Well, your daughters shouldn't marry a pauper but train them to be of value to have something to offer.

Your comment just reeks of immaturity, next time add some decorum.


Last time I checked, freedom of movement and free association still exists.

And you must have heard guys scream their lungs those hōes ain't loyal. That's the reality. Deal with that and don't come to my mentions like a crybaby.

Toks2008:
Just one question..

What if the rich guy your daughter marries becomes poor?

What happens?

I bail my daughter out. This is marriage not some frivolous affair.

Nuel4:
with all due respect bro, you are talking nonsense. He said he got retrenched from work and all the fool could do was block him and you are here talking this nonsense?
What if they got married while he was financially buoyant but got sacked from his work place or experienced real time disaster and became broke? That's how she would have run away with another guy and you see nothing wrong with that?

Even Peter abandoned Our Lord Jesus.

Toughened up and stop drinking paracetamol for an inconsequential matter.

francisbarrack:
Situation change. Wat if financial crisis arises ?

That's the matter between the couple to sort over. If one of them wanna bounce, would you put that person in bondage under the guise of a relationship.

Baiser:
Bros, I don't think you understand the morals of the post.

Nobody plan to suffer.


Life is up and down.
Today you are up, she's with you.
Tomorrow if you down, are u saying its okay for her to leave you?

I understand the morals. Guys need to take a chill pill. HE WHO FINDS A GOOD WIFE OBTAINED FAVOR FROM GOD. There is a search about this.

Guys should man up and stop being crybabies

Angelfrost:
You are not only confused, but also confusing others in your hypocrisy! Read the part I highlighted again... You basically negated everything with that statement.

You said the rich marry the rich... How many Nigeria spinsters are rich?!! Scratch that... How many of them even have something akin to an income??!... Is what is good for the goose no longer good for the gander, and vice versa??!

While I equally see nothing wrong in a lady breaking up a relationship on the grounds of financial inadequacy, let's stop acting like it is solely a man's duty to build a financial legacy for a relationship... That's unusually backward thinking, and pathetic to say the least.

It's such mindset that has made the average Nigerian lady a liability in most relationships and marriage.

While I will also not allow my daughters marry paupers, it will solely be because I will raise hardworking career and well to do women, who can hold their own in a male dominated elite world... I will raise independent women who won't be liabilities to men with an entitlement mentality... The kind of women deserving of equally hardworking and wealthy men.

Would it take anything from you making your point without insults.


Whatever you chose to see in the society is your prerogative. The families of Buhari, El Rufai et al married into rich families. The news was all over the place. Why would such stupendously rich folks marry themselves? So where did your rich spinsters come from? Such warped sentimentality doesn't change facts

But agreeing with me that your daughter wouldn't marry a pauper makes you a confused one.

Maybe your family prides themselves with penury which is not bad

But restrict your caustic thinking to yourself.

OcVoice:
Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.

I had since moved on though.


I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.

God will help our generation!

Sorry, my man.

I can relate to the depth of the excruciating pain you went through.

Men and women alike are soulless.

No joy, no love.

Well I am feel compelled to drop my input here.

I may seem callous but who suffer epp?
Na who see fish wey dem put for im mouth, e spit am troway?

It's high time guys understand how these things work. You don't slither into a relationship when you wallet is as flat as mama Femi bedroom slippers booby.

You don't force people into relationships and make them suffer. Ever wondered why the rich marry the rich? Everyone wants financial security.

Brothers, make una go update una sef and stop screaming women love money.

No daughter of mine is going to marry a pauper


My G below get no chill. If you dey work and you see better job, you nor go update?

Op, your allocation in life depends on your location.

I am going to take and unusual stand. Do you know that setbacks do happen based on the sexual relationships you indulge in?

Why don't you give yourself a breather on this relationship thing?

It's brutal breaking up with her. But you have to think about yourself here. If you had married her, you take her for deliverance.

You don't pamper matters that pertains to your wellbeing

After you stop squirting, your time has cum

It's not going to be a simple answer.

But one thing is for sure, someone or some other more important than you is on her mind.

You would not except her to be all over you but a lady who really cares would not want to be coy about it.

If you have always initiated every calls and spend most of your time doing all the weight lifting in the relationship....Guy you are dating yourself.

Nice one!

When you look at Yul Edochie, you see flashes of Pete Edochie.

JAMO84:
Anyone who has lived or lives in the north east between 2009 and now would know what this general is talking about.

You really need to explain this

Temptee101:
It's not just about this year ending, alot needs to be change, else it continues next year.

Life is becoming meaningless in Nigeria.

Nigeria is finished.

Take it or leave it.

Very apt. You are on point here. Sadly we are in an era similar to dictatorship cloaked in the finery of democracy.

devfolorunso:
Well, that is because there other options like node js, go, and c#.

But I'll say that everything depends on the application's requirements.

Thanks

There is a compendium of information available on the interest with a click of a button.

However, I will urge you to mix pain and pleasure in the relationship.

Adopt withdrawal sometimes and other times shower her love.

Be unpredictable.

Be fun.

Be caring.

Be creative.

Stay in control.

Maintain your personal space and be aloof.

But in all don't lose yourself.

virginprincess:
I kind of agree with you, but such men are rare.

Women of such class are rare too.

It's alright for women to be their own boss and all that jazz. But when you are in a relationship, you let your femininity speak. There are lots of untapped power in the ability of a woman to influence a man. A woman that has mastered this doesn't even until to be a feminist. Your man falls like a pack of cards.

The man may be the head but you are the neck and you control the head like a swivel chair. That's balance of power.

The way people dey die left, right and centre; can this year just end already?


Just to stay alive is the new measure of success.

This is just dead on arrival.

What government experiments with its peoples lives?

And to think about the amount of money pumped into the service chiefs pockets to ensure security of lives and properties.

A question that begs to be answered is why are all the service chiefs from one particular part of the country. Isn't there some form of collusion among them? No checks and balance. Isn't all these systematic killings not part of a sinister grand strategy to unleash untold mayhem?