₦airaland Forum

We Africans especially dark skinned states have an issues about peoples laws and culture , its the reason we are ever with conflict within ourselves, an instance in the UAE with a nigerian man eating snacks in public during the Islamic fasting season and despite being corrected he became violent and so was his spouse, to see to it he was nigerian , ignorance and disrespect for authority, not yielding and rebellious to laws known so society for generations, the Arabs are accommodating to foreigners, caring , but when their laws or people are violated ,the enemity is for generations

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

men have secrets ,unknowingly he might have bought a land or tried to invest and it failed due to a lack of business accumen but to you taking what you worked for hurts you like a cheated lover , let it go , the next time his family contacts you let your father accept a meeting first then let them know about your pregnancy, the great respect you gave your father makes you a jewel to your husband and your father and may his blessings of his fathers before his fill your river pot with not only water but more fishes , may your husband understand the lux of light you carry and walk with you hand in hand to a happy future ,
Go back to him with the guidance of your father and let him be aware of the baby ,
He must appease you with a gift , make that your recompense

Tinubuagbado:
Cry no more and be strong.

You may not need to go back now till after your delivery.

Make yourself happy so you don't have bp which is very common in pregnant women.

Take time to heal first and tell yourself that most men can can do such but its not a bug deal.

Remember he didn't cheat with other women so eating your money is a lesser sin.

Finally, find a place in your heart to forgive him and let it go.

j been de plan to strangle you when buying see Tinubu, bug this your advice make me reconsider the strangulation, good one

wasuka14:
Am not a fool oga

good so use your brain , first start a farm , for the women, and make sure you save for them to buy heel barrows or a cargo tricycle aka ibro wahalla, that settles your feeding ,
2 , for the make children they should tae up work after school and assist you at he workshop , mae sure they work with safety daily , teach them safety
Famale children go to school and stay home when free , stress no good for women all time but the have to survive

As a man never see people as liabilities, convert te into resources of their own sustainability, if the number increases your resources will , there's strength in numbers, if them run ? Then na ashawoe bicycle you been wan buy

ahnie:
12 disciples
Omorr that's a burden too huge for a single son of man to bear

Had it bn the wife dey work nau,e for good.


Say no to lazy housewives and full time jobless housewives.

two holes of similar origin that will never get filed

Abfinest007:
Start making advance at her twin sister she will run away herself





Lollest lol sense nor go kee me

u bastard iron bar

Greystone:
Spartans, What is your Occupation?!?

AWOO! AWOOO!! AWOOOO!!!

Lol… no be by fine helmet or “fine ghel”….try pass the exam oh…

you can see her level of intelligence, this one know book already

Al the ashawurus in UAE don repent to restart again in nigeria , they thought they were going to harvest gold and dollars , the unfortunate house girls were abused and enslaved , those are the ones who really needed help

I love this guy, the yuroba God of love , sex and chics

History has seen worse , especially in Europe, dont feel the Europeans didn't have child marriages, it just that the system of families protecting women After given out for marriage is messed up , it used to be better , some women grow to become bank managers and not getting a man to marry, the traditional African system has its divorce procedures , when the man has past his Rubicon and is unresponsible

Who ever wants tinubu as president will never know the difference between Satan and the dead , who ever wants perer obi will never learn the game and the strategies of chess

abrahambest:
It is well with Nigeria

nope , it is shit hole with nigeria

Clowns

WibusJaga:
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Abeg I no de put mouth for husband & wife matter.

wise one may you never know 360 degree headache all over the face or waist pain

Her unless and brothers ko get armory that's why ,if not RPG rockets would have hit his family home like 15 times 10 minutes

Fvck boy and control babe

Imagine the ignorance and fagabasted fragrance of petitio principii assaulted with poopoo and kakar

If it affects cows

MITCHELL96:
I tire

no tire , mae them fart in front of you , your immune system go collapse

If the sea be your first love, AHOY! sail on.

MITCHELL96:
Very nice!

The way I loathe all these LGBTQ

Let the US practice their shit within themselves.

Useless country, if not for the suffering we Nigerians are suffering here, who TF will want to go to USA? Nonsense!


Ride on Putin ❤️

anus men, them be like bad dream

Of boris

ericmor:
lol. You be baba suwe

I been just de think am na , and that type na one hole, no return

The cabals want a world War and she's not the type to lead w weak economy and sal Island to war at this time , they have realized living in lies its like a hand job , sooner or later , when the war starts our nigerian nurses and doctors will be needed en mass

treesun:
https://dailytrust.com/cameroons-lagbo-dam-not-responsible-for-nigerias-flood-fg

i made a comment on nairaland about Nigerian millionaires and I almost got publicly stoned , see the ignorance i as being accused of , many people on nairaland have the IQ lower than an earthworm

Its time to hit the church or mosque and Kabash, useless cowards

Damn right, Am breathlessly flummoxed

Thats means she sabi native doctor house well well

Covert ops base , more like a secret embassy

Oga need to come collect his share , I wonder what his blood type is , seems its greed +