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MurderX:
The Man should have divorced the wife before she killed him. Please divorce to save your life from witches.

bennyrazz:
may God help us men and deliver us from whorish women! may God deliver us from the Jezebels of this world, there are so many nowadays lord, some dress naked, some don't even wear under wears, some wear all sort of makeups and hair do all in a bid to mislead us. Oh Lord my God, please do not be silent, deliver us from these evil women. May they never know our phone numbers, let them look disgusting and irritating in our eyes whenever we see them in Jesus name. Whatever charm they might have gone to do in any babalawo's house in other to hypnotise us, may it never work in Jesus name. Some women are out there to abort the destinies of Great men out there just as Delilah cut short the destiny of Samson, Lord I pray that may this kind of women not locate these great men including me in Jesus name. Amen!

Grendel:
I never thought of cheating or having any side chicks not until my woman denied me sex ... We are not staying together, I visit her twice a month but this particuler time I was busy at work I couldn't visit her for four months.

I was angry because I don't know why she denied me the only thing that's strengthen our love

josite:
have u ever bleeped another woman's hubby and if you have they will surely Bleep ur hubby.accept it full stop.if your hubby cheats,u will go and pour acid .grow up.go marry daddy GO.

nwababy:
Ok let me break the slience. I've a gist but the person in question doesn't need advice. This my friend chatted me up last week and was like that a divorcee with four boys wants to marry her(the man is loaded). I was like haa and how did you meet him? (She's not an honest person though I know she dates married men but have never met her with one) she was like you know na; I asked her what her answer was to the man's proposal and she was like that if she must marry him that he will re locate her to london and the man accepted. She asked me to advice her. I told her that I don't give advice in this kind of situation oh. That she's old enough to differenciate the right from wrong.(I know she has already decided what to do) if she hasn't, why will she tell the man that she will like to relocate to london. After 2 days, I chatted her and asked her what she decided and if she has told her mum( cos her dad is late) she said is her decision and nobody's. She told me clearly that if she's marrying the man it will be cos of his money not cos of love. I told her to prepare her self for the consequences that comes with it good or bad. She was like that if she can't stay in the marriage she will get divorce na; I asked her if that's what she want to do with her life and she said shit happens lol. Some girls strong pass me oh. What a life!

pickabeau1:
What kinda question is this. ..

pickabeau1: How do these women proposition men..what boldness and self belief to believed they are still relevant in d market.


Don't they know men want tight punny..not old kid expanded ones..

rbekins: The blame has to go for both singles and married ones. But in some cases you have to blame mostly the single ladies to Married Men. The have used this means to break homes these days. Meanwhile, most men were only trying to activate their libido which may be killed at home by his wife if he does not do it once in a while outside. Mind you, before you judge me, a Man can marry more than one wife but a woman can not marry 2 Men same time. In this case, it is not bad if a married man DO it once in a while (dont over do it) and should not engage any emotional feelings outside his marital home. Women, should keep their legs together in their married homes because if the owner of the house (Man) finds out you are cheating, you will go. And if you catch him, you will still go (policy to some unreasonable men) So to me, for your man to do outside once in a while, it is the wife's own good.

Thank you.

chimerase2: Ma dear wat u hv to knw nw is men re liable to cheat weda married or unmarried
There is noting dat can stop men frm cheating
It is in their DNA
Even if wen dey dnt want der is sometin in between der legs dat will mak dem cheat
Some men try very hard to pretend some men try very hard to reason it dat all cats re cats yes kudos to some but der re still small traces of cheat in der gene
So stop tracing ur husband he is a man he is bound to cheat u can't stop it by tracing him is prayer dat can stop it
Wen next u talk to him encourage him tell him abt sickness associated with it
Tell him if he must cheat use a condom
Dnt quit ur marriage becos de next man too will cheat
Even ma dad cheated on his wife even dos days we lived with our dad mistress while ma mum stayed in east u see dat is wicked cheating
I always watch ma dad kill his cat frm window see amu not joking oh is true life story we all hv story to say I hv plenty of it as a young lad growing up under the tutelage of ma dad mistress with ma sista
So ma dear dnt leave it before it gets worse go back to ur home before ur husband relocates u

esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

Mintayo: I understand what you are saying,but is that enough reason to stop the wedding? Nobody even talked about talking things out with the husband,the next thing is "we gotta stop the wedding"?

sexybash: @ poster the truth is your wife isn't going to change anytime soon
So I suggest you don't take anything she tells you and make her know you don't trust her
When she is talking to anybody around you
Just tell them before hand that ah
My wife is. Serial liar oh please don't believe her
I assure you within one year she go change:-)

Acidosis: may be

pelusi: The one she acted yesterday made me to get much annoyed that i told her that since she has made me to loose trust on her since i married her,that today(yesterday),she MUST take an oath for me by holding an object and say some words on it,that ever since she got married to me,that she has NEVER slept with other men.She say she is a Christian and can not swear such.Please what should i do to make my wife to desist from telling lies?,Everybody knows the effect of lack of trust in marriage.Advise Pls!.

Acidosis: A Liar is a thief, a cheat, a witch, a crook, infact shes anything evil put together.

She'll always deny ALL her evil acts.

Only children with poor parenting tell lies, so it would be wrong to disown a lieing child.

As regards a lieing wife; the best remedy is to seek a divorce. Thereafter she can go back to her parents home to learn the rudiments of TRUTH. I will do same to a bad cook.

Marriage is a contract and it is expected of both parties to fulfill and maintain the rules of engagement.

Acidosis: A serial liar is a killer

Divorce is the only option mama

carefreewannabe: The husband should go for a check up FIRST if, according to the doctor, nothing is wrong with the woman.

Then they can consider adoption.


The husband should hurry up, MEN and WOMEN have to consider how old their children will be when they are about to leave this world.

Acidosis:

oluseyiforjesus: This are some of the differences btw a wife material and a GF material
1-Wife material wear simple Make-up,GF Material wear excessive make-up
2-Wife material avoid inconveniencing the guy,GF material neva mind if u are convenient or inconvenient
3-Wife material alway advice u to cook at home,GF material prefer eateries
4-Wife material accept sorry without any gift,GF material will want u to appologize with a gift even if it's a token
5-Wife material will do all she can to stop u from clubbing,GF material will want to follow u to club
6-Wife material will want u to move closer to God,GF material doesn't care if u knw God or not
7-Wife material will Luv your parent and Siblings, GF material don't care about them.
8-wife Material will advise you to save money,GF material will advise to spend cos nobody is sure of seeing tomorrow
9-Wife material talks more of the Future,GF material talks more of the present
10-Wife material can cook,GF material can only cook indomee.
Add urs if u have a wife material as a wife or Fiancée....

Woged2005: I don't get it... A doctor said you have no medical problems and yet you can't conceive? Have you and your husband gone to a fertility treatment center? Unknown to many people men are actually responsible for most conception problems but ego does not allow them to admit it. If they will accept it on time and go for treatment like most ladies do, that will help increase the chances of conception. The problem is that most couple waste precious years at Native doctor's and their better-dressed counterparts called 'prayer houses' than seeking professional help at fertility center. Have you wondered why most people who have problems having kids in Nigeria travel to more developed countries and same people have kids? - the answer is science-based fertility treatment.

To answer your question, adoption has nothing to do with filling the void of not having kids, it's about giving a better life to a needy baby in a loving, caring home. A woman with 6 kids could still adopt to give a better life to another child. So there's no better time to adopt a child than when you are ready and prepared to give a better life to a a child who would otherwise not have it.

Acidosis: Why do people LIE?
People only lie when they do/go wrong.

The implication is that your wife is seriously engaged with evil acts.

Divorce her NOW before she sends you to the grave.

SisiNini: I am sorry baby, I did nt make it 2day because my iphone developed a problem and my ipad ba3 is dead. My sister is wit my Samsung galaxy note 3. I'm just alone @ home since my parents travelled 2 Germany.

I could av skyped wit u but I misplaced my Apple laptop power pack so I av 2 hit South Africa 2moro 2 get a new one. I also wanted 2 go 2 d mall dis night but my auntie went out wit my Bugatti, my elder brother went out wit d range rover and our Highlander had a little problem. The tyre of d Honda Element is flat and I hate driving d Lexus jeep @ night.

So I tried calling d driver to come and pick me wit my mum's Ferrari but no credit... Can u plz send me GLO card let me call him? Lobatan! What will u call dis kind of guy?

Woged2005: Goes to show Kids have emotions and feelings too. They are not just kids but little human beings; adults are just bigger than they are. So when you as an adult punish a kid, yell at her, abuse her, beat her up, force her to do stuff etc remember you are practically imposing your size on her because she cannot fight back. Imagine how you will feel too if a much muscular, bigger person do same to you because he is bigger in size. In general adults relatively do more foolish things than kids but get away with it..they pee on toilet seat and don't clean it, they use restrooms and don't wash their hands, they store p.orns on their computers and phones, they lie more than 100 times a day, they burn food, they are ungrateful, they fight with weapons and massacre people, they riot and burn houses, they steal and loot treasuries, they don't forgive little things, they will do anything because of s*ex and money...etc yet we call them adults.

hoynlorlar: Just last week,he was off duty...in d nite i cooked beans..d beans was done buh I wanted it to b more thick buh he insisted dt I serve him like dt...so I dd n took d food to him witout putting tray so immediately I saw dt nepa av brought lite plus d beans is still on fire and I av to off d gen too.i was stretching d food to him(d dish was hot too..it was burning moi hand)he ddnt collect it said I shud put tray..i was so pissed so I shouted take den put it on d floor..immediately(moi cousin which is wit us just for visiting o) she ran to take d tray n I went to switch off d gen n change to nepa..afta all dis moi wahala he ddnt eat d food dt nite o..

hoynlorlar: I dnt get u?d question u asked is wat av been asking my sef..I av been asking im for d allowance before dt day..buh he wont ansa despite d fact dt I know he has been paid.

KMTee: on a normal day, he was not supposed to come near where d lady is being dressed up
abi na same house dey stay prepare for wedding ni?

these are some of the things dat cause havoc in marriages because they didn't spell out what they both
want and not wen they were courting..they would start laying down rules a day to their wedding or on d d-day
and dey find it difficult to adjust to the new systems.

Mintayo: Smh... Some women sha, choosing vanity over a happy home.
I remembered a story a friend told me about a lady who wanted to cancel her introduction because the husband could not give her the required 12k to make her hair! The husband gave her 6k and she went gaga!
Smh again!

alutacontinua: lmaooooooooo @ sorry for asking
It wasn't that difficult to change, only took me 2 seconds. So, I figured why not?









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5minsmadness: For the sake of the child let me join the peoples voice to say take this pic down now!
Nairaland is not a place to come and rate your child. By the time some crazy folk come and start insulting the child and you together you will start complaining. If you don't know that you don't need anybody to rate your child before you appreciate him/her then am sorry for you.

Icherishu: Happy wedding anniversary. May God continue to keep u.