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The good Lord spoke through you Op. Thanks.

16 years and you still have time to think with your manhood?
You are not even buoyant enough to set up another family.
Why are you still breathing since she left you,you are supposed to be dead.
My friend,go get yourself a bottle of Whiskey,drink all of it at a go,sleep in an air tight room.
Then tell me if you can still breath or not.
Pls go and pound crayfish for your wife whilst she prepares correct vegetable soup for you.

Hmmmm,the best thread ever.

ifyalways:
Like Richy would say. . . Its all the other spouse's fault. So @OP, here goes :
Oga is not doing his husbandly kpekus duties well. He needs to work on his pot belly, research deeply on the internet on how to keep the fire burning and glowing, he also needs to invest in "sexy" men thongs et all.
Oga is stingy.he has refused to spend on madam so she's banging outside for money and contracts.

Seriously,cheats do so for very varying and stoopid reasons. Sometimes for no reason at all.

Ogbuopi,gbukenelu Ify opi n'oliro ugwo akwukwo ya!

@welder,you are nagging about her physique,talk to her about it.
Be blunt if you like,tell her those women she says their hubby are taking care of look better than her(na as me and my bugatti deh joke)
Finally,tell her that you won't be a party to ill treating a person's child.
Mean it when you say it by threatening to call the girl's parents.
Stop interfering with her work and how she deals with her workers.
Women are unbelievable!
But the cousin who is directly under you,you should look out for her.
Address this issue of maltreating a child with seriousness.
Women do a lot of things that we see everyday and marvel.
Stop nagging,learn to turn a blind eye to issues that don't affect you directly,stay out of her space,so that you will live a long healthy life.
Life in Nigeria is hard,nobody should make it worse.

@thesixthsense,good point. However,the op has learnt a lot from this.

O Di egwu

ronald4lif:
OP esewa go isi. Fa si unu hapu ise afifia kpolo-nkwu unu achu. Nenu ga ina ekobu si ala.

TheSonOfMark:
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Just maybe if you show less indecision, concentrate on making the relationship work and cease flirting with other men he'd consider you worthy enough to compromise his hitherto uncommitted stance. Just maybe.
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Few men are wasteful these days. If anything, the current state of the economy has taught us to make smart financial decisions.

Women, on the other hand, think every new gown of theirs should have a matching purse and a pair of new stilettos. She thinks purchasing an iPhone 6 isn't exactly wasteful. More often than not she transfers that financial burden to the men who court her attention them turn around to blame them for wasteful spending. Ironic!
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Really? Let's put this into perspective :

A man spends on the average #300 for a haircut at a street barber's shop while a woman spends about #2,500 on braids that'd last for two weeks.

A woman's more likely to go on a crazed shopping spree and she'll end up purchasing things she already has. Howelse can one explain away a woman purchasing four different shades of GREEN SHOES and the same type?

Women spend much on things they barely need.
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Hey! I am looking and not touching. I'm still with you, right? You women also flirt! You think we don't know you've secretly imagined yourself with Ramsey Noah at some point? Or we do not see that long, longing look of craving in your eyes when you see a seemingly rich man at the mall?
See? We aren't bothered as long as you're still with us.
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Sometimes to keep that roof our heads or keep you happy, we have to lie. Harmless lies though. Scratch that - say UNTRUE things.

You: "Honey, do you think my belly fat is too obvious ?"

Us: "Nope. Maybe I didn't notice 'cause you still look sexy as ever".


We both know your tummy fat is obvious but I'm just playing the nice boyfriend.
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Wrong! We all know your gender is more guilty of that. Not with the monosyllabic hogwash you churn out as replies. "K, Sup, Hmmm, LOL, Morn" and other such dyslexic way of typewriting.
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Good job man!

SAMBARRY:
Buy jik , acid and harpic. mix every thing together and then drink.


Say hi to angel Michael and angel for me.

when you get there tell them shewa will join them in the next 80 years. I'm still having a great time here

bye dear

Really Shewa?
The chap needs your 50k for new year's eve and you saying "bye"
Ask him for his account details please.

Although am not a fan of APC or their president,but he expressed himself spontaneously.
I couldn't help but agree to his responses.
But I have a few disagreements with his response to the civil servants backroom bla bla bla...
The dude said "we should work harder and expect little in return"
Got me really worried.
And then again,on the issue of the 50 billion naira or 47. whatever billion naira for vehicles to nass members,why disclaim that the bill passes through his table?
"...pray like is up to God..."
Indeed!!!
I will give him a 6.

I agree.

It will.
In cases that are very crucial.
If you need to travel out,you will have issues.
Go to WAEC and make sure "Abubakar" gets
into your result.
And some employers toomay claim you are different individuals.
Thank me later.

frank317:
OK, I just wanted to understand ur believe, but it's clear that you dont not even understand it. Well, cheers.

Thanks pal...whatever you say!

I will never understand these brawls...

Frank317,I won't quote you or say what I can't defend.
You chose the points you wanted and left the rest.
I love God because FOR ME,ME,ME and once again Me,God is all there is.
I don't want you to give me reasons why you don't agree with my write up.
Am not asking you anything...
Let me be with what I choose to believe,however I want to believe it and whenever.
My aunt is in a better place.
Let's be free to believe anything without shoving it down each other's gullet.
Cheers!

Is good to know that your pop is doing well. I hope that you get back in the fold by 31st. It is a splendid way of starting a new year. Don't you agree? My kind regards to papi.

Jadonjack:
Well, I kinda like the way you put ur words together. Buh seeing the way 95% of the xtians following this thread behaved, I doubt you are a xtian.

Now, to my issue, my dad's finally agreed to my decision, I just had to lie to him the doc is also a pastor.

And as per his well being, he's improving now. Thank you

I am a believer of Christ.
I love God and the teachings of God.
I am not a fanatic or a religious person.
These are different.
People love God to receive miracles.
I love God because God is all there is.
I love God for first loving me.
So believe it when I say I believe there is God.
Even if there isn't according to my atheist friends,Only time will tell.
I don't get the hullabaloo about existence or non existence.
Let's live everyday like is our last,make the most of it and most importantly do good and live a better life.

How's your dad Jadon?
Any improvements so far?
Now I have quietly followed this thread from the first page till...
Every human is entitled to his/her own belief.
The people that called you names didn't do well.
I believe in God.
You believe what you want.
Fair huh?!
Now,Christians got it wrong by shoving God down your throat but you got it wrong by giving God an ultimatum.
I lost an aunt on 21st Dec, last year,to cancer,we were close.
She died in my place,I rallied round with pregnancy to get her all d good care but I still lost her to ovarian cancer,this is a woman who never had a child of her own.
It got me to your junction,but then I BELIEVE she is in a better place.
Stop this Jadon.
Put your energy towards getting help and info from anywhere to help papa.
You don't have to sing praises,no...
just let papa have his faith 100%
It's his life afterall.
Consider this an orientation into manhood.
If papa goes away today,it may be to make you a better man,who knows

apexmall:
Give me the Bible chapter that Bible endorsed divorce on the ground of adultery? NEVER on adultery but on fornication( sex she did before her marriage which she didn't confess before the Church blessing, and if she did he cannot divorce her and if do, he has to remain single till she died(never pray for her to die) or else you remain single till the end of your life or else you will be living in adultery and no adultery will enter into the kingdom of God.

PRAYER AND DELIVERANCE IS THE SOLUTION TO THIS.

Dear apexmall, pls read mattew 5:32,and read the king James version
And before you quote me again,"fornication" is "old english" for modern English "adultery".
Let's concentrate on advising the op.

I have a similar case,very similar. Op,I will ask you one question, Is there anything left to salvage in that relationship? If you are a Christian,the bible endorses divorce on adultery grounds. So except you want her to poison u slowly till 31st Dec, Run!!! what I say man? Run!!! "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned " But by the way,you played the victim too well Are you that perfect? Cos after many years of marriage,i know that no one is perfect. We just got Jesus all up in our system. That's the way forward. God bless you and keep you.

Maybe Mr bright "engaged" her with a house maid "ring". Since it is to care for the kids. Is it safe to call aunty Florence a house girl?

Nogen:
This is serious o. In a sane society, he would have been thoroughly investigated, the wife's corpse exhumed and examined for possible poisoning.

4 months? Sheer wickedness!!!

True talk.

amunkita:
Biafrans re blessed..
What a biafran will do in 2 weeks a nigerian will do same in 99yrs with error..

Nwanne Uwa di Omini..

ndewo!

OZAOEKPE:
WE IN PDP SET THE PACE FOR OTHERS(APC AND CO) TO FOLLOW........... CANT WAIT FOR 2019 TO COME, THAT YEAR THE YOUTHS OF THIS COUNTRY WOULD BEG US(PDP) TO COME SAVE THEM. AND WE(PDP) WOULD FORM FOR THEM...

Uche gi Di ya!

okey1074:
My wife is pregnant with our first child, we do not yet know the gender of the baby. We've chosen a name for a boy but we are struggling to come up with a good baby girl's name. We've chosen native names (Ibo) we only need English names.

Any suggestions??

Op is "Igbo"
Cindy.
Pearl.
Rose.
Collette.
Anna belle.

Back and forth...back and forth... When will I understand these brawls Probably feigned...

I beg to disagree with your "Folktales".
So because of nearness to church,you relocated to another area to find "another new generation church"?
Why didn't you relocate to a place closer to the former church?
"Rice on saturday; Rice on sunday pastor's wife"

fem29:
If you do not have children and you feel that you cannot forgive her fully and move on from this, then you need to divorce her.

If you have children. Forgive and forget and suck it up and stay for the kids. That's what women do!

I like this part..."That's what women do"...
The reasonable ones STAY for the kids.
It takes strong folks to confess to such things especially when they know the cons.
Forgive her if you can not because people say you should.
You are wearing the shoes bro and you have done things WITHOUT confessing.

Atleast you got yourself FP Op! What's the prerequisite for this FP?

fem29:
This story is really ridiculous. You people don't seem to know if you are coming or going. Your siblings just came to dump their kids on your hubby even when you were not around. Strange indeed. Also why did you decide to sleep with the kids in the same room? . It's weird, why didn't you put them altogether in 1 room. Even if you sleep with them in the room why can't you come out to the living room with your hubby whilst they are asleep.
Your story doesn't ring true.

Thank You,You will go to heaven.
8kids

My okoro taught me that maturity is when you control the wheel of your relationship with people.To be honest with you,this issue is baseless.
You don't want your sil around...finish.
I read your first post,from seating at the drawer to blah blah blah.
I may not just get it but dear you are better than this...Love your kids and your husband,thank God for your family and get a teaching job.
Problem solved.
#candourme.