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Charlentine:
So here's the problem, I do love this lady to a degree, but I ain't going for that marriage stuff. Not yet, and definitely not with her. I told her my plans from the day we officially started dating and she was totally cool with it. only to suddenly go mafia and change everything and become super possessive and pester me for marriage after some months, in a "If u won't marry me then ENEMY mode activated!" kind of way. That's unfair na! I've not dated much but my last gf wasn't unreasonable na, she even loved me for being straightforward with her and we dated exclusively until I had to travel. Then i adviced her to move on with her life (tho it was a very hard decision cos she's an awesome person, beautiful too) but we're friends till date.


Anyway, so Im letting this lady go so she can find a proper husband, but I don't want her beef (she gets very hostile and vengeful whenever she feels slighted even for the best of reasons, no matter how much u try to reason with her) cos I still have some unfinished business with her and don't want her to ruin it. Shes the type that, if something isn't going her way then it is BAD no matter how great it has been. She has potential husbands (ex'es) and has quickly resorted to hooking up with one for marriage. I wish her well, but don't need the hostility now.


How does one deal with this? Wud it have been better to give her false hope, and then bail once I get my stuff out? Won't that be unfair to her? Are the majority of ladies selfish like this cos I always hear ladies cry "he jilted me bla bla bla"? because guys have learnt to be dishonest with them? Is there another way? Like Ive confessed, I haven't dated much, but I want to believe we don't all have to be bad.

Towncrier247:
Not long ago, up-coming female Kenyan rapper, Grammo Suspect, proposed to her lesbian partner, Timeka, and announced that they will soon hold Kenya’s first lesbian wedding. Despite the two lesbian receiving a backlash from Kenyans who still feel that lesbianism is a taboo, Grammo and her lover have no time for haters.
They shared photos getting mushy in their pre-wedding photos...

http://www.newseveryhour.com/2017/02/kenyan-lesbian-couple-releases-pre.html

inositol88:
JUST WONDERING!!!!!

I don't know how some girls,ladies or women reason!!!

Now she has been going around telling all her friends that am very ugly and she cannot for any reason date a guy like me!!!!

To my utmost dismay, the same gal gets confused, misses her steps and behaves sheepishly whenever she see's me and always wants to avoid me in public

The funniest fact is dat recently she has been sending me romantic text messages, and today she dropped one of such messages, openly professing her undying love for me.
I don't love her though!!

LADIES ABEG WETIN BE UNA PROBLEM

WHY ARE U DAUGHTERS OF EVE ALWAYS CONFUSED AND NEVER STRAIGHTFORWARD

LADIES ANSWER ME PLS!!!!!

CastedDude:
The co-ordinator of Special Task Force (STF) Edo Governor's Office -was so elated after being blessed with a bush meat today in his farm. According to Hon Benji Ojietu, he went to his farm today for the first time after 7 years to hunt for bush meat and also used the opportunity to check on his plots of land in my country home, Ugbenor in Uzairue clan, Etsako west LGA, Edo state.

The man killed the bush meat and after it was caught before digesting it with a chilled drink....

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/02/edo-government-official-storms-his-farm.html

Thepasserby:
The human eye

hakeemk:
the harlott did same with jesus

dainformant:
This photo currently making rounds on social media shows controversial Zambian pastor Prophet Andrew Egimadu who is popularly known as Seer 1 -allowing his congregates to kiss his designer shoes for a miracle. The desperate church members bent down to kiss the feet of the Prophet Seer 1 to receive blessings in return.

This has sparked outrage among online users who find the act disgusting.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/02/pastor-comes-under-fire-after-allowing.html

Explorers:
Model of stupidity! Stunning Russian Instagram queen dangles off a 1,000ft-high Dubai skyscraper without ANY safety equipment as she seeks the perfect shot

This is the hair-raising moment a stunning Russian model posed for a death-defying photoshoot on top of one of the world's tallest skyscrapers.

Viki Odintcova, 23, was held up only by the hand of a male assistant as she leaned out into thin air from the 1,004-foot tall Cayan Tower in Dubai in a bidto get the perfect Instagram shot.

The Russian model first lent backwards over the huge drop before dangling high above the ground from the arm of her bearded helper.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4227818/Victoria-Odintsova-dangles-1-000ft-high-Dubai-skyscrape.html

ibolomo:
a senior lecturer was saying that there will be mass expulsions. they even vandalized some lecturers' cars sef.
any who, we are watching in 4D

LatestAmebo:
Actress Rosy Meurer who came into limelight a few weeks ago after she was accused of being Tonto Dikeh's husband's side chick, (which she has since denied) just got a new Land Cruiser SUV as a birthday present to herself. Sharing photos of the car on IG, Rosy wrote;

"Come and see what the Lord has done, I vowed to serve you for the rest of my life. New age, New car...My life savings went down for this but I'm happy. I gat me... Quite happy #SelfMade #MotherPride"

https://www.instagram.com/p/BQix3FFlEJR/?taken-by=rosymeurer

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http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/02/churchills-alleged-side-chick-rosy.html

donmayorgroup:
In an effort to spice up a hitherto boring Valentine's Day, Nigeria's top model, Beverly Osu has shared one of her 'hot' photos to the world.

The photo which shows the model on red bra and panty has generated so much controversy on the internet. Many people complained of how thin and sickly she looks.

Some say the photo is beautiful, but others are even scared to make public their disgust for the photo. Chai. See am for here ooo....

http://www.michaeldoosblog.info/2017/02/beverly-osu-damages-internet-with-hot.html

IamChuzzy:
Tboss this morning kissed fake housemate Jon, who Big Brother brought into the house in other to shake things up. Before Miyonse's eviction, Tboss used to be cozy with him but has obviously moved on. Her kiss with Jon has prompted people to conclude that fair younger guys are her type.

Meanwhile, in celebration of Valentine, the male housemates made breakfast in bed for the ladies and also gave them flowers.



SOURCE: http://www.chuzzyblog.com/2017/02/tboss-kisses-jon-fake-big-brother-naija.html

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LePrezident:
Ladies hear me hear me, sex is not a Vals day gift.

Endeavour to also give your man a gift. Don't be sitting down expecting a gift while you don't intend to give nothing and be thinking you will pacify him with sex.

You both get pleasure in the act, you're not doing anybody a favour when you both attain orgasm.

Please it's a two-way street. I can assure you, you will earn his respect if you do this. Do not always be a receiver; why, are you an antenna?

Khutie:
Una wan make everybody turn to referee abi? Abeg before whistle market price go rise, make I kukuma go buy my own o... We need to blow this APC led government outta the country! We need a fresh start wid the youth not wid this death-warranty old men

Bhol28:
I advise you press play and even fast forward the process for her joining you for your mind to be at rest.Honestly speaking as a man i believe your wife is one of the few trustworthy ladies by telling you everything about her.If she has a bad motive she will never tell you,she will watch the porn,invite a guy to come and do the real thing and still be telling you i love you.

Libragem:
We were currently working on that, but this incident just made me to pause the process right now. I need to be very sure that will be the best thing to do before I continue.

Libragem:
You may be right about her being sexually hungry, infact I am too, that is why I always try to avoid anything that will put me in the mood, I expected her to do the same. But phone intimacy is totally out of it, cos that will automatically lead to mastubation which I am strongly against.

Dvampire:
Similar thing happened on the coasts of New Zealand 3 days ago and the mayor of the community had to call for more hands from schools and other organizations to join in the rescue efforts of saving the dolphins. Over 400 dolphins were stranded on the coasts that day. About 100 were saved. Here, we pepper soup and eat every creature. Too bad and too sad.

femi4:
you don't get it, The phone emits heat which is dangerous for the motherboard. Ask bb users

femi4:
you are wrong, nothing kills charging IC faster than charging overnight. You can asking bb users

Kondomatic:
I hope the male idiots that give money to them ladies anyhow and anywhere have learnt something from this.

esthertk:
I need the candid advise of the matured minds here. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months when our relationship was 3 months I was able to get a German visa and moved to Germany .

He lost his job 2 months ago, and we have been discussing on how he can get back on his feet, lots of interviews and no call back and with this harsh economy we consider it best he starts a business which he doesn't even have the capital.

I really wish I can support him but so scared it might be termed as using money to buy love and this might just make him stick to me for the wrong reasons or even later dump me... I am so confused

Disneylady:
hmmnnnn Aproko, Wetin consign you?....

Meanwhile, Happy married life in advance bro

Chikebrain:
Nah.. no sex till after wedding

jbhill:
4 D LADIES

FlirtyKaren:
Kiki Osinbajo is so pretty!

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/02/beautiful-new-photos-of-acting.html

Ogashub:
See the rate at which Nigerian girls are hungry and desperate to eat free meals and collect gifts..... Ignorant bit.ches everywhere