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TSBO:
Lol.. On the contrary, I don't think it's "impossible", just rare.

Wake me up when you do

My candid advice?

Kick her fickle ass out. No time for drama queens. Life's too short.

My two cents:

It's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for the aforementioned to happen.

Somebody wake me up if that happens

Let me get to the issue at hand straight away. Bro, if you want to live long, swerve away from that lady.

Work something out for your twins without that lady.

Believe me, I know what a nagging woman can do to a man

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Look on lala's face when he sees snake

CousinWife:
Thank you, I know I’m to flee.. but how. I need a better strategy to handle this.

You should plan your exit. You know your way around. At all cost, don't do the lady dirt. Make up some story as you bounce

I am going to give you a timeless advice. In the Bible, it's says: flee fornication and youth lust.

It's plain simple: Run.

There ain't no negotiations here when it comes to such matters.

Op, like someone upstairs commented, if she hasn't physically molested you, better hold your peace. It's worthy of note that you find her physically appealing, but truth is you are the one that's lusting after her.

It's commendable though that you hold your cousin in high regard. And you have shown restraint. Mind you women like the power they have over men. So thread with caution. Whatever you do, don't smash.

Being a doubting Thomas has no moral lesson attached to it. Just verify or keep it zipped.

The matter at hand is indeed a grave one. The Good book says: He that finds a good wife obtained favor from God. The rise and fall of many great men has been as a result of their choice of women.

So choose your woman wisely. Monitor, investigate and don't forget to test fūck drive.

I don't want to hear stories that touch.

Redpill is like okirika cloth market. Don't be a critic of this philosophy. Just bend down and pick what works for you.

Shortyy:
It's not that easy Bros. A lot of things will trigger whatever he went through. Thereby, frustrating any efforts he tries to move further.

It takes a lot of strength and courage to overcome PTSD.

For example now, he might be at a work place and see someone that looks like his ex pass, he'll become depressed immediately, and whatever zeal he had at that moment will die.
Insomnia, emotional stress, fear, low self-esteem, are just some of the things he'd be battling.

I get your point though, he had to move on nonetheless, but it's not gonna be easy. For some it'll take them years to get over it.

That's deep. You speak from experience though.

Shortyy:
See, it's not always about getting a job here. He's suffering from PTSD and he either talks to a therapist to cure himself or work it out himself. It will take time, but he'll pull through.

You are probably right. The society today focuses so much on results that nothing else matter. But still the question that requires introspection is how did he let himself fall so low?

It's terrifying to be in relationships these days with girls and guys been woke. Trust is but a pawn, used to gain an edge and disposed like a worthless sanitary pad.

He should first of all focus on little steps to get himself out of the rut he has found himself. Build himself as a man. Heal. Get his confidence back. Get a hustle that pays. Only then, would having a woman matter.

And I was decried when I said the rich married the rich.

The super rich didn't get rich by happenstance. They got there by cunning and deliberate actions.

Godada:





Well I am feel compelled to drop my input here.

I may seem callous but who suffer epp?
Na who see fish wey dem put for im mouth, e spit am troway?

It's high time guys understand how these things work. You don't slither into a relationship when you wallet is as flat as mama Femi bedroom slippers booby.

You don't force people into relationships and make them suffer. Ever wondered why the rich marry the rich? Everyone wants financial security.

Brothers, make una go update una sef and stop screaming women love money.

No daughter of mine is going to marry a pauper


My G below get no chill. If you dey work and you see better job, you nor go update?

matthewbrian150:
Keep displaying your studipity. The little change you think you have is what is disturbing your childish brain. Irredeemable fool

Like I said go and argue with your broke dad.

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lexy2014:
Money is important in of life's endeavor, but as far as marriage is concerned, money doesn't guarantee d presence of love. Unless, u want to carry prostitutes& think u in a relationship, then money will sustain d "relationship". But when d money supply shrinks, that's when u will no ur real status.

From d story, d guy didn't "slither into a relationship when you wallet is as flat as mama Femi bedroom slippers booby" and I don't see where he forced d lady. Shit happens& it happened to d guy& then it became obvious that his "relationship" was built upon sand.

D rich marry d rich but poor girls are expecting their fellow "poor" male companions to provide what d rich will provide for themselves. Isn't this a case of biting more than u can chew? If a woman wants comfort, let her go hustle so she doesn't start making unnecessary demands.

Guys actually need to wake up & not let their desperation for sex prevent from selecting ladies with some brain

You spoke well.

matthewbrian150:
You and all those who liked your post have jelly brains. I can't believe someone can actually post something so stupid on a public forum. No wonder crime is the new norm in the country.

Your asininity is hereditary. Go argue that with your broke and henpecked dad

Ogaonos:
� a Shithole country DT don jazzy,wizkid ,olamide,2face,phyno all made money and are staying in.even nairaland u are in is in the Shithole.so what are u doing here on nairaland that in the shithole country smh.

You mentioned these fine global people without mentioning yourself. You are as low in confidence as the money in your pocket.

dlordy100:
please can u summarize please couldn't assimilate anything from ur gibberish write-up

In summary, you are a pathetic fool

dlordy100:
in fact you're even gullible to think making money is meant for guys alone mugu very senseless too

You are actually lack comprehension skills. You didn't see where I wrote the rich marry the rich. You started masturbated about guys making money.

Dey there papa jazz man, make your wife go sell her puna take feed you. Or is it that your mum is your bread winner?

One wonders whatever happens to the man being the bread winner. When Boss Ladies spring up, you guys scream your brains off about feminist.