myfantasies:
Tanks for the advice

All of u coming here forming holier dan thou attitude, while in reality ur attitudes will even shock d devil himself

You're welcome but you may be wrong about that.

myfantasies:
Nd wat has religion got to do with my choice of husband

Christianity is not a religion, it's about a relationship with Jesus and a way of life, so it will definitely affect your decision of a husband if you're truly one.

defendedvictim:
They don't want the virgins but desire a 'God-fearing' man with no sad past...well, let d confusion continue

God bless you brother

myfantasies:
Definitely NO
I don't have d patient or strength to coach any one

I'm sure you'll be a Christian

Tufanja:
Happy New Year Jackbizzle and NL

Let me address your new year's resolution ;-)

1. I don't think there is a specific cause to pinpoint for why one would question religion more nowadays. I think it is something of all times and natural part of the human search for meaning in life. Just that some times will fuel the search a bit more than other times... #thefuelisnotthefire

2. Not really. I don't believe in segregation of whatever sort. We should be capable to search for and discuss the truth and let our arguments count in any pluriform setting. An own forum sounds to me like a self-help-group, too in-crowded. I believe validation of the truth starts with exposing it to other arguments. #notraumahulpneeded

3. 120% agree. It's an absolute shame. I got blocked for posting a purely scientific topic. I guess it didnt get the X -factor.

4. You don't need to be an atheist to not believe in the Nigerian wedding. Everything that is not about love is a waist of my time, so are weddings. What the society expects never interested me and wont interest me in the future either. #lovedoesntasks4yourreligion #loveasks4yourheart

If everything that is not about Love is truly a waste of your time, then everything about God is not a waste of your time because God is love.

The KINGDOM MINDSET
* You Can Tame It.
There's so much distractions, and an unending trials and temptations in our world today that wants to shape you to their mold, but you don't have to succumb to them.

There are desires in you that seems to give a high attraction to those temptations around you and that's really where you must work on. You might not be able to stop the distractions around nor avoid the trials but you can choose to resist them from the inside so that none of them becomes desirable to you. James 1:14-15 says " Each person is tempted by his own desire, being lured and trapped by it. When that desire becomes pregnant, it gives birth to sin; and when that sin grows up, it gives birth to death"

Please note that this is much more than your actions but it's about the business of your heart. Jesus said "You have heard that it was said, ‘You are not to commit adultery. But I say to you, anyone who stares at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matt.5:27-28.
The real deal here is the atrocities of the heart - lust, envy, bitterness, unforgiveness, jealousy and the likes. We might not be able to see you do it but God sees and will relate to the dispositions of your heart not only your actions.

Now don't be too quick to think you can decide just by yourself to no more respond to the advances of the distractions around, you're not just that strong. Apostle Paul gives us the answer to that in Gal. 5:6, " But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desires of the flesh"
Walking in the Spirit doesn't mean you now start floating in the air. It means to change your focus from the flesh to the spirit, Paul also says in Gal.5:22-23, " But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

The attributes of the spirit are fruits and that's why you can't do it on your own. The word of God is the seed, your heart is the ground and the fruits is that of the Spirit....once you start focusing on living by the spirit, you automatically start killing the desires of the flesh in you and your disposition will tend towards living for God and His Kingdom. God bless you!

Stanleyafam:
I met the lady I'm about getting married to.. on 1st jan 2015

That's nice... hoping to get mine soon also.

viickerz:
I started smoking weed

You need to drop that before entering 2016. Thank me later.

bronzegoddess:
Awwww, God bless d man o.

Lest I forget, I got a fake 1000 note last week

Chai

As the year counts down just with few hours left, can you mention one thing you won't forget that happened during the course of the year.
As for me, I started my business officially on the 1st of June which was also by birthday.
Share yours....

YourMain:
Virginity is so overrated it's actually ridiculous.

We understand your situation.

osaslord500:
Lolzz ,that guy mumu Ooo, he for sit down

Na that guy babe dey snap them.

scribble:


They're talking about the original on this thread not the fake.
Kindly visit the made in China section and speak to your mates there.

Please no tear my belle jare...

Demmocrats:
Do you know that Nigerians are like pros, lets reverse this 7 months ago Nigerians called him the "clueless one" now the same Nigerians that called him clueless are the one saying that they want him back.


May all those that have ridiculed you in 2015, turn around and praise you when your star begins to shine in 2016.


Amen!!!

Na every topic you dey turn to prayer points now.

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.
Only one thing needs to be on this list: 1. You must be married

God bless you jare

CaroLyner:
is that pampers i see there?

you wicked oo...hahaha

Sijo01:
Why post the picture of the victim instead of the accused?

We are not yet sure who the victim is here.

TOPIC: THE KINGDOM MINDSET - Breaking Your Own Record! LINK: https://www.nairaland.com/2807847/kingdom-mindest-breaking-own-record Thanks

There are aspirations, dreams and goals we all strive to achieve in the journey of life but have you thought about breaking your record when such goals and dreams has been accomplished.


Unfortunately, breaking our records in different areas of life is one of the most difficult things to do and not to do it just once but again and again. It is quite easy to reach a particular level, feel secured and probably unknowingly settles there because we now feel much comfortable. It’s much easier to become successful in a particular area of life, but maintaining the success is the difficult part and breaking your own personal record is the big part of maintaining your success. It is harder to be rich than to be poor. To be poor, just do nothing but to become rich, then you have to keep breaking your record.


There’s no need to start to compare or compete with anybody’s success. That’s a total waste of time. We all have our paths in life and they will probably not be similar nor be the same. Not even the finger prints of the over 7 billion of people on earth has never crossed, then is it too hard for us to believe that God has separate, unique and individual purposes for our life and how it will be accomplished. Paul said in 2 Cor. 10:12-13 “We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.”


Life is always in stages. There was a time we were primary or secondary school, some of us are in University now and some are already working presently. At every stage of our life, we kept looking forward to the next phase. That’s the attitude that must be kept rolling. For some ladies, getting married is all there is for them and that settles it. Dream beyond the average life; don’t settle for less or to live the mediocre life. God has in plans for your life, great and mighty things than you’ve accomplished now. Are you going to cooperate with Him to break your current record? It is not about competing with anybody but seeking to be the best God wants you to be at every point and stage of your life.


We must decide to be like Apostle Paul when he said in Phil. 3:12-14 “I don't mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.”


We must never get to a point in life where we think we are done, and we’ve got it made. No, God isn’t done with you yet; He still has so much in store that your mind has never imagined. Seek Him more and He will lead you right into what is next for you.

Confessng:
I smell DESPERATION , for this statement if I were your guy nah i will bury the ring at the beach ask you to be looking for it , till u find it we never engage.

Throwing and burying both sides of a coin..

The drama of a proposal isn't about the proposal itself its about something to remember when the chips are down to give you the gusto to keep believing in the love you shared when he dey hot.

If you check it now nah yoruba girl,that's why most yoruba marriages are meta epini.

When you refuse to place value on yourself who will? Throw it at me ko slap me in the face ni

You must be joking, it is how you propose that will help you when the chips are down. You have a long way to go.

marykaydee:




Later, you will probably say the muslim elite did not speak up in time when another terrorist sect emerges. How can you not care,did you even read the article?

of course I didn't, why should I?

Who cares? Make them no just turn to another terrorist group.

Adufetohposh:
Asides the fact that ur Husband caught you in a very awkward situation and u are not proud of your action, I will still give u a pat on the back for not going outside ... Pele, konji is a respecter of nobody.

Apologize to ur man and tell him it won't happen again. Not like it's a sin to pleasure yourself

Actually it is a sin.

Adaure4ever:
Depends on what u are going to tel me, but don't like it sha.
Its not a matured act

Sorry, what exactly do you expect him to tell you?

allyon:
im imperessed.. I will start praying for u every morning

Please do, she sure needs it.

Tallesty1:
The guy is either being controlled by the woman of he simply doesn't have a mind of his own.

First, you cannot question how I got ordinary lip balm and expect an answer.

Two, you cannot ask me to return it because you have been seeing the state of my lips without offering any help.

The guy just 4 my hand big time.

I believe the returning part is where the guy missed it.

Out of the strong came something to eat...

Good one!

Decapo:


Na buhari dey send am now

They're called shortcode messages, it's people that sends them. It's more like a bulk SMS.

pretty tasha:
yh

That's nice. I read physics too. Which school did you finish from?

prettytasha:
na wa o rape cases everywhere .. but if she knows the guys it should be easier for the police to arrest them nau..nigerian police tho

You read physics?

prospero5:
so thieves no dey wear shirt again?

Na the electricity remove am. I was there.