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Christianity Etc. by GodnGold(op):
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FamilyRe: My Wife And Her Ex Issue. by GodnGold: 2:55pm On Jul 20, 2017
Poster...permit me to give these personal definitions of ex?

Before,past,forgotten,previous,vintage,gray...My personal definitions can go on...

Do not mention her ex with her, her ex;her problem.

You stay in the present and keep moving,Even when she mentions 'the ex',pretend you didn't hear and don't try to discuss it.
C'mmon,you didn't even have to bring up the ish about not being pressured to marry her....that's shallow...One love bromeh!
FamilyRe: A Single Mum For A Wife? by GodnGold: 12:33am On Jul 19, 2017
Mr writer,read with wide eyes.

Do not marry that sisi!

Yes!
Not because she has kids but because she didn't tell you the truth about the man that sired those kids.

Again KIDShuh

Oh...bro, I have kids of my own loins and when they act up,I call them and question their maternity,geneology(I hope it's correct) and paternity.

Long tales abridged, don't walk that lane,the cons outweigh the pros.

Her secret chamber artistry is not worth it...breathe!
AutosRe: Tokunbo 2011 Acura ZDX by GodnGold: 7:36pm On Jul 17, 2017
nkene wu ugbo ndu!
FamilyRe: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by GodnGold: 9:07pm On Jul 16, 2017
Your marriage is young,and you two are swimming to safety against the storm and tides.

This happens in the early stages of most marriages,I can relate.

Hold forth!

Hold forth! !

Hold forth!!!

Ignore your wife's attitudes and stop taking her utterances personal...Women like to talk and nag and forget the good things you did and done for them when the going gets tough.

I am a woman.

Five years from now and more babies,you will start to see some changes.

As for not going back to work,don't stress it bro,continue to bring your bacon home and when she not cool wid'it...she gon rustle to hustle

Finally,if you believe in God,talk to him,just talk to him.
May you find Love and peace with thy wife.
Christianity EtcRe: Why I Left Christ Embassy Church by GodnGold: 10:43pm On Jul 02, 2017
akagaba:
Op, wake up... as soon as u left, 500 more people walked in so dont come here and disgrace urself. If u have allowed d devil to take a hold of u, then seek deliverance somehwere becus so many lives are being changed and transformed in Christ Embassy. We dont preach sin in CE cuz thats not what God asked us to preach. We rather preach the goodnews of the gospel of our Lord Jesus and thats the gudnews that brings sinners to God.

For money matter, its only a poor man that speaks d way u do. We give big, very very big in CE and thats becuz we serve a big God so deal with ur poverty.
Nne gbupu aso!
CelebritiesRe: Joy Ugwu, Miss Asaigbo In Kirikiri Prison by GodnGold: 10:43pm On Jun 17, 2017
Joy was quiet and peaceful in Unity house...FG...
She was my junior.
Please pray for her!
FamilyRe: Lord Help Me! by GodnGold: 6:23am On Jun 02, 2017
Everyday you wake up is a blessing.

The blessings of God are without repentance,but you should try everyday to drop one sexual sin after another.
AutosRe: URGENT SALES 4 Tokunbo Honda Dio Af56 Scooters For Sale In Abuja @480k by GodnGold: 9:41pm On Jun 01, 2017
Whenever the red scooter is available,pls let me know.Thanks
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need The 2017 Online Ecowas Job Application Form, Pls Assist Me With The Form by GodnGold: 9:31am On May 22, 2017
Fatchi:
I have mailed it to u, kindly check ur mail thanks.
Oga abeg,mail it to chidubemchukwuobasi@gmail.com

Please.Thank you!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Help me pls! I Don't have Funds To Travel for Nysc Camp by GodnGold: 9:17am On May 22, 2017
Post your call up letter,
RomanceRe: I Want To Call It Quit.. by GodnGold:
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RomanceRe: Are There Ex We May Never Get Over In Life? by GodnGold:
FelixFelicis:
Y'all ladies always forming commando, I know y'all don't mind been cool with an ex, but when that one guy y'all love so much becomes an ex, y'all prefer to incite hate against him than to remind yourself of the reality which is "He really grew on me".
RomanceRe: Are There Ex We May Never Get Over In Life? by GodnGold:
[quote author=OkuFaba post=56732671]I'm in a relationship and my Ex is also in a relationship with someone else but we still hook up sometimes. You know, sex after break up is like pension
Nairaland GeneralRe: Do You Have Secrets You Intend To Take To The Grave? Get Some Off Your Chest by GodnGold: 1:58pm On May 21, 2017
ceejay80s:
my secret bad, it was me that took that letter bomb to dele giwa's house in the 80s, at that time I was 8years old
Guide thy typ-rances!
CelebritiesRe: Adunoluwa Farombi Ajokeade, Moji Olaiya's Daughter Wants Mum Buried In Nigeria by GodnGold: 7:41pm On May 18, 2017
NwaObinkita:
Does she know how much that will cost? From $7,500 to $15,000 irrespective of their choices.
She should collect money from her sugar daddy to foot the bills.
If it is that expensive to bring a dead body or even bury it there, they should kukuma donate the body to the hospital for research and even get paid.


I was terribly worried about the new baby but with this her breást, I am rest assured that the baby Moji left behind will not suffer.

Nwa akwo n'azu amaghi na ije di anya
Nnaaa, kedu ihe gbasara ara that gal n'ihe ana ekwu?

mgbe obuna unu ana ekwu ihe n'ekwesighu!

nakwa e check!
CelebritiesRe: Davido Spends N2.5M On Drinks At A London Nightclub. See Receipt by GodnGold: 2:31pm On May 15, 2017
mayorjosh:
Omo baba olowo

If I get 2.5m in my life right now,in three months mehn I'll give davido his 2.5m and would've made nothing less than 5m

Baba God you're seeing me now ooo!!
I haven't gone to do any money ritual ooo
Just answer my call abeg
Pls tell me about this investment plan...seriously!
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 8:01pm On May 02, 2017
I'm a very busy person VULCAN.
VULCAN:
After starting with you "don't like one sided stories" you dragged on with advice based on your crystal ball.

If I said anything contrary to what you said why did you not point it out.

That was what I was expecting.

Unlike you, I don't advise people who have not presented at least 90% of the facts. Nor do I assume to know what a person I have never met nor studied would do.

As i said previously, whether she is cheating or not cannot be deduced from the original post
FamilyRe: Dead Man Grabs Brother’s Hands In Mortuary In Jos, Plateau State by GodnGold: 10:40pm On May 01, 2017
okenwa:
Instances abound in the Holy Bible where people can be raised by physical contact with the body (case of Elijah and the only child of the widow, Elisha's bone and the dead man, Jesus Christ bringing dead to life....etc)

While the spirit of the dead hover around when someone is pronounced dead, if a living person whose soul is clean or sinless maintain warm body contact consistently with the dead body and carefully meditation (requesting and pleading) for the spirit and soul of the person to come back. Indeed anywhere in the world that person will receive life again.

It is not a rocket science idea. It is the principles of faith in the Almighty God with a constant obedience to his holy words. If we have faith we can move mountains
Oh, I see!

Thank you!

I honestly didn't know this.
FamilyRe: Dead Man Grabs Brother’s Hands In Mortuary In Jos, Plateau State by GodnGold: 8:26pm On May 01, 2017
okenwa:
Sometimes the dead are buried alive. No hurry in life.


If given some chances, time and patience some would be awaken......as it is only some organs of the body that died but not the whole.

It is very possible to resuscitate the dead. Especially those who died while asleep. Only accident victims are difficult to get some life back
I'm interested in this theory Okenwa.
Pray,educate me!
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 3:08pm On May 01, 2017
Chibydinho:
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Very simple... Act nicely and loving this moment.. Sendless the other moment.
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Something happened to me yesterday. I have an online chick that we chat and things are going normal. I noticed on Saturday that she was getting cold on chats, I didn't bother.. I placed a call (my mumu self), she wasn't sounding cheerful like the one I know.. I laughed and as she didn't reply my fb msg that Saturday morning, while she was online.. I vowed to ignore her.
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I did that all through yesterday, she sent two msgs on fb calling me sweet names, I didn't bother to open it while I'm online making posts and even when she comments on them, I reply her on my post to show I am online yet I ignored her on inbox..mixed signals...lol
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She called, I no pick and didn't call back.. Mind you, na person that we dey be love birds ooo....
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So I'm on the pull method now to try make her realize that without her, I fit be enjoying and being happy. The push method was making her feel big head, so na the thing I dey try reduce...
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This is applicable in real life too... Don't act love love everytime, sometime create an issue and ball out small like a boss..lol.... To test if she really kwadu you well... Psychologically, we pursue things we no fit get easily.
I get it.
Thanks bro!
CrimeRe: A Lady Found Dead Along Ughelle-Warri Road (Photos) by GodnGold: 3:00pm On May 01, 2017
Young03:
Slay mama don go
she wear black n black hmmm

pepper dem gang
ka emesia
okwa nu ozu mmadu di ihea!
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 1:00pm On May 01, 2017
Chibydinho:
You are showing how desperate you are and that's pushing her away.
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If you still love her, try and pay her a visit and be objective when you reach there.Not being too emotional like soft baby. Talk things out with her and explain to her that it was all joke...
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By the way, she give you love portion? Try to give ladies in ya life chance and enjoy ya life alone for sometimes... Use the Push and pull method also when dealing with ladies you love because I bet you showing you care and love so much can makes ladies run away (I've tried it too).
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Be the prize here, stop acting like she is doing you any favor by dating or getting married to you... She must need you as you need her too... Else, na one chance you dey...
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Peace
Oga,abeg teach me this push and pull method.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Of 9 Years Says It's Over Between Us by GodnGold: 12:58pm On May 01, 2017
I888:
if I slap u, u will go blind? Who is playing with whose heart here? Didn't u read she kissed the other guy, not know he was behind them?

Yet, she said nothing is going on between them.
Baba,take am easy na. Make person no go blind for this recession oooo lol.
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 11:45am On May 01, 2017
It's obvious you lack comprehension.

I don't have the time for tittle-tattle.

Please Baba,give the OP your own advice and stop mentioning me.

VULCAN:
So from the confines of your bedroom you divined that his wife is not cheating. Wonders!

A person you don't know and have not even seen her psychological profile but based on a few lines that the traumatised husband wrote.

Hmm.

Perhaps if he said he caught her in the act you would have said she was charmed.

Aside from the fact that you share the same gender, you have no reason to tell him that his wife is NOT cheating.

Even if she isn't, you don't have enough data to make such conclusion. Not every woman is as versed as you in psychological warfare.
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 11:30am On May 01, 2017
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FamilyRe: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by GodnGold: 11:27am On May 01, 2017
TrapQueen77:
We should toast a drink... grin cheesy cheesy

Hahahaahah..toast ? Like bread? tongue
FamilyRe: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by GodnGold: 6:48am On May 01, 2017
Mynd44:
There is something people dont realize or understand about feelings before rushing into marriage.

Your wife/husband is not the last woman/man you will fall in love with

Your wife/husband is not the last woman/man you will find your self sexually attracted to

You might think leaving your wife for this woman is the best. Heck, you might even believe it but what happens in 7 years when you find yourself falling in love with another woman?
What happens when you find yourself sexually attractive to another woman?
What happens when you begin to feel a different connection with another woman? A connection so deep, it makes you rethink staying with this new woman?

What will you do? Marriage is not all about love and what you feel for your wife. A lot of times in a marriage, you will sit down and think to yourself why you chose to marry this person. Sometimes, you might even hate the person you married guess what, it is not totally abnormal.

Marriage like life has a lot of ups and downs, but do not because of the downs think you cant go up because the down just makes the journey up a lot more fun.

But then again, what do I know? I dont even have a girlfriend not to talk about marriage. I hope you make the right choice.

Sallam
Well said...mynd!
You will do well in the marriage front...I can tell.
FamilyRe: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by GodnGold: 6:45am On May 01, 2017
TrapQueen77:
Ok, here's my view...

Either we admit it or not a lot of married couples are married for the sake of being married..some are due to parents & peer pressure, culture etc etc...but one thing they concealed here is their true feelings..

Example: This man..imagine he is married for 15yrs but never fell in love with his wife tho he care for her. (Juz be reminded that LOVE & CARE are 2 different things..) He care for her coz of their kids but doesnt mean he Love her, Respect her or being Honest to her..

The only thing he need is to BE HONEST...tell his wife the truth so he can set free himself from all the emotional distress that torn him to be a real man.
Why do you analyse issues critically...You nd I should toast on that sometime.
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 12:31am On May 01, 2017
SgtKisswhere:
brilliant my foot, a child in a woman's body you mean......I pity that woman wey go follow try drama o.......btw I don't get what crying would yield cos it would be way better if they could have a mature conversation.

oh God help me when I am ready to get married, a mature lady who is ready to have a conversation rather than playing some stupid childish drama I pray......how I hate drama so much!!!
Till then Baba...

When your time reach,you fit jam peace,you fit jam Alahye!

May the odds not be against you.

A wise man who wants his marriage to work has to be less confrontational and attack issues with intelligence...call it drama but the wise men know how it's done.
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 12:25am On May 01, 2017
Omotayor123:
you are on point. these men don't know women at all.

she's not cheating just trying to make her husband do the needful.
You know...
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by GodnGold: 12:24am On May 01, 2017
VERDA:
You might be right about her playing games and all.. .but should marriages be like this, wife playing husband, husband playing wife for the rest of ur lives.. .not sure that's a very good advice,thats how twisted Kids are born. Imagine a child growing up in said environment.
I have been privileged to be married for a good number of years.

Two wrongs do not make a right in any marriage.

If one tries to show how intelligent he is in a marriage,the two individuals will only head for the gutters.

Ask any couple that has lived together for years...One of the two has being compromising for the train to keep moving.

You did not hear from the OP'S wife of the case and so I think I tried to work on the subject at hand.

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