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Gajagojo:
So you should feed your brother before you marry?

If I can't feed my junior brothers until they can stand up on their feet, dude I have no business talking about marriage whatsoever!

If I can't feed my parents comfortable without them lacking anything, oga I have no business talking about marriage at all.

How can someone who can't even eat comfortably well let alone helping or assisting his brothers be talking about being ripped for marriage? U smoke? Or u think marriage is child's play?

Nazgul:
You have a point.

But the reality of the matter is that your brother and even your parents wouldn't value you if you're adding nothing to their life.

The boy is in his hussling stage, so it's safe to say his brother covers 100% of all his responsibilities.

The simple question here is what is he giving back to his brother. Does he clean the house, does he wash his brother's clothes...or does he just sit there idling away waiting for his brother to feed him?

Believe me, no body would abandon you if you're useful to them. The op is most likely useless to his brother that's why he's being treated this way.

Lol you have a point.
The op is yet to clarify any of those.

However, it beats my imagination why foodstuffs wouldn't be at home in the house of a man who claims to go to work everyday! Or perhaps the said brother hides the foodstuffs at home.

Gajagojo:
Actually girls add value
They get pregnant and have babies

There is no greater value in African culture
If that brother dies today with no kids it is over


This BROTHER sounds like he is ripe for marriage.
That should be his priority not feeding another male adult

A girlfriend adds no value other offering her kpekus to a man in exchange for Money!

However, the so called brother isn't anywhere close to being rip in marriage. You want to marry when you can't even comfortable feeds your brother who came to stay with you while learning a skill! Dey play! This actually shows the girl the brother would mistakenly marry, along with the kids that'll come out of the marriage will die of hunger! I'm sure the brother doesn't even care about their own parents, is it then his so called future in-laws he would now care for? Oga dey play!

I don't know if you lack understanding to see where the guy wrote that his is a learning a skill. So he should die of hunger because he came to stay with his brother who is obviously the ill daft illiterate type who clearly lacks understanding? If ordinary food no dey house, which kind business the guy dey do? And you're talking about marriage? U no well at all bro

MS247:
This kind of entitlement mentality is very very wrong

Are you normal? Do you know what entitlement mentality is?

Dude, your post can make people become extremely wicked. Imagine the op makes it in life with this mindsets of yours, you think say he go remember his brother? Dude not everything is entitlement mentality! Y'all needs to Stop this careless statement.

A blood brother should be able to help his blood brother, abi is it when he dies of starvation his so called beloved brother will now roll out money to buy cow and bags of rice for the burial? Like are you okay? Why not help now that he is alive? Make una try get sense for this forum.

I'm very sure the said brother wouldn't mind spending money on a girl who adds nothing valuable to his life

Nazgul:
Your problem with your brother is over familiarity and entitlement mentality. Like someone rightfully pointed out, he doesn't owe you anything, cos he didn't bring you into this world.

If you want your current predicament with him to come to an end, do the following...

1. See him as your oga and see yourself as an apprentice in his shop, stop seeing him as your equal.

2. Call him sir whenever he calls you. And run errands for him without grumbling.

3. Wash his clothes, polish his shoes, clean the house and sweep the shop whenever you get there. Make cleanliness your best friend. A lazy person cannot succeeded as an apprentice.

4. Respectfully beg him for lunch, eg. Good afternoon sir, please I'm hungry. Don't ever call him by his name.

Inasmuch as this is right but a brother should help is fellow brother, let alone blood brother!

Things like this can make people wicked. Imagine the op makes it in life, you think say he go remember his brother? Dude not everything is entitlement mentality! Y'all needs to Stop this careless statement.

A blood brother should be able to help his blood brother, abi is it when he dies of starvation his so called beloved brother will now roll out money to buy cow and bags of rice? Why not help now that he is alive? Make una try get sense for this forum.

I'm very sure the said brother wouldn't mind spending money on a girl who adds nothing to his life

Openfortruth:
He knows I'm not earning currently. He should do better with me.

Thank you for your words

I understand your point perfectly well. Forget those idiots saying otherwise above. This isn't entitlement mentality! It is what is expected of a brother to do! It pains me that your brother won't mind spending all his money on a girl outside.

Such brothers are really terrible to live with. I'll urge you to look for aby available work now and do to earn money to sustain yourself for tye main time before learning your apprenticeship program

They should allow this dude rest!

However, DNA test should be conducted on that child ASAP. The fact that the girl's sisters has threatened to sue anyone who demands for DNA test shows that they're hiding something about the child.

Women hate DNA test with so much passion, Because they know the child doesn't belong to the man. This is a wake up call for men to conduct a DNA test on all their kids asap!

victooman:
Good day nairalanders, After my Nysc in 2021, I started a Pos business that has been very profitable and gives me a maximum profit of 10k and a minimum profit of 6k a day, l Carter for all my bills and live well...
The major issue is that my mother keep emphasizing on getting a job and doesn't for once regard this business as anything..
I have try to make her see reasons but she just choose to remain adamant,, how many of this so called jobs can pay me what this business is paying me? how can l convince my mother that l want to expand my business and marry without so much emphasis on job here and there l am tired abeg...

Dude to me, pos business isn't business! Your mom is right.

Open another reasonable business while still doing your pos business. POS business is almost literally everywhere else nobody considers as a business. Dude, open other businesses

plaindealer:
What is obi Pandora ipob hiding..??

The thread was about Atiku rubbishing the drug lord to stupor.. as usual you left your Fulani masters and started attacking Obi even the post doesn't concerns him 😂 Yolllubbas are really 🤡

SmartPolician:
All his supporters know he's a crook.

In fact, they just want to foolishly keep hailing him the Maradona of Nigerian politics while everyone suffers for his incompetence.


CC Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh247 obemet

You see the above monikers? They're terrible

Rayban25:
You think they dont know? They are criminally minded bandits as well

Make we see how he go buy US judge this time around

Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh274 obemet

Seunmsg and his gang will pretend not to see this thread. 😂 As usual they're waiting for news concerning obi and igbos

swiz123:
To some people, it doesn't matter as long as their brother is the president.

The only succour is, we are in all these together

CC Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh274 obemet .

You'll never see the above monikers on threads like this. They're patiently waiting for threads about Obi and Igbos so they can show up with great speed.

Seunmsg Dude what do you have to say about your drug lord who has succeeded in crippling down Nigeria's economy? Abi na obi be your problem?

Babamide:
It is not about trust, you actually no get sense ni.

CC brokeness

I thought I was the only one who wanted to say. Like the dude brokeness is highly senseless he lacks brains

Standstrong:
Cut grass at night? Do you consider possible reptiles like snake?

That's true. However, your Boss was right in his actions. Security is no joke! You left his property and went to do something else he didn't employ you to do.

Next time be smart Dude! Instead of trying to earn 15k that would warrant you losing your job, just avoid the side hustle entirely

seunmsg:
Obasanjo is a shameless old man. He’s not even ashamed to say publicly that he got a lady twice out of wedlock.

Tinubu the drug lord is more shameless. Obasanjo is the only sensible Yoruba man alive today and Africa celebrate him for his dodged spirit! A true statesmanship he is!

chiagozien:
Why do Yoruba Muslims hate Yoruba Christians?

CC Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh274 obemet etc

Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh27 4 obemet

You'll never see them on threads like this, of course so long it's not about Obi or Igbo, they're absolutely not interested.

Standstrong:
Because they failed to understand my own point

Dude you wanted to use the free time you had to work and earn 15, unfortunately that wasn't free time more reason why that guy said you lacked wisdom.

You ought to have waited till night fall while everyone including your Oga is asleep then you can quietly go and cut the grass. Wisdom is profitable to direct

Damn!

The economy of this country is getting worst and worst every single day since the drug lord took over.

I thought they said he built Lagos? E reach to build Nigeria cement finish! Werey!

By the time the okpolor eyes is done with Yoluba people, their eyes go clear!

Seefinish:
Interesting this is Tnubu's brother and sister are teaching Igbos how to play politics.
Even the northerners who supposed to feel the impact of subsidy removal and bandits activities are living comfortable in their region while Awalokan are fighting and injuring themselves because of palliatives

CC Seunmsg Pandoraobi Leodeking donphelius moh27 obemet

Say no more let me tag them here

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Boondocxs:
Why always the girls
Little girls oh
Honestly why can’t guys just keep their gbola to them selves
Now they’ve ruined the education of those girls
Honestly I’m weak

Were they drugged or raped? They did it willingly and it was consensual. They opened their legs wide for him and accepted everything. So why ranting?

Or are you trying to tell us that women are incapable of making their own decisions? and that a woman can be easily brainwashed?

Jeon:
I said what I said.





You did b3 the first to laugh at him for not having sex in relationship, or never had sex @all. You will give him bad advises, bring him to NL, so that you and your troops can clown him about his standards and morals.

Men are their own enemies.

It is an insult for me to stoop so low to argue with you. Look for your kinds and argue with them!

izonborn098:
Men paying for sex spoil everything u write there..
Lagos men rape and abuse 1.5k girls every year, i read that on the front page..

Only prostitutes demands money for sex!

It can come in different formats such as, I don't have tfare, I don't have data..my data will soon finish. My mother is sick, on Saturday is my birthday. can I ask you for a favour? Etc

Jeon:
Maybe in Uranus.





So silly .


His gender will still turn around to be the first to laugh/mock/clown him for keeping his virginity / not having sex with girlfriend or visiting brothels.

I'm sure you didn't read the write up!

iamtardey:
Lol man will be hard early morning and no be to Bleep dey do me oga ade

Exactly my point!

But the average Nigerian girl will disagree with the opinion that your life depends on sex and probably can't stay without it.

A wrong mindsets that needs to be corrected

Illegal1:
omoh.........gud to hv u back bro,dats all i got to say for now..

Senior Comrade, feels great to be back here to correct all these wrong mindsets about men!

The question here should be can a woman stay in a relationship without asking for SEX?

A woman cannot stay in a relationship without sex! Proven facts!

She enjoys the sex far more than a man does! So who needs it more? an average Nigerian girl cannot stay 2 weeks without sex else she masturbates. Why do nairaland girls thinks a man's life depends on sex or what?

SEX is meant to be enjoyed and the woman enjoys it more. To answer your questions a man can be in a relationship without asking for SEX! There are prostitutes everywhere he can go to. As a woman if your giving up sex with expectations of being giving money during or after the SEX, my sister you're a prostitute. and shows how your brain functions.

Except of course you're a prostitute Hence you think you can bill a man because you're giving him kpekpus you enjoyed far more than he does. If not for the kind of world we live in, na you suppose pay that Young man for servicing your engine

mariahAngel:
Emotional blackmail as always!
Most of you guys are fond of twisting things to suit your interest.

Simple question; can you be in a relationship without sex?

A woman cannot stay in a relationship without sex! Proven facts!

She enjoys the sex far more than a man does! So who needs it more? Madam an average Nigerian girl cannot stay 2 weeks without sex else she masturbates. So what nonsense are you saying? U think a man's life depends on sex or what?

Besides sex is meant to be enjoyed and the woman enjoys it more. To answer your questions a man can be in a relationship without asking for SEX! There are prostitutes everywhere he can go to. Except of course you're one of them Hence you think you can bill him because you're giving him kpekpus you enjoyed more than him. In a loose sense na you suppose pay that Young man for servicing your engine

Shalommy:
It's trade by barter.

You would have simply said you're an olosho na!

Shalommy:
As a man, if you don't wanna spend on a lady then stay on your own. Is it too difficult？

Why exactly must he spend on you? For what reason? What do you sell for him to patronize you? Or are you into hookup?

Men have been staying on their own but your gender keeps chasing after men! They now go to churches and wear wedding gowns while desperately praying for any man to settle down with. I'm sure you're blind to that?

No go hustle and make your own money, be waiting for a man that'll come and take away your poverty stricken life

Vijuchoco:
I don't need to ask, he'll give me on his own

Why exactly should he give you money?

What exactly are you selling that requires him to purchase and Pay you for it? Why can't you give him money instead or do you hate him?

Shalommy:
And there is no crime for her to ask you for money if she's in need.

If she needs money, what stops her from working and making her own money to earn a living ? Why must it always be man all the time? Why does she depend on a man for survival? So without man you won't eat?

Skyview01:
If i broke, no pay inugo.

We go homeless together when oga landlord chase all of us out!

Unfortunately she would go and meet her new found secret lover. Believe a woman at your own peril