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Fareee123:
he doesn't go clubbing, I see texts of girls giving him green lights,but he is good at ignoring them,I'm not saying he's perfect, but I haven't caught him cheat

See babe ur guy is an introvert and u the other, I will advice u to work more on communicating with him don't hide ur feelings always let him know, if that's all u can discuss with him n he will listen pls continue. And remember to always praise him n thank, if u can ve patience u will enjoy a blissful relationship with him.

Sweeetheart:



in another thread a lady relationship hit the wall because she's introvert but here I'm reading an extrovert complaining of her guy introvert attitude


if this guy don't flirt or smoke, hanged out with friends in club etc then I see no reason why you should be worried about him not calling you. you duo should face academic

if he's an academia, I mean lover of book, you won't expect him to abandoned that for feelings that had been established


I want to believe if him fvcking you timelessly is what's dropping the feelings, he won't have value for you, not to talk of taking care of your needs


at 21, you're still young even if anything happen aftermath you'll be fine. just focus on your study so as not to lose on two sides

Tiri gbosa for u!!!

BlackboiNero:
Nothing to talk na. Maybe he's not the type that always sees something to talk about on the phone but I bet he might be a talkative in person. That one no mean say he no love you. Try to find a lot of things to discuss with him, no dey wait for am to dey do all the calls and talking...

I love this

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

see there is nothing like d right one or wrong one..I will advice end it now, because whether d prophesy is true or not , the Spiritual parties involved have already change the cause of ur life and what u want since u involved them unknowingly, they may want some calamities to befall u just to prove a point.
Or if any natural bad thing happens along d line u will see as a sign and start doubting ur decision. From what I can tell u re not strong in religious (what ever u believe in) so pls free the babe abeg. Make u carry ur spirituality for head

omoadeleye:
This woman no get brain... We no dey talk thrash to a king, oba ba ni ori owun gbogbo

Nonsense, oba wey no get brain

imiski:
I blame Buhari for this-don't ask me why.

. Why ogbeni, why Buhari

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mruwazie:
pls i have a micronesia Touris Visa, do i need a transit visa for any other country in other to connect micronesia? Or is there any country I can transit through without a transit visa? Thanks. Pls I need your reply ASAP

U need a transit Visa, maybe phillipines

Bia! ogbeni! She confessed not caught
Oversabi ppl

TonyeBarcanista:
Stop mentioning God!

Every man must face the consequences his his action! She Cheated, she didn't do evangelism!

She was caught, she didn't voluntarily confess!

NB: If I was her ex I won't cut off all forms of communication with her completely

By the way stop mentioning ex they never ex yet!

WackyJ1:
It's difficult because We have been there before.
I have forgiven a cheating girlfriend several times and I have heard several confessions, admissions of Guilt and Admissions of a desire to change but guess what. It didn't end well. The person had not changed.

I will never do it again because for it to happen the first time and according to you 4 different times, then it means that the girl doesn't Love me or respect me enough regardless of whatever words come from her mouth.

Secondly, Let's take a breakdown look at your actions from what you have told us here
For a smart man, if you told the full confession to your man just as you had told us here then there are certain things that will not help your case at all with him. And I am going to explain to you in a way that no one on this thread has.

1. The fact that it didn't happen just once, not twice not thrice but FOUR TIMES.
You didn't repent the first time, you didn't repent the second time, you still went to enjoy it the third time until something happened the fourth time that made you stop.
It is easier to understand that it was a mistake if it happened just once, but the fact that it happened 4 times, removes any defense that it was just a mistake.
I had a female friend who cheated on her boyfriend with another guy in a car then. She actually enjoyed car sex and she cried and confessed the next day but you? You enjoyed it 4 more times before your senses came.

I'm sorry but I don't believe your moment of weakness storyline. It is not plausible and if your boyfriend reasons like me then you don't stand a chance.

But I am not done, let's move on.

2. The fact that it was a married man did not even stop you. If you had cheated with a single guy that would have been a different thing. Your case is more than just betraying a man, your ex-boyfriend, you also betrayed another woman's marriage. It shows an underlying lack of conscience. Once again the fact that your conscience/guilt did not kick in until you had enjoyed the forbidden fruit 4 times shows that underneath, deep down, regardless of whatever you might think of yourself as a good person and all that, there is something there that is dangerous.

Once again, if it was just once then perhaps we can understand your Moment of weakness angle but the fact that you did it 4 times with another woman's husband and that, that fact didn't stop you from going back the third and fourth time means that there is more to it than the moment of weakness angle that you are playing.

3. You had sex in a car.
This part is a painful part for the man because it shows a general lack of respect for yourself. Car sex to the imagination of someone who is not involved in it looks degrading to the parties involved. Now, this is where you have lied to us, to your boyfriend and probably to yourself.


Are you explaining the first incident or all the other incidences? If sleeping with him in the car was because it wasn't premeditated then what about the second, the third and the fourth time too? You continued entering the car knowing you had had sex with the man and then the sex continued.
The fact that you did it the second, third and fourth time cancels any excuse about the first time not being premeditated. That fact is no longer relevant. Now it is just a matter of you loving car sex. But I can only imagine the excuse you gave for the second, third and fourth time.


4. Did you confess to your boyfriend that you have not cut off the married friend? I highly doubt it, I will explain why in a moment. But let us assume that you did. Considering the first two points, what does it look like? You had a moment of weakness with another woman's husband and this moment of weakness led to 4 different incidences of sex. AND YET YOU DIDN'T CUT HIM OFF What does that say about you? it negates your entire moment of weakness storyline. It makes your remorse look hollow and insincere. In fact, if I were in your ex's shoes, that singular fact will obliterate every possibility of us ever getting back together.

You really need to ask yourself why you still kept in contact with the married man. Somewhere deep down, you're lying to yourself about something.

Your remorse and your guilt were not strong enough to make you block the married man to help your case with your ex just like it wasn't enough to stop you from sleeping with him four times.

5. A woman never tells you everything. A woman's confession is only 20% of the real truth.
This is this reason why I doubted that you told your boyfriend everything. If you had a moment of weakness that made you sleep with a married man four different times then you sure as hell don't have the emotional strength to tell your boyfriend the full truth. If your boyfriend knows this principle then in addition to the other four points that I have mentioned above then you really stand no chance.

If your boyfriend has a friend like me, then you have zero chances of every getting back to him.
I'm sorry but the best thing you can do for yourself and for your ex is to leave him alone and work on yourself.

God bless you �, this is what we ladies are facing every day, men are allowed to do all the wrong things n get away with it, they hit u, cheat on u, etc. And apologize just once n we come running back to them. It is well...pls men learn to forgive n forget too.
My advice to that young lady is to move n become a better version of now herself in d next relationship...wishing her peace

Great6Pack:
The worst set of hypocrites in this world are men. You can go Bleep as you like either as married man or while dating but it is a taboo for her to do it.

Let it be known here that I am not in anyway in support of cheating while married or courting. But let the truth be told, if you access 10 men, married or courting, at least 6 of them had at one time had sex with someone not their mate. One thing is sure, if this babe is the one that the man confessed to, she will happily forgive him and move ahead with the relationship.

Why can't men sometimes do same. Especially when you know your mate isn't promiscuous but was overtaken by moment of weakness?

Sis, please gather yourself together and concentrate on your work and life. I give you 3 months, a RESPONSIBLE guy will be dying to be your man. And if your present guy (soon to be ex) comes back, tell him he was in the past but you have moved on.

Please abuse me ONLY if you know you are innocent and never cheat. God is watching!!!

masseratti:
Who brought this to front page when we are still talking about President General Muhammadu Buhari regime Administration you guys are pushing irrelevant issues to us on front page.

pls swallow d general...the name is president Muhammad Buhari

chigoziri2403:
I would rather wheel my luggage by hand than enter an airport taxi
Very expensive.

. To what distance

@op
1. U keep referring to ur first babe as "my babe" and while u call the new girl differently...ok o . To me I think d first babe holds a special place in ur heart, u have to figure this out clearly before u move oncompletely.#my2cent
2. This perfect lady may have had her own share of wickedness before o, maybe or maybe not it still in her...#justsaying o
3. If u can date both of them for at least 6months without trouble I will advice u do. This way at least to extend u will know who u want for a wife.

Because op marriages no be small thing o, not in a scary way o, but then u need to shine ur eye, forget good girl matter or bad girl things . U need to check other compatibilities too.
#Godhelpu

@samhay

ijewejones:
This is sports which has a set down standard

Russians really need to brace up by doing the right thing since they are found wanting...

Meaning their athletes needs to use their natural strength in a strong way & put in more of their skills.

Yes PUT IN

na u Sabi [/b]Put in[b] ooo ,

Preciousgirl:
See another fool

I don't support d insult on u, yet u sounded unapologetic, I have seen some of ur insults up n I wonder why u share dis problem in the first place. maybe u just want to trend ?. Anyways 3weeks is too much time passed for u guys to haven't settled dis, so pls take d gud advice rm sensible ppl on dis forum n work on it. by the way it's fb nau?!, can't d person view ur pic, must u share with him/her or personally send? #justasking ni o

Compliment or insult? Anyways enjoy

Gabs7:
Your dm says a lot about you already. Don't worry, keep your high standards and you will definitely not regret it. Goodluck.

Shsss! Hush ur mouth u can as well buy Carmel for all we care, the post is about innoson's vehicle not ur opinion.

Zoharariel:
I'm neither beefing nor hating on Innoson but I'd rather buy these 3 German Machines (which are on my bucket list) than touch any Innoson Jalopies with a long pole. It is called choice.

1.) 2014 Audi A8 in Velvet Biege leather interior.

2.) 2016 Mercedes Benz S550 in Silk Biege leather interior.

3.) 2018 Bmw Alpina B7 in Black Leather.

Innoson sells his Chinese death traps for 25Million Naira & above but the highest I can get these USED German Machines is $95,000 which ofcourse - is the Alpina.

The rest (Audi A8 & Benzo S550) I can get for less than $30,000.

So, if Innoson likes, he can release an Airplane or Helicopter - I simply don't give a fvck!

we were warned o,

1shortblackboy:
All I can say is that they were warned. But they fell for the image laundry. They even removed General from his name and started calling him baba so he will appear like a benovelant loving father. Una eyes go clear...... Or not

Khd95:
But why record it and post it online, respect ur woman boy

She's going to be ur legally married(we hope so) wife, so don't treat her like olosho in public


Buy wetin consine me self

Thank u ooo, and when we tag her as olosho now Dem go dey form vex, nonsense!

Weytin Donald no go see for impeachment

double bribing for omonile and local govt chairmen .
During survey or whatever can't they ok a spot for borehole , and spare ppl double expenditures.

Weytin almajiri no go see for plate, shior!

#istandtobecorrected

tejiri4:
Were you book focused? or not sexy wantu check sth
A

Naaaa, I stay average

DanDeeBoss:
Maybe Na born again sister you be....They'll be giving levels anyhow .

Don't know about "born again" but I was religious. But glad I got the best guy as my husband.

Anyways I was very responsible wen in school back then, but I didn't get any serious relationship

Say no suicide...grow very very old n look back u will be grateful u lived long

partnerbizn4:
lol

She is happy?

cos she is smiling?

So only marriage can make someone smile abi nonsense

What about those divorce nkor, their lives shud come to an end?

Abeg leave politics out of this joor, u called @mbuhari kor, shey d Buhari no dey current for news himself?.

After all he can't read I wonder how e go take hear news.

Anyways, am thinking this hyping is too much o, Anthony fit just lose focus and lose d match #thinkingsha

Abeg dis name changing na business? They shud build other places nau, must we keep recycling names

biomustry:
Lionel Messi won 4 consecutive Ballon D’ors, was the First to win 5, now the only player in History to win 6.

All Ronaldo ever did in his career was chase Messi.

That bribe award that he is collecting every year, Messi shud do something different for once n let's see how can achieve it without Barcelona or FIFA....anofia! Azuzu! Ole!

ugwusunday:
Now I Know She Is Not Joking. /PIC/

We have been together for some years now, but i keep insist that she must get pregnant for me before anything.

I want the house to wish me well, as am about to start a new life next year.

"U insist" u be God . Congrats sister

And the so called fakes might be doing better than the ORIGINALs o.

Anyways, let their names be published joor