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Family / Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Godmystrength: 2:24pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
tmosco:Please where did you see me mention anything about NAME in my comment?? besides who told you that any name is dieing?? Maybe you didn't read the comment i quoted and the portion i highlighted... because a woman is married and now bears her husband's name doesn't mean she shouldn't have anything to do with the father 2 Likes |
Family / Re: DEATH For Every DIVORCE by Godmystrength: 1:49pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
toys2seven:of course it will reduce the rate...But murder rate will increase |
Family / Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Godmystrength: 1:40pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Rosarie:This one is strong o So my own father that doesn't have a son now should forget that he has children anywhere when all of us get married abi? Or maybe keep trying till he gets a son that will have something to do with him even after marriage... 9 Likes |
Family / Re: Should A Man Adopt His Wife Maiden Name Bcoz Of Her Family's Influence & Wealth by Godmystrength: 1:39pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
so what will be their children's surname? tyconcepts: |
Family / Re: Opinion: Is It Ok For A Married Woman To UnCloth In The Presence Of Her Siblings by Godmystrength: 1:22pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
I don't have male siblings so i may not have anything to say. But since we are all girls, we don't bother with stuffs like that. Even my dad is already used to it and he keeps saying that he knows he lives in a girls' hostel..... However, i have male cousins, nephews, niece etc and i don't think i can consciously go naked or UnCloth in their presence.... Naturally, i am a very shy person. My husband is the only male apart from my dad in whose presence i can say i have been naked/undressed without any shame or care.. But personally, i don't really see anything wrong in it. Just that the devil na bastard o |
Family / Re: Should He Divorce Her? by Godmystrength: 1:13pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
@nikky5- please tell your friend to be quick with his divorce proceedings and stop wasting the ''fat'' woman's time..... 1 Like |
Health / Re: How Do I Attend To My Girlfriend during Her Mentrual Period?? by Godmystrength: 12:53pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
naturally: |
Family / Re: Happy Birthday To Nashville And I by Godmystrength: 11:38am On Oct 15, 2014 |
bukatyne:Happy birthday to both of you. Wishing you long lifes, blissful marriages and wonderful homes 1 Like |
Family / Re: Should He Divorce Her? by Godmystrength: 11:31am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Odilafta:Is the OP not a man? |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 10:09am On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Family / Re: Should He Divorce Her? by Godmystrength: 9:51am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Yields: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 9:42pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
[quote author=tatiana009 post=27146253]He he he JJ has found his voice after Tayo left the room. I'm a man too lmao this is now big brother[/quote] |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 7:42pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
menme:thanks for telling me what ''i already know''. You didn't have to say that twice. I already got the message the first time |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 7:19pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
[quote author=Phema post=27142888] Oh, he told you this during the "confession"? So he confessed to making advances at the maid and also the sister on saturday? Hmmmmmmmm. Sorry for calling you naive. I was quite passed. You will come out of this stronger. Just take your time, think things through and make the right move. God be with you. [/quote]yes he said/confessed all those on saturday. Now i don't know if confession is because of maid or her sister or both of them... |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 6:57pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
@Phema- going through my post, i never said i took it as a joke or swept it under the carpet. I learnt about all of these same day and time. This weekend. My silence doesn't mean i am naive sha. I just want to be sure i am about taking the right steps. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 6:04pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
alutacontinua:I get home very late and i will also have to wake up very early to leave for work. I don't think it is a kind of discussion that can be rushed over. And i don't want to discuss half way to avoid her getting prepared for the continuation. right now, they all have a false sense of security... or what do you think? 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 5:42pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Phema:The maid's sister(not blood related though) also works as an executive maid to some staffs of a company (just the next street to ours) but she doesn't live there. She has slept over at our place on a Friday/environmental Saturday and like on 2 other occasions... My hubby bought an AC from her boyfriend and installed it (i just came home and saw the AC in our room). However, because of some disagreement concerning terms of payment, hubby/boyfriend agreed to uninstall AC and let everybody go there way. Boyfriend told girlfriend and she called hubby to insult the living day light out of him. When he told me, i was shocked. I asked if it was more than the AC issue..... He now forbid our maid from going to her sister's place nor her sister coming to our place.. When the maid told her sister, she called my hubby and called insulting names if he doesn't go through with his threat...... I wanted to call the lady, but i wanted to get to the root of the matter before knowing whether to call or not(all this happened like 2weeks ago) I guess i blanked out when hubby was doing his confession but i just now remembered him talking about nollywood movies where some husband committed an atrocity against his wife and was been blackmailed by the other woman. he was saying the man could have saved himself all the stress by just letting the wife know instead of falling into the blackmail trap..... he now said that he has jokingly made advances towards the sister and that could be responsible for all the insults because she feels that he won't be able to do anything for fear of me hearing ( :oOMG!!!!how could i have forgot all these... It is just coming back like a dream.. I wonder what else he said that bounced back). Maybe it was due to the headache i was having then... Well from what i just thought through, there is a possibility that the maid has informed her sister of the advances and the sister has done likewise.. Maybe she/they threaten to report to me and hubby acted fast by being a step ahead of them.... God what do i have on my hands now?? bucket full of shit!!! wish it is weekend already |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 5:17pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
snazzylove:Please what are you thinking? |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 4:44pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
smokescreen4:I hope not |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 4:43pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Come to think of it, with all the responses i am reading and something i just remembered, i am thinking he was just blackmailed to confession.... will be back with details. i just saw this thread and just want to peep in and see people's opinion https://www.nairaland.com/1944210/why-nigerian-wives-chase-out |
Family / Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Godmystrength: 3:26pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
xandyE:Okay o |
Family / Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Godmystrength: 3:18pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
xandyE:No need to insult me because i didn't insult you with my statement. I was just joking at the expense of the OP and that is why i put the smiley...... But if that is how you feel, no vex o AUNTY |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 2:50pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
@edwife, hispinkolo, snazzylove..... thanks. I am really taking my time to analyze the whole scenario and its just so sad that this happen/is happening..... Our medical checks is just around the corner so we will be doing all the tests. No need to even raise the matter of test because he can't avoid going for the checks. I am just allowing myself believe that nothing happened between them, though i know it is a possibility.... @edwife, i pray and hope he finds something doing asap too.... (i think i have tried my best in that area and can't really think of what else to do about that for now) @snazzylove, talking about skills, he says he is a born marketer o . he wants nothing else than buying and selling I can't say for sure the reason for his confession but i just know that after he finished talking, he wanted to call the maid to join our discussion and i remember telling him not to bother calling her to my presence yet. However, he still went ahead to call her and i just could not even utter a word in her presence because i felt so ashamed and embarrassed at the same time..... I asked him when it started and he said it was about 2-3weeks after she started working with us (this girl has only spent 2months with us) I even asked when he use to have time to make the advances and whether they will just abandon my baby to one corner or what? He said he doesn't go to her when he is with the baby but usually when baby is sleeping (which makes it look like a calculated attempt and not just a spontaneous thingy which leaves me more confused)...... I was even forced to wonder whether he has been at this kind of thing for long which might be responsible for all our previous maids leaving for no tangible reason and why he was so much against us employing an elderly woman at one time like that..... Yesterday night, he told me that the lady said she will like to go to her village during the festive period to spend time with her people and that he doesn't want her to come back and he already has someone that he wants to replace her with....(infact, he is already thinking of how to send her away by this month end) I told him to just leave me alone and not rush me into his plans..... What is he even up to? Only God knows jare Infact, the whole thing tire me...... |
Family / Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Godmystrength: 12:23pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Heritage Bank CV Submission October 2014 by Godmystrength: 12:21pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
@Looking4job |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 12:18pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1:Thank you |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 12:14pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I have no intention of getting any loan for now. I don't know how else to engage him..... He's got so many offers in time past and people are no longer taking him serious 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 12:08pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1:nothing in that aspect. He is still bent on not doing any paid job. He wants to do business and so is still waiting for ''help from above''. Now he is talking of wanting to go to dubai.... Where will the money come from?? he even suggested that i get a loan from my parents for him...... |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 12:05pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Icherishu:Na so i see am o. i will have a discussion with her this weekend though. Then decide what to do next... I already asked hubby what happened and why he did that....He said it is not my fault at all. That he is just frustrated. Having to sit down at home all day doing nothing and having no where to go.... 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by Godmystrength: 12:02pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
smokescreen4:I can't get a younger maid. I need a matured somebody that can take care of a baby..... Well, i intend to speak/have a chat with the lady this weekend and then i can take it up from there.. Thanks for the care 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by Godmystrength: 6:54pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
synergycom19:so we that are not married men do not have sense and hence should shut up |
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