naruto02: If it was a human being that gave birth to you, you wouldn't have been saying such things. A former soldier who served the same country you live in. Your hatred runs so deep you can still talk bad about dead people, go and think about your life.
he may serve this country by providing ammunition to the boko boys, who knows
goodnews777: The man should be weeping now blaming christians for not preaching the gospel to him whereas the devil did not want him to hear it. More so, when he like the richman in the bible see all the christians he killed rejoicing in Gods presence whilst he languish in hell.
those pedophile religious people will start coming for ya head for saying the Truth!
Can you make an intelligent point without involving parents? I totally doubt that. By baggage, I didn't only mean with child. We're not prejudicial in my family, we've welcomed different single mums and they're living pretty well. It's because of judgemental people like you that girls commit numerous abortions because they don't want to be stigmatized by your likes. In your quest of running away from after one, you don't know if you'll eventually end up with after 8 (abortions)
your family must be an IDP camp.
Congrate for taking care of the single mums!
Marrying a single mum is a no no in our society and it shows lack of dignity period!
TheeDetective: Not playing the blame game o, but at 15 years old she already has a child, that means that she probably was 14 when she got pregnant which is a very young age to be a mum. At that age, one would expect her to be concentrating on her school work and not having a baby. That said, she’s 22 now which means the child is about 7 years old. The question is can you accept that you have a 7 years old step child? When you eventually have your own first child with her, how would you feel? It's understandable if you already had a child as well but for your case, you never get pikin yet o and you think its child’s play to suddenly become a father to a step child? No offence o, but e go hard small, so make you pay careful attention to wetin your family wan talk for this matter o. No let anybody deceive you say go ahead and marry her it's all in the past so nothing happen o, cos when everything blow, dem no go der there with you o.
the one cornered brain people wouldn't see this logically!
dominique: So because she made a mistake at a young age, she's supposed to pay for it for the rest of her life?
Useless men everywhere, taking advantage of and impregnating young girls and denying responsibility. Had the useless baby daddy risen to his responsibility, will the op be proposing to her? It takes a real man to love a woman with all her baggage and op is one.
if your mother is a single mum and your dad got married to her then I take ya dad as a real man!
Taryur3: Don't mind them...when they started bleeping without condom and future they don't know there will be tomorrow....assholes...everywhere...that lady fit don born 2 to different man
chimere66: Emir of Deba, Lt. Col. Abubakar Waziri Mahdi (Rtd), is dead.He died yesterday at the age of 85 after a protracted illness. The late Emir ruled Deba,Gombe for 32 years .
He spent about three weeks at the Federal Teaching Hospital, Gombe and was transferred to Nizamiye Hospital, Abuja on Sunday where he eventually died yesterday.
Alhaji Abubakar Waziri Mahdi, a first class Emir in Gombe state, served in the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before retiring in 1985.He was first turbaned as District Head of Deba in 1985, after the demise of his predecessor. He was elevated to the status of first class in the year 2000 by former Governor Abubakar Habu Hashidu.
Politicians and other top dignitaries attended his burial.
Adiwana: I hate to read all this kind of Comments and all this victimisation bullshit.The society has been there before you were born and will continue to be there.No be today the African society begin to frown against a woman giving birth outside of marriage.So since women are aware that getting pregnant will put you in a terrible situation than the man,Don't get pregnant.Its not when one gets pregnant you begin to cry wolf. you know the consequences.It's as simple as that.Let's stop complicating things
thank you!
people will commit a terrible sin and be blaming the society! who is the society? are our parent not among the society!
those one cornered brain people up there who think the society is this and that are the one who will try not to let there child make this mistake.
if our society is not favourable than go to another country were the society will be favourable you. simple
MrEgghead: Your comments depict how parochial and naive you're. I wouldn't be shocked if you're still a teenager.Though,you were making points to some extent,your juvenile-self revealed itself..It's people like you that end up condoning abortions just because you want a happy life for your child.
experience is the best teacher!
do you think everything is about love at first site. marriage require more than love and it is something between two families.
so you want him to forsake his family for a woman who was irresponsible at her youthful age?
why should I marry a single mum that young.. after fornicating all over the country, got used and dumped. I should now put that kind of thing at home to be doing what exactly?
In case you don't know 96% of such girls are not responsible one bit. only few are victims of circumstances. She should look for a single baby daddy to be ovulating & menstruating in the home as she likes..Rubbish!
youthofnaija: I will support 100% if you can answer these questions 1. If the lady in question was your daughter, will you drive away any man that comes to seek her hand in marriage because she is a single mother? 2. If the table was turned around, what will be your decision? That is, assuming the single mother is your sister or your daughter.
question 1: I must have been a failed father who didn't teach my daughter the moral of life or my daughter is the foolish type and if any man would ask her hand in marriage, I will tell the man that if you want to marry my foolish daughter I will never be responsible for the outcome.
question 2; if the table was turn around assuming the single mother was my sister or daughter. as for the daughter part, I have answered the question above and if it was my sister I will tell her right in the face that she is a stvpid girl for making that kind of mistake.
chimavalentine: reason with ur family,convince them abt d love u HV for d girl,the baby they are rejecting might be a millionaire in d future,don't please ur family to displease urself
how many millionaires are there in this country?
your thinking is as a result of watching to much telemundo
Antoeni: The word Love and Marriage re meant for mature Adults,not for grow children,,so check ur sef very well,to see if 1-u 're an Adult, 2-mature In hrt 3-can stand as a man and take decisions,4-if u wants to start a a family of ur Own,
who are the people divorcing
are there not the mature adult who once think of the word "love and marriage"
who is cheating on there husband and wife? are there not the one who once think of the word "love and Marriage"
you need to check your brain very well and find out the true meaning of maturity.
SmartMugu: Bro, start thinking differently. You said you love her, what's ur idea of love? A pretty woman with a cute face, some bum and titties u can feel good about after marrying her? Have you heard of women making a complete u-turn to become a completely different person from what you thought u fell in love with as soon as u put a ring on their finger or they have a baby by you? Bro, be smart, and not a mugu. What happened to her first baby-daddy? So, you'd prefer being a husband to her versus being her next baby-daddy if we want to take it that way. You said she's 22, I'm assuming ure in ur 20's too. Why is marriage #1 on your mind now? Are you of one of our notorious tribes known for marrying women that haven't gotten to that age they can differentiate their left from right?
Calm down bro. Don't get tied down by someone in that crap termed 'love', else you may end up regretting ur actions for years.
thank you! marrying a single mother are the most dangerous act you have ever done!
you are never the father of that child and it will always be at the back of ya mind.
you can never love that child equally and that child will surely look for her bastard father someday in he/her life.
dominique: Let your family understand that you love her and there's nothing wrong with being a single mum. If you eventually go ahead and marry, have it at back of your mind that your family might want to frustrate her. If you know that you will not be able to stand up for her and protect her against your family, kindly let her go.
see them!
one cornered brain people protect again who? the girl did something irresponsible at her youth and you want the op parent to pay for her irresponsible act.
CaroLyner: If You Both Are Convinced In Yourselves! Nothing. I repeat, NO THING can stop you from being ONE! It is just a matter of firm determination. And stronger will from You Both! Then, comes the another part: where not just you two are involved, but families are also involved. So, better idea will be, to get a few members in your favour. and she should also do the same. Once U have done it, then ask them, how you should go ahead for it? Yes, leave it onto them.
@ op!
if you listen to this kind of people who have sold their yansh to the devil, Oyo is your own!
useless women everywhere and the op want to make that mistake.
when she was opening her yansh from the guy who got her pregnant, where you there
Harun111: I met this 22 years old girl 1 year ago. We both got along and decided to settle down together.when we met she told me her past and one of the thing she told me about her past is she had a baby when she was 15years. She asked me if my family will allow me to marry her I said that should be my decision.i went ahead to Introduced her to my family which all of them accepted her.but recently my younger brother finds out she once gave birth,he then went ahead to tell my family about it. and they have called the family meeting which I was asked to appear on Sunday.my problem here is I love her so much and we are planning to settle down together this year and my family will want to stop me from marrying her.most her things her in my house. Am kinda confused I don't know Wat to do. Am going through some emotional pains rite now. I don't know if I should tell her, any time she calls my heart beat. Please I need ur advice..
if you be my son I go disown you
why will you bring someone who have one child from another person?
did you think love is like that!
for example: when ever you and her had a fight, she will be comparing you with that man and she will love her bastard son more than you.
think before you use your prick! your parent are trying to make you avoid all this single mum stuff
ChangeIsCostant: An allegation has been made by an SS2 student of Ubomiri Girls' Secondary School, Miss Victoria by name, who was beaten by a Teaching Practice student from Alvan Ikeokwu Federal College of Education, Owerri, Imo State. According to reports, the teacher in question has been disturbing and pestering the girl for sex before committing the act.
Read below what was shared by Uzuegbu Prosper on Facebook; WHO WILL SPEAK FOR THE POOR GIRL....?
I am particularly and pathetically troubled and perturbed about the way and manner some people can be deliberately dreaded and cruel. Just for nothing. This is a story of a SS2 student of Ubomiri Girls' Secondary School, Miss Victoria by name, who was ruthlessly and wickedly planked by a Teaching Practice student from Alvan Ikeokwu Federal College of Education, Owerri, Imo State.
According to this extremely pained student, she lamented how this young man had been disturbing and pestering her life for a long time ago since he was posted in the aforementioned school. He got the rare opportunity and committed this height of cruelty, when these students were writing their 2nd term exam, yesterday, 23rd March, 2017.
I was reliably informed that they (students) were busy writing exam having given a short time near to school dismissal. They were not satisfied with what they have put in paper. Particularly, he got to her and started dragging the answer sheet, and bantering words with the student. This is morally and socially unacceptable and condemnable.
"He has been disturbing and threatening me to be his lover, of which I wouldn't like to, owing to the fact that, I'm still a training child and student. I am extremely pained. I am emotionally and psychologically traumatized over this wickedness exhibited by someone who supposed to be my teacher, now turned to my tormentor", she bitterly complained.
The Nigerian lady and pretty bride-to-be, Novi wanted to show her Spanish heartthrob, Javier, how riched our African culture really is, so she went on about getting Eyo dancers for their lovely pre-wedding shoot.
Truly we have brides and we have bridesss... Lol
They also had another lovely photo session in Lagos traffic...
ChangeIsCostant: According to media personnel at the Nigeria Police Force, Malik Nasir, a bomb scare at the American Consulate at Walter Carrington Crescent this afternoon caused the American Marine Officers to inform the Consular General. The Consular General quickly alerted Lagos State Commissioner of Police, Mr. Fatai Owoseni, who deployed Bomb Squad to the Embassy.
The suspected bomb, an unidentified bag, was put beside a car at the Embassy. The Bomb Squad deployed to the Embassy, recovered the suspected bag out of the place.
On opening it, it was discovered that the bag contained medical emergency items.The Embassy thanked the Command for its swift response.
Fadeyi, who was quite popular in the 80s and 90s for his role as a herbalist inmovies, attended the protest with his trademark costume and said he was never a herbalist instead, he will become a clergyman in the nearest future.
In an exclusive chat with a Media TV on Wednesday, March 22, after a rally against gender-based violence in Abeokuta, the Ogun state capital, explained that although he is yet to attend a Seminary, he believes he is likely to become a pastor in the nearest future.
He also added that he would soon return to location to show his teeming fans that he is still in the business of filmmaking.
informant001: Photos of an Indian woman who allegedly murdered her own husband and put his body in a suitcase -have been trending online with over 15,000 shares and nearly 1000 comments on Facebook. According to online reports, the woman was trying to load the suitcase in her BMW car when a passerby saw blood falling out of suitcase and informed police.
According to reports gathered, the wife Seerat Kaur, reportedly claimed that her husband loved a lavish lifestyle despite being unemployed, was cheating on her and also used to beat her -that's why she shot him dead.
enshi: Have been dating my gf for six months now and for real i love her... She is a banker and we met at the bank too... And sincerely she is pretty..
The issue at hand is she is always changing her dp on whatsapp and she keeps uploading selfies on fb and i am beginning to think she is seeking attention or trying to impress someone cos she is quite aware i dont like it.. ..
I have discussed it over with her more than four times yet she keeps doing this and has vowed never to stop ... As i write this piece 9:17AM she has changed her whatsapp dp twice ( one pic this morning at the office and the other one she had Before leaving the house).. We dont stay in same state though
Pls i need mature conttibutions on what and how exactly to tackle this and what could probably be the reason behind this