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edwife:
So what changed,did u just realise that you like sex?
The only solution for you is to continue being patient,and try talk her into doing things you like.You cant go back on this one.
If she doesn't change,then you too become frigid.1-1

tolu4you:
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
wetin i go do ooo
advice me

Godmystrength:
Keep loving her then even in her frigidity jare... one day one day,she will make you happy o

tolu4you:
I love her... i truly love her.
for the past two years now, i dnt think i can remember if we had any problem. our problem is sex. apart from sex, we are the best couple. we do things together, we operate only one bank account. The big BUT is sex

tolu4you:
lol
even she doesn't like the old recycling styles as u said let alone the "modern styles"

Sophyrocks:
Na wa o. until he opens up on why he needs protected s*e*x then they are just deceiving themselves.

tolu4you:
She has a six month old baby... but i knw her before marriage.. she is a frigid type...

dominion247:
financial reasons. He lost his job

Sophyrocks:
But they are married now. The man says he wants protected s*e*x. Why? The lady says No till white wedding. When they are married? Na wa o. they are just deceiving themselves.

warrior01:
Very funny. Imagine my wife telling me no till a less important church wedding before we consummate our marriage. Lol... Let me keep quite for now

lakamua:
I doubt if that woman is a virgin. She is seriously making a fool of him do delay the evil day when it will be too late. Oga, tell us his discovery after the church wedding. Thanks

silvoice:
u did made some point, but he himself believed that they are legally married and wedding only serve as official presentation and blessing of the mariage. If you think otherwise, why would even his pastor refer to her as mr. B...'s wife?

silvoice:
....."let's hav a protected s*x, because i don't want u 2 be pregnant before our weddin".....

Tunagee:
What else does a stupid and nonsense woman wants after all that was done as mentioned by the husband. She must be mad. Some men are trying sha. Women are not worth the Bleep killing ourselves on.

Godmystrength:
I am not saying you are doing something bad, but sometimes, while we are killing ourselves to please someone, what that someone wants might be just one little trivial thing and everyone will be happen.....

I am not excusing your wife of all her ''bad'' behaviors neither is there any need for me to blame/condemn your wife here just to make you feel good since she isn't here to read and i believe you came to NL to find solution to make things work better and not backup/support for the divorce in your mind

phabulous88:
The research didn't say it wasn't painful but that women generally exaggerate the pain. By the way, is it not just about excreting something? What's the big deal?

silvoice:
Yestarday night he had a passionate talk about it wit her.
Excerp: "let's hav a protected s*x, because i don't want u 2 be pregnant before our weddin"
ans: "no pls let's hav patience"

He: " we are already married by law, only waitin 4 God's blessing thru weddin" then she opened up.

Ans: " i'm a virgin, i promised God that i wil not do it until after my weddin. Dear, i'v kept it 4 a long time. I wil not be happy if i break that promise."
he was short of words and find it difficult to convince her.

crackhaus:
As usual, attack when cornered as is common with you lot.

I must admit I don't grasp the koko, conversations, or topic...it's rocket science and much too complicated for my simple mind.

Now that i have made that clear, I asked a simple question:
What should a man do when he is faced with a woman who has a degree in using her tongue to cut deep every time she wishes?

Clearly, a man can't engage in a war of words with a woman like you have claimed and which is true...so what is he to do? I need to enrich my simple mind.

Phema:
I think physical abuse is worse. I can't fight back physically, so i could risk getting killed. But verbal abuse? What did God give me lips/mouth for? Come kuku add sharp tongue join. Let the abuse begin!

pickabeau1:
@Godmystrength

Please why r u calling my name

Godmystrength:
pickabeau[size=3pt]1[/size] sef follow come for wife material?? Please i want 15 yards o

pickabeau1:
I don't share materials and I know the kind of woman that works for me

pickabeau1:
; nor love in fear

ednut1:
part of d reason i dey fear to marry

Chillisauce:
marital status doesnt matter.


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MizMyColi:
[quote author=Chillisauce post=27194978]1. chillisauce
2....Tallesty1
Oya over to you

liyuboy:
Hello Peep, i need ur advise,, i am married to a woman i tot was of a certain characteristics upon marriage and two years down the line my only source of happiness are the two children (Boy and Girl) we have.

liyuboy:
Despite all I do (as bread winner) to please her she is not appreciative, she disrespect me, she doesn't cook for me, she complains too much, she compares me to her father daily even though i have told her her mother has a better character than her that is why her father would do anything to please her.

liyuboy:
I am always unhappy becos of her character, i am thinking of seeking divorce.
What do u guys think?

tmosco:
U know I don't mean it like dat, it d change of name we ar talking about.U can't abandon ur family even if u want 2.