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STrIcTLY To All #MEN

1. Before you start a relationship with
a lady,
you must think carefully about what
you are
about to do. A relationship is not
something
you should rush into or handle lightly.

2. Are you ready for a relationship with
her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and
spiritually
mature to meet her needs?

3. Being sexually attracted to her
means
absolutely nothing. It isn?t a sign of
likeness,
love or any other thing your mind may
come up
with. It may just be your hormones
messing
with your mind. A woman is more than
her
body and her sexuality. She has a life
which you
should be able to blend with. Can you
do that?

4. This lady has a history. Can you
handle it?
She has a past. Can you handle it? Can
you
handle her mistakes, failures and
weaknesses? Can you handle her
dreams
without being intimidated and
becoming
jealous?

5. She already had a life
before she met you. Can you fit into
and help
improve her life?

6. Love is commitment. Are you ready
to
commit your life to helping her grow
and
become all that she can be, by God?s
grace?

7. Is she valuable enough for you to
devote a
large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream? Are
you ready
to pour your resources into making her
all the
Lord plans for her to be? If you are not
ready,
don?t just bother.

8. Before you open your
mouth to say ?I love you?, ask yourself if
this is
not just a moment of ?emotional
madness?. A
lady needs much more than ?I love you?.
She
needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to make that
commitment
that will lead to marriage, please leave
her
alone in peace and stop wasting her
time and
resources..

AGREE ??

99100: Once bitten twice shy.

Kill Jonathan and Nigeria's disintegration would be fast forwarded.

I disagree with you. Killing GEJ will restructure or reshape our country.

Yoritshekiri: What is mega about that school?
Also I thought buildings don't collapse in Yoruba land?

Man that's shophisticated building

Hahahahahahah, APC members are truly mad and foolish, how could they blame anybody of being responsible for a collapse building? what is really wrong with these criminals? Are the PDP members the contractors or the suppliers of the materials used in constructing the house? Nawaooo. APC should stop chasing shadows cos they can no longer deceive Nigerians. What a devilish and foolish allegation! These people have no direction at all.

Only a blind man will not see that the building by mere looking is of substandard

Apc have lost every element of decency. If it were a bomb like they claim,the artisans would have been blown up. How are we sure this construction scam was not carried out by tinubu’s hi-tech construction company. abeg yeye de smell. lol

1. Women want a man to be confident!
Confidence is the number one quality women look for. Don't be wimpy. Don't apologize for everything. Be real. Be you.

2. Women want a man who makes her feel like she's the only one.
Women go nuts over a man who will go the extra mile. For example, he opens the door for her, he walks on the right side of the street, he helps her shop. I'm talking about being a GENTLEMAN! If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is danger, put your arm around her. Be a real man.

3. Women want a man with a sense of humor.

A woman will almost always love a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you're halfway home. Take a chance, be real, but be funny. There are several seduction experts who claim that being "cocky" and "funny" are the two most important qualities to attracting a woman. I agree.

4. Women want a man to listen to them (yes, even to the gripes and details of all the craziness) and not necessarily give advice.
Many women love to complain about their problems; however, they complain not to receive advice, but merely to sound off. I know it's hard to nod and be supportive, because you want to watch a football match or do something that to you may seem more exciting, but the fact is, your woman will go to the ends of the earth to love you when you truly listen to them and acknowledge their needs. You need to understand that women need to VENT. Allow her this, and she'll allow you in. Nod. Get involved and provide active listening feedback. Be truly interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you're going to say next. Then, watch what happens as your woman opens up to you more.

Women want men to listen to them, because they have a need to be heard. And, women want their man to express his feelings and trust her with his intimate side. Real listening, with real intimacy, is rare. Real listening is suspending thinking about what to say and being deeply engaged in what she is talking about. Listening requires actively paying attention -- shutting off the chatter mind.

5. Women want men to treat them like they are the sexiest woman on the planet and that no other woman compares.

Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman. Treating her like she's the ONLY one will make her smile for quite a while.

6. Women want loyal men.
Women want to know you will be faithful. Don't tell a woman how you cheated on your ex. It won't make her think you are wise, loyal, or trustworthy. I'm not saying to lie to her -- just don't go there. Don't cheat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this. Just like you want think you are the only man she's ever loved, well, that's the thing she wants, too. The key to faithfulness comes from your own inner character. Be a man of character and you will reap a relationship built upon trust. You gain respect through consistent committed action. Respect backed up by love builds trust, trust builds a strong relationship that can stand the tests of life and time.

7. Women SAY they want a sensitive man. Truth is, if you go around apologizing all the time and crying frequently then a woman will abuse you. Trust me, it is NOT wise to do. This was well exemplified during the beach scene in the movie Bedazzled I watched sometime ago, where the main character in the film was trying to woo his love interest, his advice had been to "be more sensitive." Well, he went so overboard, was so sensitive, that his love interest ended up walking away with another dude with the assumption that they'd have meaningless conversation and casual sex! Boy was HE surprised! Being overly sensitive is a quick way to get shown the door. It is important to strike a balance. Be strong, be there, yet share your emotions. Speak up and be real. Let them know you care. But don't be a sissy.

Women say they want to be treated like an equal. This is not true. Women want to be treated like a WOMAN. Not like a man. If she wanted to be with a woman, she'd do that. She wants to be with YOU. Therefore, be a MAN. This is not to be confused with being treated like a piece of property, not to be confused with being treated with disrespect. Women want to be respected! A woman wants to be respected for being feminine, being a woman. Women are quite different from men. A man who takes the time to understand the difference is a wise man. Bottom line here: NO MORE Mr. NICE GUY. Be a REAL MAN, not a sensitive NICE GUY. Because the nice guys usually do finish last.

You still don't get it? Ok, then try this: be your own bad self. I will say that some women are attracted to "Bad Boys". I think there is a certain ruggedness to the bad boy - they break rules, they sometimes behave rudely. But the true gentleman always remembers what matters most. Have an air of mystique, but definitely be you. If, on occasion, that means doing what you want, rather than what she wants, then do it. Just don't make a continual habit of it - that's rude.

8. Women LOVE a man with a plan.
Women love men with ambition. Men who know who they are, what we're doing tonight, and what we're doing with our life. If you don't have a plan, get one. I have a plan (a) and plan (b) ready at all times, so that no matter what, it will appear I'm fairly spontaneous, but reality is I usually know where, when, and how the evening or date could go. In dating, it is extremely important that you have a plan when you ask a woman out. They will judge your sense of confidence by how well you have thought out where you will take her and what you will do together. So, think ahead, have a plan, then work that plan. While you're at it make sure you have an alternative plan, too, in case she doesn't like the first one!

It is equally important for a man to know when to call a woman's bluff and let her know when she is pushing his limits. A man who just falls over and laps at his woman's feet is a man who is called "whipped" for a reason. An example is as follows: she asks, "what do you want to do tonight," he says, "whatever you want to do." If this is his consistent pattern, he's whipped. She won't respect him in the end.

9. Women want generous men.
Don't be a tight-wad. Give the woman in your life gifts.

Women will always appreciate a man who ushers them gift because everywoman wishes for it. Try it with occasional gifts like chocolates, flowers and anything beautiful.

10. Be a true friend. LISTEN TO HER.
Let her share her good times and problems with you. Be there, rather than just promising to be there. Consistent committed positive action is a definition of love. How do you show you are a friend? Are you there when it matters most? Are you there for the small stuff, too?

11. Women want to be loved, despite their flaws, and need to be satisfied mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as much as physically. Unconditional love would be ideal love.
How can you love a woman without judgment, conditions, or rules? How would you like to be loved?

Sexually speaking, women define great sex differently than men, using words like soft candlelight, light touch, then becoming more aggressive as their mood rises to the occasion. A man, on the other hand, instantly rises to the occasion. Women want men to be their lover instead of obsessing over their body to just get sex. Rather than treat women as sex objects, treat them as someone to relate with; in other words, a real person! That means taking your time, showing extra attention, and being tender in ways with her to let her know she is special.

12. Women appreciate a man who is creative.

Roses are nice. But sometimes it is extra special to think of something that most guys wouldn't do for a woman. It could be something frivolous, but if it is something that you think SHE would like, then why not do it? You might have just made her day.

13. Women want men who offer a sense of security, to know that her partner will be there if she becomes sick or when she grows old or flabby.
Giving a woman security is being there through emotional and physical support. An example might be if she has to have surgery. Take the day off and be there for her, hold her hand, and give your full support to her. In other words, postpone that "tee time"! Security comes from trust. Again, this is about being able to rely in your strength of character.

Rumor mongers

.... Insists he won't resign
now
Jaiyeola Andrews
Embattled governor of
Adamawa State, Admiral
Murtala Nyako (rtd),
Wednesday said if it
becomes necessary, he
would seek the assistance of
President Goodluck
Jonathan over the
impeachment noose
hanging on his neck.
He was at the Presidential
Villa where he attended the
inauguration of the steering
committee of the Safe School
Initiative.
Fielding questions from
State House correspondents
after the launch, Nyako said
he remained unruffled over
the move by his state House
of Assembly to impeach
him.
http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/impeachment-i-will-seek-jonathans-assistance-when-necessary-says-nyako/183137/

Soka forest thing

ogologodimkpa: They failed to reason beyond their nose.

Tell them jare.

Hausas/fulanis has little or nothing to offer in terms of education in this country, let tell our selves the truth. Tomorrow some of you will be crying the lots in educational system.
GEJ is only fighting to safe his 2015 political ambition here

Another 2015 campaign

The level of poverty in this part of country is appealing. Federal and State government should do something urgently. Hope they are not stealing for Omisore or Aregbesola for their campaign

Acidosis: And together they will form the Anti-Christ.

And anyone that misses the rapture - the 2nd coming of the great King will be forced to bow down to the Beast.

Some of you think we are talking tales and riddles It's only a matter of (SHORT) time when the people of the world will search for death, but death would be nowhere to be found

This united Army of Anti-Christ will wage war against the Land of Israel & the Isrealites shall be defeated (as predicted in the book of revelation). The Israelis would be seriously dealth with and in a moment, in a twinkling of an eye, before the total destruction of the land, THE KING OF KINGS, His Mighty Warriors & The Angel of War - MICAHEL will come to their rescue.

Make I stop for here, before una go cruxify me!

In your sermon, do you mean that Islam are anti-Christ?

All Muslim are not terrorist but all terrorist are Muslim Arab scientists have invented a time-travel device that can transport an entire country back to the middle ages. They’re calling it ‘Islam’.

Is this a governor? #nawao
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....U cn pay for school;bt u sure cnt buy 'CLASS'.
Aregbesola is classless

PapaBrowne: Omisore's resume:


Education[edit]
He had his primary education at the SS Peter and Paul Roman Catholic School in Ile-Ife and his secondary education at St. John Grammar School Ile Ife Osun State from 1972 – 1977, where he excelled. He later attended Federal Polytechnic Owo in Ondo State Nigeria. He later sat for and passed his Full Technological Certificate Examinations at the Technology College, Reading UK, and obtained a diploma Certificate in Electrical/Electronics Engineering. He also holds a Bachelor of Engineering Degree in Power and Machines from Brunnel University Uxbridge, United Kingdom, a postgraduate Certificate in Building service and Engineering Management and a Master of Science Degree in Building Services from the same University. Later, he went to Brunel University, Uxbridge, UK where he earned a Post Graduate Certificate in Mechanical Engineering and an M.Sc degree in Building Services Engineering. At present, the senator holds a Ph.D in Infrastructure Finance from the International School of Management, Paris, France and he is currently undergoing his DBA programme at the same institution. In his pursuit of excellence, the Senator who is equally a Fellow of the Institution of Mechanical Engineers, England and Wales underwent several courses in different high profile institutions. He did the Advanced Budgeting Course at the George Town University, Washington DC, USA; the Appropriations and Public Finance Course at the ABS Academy, Athens, Greece; the Advanced Leadership Course at the University of Carolina; The Innovation and Leadership Course at the West London College; the Public Finance Course at the Harvard University and the Aid Effectiveness and Donour Harmonization Course at the Internationale Weiterbildung und Entwicklung gGmbH, Germany.

In January 2013, he completed and was awarded a Doctorate Degree by the International School of Management in Paris. He majored in Procurement, Taxation, Corporate Governance, Infrastructure finance and Public Private Partnerships. The concept of Public Private Partnerships is a key part of the strategy that has been successfully used to provide affordable infrastructure that meets public needs. The concept combines the best capabilities of the Public and Private sectors for mutual benefit.[2]

Professional career[edit]
He is an embodiment of intelligence who has made the pursuit of excellence his trademark. Senator Iyiola Omisore is an engineer and politician of note, and an astute manager of resources whose attention to detail, calmness, and ability to simplify, and proffer solutions to complex issues is uncommon. In fact, his patriotic zeal and engineering acumen was brought to play tremendously when he was in the Senate between 2003 and 2011 and the country benefitted tremendously from this.

Engineering

He started his early professional life with the firm of Drake and Gordham while in the UK, in the early Eighties where he received on the job training and rose to top Management positions. The same firm Drake and Scull (Nig) Ltd took him back home to Nigeria where he worked on major Engineering projects, it was while working at Drake and Scull that his project management skills were horned. He later established his own Engineering firms; Mechelec Consultants –an Engineering Consultancy outfit and Chrisore Eng Ltd – an Electrical Engineering firm.

Omisore, a Fellow of the Chartered Institution of Building Services Engineers started his engineering career as project manager with Drake Gordham UK, Plc, in 1983 and was there up to 1985 before returning to Nigeria to join Drake and Scull Nig. Ltd. also as Project Manager. Here, he supervised the construction of 19 airfields including the Makurdi Air Force Base. Apart from these, he supervised other projects like the Sokoto and Makurdi Rice Mills, Taraku Oil Mill and the Sokoto University Teaching Hospital. He was elevated to the post of a General Manager in 1987 and as a General Manager there up till 1999, he handled such projects like the Federal Mortgage Bank Headquarters Building, Onitsha Flour Mills, Bank of The North (Now Unity Bank) Building, Podium Secretariat, Port Harcourt; Eternit, Sapele; World Bank Assisted Health Projects for Plateau, Benue and Nasarawa States and the Imiringi Rural Electrification project now in Bayelsa State.

Other Projects

CBN Governor’s/Deputy Governor’s Lodges
UACN Commercial Complex, Abuja;
Union Bank (Stallion Plaza);
UBA Headquarters;
EIB Headquarters;
Afribank Headquarters;
British High Commission, Abuja;
Brawal Shipping Lines Office Complex (10 – Story)
As someone that has made his mark in the engineering profession, he has some awards to show for this. He was conferred with the Nigerian Society of Engineers Presidential Merit Award for Support and Contribution to the Development of the Society in 2007. Also, when the NSE was celebrating its Golden Jubilee in 2008, he was honoured with the Prime Award for Remarkable Contribution to the Growth of Engineering Profession and Society.

Project Management

On the consultancy side he was involved in the execution of several World Bank assisted projects and ADB/ADF assisted projects in virtually every part of Nigeria. Chisore Engineering Ltd was also involved in the Execution of many projects for Blue Chip Companies, Banks, Embassies, Shipping Companies; just to mention but a few. He was very successful in his professional endeavour, he diversified and today has interest in several areas of the Economy. He was in the process of taking Chrisore Engineering to be listed on the stock Exchange before the duties of elective political office beckoned on him. Omisore went ahead to establish Chrisore Engineering Plc in 1989 as well as Mechelec Consultants Ltd. Between the time of its establishment and 1999, Chrisore Engineering of which he was the Chairman and CEO had executed many projects.

These include the UACN Commercial Complex, Apapa; the Central Bank of Nigeria Governor’s residence including the residences of its 5 Deputies; Afribank Headquarters; Eko International Bank Headquarters; UACN Abuja Complex in addition to the Union Bank of Nigeria Headquarters.

Nineteen Nigerian Airfields including NAF base in Makurdi
Sokoto Rice Mills
Makurdi Rice Mills,
Taraku Oil Mills
Onitsha Flour Mills,
Eternit, Sapele
Bank of the North Headquarters, Kano
NTA/NTI, Kaduna
Federal Mortgage Bank, Lagos,
Sokoto Teaching Hospital,
Podium Secretariat, Port Harcourt
Immirungi Rural Electrification, Bayelsa,
Okpella Cement Factory
World Bank Assisted Projects

Enugu State Multi-State Road Project;
Ondo State Multi-State Road Project;
Kano/Jigawa Multi-State Road Project;
Ondo/Enugu IDF
Sokoto/Zamfara Multi-State Health Project;
Ondo/Bauchi Multi-State Health Project;
Ogun/Kaduna Multi-State Health Project;
ADB/ADF Assisted Projects:

Kwara Water Supply;
Bauchi Water Supply;
Delta Water Supply;
Lagos Fishing Terminal;
Nkalagu Cement Factory
NSPMC Proposed Factory in Jos;
Ondo State Afforestation Project
Procurement and Infrastructure Finance

Also, in its ten years of existence, Mechelec Consultants where he was the Principal Partner had firmly registered itself in the construction industry. Projects executed successfully within this period included: African Development Bank financed projects across the states; World Bank financed projects in Enugu, Kaduna, Niger, Sokoto, Bauchi, Kwara and Imo States; World Bank Health System Fund II in Lagos State; World Bank Assisted Lagos Urban Transportation Project and the Pakistani Suppliers’ Credit on Rural Electrification in Ondo and Niger States.

Public Private Partnership

Power deregulation in Nigeria
Airports Development



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iyiola_Omisore

I don't see Aregbesola a refrigerator repairer challenging this man in an open debate

The same northerners are today demanding for grazing land in the 36 state of the country?
There was a country indeed

Brazil Are Zero Without Neymar and That Is Sad News for The Brazilians? Its Shame For A Whole National Team To Depend On One Player? That All I Can Say

They are always in crucial meeting to deliberate on how to continue to sink Nigeria. Look at their names, all evil men who ruined this nation. When vultures gather they after the carcass of Nigeria!
GEJ should be careful holding lope-sided meetings with un-elected individuals, coup makers and war-mongers, some of whom need to be prosecuted.. Their being, ex heads of state. is no excuse. This is a democracy,& unelected councils like the council of state should be overdue for abolishing.. State and national assemblies are available for you to work with.

A LASTMA official by the name Asorona stopped a car he claimed had violated traffic rules, removed the man from the car and allegedly assaulted him around 7.30 am this morning in front of BRT yard at Ketu bus stop. He and his colleagues also seized the man's car. And before anyone knew what was happening, the young man fell down on the road into convulsion, shaking, according to eye witnesses, like an epileptic patient. As the LASTMA official tried to leave the scene, he was surrounded by passersby who insisted he must stay there to see what happens to the man. See more photos after the cut...
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Day by day we are seeing the evil at the heart of APC. The funny thing is that this party of evil shouts the loudest about injustice while in actual fact the party is the epitome of injustice and evil.

South West @ it again. I nearly hit and kill one agbero this morning @ Abulado junction

I stoped taking that Old mad fool (Wale Soyinka) serious after his public fight with PEJ. Soyinka man is a public nuisance and old fool