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Arrest her, it is you who arrested her that will beg her last............abi, no be politician?

Safe journey!

This is something that is beyond one's power. No one has d power to choose where he/she should be born...........so unfortunate!

Its ur life, live it, so far u know u can cope, no qualms.

What is wrong about that, one's stepchild should be seen as one' child, if everything is alright, i mean, under normal circumstances, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
My opinion anyway

What is wrong about that, so many people may genuine excuse for not attending your wedding, and after that, they bring your gift, are u going to reject it? doing that, simply means u are angry for their non-appearance, is that really necessary?
As for me, i collected before, during and after..........no qualms.
If you are afraid of d unknown "eni ti ko je gbi, ko le ku gbi"


abeg, nothing is absolutely wrong with it.

My opinion, anyway!

@ op, try and present whatever u want to write well, it doesnt take anything away from you.
As for d subject matter, no two marriages are d same, let everybody find out what works for him/her in their marriage and let them apply it accordingly, so far neither of d party is complaining to u, its none of ur business, its their marriage and not yours, face your front and mind your business.

First of all, check/examine yourself if u are not d cause, if yes, then apologise sincerely.
Be more romantic, not only on bed, but in every area, like in your dressing, talking, cooking,etc.
Submit to him, he may be pissed off by your pride.
Pray,pray pray for him, for yourself and for your marriage.
May God help us all.

This calls for self-examination!

This is a good development, but not a licence for pple to continue their criminal action, whether there is hard labour or not, a prison remains a prison and an ex-convict remains an ex-convict.
May God help us all, and deliver us from d wrath of d law.

It depends on d individual concerned, if u think age is just a number, and u are sincere with it dt u can cope, well, good for u. Also if u think age matters, take ur decision and stand by it. As 4 me, i cant stand someone who is so older than me, i took d decision and stood by it, and it pays me off, i dont feel like a kid in my marriage, i can make imput, unlike in some marriage where d man will constantly be reminding d woman her age, hence, should keep quiet.

Then, dont tell him/her when u either want to or have already bought any new thing......as time goes on he/she will dettach him/herself from u.

What are u people saying here, whether there should be intimacy on d wedding night or not, dt one is not negotiable, truth be told, 99% of new couples will testify to this. Hypocrisy apart, no matter how tired one is, wedding night? Abeg, the tiredness will dissappear once u both enter d room, believe me, except u dont truly love ur partner....................talking from experience.

1st -3rd= Egypt
Egyptians dey try o!

Its not a bad idea,but i know dt once lagos introduced d ban, other south-west states will also fllow suit.........anyway ACN..........

Hhhhmmmm
an 85yrs old man molesting a 12yrs old girl, na wa o..............
An old man who is suppose to be settling disputes in d community, is now d one committing d most awkward sin in d community
......i SMH for him.

This type of news make me wonder how d judgement day would look like.

jidegirl12: Thank you very much my sister.... It made a lot if sense...I already copied and printed it out and put it on the kitchen fridge where I can read everyday .... any free parenting guidelines any parent can get is a plus.

It is well

u are welcome ma, i have a lot with me, i make sure i buy all messages that has to do with parenting, marriage, family,etc on all our family sundays, its every last sunday of every moment, but im not having enough time to sit down to listen, summarise and type out, God help me, not easy to be a wife and a mother, especially, with very young kids and without any maid, thanks sis.

jidegirl12: So? All those key points are very important in every kid's life.... I just don't know what you're implying

dont mind d person, let me respond because it involves u my sister.
Last year, a guest preacher was invited to our church on one of d family sundays, and she talked about this topic. So i later bought d audio CD and i decided to share it with my people here, i dont know whether d speaker read them from awake or not, all i know is that d points make a lot of senses, and i have been applying them accordinly, and they have really been working out well. Thank u my sister.

k2039: I thought of what to write for the past few minute(about 10 minutes),I just couldn't come up with anything,I thought about reinforcing one of your points but all your points are self explanatory on it's own.

Looking at the number of views,the number of comments and the type of comments,it shows most people probably felt the way I do,we don't really know what else to write.


Good job though,I believe for one to write a book,he must have lived a book.I know you definitely wrote from life experience,from what has really worked for you and the points you made,should make maximum sense to any sane mind.

I think you should visit this link https://www.nairaland.com/1083598/knowing-nairalanders-better-interviews/2#13154506

thank you
thank you
infact, im short of words, but
thank you.

Do not despise a humble begining.

If d two of them have aspirations, then they have prospects, they also have d right to be in love, but sincerely, i will advise them to wait till either of them of both are gainfully engaged before bringing forth kids.

I cant, God forbid!
Of what benefit will dt be for me!

Heeereeeeeee
where is madam CC on this thread?

[quote author=BABE!]I really don't see the reason why anyone in a serious relationship will feel comfortable enough to "flirt" with people online/offline ...

You see married men and women, and even the engaged ones scattered all over having e-girlfriends, e- $e-x buddies, e-husbands, e-all the ridiculousness you can think of. I find it rather irresponsible and disturbing ...

Your wife is lying next to you in bed and you're busy flirting and e-f^cking/kissing/paying bride prices of e-girls... doesn't make sense....[/quote]thank you!
##HUGS##

These people think the muslims will allow them to divide their religion, they dont know anything.....im not a muslim o, but i dont like d division in xtanity.

Not everybody dt invited me dt i even have time for, not to talk of somebody dt didnt invite me, i'l be very happy, afterall "gbomo wa kini, owo niina ni"
Somebody to help me interprete dt.

My hubby was in d labour room when i had my last baby, based on what he saw, he insisted we are not going to have another baby, he claimed he love me more than allowing me to experience such pain again, i just hope d op will not do d same after being in d labour room with his wiffy.

Rest in peace

In my opinion, online cheating can actually become physical cheating, because, it may lead to unconsciuos closeness between them, and d two parties may become crazy over each other, which may lead to having to arrange on how to meet physically, and once they meet physically, nothing but real cheating will be involved, so if anybody claims to love his/her partner, he should be able to stay thru thick and thin and stop hypocrisy. I see online chatting as hypocrisy, because he will have to deny his marital status to d person online. To me, it is not a good thing and should not be encouraged. It can lead to emotional disturbance to d spouse.
Thank God for d woman who is comported enough to confront her hubby, but how do we know d hubby was actually saying d truth?


**If u want to be faithful, be faithful, dont add hypocrisy to ur faithfulness.**

@op, instead of putting urself into all these unnecessary stress and later likely face breach of contract,why dont u go for adoption?


Just suggesting, no offence pls,

@ op, based on what u wrote here, u sound more like a boss rather than a hubby(a partner). One thing i believe is dt if u make her happy, u will also be happy, how can u do that? let me refer u to this:https://www.nairaland.com/1109295/couple-celebrates-80th-wedding-anniversary.