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Congratulations mopolchi. You will succeed in this I pray. Any invites for subject officer?

Haaa eeeee!!! With this hunger!!!

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Am so sorry for your loss.

When God said "Love your neighbour as yourself",we tend to dash 10ngn to a beggar and think that counts.

Well it does but you crossed the line by asking how long mama gon be staying.

What reasons did you give him?

Nne nwanne m,you better learn to overlook things happily in your marriage.

Marriage bukwa "enete aghalu"

Itinye kwa anya gi n'ihe nile...inwufuo. ..chukwu ekwekwana!

Sit down and try hard to be pleasant even to your neighbours.
Aru agbakasizina gi.

You need a healthy body and mind to conceive.
Stop nagging too...It disgusts men.
Take care of yourself.

ahnie:
Ma'am to be candid....you hav serious issues(no offence).lets take it one after the other

1:you are IGBO' and he's EDO
That to me does not count.

2:you had issues with your neibor n your hubby didnt bother to hear yours....its vrry normal for some men to behav that way.

3:you went for an invite and became stranded,you called your hubby and he responded harshly.did you bother to check welda he had cash on him?

4:madam you hav to learn how to overlook some things...not everything you take to heart.


Please stop fightin yourself...leave his mum alone and sinc you knew you aint from same locality...why den did you agree to marry him

Nne,no to number 3.
He should have empathised with her and profer solutions over the phone like ;
Try and borrow from someone.
Is there an atm there.
bla bla bla!

Nice write up!

No fears...

Nice write up.

Now,as always ,I like the two sides of a story.

I will pick an excerpt from your story...where you asked oga to marry another wife.

Lucci,did you say that in all calmness or did you spit fire and threw I don't cares if you marry another wife at him?

Lucci,why would you not write your carryover because a man told you to,lady,that's desperate to me.

Lucci,haven't you heard that bitter kola doesn't taste and it sounds?

My problem is how you reacted in all these because your reaction to ANY situation is what will determine the action...I insist on this.

The future lies in your hands.

As always women get all emotional with hormones running 360 round a square when they are pregnant...I hope you aren't painting a picture courtesy of hormones?

My sister,go back to work,find customers and make attires for little pay when oga is not around, and pack up when he is due to return.

Discuss this with God but first forgive him heartedly because it is written.

Mind your mouth,do not let your tongue put you to shame.

Look at the future and hope of your marriage after 2 weeks from now.

Let the Peace and Love of Christ find you.

raumdeuter:
There is no force in this

You too use your brother and mother as next of kin

Case closed...onye ozo!!!

At first it will feel good but at a time,you will have regrets.

You are a good woman that's why.

You will regret it.
Think left;think right.

Would you advise your daughter to do same?

Two wrongs have never made a right.

Your peace and moving on will come from you.

Make peace with this situation.

You will be a better person.
Cheers.

Oga, if you have managed this for 12 years,I think you won't die if you continue.

Remember it is not all rosy.

Every marriage has its ups and downs and yours is a tip of the ice berg compared to what other men go through.

My advice...Endure this for plus or minus ten years more and you will live a longer life.

Besides this is not enough reason to say you are fed up.

Continue to endure this please for the sake of peace.

One partner must pretend to be nuts for peace and love to reign.

Don't let it get to you bro...

None...do the chores you can and leave the rest.

Cheee sweety,You alone know the truth in all of this.
As always,I prefer both sides of the tale.

But this is one version.

Do you agree you have your own faults?

What do you do that warrants his strangling you?

A man cannot wake up from his bed,turn to his wife who is sleeping and start strangling her...no except if the man is deranged and needs psychiatric help.

Women like to talk and nag,you have mentioned you pay the bills,the cars belong to you...

Honey,I refuse to believe that he contributes nothing to the house.

If you nag at every little thing...men don't like it.
He is not a child and you don't correct the mistakes of a man who will soon become a "grandpa".

Mind your health,mind your kids and keep your job.

If you don't get appreciated today,your kids will appreciate you,invest your time,energy and prayer in your kids.

Do not go into physical confrontation with a man that will strangle you to death.

Do not react to anything he says because without your reaction,there will be no action from him.
Try it today.
By the way,I have kids same age as yours.
Let love and peace reign.

Oga,I am waiting for her response ooo.

MrsNimat:
Gud afternoon mamas it is dis ur ftm again pls I need quick response and God bless yu,here is the issueWhen I went fr six weeks immunisation my baby was weighing her birth weight 3.2 and then she was tkin aptamil fomula nd breast milk, nd she poos 3-4 times daily so I changed her milk to enfamil nd she was nw pooin once daily that ia like 10 days agao but since five days I noticed she has been pooin a dark gren poo so.much nd watery,so I decided to taste the enfamil nd discovered it was a bit bitter unlike the aptamil,pls help me with suggeations please am confused

Why did you change hon?
Aptamil is great.
cow and gate too.

But for the green poo,I think you need a paed!
Go back to the Aptamil

But if this persists,please see a paediatrist ma'am!

Imokha:
My baby hardly sleep after breast feed,I suspect breast milk alone is nolonger enough for him.please what baby food will be okay for a baby of two weeks.

Give the lovely good ol'pap.

Mixture of yellow maize,dawa and joro.

You must prepare this yourself in small quantity and refrigerate properly.

When you want to feed,please make sure the pap is watery.

You should also add little milk to it and give the lovely drinking water.

I bet you...baby gon snore eeeeeee! !!!

A colleague once did this and when I asked her,it turned out it was a sacramental with a pin on it.
So she turned the picture to her belly inside the gown to protect her child.
kind of like a medallion.
Catholics may understand.

Am so sorry.

omaigala:
I tried to my best and I have not lied to her. I hate lies. But supposed you where in my shoes, will ever trust yours a 100% on everything again?

We done bro!

Dayvhid:
thanks bro the g.c.e form is not a problem, the problem is if I eventually gain admission who is going to help me with the other payments, and am a guy.

When you get to that bridge,you will cross it.

Worry less,once there is life Dave,there is hope.

Let's take the first step now,shall we?

Have a splendid day!

omaigala:
Perhaps you don't get the drift here. I asked her about it even before I made up my mind to propose but she lied about the number of her exes and I built everything on that. Do you know how painful it is to discover that the person that means so much to you actually lied to you and still did that without remorse? Can you ever trust such person again?

How many times have you lied since this year?

How many times have you lied since you were born?

In all honesty,you don't expect her to say she has being with over 20 men.

FCS,if you decide to pitch your tent with a woman,these questions you are asking her are uncalled for.

You should focus on the present tense of your marriage.
You are getting expert advice and am not charging.

Stop this wahala,Life in Nigeria is hard for all and sundry.

Enjoy your woman and stop looking for what's not there.
If she tells you 20 exes,what will be your gain?,she loves you and is protecting you.
We are not all sincere.

Marry and stay married please.

You see you sound "off" to me?

I missed if you are a guy or lady.
Now let me tell you this and I wish I could say it directly to your face...

What if you had no parents?

"May the universe forbid"

What if your parents are poor and can't afford anything?

"May the universe forbid"

Wake up today,thank your stars for waking up,
then go out and hustle for your G.C.E forms for Nov/Dec.

I need those forms by the first week of registration.

Am not giving you an option, it is mandatory.

Up you go!
Have fun and keep an open mind with your folks they are shaping you into a great man/lady
Great you!

Rest in the Lord.

Apo...kwa!
I hear you!

oya start the apology and please tell me what social media users should be apologising for.

They should even pay us especially me for the MB I have wasted reading their Aboy and Obaby wahala on the internet.
Apology ko...Apolomy ni...

I am struggling to understand marriage of these days...

Could it be something in the air we are breathing?

If a woman has a million exesss,is that a yardstick for measuring her fidelity and support?

I don't know how you process things and I don't care but you did not just marry a woman,before you divorce her,make sure you invite the people you invited 700 days ago for the divorce...
700 days ...365 days...

Zionbabe4:
It depends on the side effects you exhibit. I have seen patients that doesn't exhibit any side effect. Why not try it.

Thanks dear.

keepingmum:
The man. A Vasectomy is less invasive than a fill hysterectomy. Mores, the recovery period is significantly less around 3wks than a hysterectomy (3 months).
It's also has less risks of complications in comparison to a full hysterectomy. ......so Mr Op, pls check ur facts next time

Hysterectomy and tubal ligation(tubectomy) are they the same?

You need worm expellants. Cheers.

jossi994:
he is a fool. A brainwashed goat.. He has eaten crayfish and onions and is coming here to blaspheme the catholic church.

They don't eat crayfish bro!

DeCleff:
What is the ewoooo for? Did u lost anyone or are u shouting ewooo because u are one of garbage bin where all copy and edit sermon are been thrown into?

Lazy generation

"Did you LOOSE anyone?

Thanks