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Since she's a "definition of virtue" according to you, then please by all means tell her and let her decide if she wants to continue. Don't force her to continue.

If she was the anyhow type of lady, I would've advised you don't tell.

Plus your conscience has been bugging you for 4 years now. So free your conscience and tell her.

Etinosa kind of apology - apologizing for letting the world know who you truly are without giving a crap.

Animadontel:
Your moniker said it all

Yours too: Animal-don't-tell

He should be hanged.......


by the balls.......



till he suffocates to death.

Animadontel:
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So celebrating her pastor's birthday is now standing on wrong side.....this is 2020 ooo everybody are entitled to their opinions.

Yes I'm entitled to my opinion too. And my opinion says she's on the wrong side of everything. Thanks

Tonto Dike always on the wrong side of everything. From Bobrisky to every ugly controversy and now COZA.

Only thing left is for her to hoist a flag that clearly reads, "I stand with Lucifer"

Power couple. Love this man to death no matter all the false accusations people write against him.

He is totally innocent.

Umidigi F1 don't have a dedicated sim slot(a deal breaker for me), Redmi Note 8 does.

F1 has only a 16mp main camera, while RN8 has 48mp main camera.

F1 touts a bigger battery of 5000mah while RN8 has 4000mah. But I can bet Redmi Note 8 battery will still beat the F1 or at best they're equal.

I'd choose the Redmi Note 8 over the F1.

Starz825:
God go bless you for this sensible statement
Sometimes all this so called green light u see around women are just normal gestures some ladies display towards guys
Let me blow ur mind...there is this corper friend I have...I met her in the company where I work presently.. pretty good looking Sha...with the phonetics..she sounds cool anyway...
During my first week in the company, I met with her (I didn't go to ask her out o) I just went to her to know her more as she's just my type..then in less than two weeks we became close friends as in ..I am good at linking up quickly as long u are my type..that one no be problem...infact everyone around started saying one or two things Abt us..like they feel something is going on.. infact during meetings our director would always talk about us openly that he like the fact that his organization is going to produce a couple very soon (we were that close).....
This girl will hug me tightly around her arms like we don dey date... always want to be where I am...if she is not seeing me she is asking of me ...na so I go fall hand o ..go mistakenly tell am say I am beginning to like her...jeez...na later I Know say I fvck up...boom she just change her attitude, insult start the following day.. taunting me every where as in ...I no believe my eyes and ears...see gbege oo...I have already fallen for her... because one thing about me is if a lady shows me that kind of likeness I will just return that likeness naturally and treat her cool....na so I wake jareee say wetin happen..I picked my self up and braced up frown face....so I decided to give space so I can earn my respect.... having done this though I'm still doing it..I have arguably earned my respect back ..but she still hugs me firmly like crazy I go be like don't choke me jaree.(for my mind o) unto say eye don clear...I already know thats her own way of friendship not that she is into me or something...so me self no put mind again so I no go fall again....

Wow!! your experience fully confirms my statement. Good you weren't deceived.

beardedboy:
Fallacious argument.

There are many sick people who were admitted to the best hospitals and treated by the best doctors in the world, yet they didn't survive.

There are many drivers who used their seatbelts and observed the speed limits, yet they ended up in crash.

There are many students who studied hard and read day and night yet they didn't get admission to any school.

Your argument doesn't follow cos I provided a better alternative.

Your argument will only stand if there was no disciplinary alternative.

beardedboy:
I don hear you sir/ma.
Experience, they say, is the best teacher. I pray you live long to witness the fruit of your decision.

There are many kids that were flogged all their lives but yet turned out very wicked, hardened, rebellious, joined cult and criminal activities.

So its a fact that if my recommendations above won't work, flogging won't work either.

m140:
Tell us

Read my comments and posts of yesterday.

thinkmoney:
give us alternatives please

Read my comments and posts of yesterday. Have done that already.

beardedboy:
No one has ever denied this. But the issue is, aren't there matters that cane is the only solution? Just as there are matters that cane is the worst solution.

There are no matters where cane is the only solution. Read the below till the end.

"Quoted":

Depending on the offence
I used to ground my children in the room
No toys
No cartoon (they will almost faint on this, especially when Tom and Jerry is one)
No juice
Shouting
Pick pin
Kneeling
Verbal Apology etc

additionally:

-withdraw phone or iPad

-withhold favourites: games, exciting
visits to friends and places.

-Withold his favorite food or drink(but give him a different kind of good food/drink nonetheless)

-Ground him: restrict him to his room for some hours when he's itching to move around.

All these and more can be applied interchangeably and will bring the most difficult kids to their knees.

If these won't work, flogging won't work either.

BRATISLAVA:
Even whites cane their children, so what proper way did they invent that you think it's African abuse?

90% whites don't cane their children. The law doesn't even allow them. The govt will arrest the parents and take over custody.

You don't know cos you never visited there. Ask those that live there.

Same silly fellows that have been encouraging her stubbornness and urging her on to be more obstinate.

Now e don dey backfire.

Kendroid:
such as?

"Quoted":

Depending on the offence
I used to ground my children in the room
No toys
No cartoon (they will almost faint on this, especially when Tom and Jerry is one)
No juice
Shouting
Pick pin
Kneeling
Verbal Apology etc

additionally:

-withdraw phone or iPad

-withhold favourites: games, exciting
visits to friends and places.

-Withold his favorite food or drink(but give him a different kind of good food/drink nonetheless)

-Ground him: restrict him to his room for some hours when he's itching to move around.

All these and more can be applied interchangeably and will bring the most difficult kids to their knees.

If these won't work, flogging won't work either.

DenreleDave:
Oya what' other way oo, didn't ur parent flogged u to instill sense in ur head

What other way Pls

"Quoted":

Depending on the offence
I used to ground my children in the room
No toys
No cartoon (they will almost faint on this, especially when Tom and Jerry is one)
No juice
Shouting
Pick pin
Kneeling
Verbal Apology etc

additionally:

-withdraw phone or iPad

-withhold favourites: games, exciting
visits to friends and places.

-Withold his favorite food or drink(but give him a different kind of good food/drink nonetheless)

-Ground him: restrict him to his room for some hours when he's itching to move around.

All these and more can be applied interchangeably and will bring the most difficult kids to their knees.

If these won't work, flogging won't work either.

profolaolu:
Go to schools especially in Lagos State and see what not flogging have caused.

Not flogging did not cause anything.

Schools where flogging prevails have far more problems, produced hardened criminals, cultists and rebellious children nevertheless.

ctleurocollege:
What is wrong with flogging? weak niga

Brain dead m0ron please go to school and study psychology. Borrow some sense if you have none.

Let that at least easily teach you that I'm not weak and you don't get to insult anyone online because you're behind a keyboard.

Nigerian ladies have no green lights. Mark my words.

Many things men mistakenly count as green lights are false alarms. All men are victims of this.

If you like a lady simply approach her nicely, if she rejects, move on and try the next girl.

Ignore all greenlights if you don't want to make a fool of yourself.

Bros, you never serious to keep your marriage.

You were with her alone in a room and there was romance.

You're a very dishonest human being. Keep deceiving yourself.

You'll soon open thread about how you got her pregnant.

I DON'T SUPPORT FLOGGING CHILDREN OR ANYONE AT ALL.

IT SHOULD BE COMPLETELY ABOLISHED.

AFRICAN PARENTS EXTREMELY ABUSE IT A LOT.

THERE ARE MANY OTHER PROPER WAYS TO DISCIPLINE A CHILD WITHOUT FLOGGING.

faithfull18:
Exactly, the women always @ the receiving end of everything.

Ailing parents and parents in-law, the woman does the caring but when the woman needs care...hmmn.

True Really. But I know families where the husband takes care of the wife in prolonged ill health.

Pavore9:
Mental health issues are really very sensitive as it tends to affect the dynamics of the family and since you said you have already been cleared and probably no longer on psychotropic medication, there is need to rebuild your life, work on your self-esteem. Focus on self actualization as you already thinking of postgraduate studies and nursing, time would influence the direction your relationship with your husband would go, don't force anything.



Wilful ignorance is motivating him and stop bringing the devil into the situation. She does not need any deliverance, it is not spiritual. It is no sin in leaving a marriage that is toxic and nurtures loss of human dignity.

Thank you Jare!!

ONLY IN NIGERIA!!

HIV Senator.


And nobody is talking about how he infected and killed his wife with HIV.

Your life can never remain the Same after big gods don shit inside your mouth in Dubai.

Why is there no review of this phone anywhere on YouTube.

This evil is going to spread very fast to all African countries especially Nigeria if it hasn't already.

No wonder a lot of hardened women of highly questionable character are now boldly claiming virgins online.


Will easily make the real virgins liars.

Enwhen:
Where are u presently and how much do u have ??

This guy is heavily suspect. He has opened more than 5 threads about this roommate matter several times in the past one year or more.

I hope he's not just seeking to enter into people's lives for a wrong purpose.

Thunder fire her rotten mouth.

Let her go to kirikiri prison and open her shiit infested ass for inmates to pummel as they please.

That way she'll quickly promote gay lifestyle adoption in Nigeria.