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May Adonai be with you and your wife all the way.But I think you should keep some things to yourself#myhumbleopinion

These are hard times.God will send you a helper.But begging is not a good thing.Jisike.

NappilyNigerian,I missed the Enugu natural hair show.Any upcoming shows?Thank you.

Good day any plenty, I need a few guidelines.How can I get through to you.Thank you.

Eddygourdo*

Eddy gourd, why do you write so well?I was just about following you until I realised you have only FEMALE followers.why is that?sorry am derailing...just curious.

Whatever makes you sleep at night and wake up the next day...Every man for himself.

Bro, there is nothing you can do.In your words "paying dearly",am sorry but you will pay more to get this case to court.Do you want sound advice;let this slide...As a lesson to your sister.let her suffer for her attitude,she will be a better person if she is determined.Call a family meeting,tell your parents to bear it nomatter how painful.You may go into this case with anger and a heart full of vengeance without thinking properly and make mistakes.Easy does it my friend...support her with antenatal and post natal care accordingly.Let the peace of God find a place in your heart.

If I tell you the horror you will continue to pass through if you abort that child,u will wither.Once I was 3mos pregnant,though married,was supposed to be my third issue,I had intra uterine foetal death or whatever they called it (not same with urs) but I carried a dead foetus without knowing.When the doc found out,they had to evacuate,sometimes when I remember it,my head plays tricks on me,I want to think it's a Lil girl or boy,I want to know if she is chubby or if he has my eyes.i have so many kisses I want to give my baby.Though I got a pumpkin after that,I still remember.Keep that child now will you, please and you will be glad u did.With love...

#jesusjewel1# soulfromperishing#timesarereallyhardmehn.

op good write up.We turn blind eye to some flaws because we want to make it work.There is no perfect man or woman.Thank you op.

Ancient of days!ODOGWU!

Hello Ada,I am sorry for this burdens,is difficult pulling through after a miscarriage.However,if you guys fight (physical combat),now that's unnecessary because you are a woman and you can't match a man in physical combat.Pls try and avoid any issue that will bring this...because mgbe omekwalu akpoba ekwensu!Pls for the sake of your child.And don't always tell him no out rightly, some men don't like it,just say ok I will like u don't know what you r doing but make ur head deh there.Finally,try and talk to God about this situation and try to be submissive in certain things,men want to know they are in charge.marriage is not a war zone and you can tame this guy if you work hand in hand with God.#myhumbleopinion#n'uchenkem

tithe:
The man himself confirmed that he locked her because she refused to tell him the dream she had, which she already told him she forgot. Does it it warrant such treatment.

It doesn't. But I think there is more to the car incident and lol at the dream thing...tithe,my candid advice is let them be cos your friend's stories don't add up.#myhumbleopinion

.There are things better left in "matrimony".IKE GWUKWALU OOO!ONYE OZO BIKO....

tithe:
Please lawyers, human right activists and pastors, I sincerely need your advice on how to save my friend from this dungeon called marriage.

Just recently I discovered that my friend has been living in same house with a beast who has been spraying his sperm all over the town, the last maid they brought to the house got pregnant for this man.

But the issues troubling me now are the sequel life threatening events that has been going on in the house;

1. On 16th of this month my friend slept outside, inside her car and her phone was destroyed by this man, just because she went to do her hair without informing him. Early in the morning she decided to go to a friends house to use her phone and call so that the family won't be worried, but this man traced her to place and gave her beating of her life and sized her friends phone as well and then told my friend to go and call her family to come and take her, that he is feed up with her.

2. He locked up my friends pharmaceutical shop being threatened that my friend is a pharmacist while he is just SSCE holder

3. And on Monday, he woke my friend up and ask her to tell him the dream she had, but she told him she couldn't remember, he didn't hesitate to beat her up and for two days he locked her inside the house taking her phone with him and denying her any form of visit or communication.
If I start listing all that this man has done three pages will not contain it.

My friend has 4 kids with this man, a boy and 3girls. I sincerely need advice on how to go about this to secure my freinds life, her business, the shop and the house. Any legal and spiritual advice on this will be appreciated.

Did your friend do anything to warrant this behaviour?.Am a woman but some of us have attitudes that some men can't "see and look away". Some women like to be the victim even when they are not victimised.The details of this saga is not here,for all I know oga "ssce holder" may have his own tales,I could be wrong.op, where I can from we have a saying that one doesn't involve himself or herself in man and wife matters,because when they become lovey dovey ,you will be sorry.#myhumbleopinion

MixedMan:
Please I really need your advice my fellow nigerians.. My brother in law is breaking my family and my marriage..

I got married with my husband 2011, it was going all well and lovely.. I really loved my husband,he's the most caring man on earth and gentle,gives me listening ears and take care of the family.. By. Sept 2014, he's immidiate younger brother visted us, I was thinking it was a short visit only for me to discover he wants to stay with us pending on when he gets new job within the city.. I learnt he lost his former job at abuja due to some personal issues he never want to revealed to us.. And he's 38 not yet married.. As at jan this year, he made some funny moves with me.. That shows he's interested in me.. I gave no room for that,just recently only for me to discover he's helping my husband to arrange other women outside.. According to some of the people telling me.. This is not the first time nor even the sixth time.. He will arrange girls for my husband in hotels,clubs etc
Just last two weeks,I decided to stalk them, when he told me he wasn't coming back tonight.. Just for me to see them at a popular club at ikeja with some girls.. I have confronted my husband and told him but till now he's stll haven't changed, this past friday it repeated itself again.. Right now I'm confused,I don't know what to do.. I need your help my fellow nigerians.


Patience from Lagos.

.Do you have kids,do you want to live long and see what your kids will be?do you have a job?do you cook well?do you perform your conjugal duties properly?If you are positive to all these,then wipe your eyes seven times RELAX and tell God about it,you will see drama unfold between the duo.You can't keep a man under lock and key ma'am.

uc97:
Please nairalanders I need help. An evil relative of mine has been spying on me for yrs now. I can't rest peacefully in my room any longer. He uses and pays people living next to me to do the evil act. I have searched all over my room for hidden camera but to no avail. At a time I had to give my laptop to somebody thinking he was using my laptop webcam to do that but that wasn't the case.
You may want to ask how I came to know I was being spied on? I know b/c the occupant next to me who he uses to perpetrate the evil act usually makes some irritating noises like knocking repeatedly on the floor or hitting the wall with a hard object just to disturb my rest. The evil half brother once swore he will make life unbearable for me and that I will never have peace of mind.
I have changed residence more than three times but each time he uses the person leaving close to me to accomplish his evil act. I don't know what he uses the information he gathers for.

They see me when I step out of my bedroom to the kitchen or bathroom and even when I UnCloth. He has also been carrying out other evil acts like employing people to follow me anywhere I go, and poison the minds of people against me plus other things too numerous to mention here.

One question I can't answer is how his agent sees me in my room without camera or break in the wall. Is this possible?
I have heard rumours of a spiritual mirror that can do this but has never seen one.

Please anybody that has a solution to this nagging problem should text or call me on 09031537676. I'm ready to pay for the person's services.

Thank you all.

.Ndi mmadu sef!

uc97:
Please nairalanders I need help. An evil relative of mine has been spying on me for yrs now. I can't rest peacefully in my room any longer. He uses and pays people living next to me to do the evil act. I have searched all over my room for hidden camera but to no avail. At a time I had to give my laptop to somebody thinking he was using my laptop webcam to do that but that wasn't the case.
You may want to ask how I came to know I was being spied on? I know b/c the occupant next to me who he uses to perpetrate the evil act usually makes some irritating noises like knocking repeatedly on the floor or hitting the wall with a hard object just to disturb my rest. The evil half brother once swore he will make life unbearable for me and that I will never have peace of mind.
I have changed residence more than three times but each time he uses the person leaving close to me to accomplish his evil act. I don't know what he uses the information he gathers for.

They see me when I step out of my bedroom to the kitchen or bathroom and even when I UnCloth. He has also been carrying out other evil acts like employing people to follow me anywhere I go, and poison the minds of people against me plus other things too numerous to mention here.

One question I can't answer is how his agent sees me in my room without camera or break in the wall. Is this possible?
I have heard rumours of a spiritual mirror that can do this but has never seen one.

Please anybody that has a solution to this nagging problem should text or call me on 09031537676. I'm ready to pay for the person's services.

Thank you all.

Ndi mmadu sef!

blesoh:
Please mothers in the house,my 9month old baby has no teeth yet.
Is it normal,can anything be done about it?
My first baby had @ 6month.

.It is very normal dear,every child develops differently.

Time2Smile:
Any newbie to the family section might erroneously be scared of getting married if antecedents about marriage in the family section is used as yardstick to judge marriage. But I assure singles out there that marriage to the right person is one of the best thing that can happen to anyone. Though my marriage is relatively young(less than two years) but getting married to my sweetheart is the best decision I have ever taken. I am incomplete whenever we are not together due to work or studies, and we have shared some wonderful moments together. This thread is for sharing those happy moments that only married couples can experience.

.Every day is my best moment because I married my best friend,our fights are the best cos when we are arguing,we still call each other "babe".Mine is 5 years.