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I see sense in this.I am obsessed with my phone.pls teach me to stop.It was my TV but somehow I stopped subscribing always.Now this...Please pray for me.

I agree.

Truckpusher:
There are sometimes you don't want to go down with a woman simply because you don't want to be caught up in a dangerous dramatic love triangle - I believe the op knew how sensitive her case was and sleeping with her would have given her the right to lay claim that a relationship exists and this is where I admire the op's courage.

Some persons wouldn't mind but I have always told people that one mad rush of uncontrolled sexual desire can ruin your entire life or give you the heat that you wouldn't wish your enemy to have.

I personally called him a 'jonsing' boy but deep inside me what he did was the right thing - Sometimes , women are crazy and you pray not to be their victim when their madness comes calling.

You nailed it man!

op,there is nothing like fear.We are above all things.Even if a mother losses a child it doesn't stop her from trying for another.silence the voice of fear now.And You only live once.

Thanks op.will remember these and do them regularly.

kevinberry:
You guys just rushed to comment without taking time out to read his story,he clearly said that she advised him to sleep with her raw,that it safe...

The blame is on both of you,both more on your babe,either she is ignorant that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy or she wants to use the pregnancy to tie you down,and you for rushing to sex her raw simply because she told you to do so....

She can't force you to take responsibility for the baby,you were clearly not ready,so the two of you should sit down and discuss about it......

This should also serve as a lesson to you too,don't jump up @the sound of the world raw sex,she can't force you to accept the baby,you can't force her to abort it,but I know you will be so blinded by love she will take you for a ride thereby affecting your education and life...

Bros kevooo,do I have a different story cos I didn't read the part op said she asked him not to use protection.

JeffreyJamez:
I have a 24 yrs old friend who is still in University but a great dad to his 3yrs old daughter and he's not too well to do but he lives up to his responsibilty as the father of his kid.
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Now to think a 30 yr old who is even working is thinking of throwing a potential cute baby away is just sickening!!

I'm going to be very blunt....

You should be ashamed that at your age you're still thinking of things like abortion....when some of your mates don born 2 dey reason 3rd one sef...

Better brace yourself and live up to your responsibility..

#angryMode

Thank you very much.Ndi ife n'emecha bia n'acho ife mmadu ga asi fa!

Eddygourdo:
no offence taken, it wasn't meant to be funny but my expression at my awe that a lady who was in bed with me (apparently cheating) could ask me why her boyfriend (the night caller) was accusing her of cheating cos he felt so via her response to him, don't you see that as hypocrisy or even my apparent lie just to continue Wat we were doing

ok Eddy.

Am not throwing stones Eddy,but some things are left unsaid or untyped rather.I have read this thing you wrote and didn't find it funny,educative or reasonably you.Why did you walk this lane?Why?

Good day sir,How much does a 2006 mazda 5 go for,including papers?

Just look at!The lady asked for quit but he refused...After two kids he wants divorce.I have one thing to say,this your friend has seen a fresh lady and bad ideas are sprouting up.Tell him to kill that "free attitude" with other women and face his marriage like a man and hustler.

bebee:
women really dont go out looking for clues. they inadvertently stumble on these clues. besides that, the other woman outside gets more demanding of the man s time, jealous of time spent with his family. this makes the man less careful ,stressed, trying to satisfy 2 women and the clues come tumbling after.

U sabi!!!

#TeamFGGC lejja class of 2004. We rock good!

TheSonOfMark:

I have always detested hostels. No privacy. It's one of the many reasons I never stayed in any.

Is really fun brother,some good bonds are created there,especially if one spends the entire six years of high school in a particular school.I did and my #mates are awesome.just saying.

@markone,thanks.

op,thanks for that encouragement.I feel cheated in my marriage because all my kids are just exact replicas of their dad,the first boy that was supposed to be like "mummy" for where?Even the babe!All is well shaaa!

bobo,antenatal card=2500.folder=1000.consultation=5000.drugs=3500/month.Lets take it from here.Biology ko;taking care ni!

Did the "many medical blogs" also tell you that it is rare for a woman to be pregnant and menstruating?.Nnaaa,biko jee chili ogodo gi ebe iwulu aru jooo!!!

There is a good dangerous and a bad dangerous.Well not necessarily our nature,we just bask in trouble,chaos and uncertainty.More like risk takers! Remember am not generalising.#mostwomen.

Oh dear! Finally!!! someone read the post accurately.Well done @ chymystique. Op,I have nothing to tell you.

Most of us are really dangerous and the list of what women can do is endless.#amproudlyawoman.

Well done chidoks and Blustreak. At least some people still remember how it USED to be.Call me old fashioned or outdated but I still love how our parents handled their marital issues.We have a saying in my place;"ONYE bu mmadu uzo sibe ite n'ebu uzo enwe mkpo- mkpo ite".I will explain...if one starts cooking before another ,the former will have lots of cracked pots before the later.Seek counselling from decent old couples.They know a lot and have being through a lot. It's a secret I adopted.When I have issues with my sweet and I tell my mum she quickly takes sides with my hubby and it annoys me so much and on one occasion i asked her and she gave a priceless answer."You are my daughter and if I take sides with you,that is pouring fuel to a burning coal and it burns more, I don't want fire in your home".After that talk,I can't remember the last time I had serious issues with hubby.For the unmarried,before you fall head over heels in love and marriage,ask for your parents opinion,they are important basics we have forgotten.That,is #myhumbleopinion.

know the things she lies about.And keep telling her about the consequences thereof. #myhumbleopinion.

Well said guys.My yardstick for measuring a MAN is not in the characteristics of the op's offender.But op, look on the brighter side...you never know what lies ahead.

Why this moniker,it means something to me?

ok I understand SAMBARRY.Thanks.

SAMBARRY,hope you don't mind my asking,what does the last statement in your comment mean?

calm down,mummy baby,you hear?.Dont be too angry.It happens all the time even our parents had similar issues.Silent treatment is not the best.Remember the good book (bible) tells us to be slow to anger,but we ought to listen more.You should also be wise as a serpent and gentle like a dove.This is your marriage and you must put a stop to it.Remove anger from your spirit and give a careful thought to what might have resulted to this.And mend it.The bible will encourage you if you are a christian,airing it here on nairaland is a good step too.If you have any God fearing elderly woman,you should talk to her too.Give a careful thought and mind what you say to your hubby when confronting him if the need arises.Do not say what you can't take back,that my sister is #myhumbleopinion.

The answers here are so on point!well done guys

Try olfen gel for massaging.It will stop the minute you put to bed.sorry ooo

chizimuzo- David or Nchedo chukwu -Rex.

sister,I understand you perfectly.But pls remember women who don't have this opportunity.This child loved you first and wants to be in your warm embrace against all precautions you have taken.My dear pls the Lord is your strength,take courage from the list of women who are trying to conceive and remember to tell God that this is your last and he should give to others.Pls start loving that child now pls.This pregnancy may even be your healing ticket to that waist pain.#myhumbleopinion