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A very big thank you sir for this information.And to say that I hustle introduced soybean to my baby's food two days ago.Thank you.Kind regards to your baby.

stinggy:
Why not go for a straight abortion since you and hubby hasn't change mind on having more babies.

And after healing, go to a clinic and find out the best birth control method for your body.

Becareful of what you advice people on friend,some issues are delicate.

Keep surfing the Internet. kind regards.

just4now:
While not justifying the action of your pastor which l have no right to pass judgment but for your seek l choose to advice. Brother, Christianity is highly spiritual this is why the Lord instructed us not to judge others because you never know where He has granted grace. lf l want to go by the letters your pastor is wrong but where do we place the leading of the Holy Spirit in matters so complicated as this. lf you are in doubt where your pastor stands before God [if you care that much] you should seek the face of God concerning his action. Meanwhile, many will lie against the Holy Spirit to justify their actions to their own perils still that doesn't negate hearing instructions from Him. As Christians we are to live by the Holy Spirit and walk after the Holy Spirit...Gal 5:24-26.

Cheers mate,you just nailed that.

ogawisdom:
focus ur energy on getting a job dts ur main prob. as long as u r jobless u cant do shit.

Angel chinny, this is the answer to your question.Everyother action you take will backfire.Your parents are right with their advice,in fact they really love you.Get a job.If you have gained extra flesh?Nne work on your body.Nwaguy (ur hubby),will change too.#myhumbleopinion.

Tashaamania:
The nonentity might turn out to be Mr. right. I'm just saying..
She shouldn't ignore any signs. Staying with someone for five years isn't a guarantee just as knowing someone couple of months back isn't. Anyone can pretend for any length of time.

OP weigh both options. if need be, take time off the wedding planning, postpone and figure out what you really want. Marriage no be beans especially when you're going into it with doubts, that's alot of pending trouble.

I like that you sounded like a villain (villainess),not in a bad way though.Trying to be at odds with the "groom".Sisi op,what are the issues between you and "to be groom"?

holocron:
Then be a man and stop whining! Next time you catch those calls, fly into a rage and smash that phone! Later give her another with a new sim card. Insist the offending numbers are never found found on the new phone. Any further infractions, walk away.

If for any reason you cant do this, then bear your burden like a man and be prepared for actual cuckolding in the future. Emotional infidelity in a woman can be worse and deadlier than its physical counterpart. Your innermost secrets, strengths and weaknesses will be exposed to strangers who are not your friends!

op,you may want to read this again.

pcguru1:
Wow I'd actually prefer that , lucky dude. Most babes I know don't send

There,different folks,different strokes.

If you don't mind the cost of "cow and gate" pudding ,I think banana a nd yoghurt of the pudding is nice on kids.very nice.Hope you prepare the pap yourself using oka(maize),dawa and joro together.Good ol'pap does it.Little but frequent feeds is key too.

Thank you.

justwise:
10 days or 10 years?

10 years.

Is not a bad thing,Children are a blessing from God.When I was pregnant with my last child and believing God for a girl child,on the week of my delivery,a little girl ran from her mom towards me and hugged me refusing to leave me,there and then my hubby and I were convinced we were getting a golden girl.And she is beautiful.

[quote author=Damayor12 post=37433681]Ask for some space.. that you haven't broken up with her.. maybe a week.. after all her ginger of her killing herself passes, Then break up with her..

Any girl that goes to see a guy, overnight knows wassup.. She went, u asked where she is, she ignored, u confront her, she still lied again?!

If you don't want hypertension in your life or your relationship.. just free am.. cos what's a relationship were u can't trust your girl? Unless you wan turn am to your "Bleep buddy" then continue bro..

That girl isn't anybody to joke with.. [/quote .You reason properly,Op take this advice seriously.

Divorce is not easy,truth be told.Is really tough.Even if you have a well paying job,it is very difficult.If you love your kids don't walk the "divorce" lane.I tell you cos a close pal's parents divorced at age two.He is all grown but he finds it difficult to understand why the mom took a walk.Is not always the same.Time and close relationship with your creator will heal your heart.Just give this time.And somebody mentioned to love your husband.Dont let anything change dear,love him as before,but be careful though (healthwise) so you don't contact rubbish.#myhumbleopinion

Is painful.But take your mind away from this issue.Thank Your God for a job and kids,what of women in similar opposite situations?;no job,no kids,ok maybe lots of kids and totally dependent on the man.My dear,be happy.concentrate on your kids and job. He still loves you too,what of those practising monogamy and yet No LOVE.Be happy and make your kids happy too.

thelish:
And I will need ur help on this. pls put me through. Thank u

Get through to me,thanks.

Nice one.Took a thing or two from that piece.Thanks.

Hold on friend.

efismikoko:
I have a job now kind of okay atleast in the past few years have been able to invest in properties that gives us that money but right now my job is getting tiring I always feel like pulling out so that's why I want to know if one can live well with 80k for now

For now,it may seem ok,but dont quit that job.Times are really hard brother,hold on to the job.Thank me later.

I can relate.To nip this in the bud eh,breastfeed your baby 20 times a day.Back the baby when you are busy and bathe d baby yourself.Always smile and talk to your baby like she/he understands.Finally,sleep on the same bed with your baby . henceforth nobody should touch your baby.I,your doctor says so.

IyawoNwoke:
truth is, I have never seen myself as business oriented, and I have avoided learning vocations when I had opportunities. Then I got Involved with this Igbo guy o, and now all I think is money.
my dream is to own a very standard creche say in two years time
but right now, I have thought and thought, and I don't know what to do with #100,000. I will really like a mobile business though.

100k won't get u a standard creche.speaking from experience.But it is a good business.If you decide on the creche thing,I can be a good consultant. ..no charges.

AMEN.

lol at 10pm till DONE.

Na wah ooo! on nairaland too.I hope you all have jobs?

aigjoey:
...Honestly it isn't a joke.. I think i was stupid and now my eyes are opened.

Thank Jesus!Now do you see clearly?Nne,do the needful.

HeartRobber:
If she ever try to deny me sex for no reason

Then, I will give her reasons to sleep with our house help, simple

Pls ,what if the house help was 12 years old?

Please I wish to travel with my four kids to the UK.I really need help with the a -z of everything we will be needing.Note that we haven't travelled before.We wish to stay for ten years.Please kindly help with any info.Thank you.

micronut:
Ishlove, seun, lalasticlala............This op needs ur lift!

At the call of these three names, every crawling threads must move. So, i say unto you today, all u movers of crippling topics, hear the word of God and do accordingly..

FRONT PAGE PLS!!!!!!

You got me laughing.Op,be patient,what works for ade may not eork for Ete.Will keep you in prayers.Goodluck.

Interesting.I learnt from this.

whatever your instincts tell you,the truth is not far from it.Op run oooo! I usually don't ask women to leave their marriage but abor...tion. ..6 ti....cheeeeeiiiii;umu Uwa bia oooo! !!!Don't type this thing again oooo.Go back to your people.6 ti....kai!!!Some people are really devils.

out of care but the tone matters a lot.