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 Family › Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:47am On Mar 12, 2016 |
fem29:I don't do sentiments dear. Op is a woman and so am I and I happen to be married for long too. Now these are my reasons for telling op to be quiet... The deed is done. What can be done? Fight,nag,bicker,the guy chose his sidy over her,what can be done? Nothing! Suck it up,move on and deal with it . That's all am saying. You want her to move out? Now that's a no-no for me because this nigga is mean and another woman will treat her kids dirty if she leaves. My advice;salvage what's left of the marriage, mend your ways the best you can. Forgiveness and looking after yourself helps too. Always put your kids first because a child will never understand "why momma left". |
| Family › Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:30am On Mar 12, 2016 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: WAEC: Invitation For Aptitude Test Roll In by GodnGold: 5:55pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
A birdie says 19th is the date...A birdie guys but let's keep studying and hoping for good tidings. |
| Family › Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:41pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
I am not joking!
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| Family › Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:36pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
pcguru1:See...I don't like to be rude but your comments are baseless... One time you are for the op,the next you are against. Don't quote me instead profer a solution for a marriage of 15 years with kids (possibly). Did you bother to listen to oga's side of the story? Did you bother to know if op cheated first and oga decided to go karma on her? Neee anya ka ngwa gi,If a woman leaves her marriage,another woman will walk in and drill her kids properly. Leave all these opata yarn about "many fishes","financially stable"..., #ugonwanyibudi(A woman's pride is her man). In this Africa setting. Op,go and settle your marital issues and sit your behind at home and care for your kids. Aku fechaa odalu awo! Soldier go;soldier come...barrack go still deh! It hurts but just chill...We are talking 15 years...check am na! |
| Family › Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 4:52pm On Mar 10, 2016 |
If you have been married for the number of years you claim then this is not a problem. If a man decides to cheat,let him. Truth is there is nothing you can do about it. If you cry,nag,fight,etc...It doesn't change the fact that the brother has being elsewhere. Time is a good factor in solving these issues...remember why,how and when you married. Forgive him before he realises it. Even the good book (bible) says that when we do good to our enemies we will be heaping coals on their head. It hurts for a spouse to cheat,believe me... but giving your husband a choice was way out of line. Learn to keep quiet because you are a woman. Learn by observing,if you throw tantrums you will never see the depth of this... You were wrong by asking him to choose and mind you sister...if you give up on that marriage of 15 years because of this...then am afraid you are at loss with all the financial ability you have. If he comes home,eats your food and doesn't beat you up then you are trully married. Congratulations! |
| Family › Re: Working Mums by GodnGold: 2:50am On Mar 09, 2016*. Modified: 7:42am On Mar 09, 2016 |
Filipino sha! |
| Family › Re: My Family Is Tearing Apart Now. by GodnGold: 2:36am On Mar 09, 2016 |
Switch your children's school to govt school. The time you spend here lamenting will be put to use if you do so. Money is hard to come by now for everybody. Then take your child to the teaching hospital it will cost you 300 naira to get the card and other stuff. Your day pay should feed your family comfortably except there is something you are not saying. manage yourself and feed them protein instead of indomie and bread. Manage yourself and keep your dignity. Man up! Men don't squirm and wail like you are doing...its not good for your self esteem. Man up! 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: Why Do God Keep Taking Away Those That Want To Live? Take Me Naaaaaa!!!!! by GodnGold: 2:23am On Mar 09, 2016 |
Beloved,you are wonderfully made.
There is nothing that God can't do.
Talk to my Adonai,he is not deaf,cry unto him,he listens.
As long as you have breath in you,you are made whole.
God loves you even when no one does.
Please be strong. Let the Holy Spirit of God comfort you now and always...Amen It sure is well. |
| Family › Re: Please Help Me! I'm Extremely Confused & Need Advice by GodnGold: 10:09pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Welcome to marriage. where everything is not rosy but we keep it 100 by worrying less and praying more. Source for loan to put to bed first. It sure is well. |
| Family › Re: Somebody Shout A Big Alleliuaaaaaaaahhhh! by GodnGold: 9:52pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
Baba God,thank you oooo.
Aka m no n'enu ooooo
May my sisters who are tryn to conceive tap into this blessing.
Pick their call oooo Elohim! 1 Like |
| Politics › Re: How The Crash That Killed James Ocholi And Family Was Just A Big Mess by GodnGold: 12:53am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Very insightful...daalu rinne! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Which Type Is Your Husband? by GodnGold: 12:14am On Mar 08, 2016 |
Not on the list...add more pleaseeeeee? |
| Celebrities › Re: Clarion Chukwura Marries For The Third Time by GodnGold: 6:04pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Aristotle96:Me think that's a cigarette pack and a lighter. |
| Family › Re: Where Does A Person Draw The Line? by GodnGold: 1:50pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Song of Ocol and Song of Lawino. .. |
| Family › Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by GodnGold: 10:44pm On Mar 02, 2016 |
Tales by moonlight... And she introduced you as her cousin and you have a manhood between your legs and you did not make her see the solar system on HD? Men cheat,ekwerem!(I concur) But that doesn't give any woman the impetus to go over board like that...that act alone is called overboard×10. But I don't believe that thing you wrote... Sorry ooo. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: How Did You Cope When You Had A Failed Relationship? by GodnGold: 6:54am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Marxxx:Hmmmm,oh! Now I get it. Oh dear! oh...What a world! oh! Hmmmmm. It sure is well with Mr "I". |
| Family › Re: My Toddler Left The School Premise Without Supervision by GodnGold: 5:07pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
This issue is delicate. Since your son can speak,could you teach him not to leave the school ever? Then stop over reacting with the teachers because no one in his/her right sense would let a child leave the school...It is clearly a mistake. Find your child's teacher,become good friends,call her on the phone to ask how she is doing and tip her on weekends (fridays),when you can. I tell you,she will pay attention to your child. Lastly,if you are the type that drive into the school,glasses wound up,ac blazing,sitting in the car and not saying hi to the teachers...stop it. Those teachers deserve a "well done","how was your day?" and a little smile of encouragement. You put your child(children) in their care for hours,the least you could do is be nice. If you change schools,what is the guarantee that the security is best there? Just chill and pray for your kids. It sure is well! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: ...when A Wife Pvssyfoots by GodnGold: 2:49pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
And is not even vulgar except maybe the lady's reply but I doubt this anyways. |
| Family › Re: ...when A Wife Pvssyfoots by GodnGold: 2:46pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
T |
| Family › Re: ...when A Wife Pvssyfoots by GodnGold: 2:45pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Tell a tale properly please. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Why A Woman's Infidelity Is Worse Than A Man's by GodnGold: 2:40pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
Postman,I like your write up...well done! But pardon me brother if I say you are generalising in these points; 50%of women who cheat are not looking to fill any emotional void,I say this because I handle such issues,so I have first hand information not based on here say. Again,if you mention the issue of STDS,would it please you brother to know that "condom" is a noun?...It exists. Brother correct me if am wrong but the only reason why a woman should not cheat is to avert the wrath of her creator. If you ask me a 21st century woman,I won't say "what is good for the geese... I would rather say..."Much ado about nothing" If you preach from today till tomorrow about infidelity on these points,brother you will get 1 out of 10 grades because it is a cycle. The only reason is Morality,women should have high moral values like in the days of old. There are women who can damn all these and still do the deed. All the same,correct me if am wrong. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: I Thought She Was A Friend,now She Wants Sex in return for a Favour. by GodnGold: 8:36am On Feb 28, 2016 |
Differ your studies...
Problem solved |
| Family › Re: Wife In Early Labour: What Do You Do? by GodnGold: 8:54pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Thank God.
Greet Madam oooo and kiss the little man. |
| Family › Re: Wife In Early Labour: What Do You Do? by GodnGold: 7:24am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Relax yourself. But be very close to the nurses,don't take a long walk. Trust your instincts on whatever it tells you. Pray quietly by seeing the face of your pumpkin in your hands and that of your wife in your minds eye. Finally,if she labours so much and it gets tough (but it wont),remember the alternative immediately and act fast. I hear your baby's first cry and see your wife's smile. Congratulations sir! Shalom! 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Family › Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by GodnGold: 10:50pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Na wa ooo.
Please let your people take your children.
One mama has told me that they dash people that kain sickness.
Hope you have checked liver,kidney,ovarian cancer and cervical cancer.
It is not your portion.
May Jehovah El shaddai heal you for the sake of mercy and your kids.
Cry to the Lord using your kids,he is not deaf.
Shalom! 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Life As I See It. by GodnGold: 11:07pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. |
| Family › Re: . by GodnGold: 11:00pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Untamed sweety,please are you still with "bf" in that town? I am the girlie you are opening this thread about. You thinks am not smart on social media eh? So he is with you on varentine day? Oh! Seriously,your character says something about you,sticking out your neck for a rival? You are smart but your bf is smarter. But just a step ahead. My advice,keep your love for this guy in check and don't fall head over heels in love with him. l If another bloke comes along, spread your net not your legs(very different and very crucial). Keep being your free spirited self but be careful when intimacy comes in,your type is usually tamed with pregnancy and there lies your woes. Be quiet when you are with this guy so that you will learn more from his body language. Don't dump him yet,soon you will have a tangible reason to do so. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Am Beginning To Lose Faith In Marriage by GodnGold: 4:48pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Please stop mentioning Catholicism. Every woman compares...ok? Especially if she is not working. Relax jooo. Stop complaining and help her get a job if she has none. With little time to look at her phone,she will understand better how hard it is to make money and lesser time for her chitty chatty friends. If you reside in lagos,choi!na there e enter well well. It is just a phase. .. Better still...get her pregnant again... Am a woman ooo and I play too much. |
| Family › Re: The Daughter Who Took Financial Responsibility For Her Dad’s Love-child! by GodnGold: 8:09am On Feb 21, 2016 |
Thanks for sharing. |
| Family › Re: Urgent Advice by GodnGold: 6:40pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Deafndumb:That's a grown up. Absolutely right! How you feeling now? |
| Family › Re: Pls Can Motherless Babies Home Help Me Take Care Of My Child by GodnGold: 10:01am On Feb 20, 2016 |
But for 3 years you have being surviving? They will not agree because you are a "woman/mother" If you were a man...ehennn! What of your mother? But if you have managed for 3 years,continue with what you have being doing,you are doing it right. Except you are giving the child up entirely. |
. May it be her last. Amen