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Is there even a middle class in Nigeria. It's been long eroded. Such a shame. aybabz101: |
God bless you. [quote author=pocohantas post=91329166]When you falsely accuse someone of rape, it means you want the person to be treated as a rapist. Jailed, maybe killed. Once it is out there, it can never be taken back in the full sense of it....... |
Gbam! Uzobejeme: |
So what age would kids start primary school? Pious101: |
The parents dont need to relocate to another state. They'll simply send their kids to boarding school in those states DBestDoc: |
You are very right. Ijoni: |
With this policy, I see parents in Lagos sending their kids/wards to other states for secondary education Pious101: |
The reason why most kids skip Primary 6 is finance. Cost saving measures. The high cost of tuition particularly in private schools is responsible for this trend. Freddyjimoh: |
You are indeed pained. MelesZenawi: |
You are right o point. yvelchstores: |
Karma. In 2011 Metuh beat up a school principal https://www.nairaland.com/2879954/olisa-metuh-beats-up-british fergie001: |
Na condition o. Abuleoshi: |
[quote author=MumJ2 post=86861226]Nobody should dare quote me with rubbish about then stay in your country and give birth... You know yourselves! Anyways it's well, very soon this same rejected stone Nigeria will become the corner stone IN JESUS NAME;AMEN. Exactly my sentiments too. It's okay, everyone is now trashing Nigeria & her citizens. It would get better one day. The same people & nations that have laughed at & scorned us will seek us & come to our rising. And for those Nigerians living abroad who out of complex are running down their fellow Nigerians just because they feel they are in 'privileged' circumstances, who climbed the ladder to get to where they are & have decided to pull down the same ladder in order to prevent others from getting to where they are, who never see anything good in Nigeria & Nigerians, who tar every Nigerian with the same brush of crime, criminality & corruption, I hail una. You guys will one day eat humble pie. |
Na wa o. Women don suffer for this life. There is no way this policy won't impinge on gender issues. Particularly if they resort to mandatory pregnancy tests at POE. From the cable sent to Consular Officers by the State Department, I think the Consular Officers were guided on how to address this issue of not directly putting across the question of pregnancy to female applicants. lami88: |
Really? 123JohnF: |
+++++ LONG POST ++++++++ Dear Forumites, I’ve read with amazement the various comments on this thread about recent trends in the issuance of & renewal of US visa. I’m aware that this thread started sometime in March 2011 by someone called SKELEMBA who was seeking information regarding cost & procedures for birthing in the US (Refer to Part 1 of Thread). Since then, this thread currently on its 6th Part has been a go-to source & reference for information on the subject of birthing in the US. It has been a very helpful thread & guide to many people who otherwise might have considered the ignoble path of birthing their kids in the US without paying at all or resorting to Medicaid. I am also aware that prior to this period, many people got away with birthing their kids in the US without declaring their intention or even without paying a dime for services they received. However, since the inception of this thread, a lot of Nigerians are better informed. They have over time made their intentions known at the US Embassy & at the POEs. They’ve ensured their bills are paid (even to the extent of chasing service providers to get their payments effected). Some others also set up payment plans with their service providers. This much has been acknowledged in some cases of visa renewals by the Embassy. This thread has been very helpful in getting people prepared for their visa interviews & POEs, pre-natal, post natal & documentation activities. Even issues like accommodation, shopping, mobility while in the US were openly, genuinely and honestly discussed and advise proffered. Ideas & information were freely given & shared. This platform, though faceless has seen real friendships metamorphose in reality. We’ve equally seen people with wrong intentions collectively corrected and advised to tow the line of truth & sincerity in their birthing project. It’s been a learning curve. I am however amazed that recently, some people in their comments on this forum have decided to tar the generality of Nigerians with one brush of dishonesty & fraud. Let’s be mindful of the fact that it is the perception we give outsiders/foreigners about ourselves that those foreigners will benchmark their dealings with us on. If we call ourselves a country of armed robbers so will foreigners address us. Let’s therefore not be deceived. Let it be known that crime & fraud exist in every country. Criminals exist in all countries. I do not know of any country that does not have a justice system, prisons or correctional facilities. Yes, Nigeria is going through tough times presently, and until we rebuild our institutions we shall continue to face challenges. However, it is my belief that Nigeria shall surmount its challenges someday soon. Previously (as listed on Page 1 of the Thread), some of the following would most likely earn you a visa issuance / or POE as the case may be: 1. Making your intentions of birthing known; 2. Budget / Cost Estimates 3. Burden of Proof 4. Doctor’s / Hospital Appointment or documents 5. Financial Capability 6. Change of Intent (For a previously issued valid visa), etc The above-listed were previously accepted. That has now changed. Even visas previously issued based on those considerations are now being questioned by the same VOs who most likely issued them. Finally, it is a country’s prerogative to issue visas & admit foreigners into its territory. It is solely at their discretion. That can’t be wished away or taken away from them. But it is also obvious that there’s a global shift in immigration & consular policies of developed countries. These policies are both written & unwritten. These policies only manifest or play out at the point of service delivery (that is, at the point of visa interviews, POEs etc). Since the issuance of visas is a discretionary consular function, a visa can be denied on the flimsiest reason / excuse. We might never know the actual reason for a visa refusal. If we have contrary opinions let’s convey them in the best & most respectable way we can. No single person knows it all. One size does not fit all. People’s circumstances are different. Please let's be guided therefore. Whatever help or advise you can give to your fellow Nigerian should be the focus. After-all that is the essence of this forum Justwise has done a very fantastic job of moderating this thread. It is a thankless job. I really do commend him for a job well done. |
Good afternoon dear friends. Please just a quick question. For those whose kids are US citizens & intend travelling on holiday to the UK, what is the process please. Thanks |
Good afternoon good people. Congrats to the new moms. Please what's the POE experience like in Washington Dulles in recent times? |
What kind of arrangement is that if I may ask? Isn't it child trafficking in another guise? Sarahwilliams19: |
You will declare as a family if the total is more than $10k. chibertha: |
Wooooowwwwww!!!! What a convenient & evasive explanation. AZeD1: |
You are the confused fellow here. Keep grabbing at straws!!! Makuos: |
Really? Wow! Clap for yourself. Enice: |
Why the unnecessary controversy. JESUS CHRIST was sha born. All these arguments are needless. The essence of the season is that Christ came to die for mankind to save the world. Period! BrainnewsNg: |
Merry Christmas everyone! |
I wonder. Standing5: |
Na wa o. Why should you take medicaid? Bros it's a No. davichido: |
God bless you. This is the plain truth. Things should be done in moderation. aspirebig: |
That's true. Irony of life TWoods: |
Please how does this work? Petdaughter: |
$200 for accommodation? Is he sharing a room with 2 other occupants? [Qqquote author=TUBLEZ post=61870491]people in America are not thr to count bridge they hustle tight and they hv what to show for it, my friend earns 700$ per week that's 2,800$ in a month he pays 200$ for accommodation only African food is expensive thr with 2-5 dollars u can eat good food, he pays his tfair with 1-2 & including cents.. Most of this guy's sends thr savings to naija to either build houses or other investment because they know they can't be thr forever... How many people earns 500k in Nigeria and u will still hv to buy fuel every night, average salary for naija graduate is 50k that's if u even get the job[/quote] |