₦airaland Forum

2SWT:
The comments here are pathetic
What's wrong with you guys?

Can a lady not decide what she wants?
Mr. godfrey01 did she force you into the relationship? She has made her decision you either stick with it or leave so that someone who appreciates her would come in

Rule. For someone that is not a virgin. If she is a virgin that's understandable. For a non-virgin haba sis reason am nna. Have been spending and from what I am seeing now, she has nothing to offer in the relationship. Have called it a quit already...

Regiomontanus:
Do you give her money?

I gave her whatever she wants.. And it's like I am on the losing part.

hello nairalanders. especially married men in the house. please I have this one issue bothering my heart and I need your opinions and contributions. I have this girl I have been going out with since 2017, we have been in a two years relationship and going to three years now, I don't have any other issue with her outside these two thinnggs 1: NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. 2. Since this two years relationship, we have never spent 1hours 30 minutes together. reason being that she always claim to be busy. and when ever she visits she is always in a haste to go back home. I give her what she needs. whats your opinion about no sex before marriage. whats your thought about it.

Bro, start biz and if you have enough money from you biz, go for part time. Everybody must not go to school... Check out majority of the successful people in your area, how many of them are graduates?

roock:
Hello friends...will be brief..i am 32 and in a relationship with a lady of 20.We ve been together for close to two years now..She is what every man Wud want as regards the features of a mother..very Prayerful and highly spiritual, reasons fine for her age and very intelligent accademically..we get along well. She is still a virgin as we agreed from the onset to abstain form premarital sex and by His grace we ve kept to it although sometimes we do yield to the desires of the flesh and engage in varrious degrees of romance aside sex..The point is that I am a graduate currently working and wish to settle down as the first child and can't think of anyone else than my girl.She has been selective to courses and this lead to her loosing two accdemic seesions.as it is now she is yet to get into the university by september this year .Her father, from my little knowladge of him, wud want her educated bfre marriage cos he is so proud of her and believes so much in her feauture. I have just about a year to settle down and begin to raise my own home and may not be able to wait for her to go through school.secondly she is physically not beautiful to my taste and this makes me not want to take her Out on dates..accept her before friends etc..i have discovered that am not proud of her especially in public and that also makes me react to little things she does..She cheks on me every now and then and tries to support me in every way she can.she also calls me to the point i even feel disturbed..I fear if i end up with her..i might still treat her like she is nothing.She luvs me very well but i cant say same of me..please what should i do?

OP MY OWN OPINION. PAY HER BRIDE PRICE BEFORE SHE GOES TO SCHOOL. WILL YOU BE PART OF HER SPONSORSHIP DURING THE EDUCATION PERIOD? IF YES PAY HER BRIDE PRICE IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE HER. I BET YOU AS SOON AS SHE GETS INTO SCHOOL, YOU WILL BE FORGONE. HER EYES WILL BE OPEN TO THE OUTSIDE WORLD AND SHE WILL DO WHATEVER SHE LIKES AND YOU WILL. BE ON THE LOSING PART COS SHE WILL BE COLLECTING MONEY FROM YOU AND HAVE A SCHOOL GUY WHO WILL BE BLEEPING HER. AND AGAIN IF SHE GO SCHOOL AND ASK YOU TO WAIT TILL SHE GRADUATES BEFORE YOU MARRY HER, BY THEN YOU WILL BE CLOCKING ALMOST 40.. OR 39 AND WHICH IS NOT IDEAL. NOW COME TO THE ISSUE OF NOT BEING ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR EYES, WERE YOU BLIND BEFORE YOU APPROACHED HER? IF YOU KNOW YOU DON'T LOVE HER BETTER TELL HER NOW, NOT WHEN SHE DON GET ADMISSION, YOU GO CON BREAK HER HEART, BECAUSE IF SHE IS THE TRUE TYPE YOU MENTIONED (PRAYERFUL AND SPIRITUAL) SHE MIGHT BE TRAUMATISED DUE TO HEART BREAK

Mrluv:
I woke one morning and discover my phone touch pad was not responding to touch.I though it is virus so i format the phone still the touch pad is not responding.so the next the day i take it to this engineer .he charge me 2k and said i should come the next day.I went there to collect the phone the first thing i first notice was the back cover was not closing well.I complain to him he said that is how i brought it .I went home with the phone to insert my sim.when got home gbam nepa has taken light. I try to use the torch light of the phone the torch light of the phone is no longer working .now this so call engineer has add more problem to the phone. torch light, back camera,and the phone speaker all are no longer working. i went there to complain to him. he said it is because i flash the phone that why the phone is having spiritual problem now. am just confusing can flashing cause all this problem?

Go buy another phone... That engineer Don kill your phone

Nairaland as far as I can remember this video is over a year now. You are part of the people causing problem in this country. You dig past issues. As as the time it's happening you don't show it or post it. People will be thinking now that is is recent... Anyways nairaland is not the only place for getting information. But what I am. Saying, you post old news..

Mikepenny5:
You kill your brother cos of woman and the woman will continue her escapades

Killed the woman's brother...., or na me nor understand the english

I totally disagree with her on this. How can she be saying fulani herds men kidnapped her. An insider from your house hold kidnapped you. Where did kidnapping started from? NIGER DELTA CREEKS (AND THEY DID THIS TO OIL WORKERS WHOSE EMPLOYERS WERE NOT REMITING/DEVELOPING THE COMMUNITY WHERE OIL WELL RESIDES. And even if it is the herdsmen that kidnapped her, who gave them the information? ( an insider from your church or house hold which probably is from the west or south.) let's stop accusing the Northerners for what they no nothing about. Was Evans who has kidnapped many victims a Northerner? Use your brain Christians. The people that are spoiling the North are those from the west, south and East. Their ground is no longer favourable for them again, so they bring their criminal attitude to poison the Northerners and also poison the north ground. Before you accuse someone of anything, think deeply. I am not a northerner, but we should stop pointing accusing finger,. Who knows you might just be accusing someone wrongly just like the Case of the young uniport boys that lost their lives through jungle justice by the same residents of Porthacourt. Pastor today is Sunday and stop pointing fingers. Give your testimony and Thank God you are alive..

i swear graduates nor dey earn this cash

Moneystopnonsen:
������� been there. Resigned after just 1 month. Entered a business many friends told me is too downgrading for a petroleum engineer. Today them still dey find job. While the job don marry me wife, 2 children, a car and a double axle truck.

Resign

BRO which business you start..... There is love in sharing ideas if it's a profitable one..

kulreal:
I've been trying to find someone to share what I'm passing through right now with but I can't just find any, perhaps not to feel ridiculed or I don't just get; reason for coming on this forum.

I'm currently seeking admission into one of the federal universities here in Nigeria but unable to decide which course to go for due to my deficit knowledge of what the future holds.
Though from the outset of my Jamb registration early this year, I planned going for medical laboratory science but right now I'm just confused due to the age factor. I'm 23 years old presently and MLS is 5 years course (provided no strike) + 1 year internship + 1 year service making total of 7 years. Adding this to my age, I'd be 30 years by the time I'm done.
So to avoid this, I want to change to pure and industrial chemistry which is 4 years + 1 year service meaning by the time I'm done I'd be 28 years.
Now my questions are:
1) Assuming I go for MLS and considering my age after service, will I still be considered employable in the job market?
2) Also if I decided to change to PIC, what does the future holds cus I do hear most of their graduates are into teaching?
Thanks for your time and invaluable responses

You didn't say if you are a male or female. Or. May be I didn't read that line.. My short advice for you, go learn work.. Everybody must not go to school. Imagine a banker counting millions that does not belong to him or her. Rather it belongs to those people way get hand work. Making it in life is not by going to school. Except may be you want to be tie down. But considering your age, thank God you Don do the calculation... So you reason am by yourself. Them nor dey tell blind man say rain dey fall.

SirWhiteFish:
I looked back at the beginning of this year, precisely 14th January 2019 when I started working at a private primary school. Three weeks later, I was told that I had to be taking two primary five students extra lessons after closing (3pm), and the pay was 1k each. With my monthly salary which was 13,000 added to the "1k" each makes 15 thousand.

You would think I earned 13k for three months abi! No I didn't. The first salary I got was the half of 13k. The woman just called the staff on the 28th of January and gave me 6.5k. I had no idea what was going on and I thought she was going to balance up at the beginning of February just like she said while addressing us but it was a lie. it was at the end of the term, the third month April, that I got to know I am being ripped off. She said she was going to pay 5000 naira at the end of the term as salary because school opened for just 10 days. It was the greatest shock of my life. A graduate, a grown up man like me, taking 5000 naira home!!
I wanted to leave but I couldn't because I wouldn't be paid for the common entrance lesson and I had not gotten any other opportunities elsewhere.

Sometimes in early February, She called me that I would be handling primary 5 Common entrance lessons which is meant to hold every Saturday and at the end of the third term the money will be shared between Me, a staff that partners me and the proprietress. She said the money will be shared 60%(I and another man) to 40%(the proprietress). The formula was very unfair and strange to me. The sharing formula seemed very strange to me and I challenged it but she enforced it.

Fast forward to early this month, precisely 3rd of July, the proprietress started acting strange and insulting all the workers and all that. The following week she sent one of the oldest staff by to inquire what will be the staff reaction if they are not paid at the end if the term. The staff said they won't agree to such and some even threaten various actions. Fast forward to Thursday 25th of July, vacation day. the woman started up a plethora of complaints deliberately she said she was going to pay 4000 as July salary. The same thing she did at the end of second term. At the end she ended up not paying a dime. She didn't pay any of us. Not even the common entrance lesson which made me stay.

I cried and stayed inside throughout Friday. I had a deep thinking, with my academic background! Was it that I didn't know my worth? with all my struggles to be successful academically I am now slaving in one private school for a paltry sum of 15k, money wey I no fit cope with as an undergraduate! Money wey be say no reach my NYSC allawe!
I really feel for graduates going through phases like this. I really feel for graduates teaching at private schools. I pray better days finds you and I soon.

THIS IS Nigeria for you..... But frankly speaking, it depends on the personality of the woman. I have once worked with an ibo woman who owns a school. She pays frequently as at when due. But frankly speaking teaching work nor be work my brother. It's just because of the situation of the country that graduates are going into teaching. My little piece of advice if you have a skill, join it with your teaching job... 15k a month for this 2019, no oh..

Albert44:
With #70k start up u are good to go in the business idea I will show u and u will make daily income. Try it and u will want to invest more. For integrity sake the funds will be in ur control while u pay me based on percentage . Check my contact on my signature and chat me up.

What business is that

Bro if I were you, I will forget about school. laslaslas school na scam. Imagine after going back to school. someone will be pricing your services for 20k, 25k. and even less than 30k. my geee get what you know how to do best. Invest in yourself. I would have long gone for my masters programme but even those who have had their masters they follow us dey drag change for the society. My own opinion, that money you wan go spend for school, use am start business, or better give me make i add am join waitin I get to start business.

check today's date and check what was sent to you. common sense will telll you its not real. except the date on my phone is not correct.

Blackmiserable:
Oh, thanks bro. Thanks! So you mean you guys just registered online?

Thank you sir, but when is the documentation?

I guess they are still going to write exams right?

Documentation is from 1st July to 18th July.. And the exam is 3rd August...

Blackmiserable:
Guy, I didn't apply for police job, but can I take the bull by the horn?

Should I go to my state capital for the screening, and when is it?

I have a Bsc. with discharge certificate.

You are free to try bro. But candidate were asked to come with a printout of the message sent to them and also a printout of the information sent to their mail immediately they submitted their application online and lastly, come along with phone containing the registered number you used for the registration. But bro just give it a trial and see how it goes. It's documentation and not exam

Nwibii:
Pls can u pls forward it y the mail? nwibiisn@gmail.com or my WhatsApp number 08161245018

I have sent it.. Please can you reply me via that same. Mail with a soft copy of the guarantor form or a scanned copy if you have. A blank one to be precise

IBNTIJJANI:
drop ur Whatsapp number I will send it to you

07059603874

IBNTIJJANI:
pls send the mail

I need a copy of the guarantor form. Empty one to be precise.. Lost my files in my laptop early this year and as such could not have access to the one I Downloaded. If you have it, quote me back...

Nwibii:
I just got this SMS from police yesterday 21 inviting me for an exercise which will commerce in my state. But I can't fine anything in my mail.
The message reads"You?re invited 2 2019 Police Rec. Exercise 2 take place in ur state capital. Pls check ur mail & state command 4 further info".
Pls assist mods.

I got the mail but didnt get the sms
. Have been ask to come with a copy of the mail on that said date. Mention me back so that I can give you full details of what's inside the mail...

Nairaland, you people don't have current Gist again. I watched this video long long ago.. Almost 5 months back..

Look at the idiot sayimg he will pay when he get his wardrobe allowance.. My opinion is that he should be replaced with immediate effect.

Greetings, good news for you. Have you been looking for how to get instant cash into your bank account? Worry no more. There is this app that gives instant loan straight into your bank account irrespective of where you are in Nigeria. All you just need to do is click on this link, https://branch.co/download/gbxq3t Get the Branch app: and install it in your phone, register and Be sure to enter promo code gbxq3t to get your instant first cash wired straight into your bank account. Its real, this one nor be say them say, just try it now and see the magic,

Greetings, good news for you. Have you been looking for how to get instant cash into your bank account? Worry no more. There is this app that gives instant loan straight into your bank account irrespective of where you are in Nigeria. All you just need to do is click on this link, https://branch.co/download/gbxq3t Get the Branch app: and install it in your phone, register and Be sure to enter promo code gbxq3t to get your instant first cash wired straight into your bank account. Its real, this one nor be say them say, just try it now and see the magic,

Is it only drugs we take.. What happened to gino sachet tomatoes. I bought this yesterday to cook stew on to see a rotten paste inside the sachet with expiry date of 2020..gino Maggic