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What amazes me is dt some men still complain and flirt around because they are looking 4 girls. I know of a man, (my superior officer in my place of work) who claim he married d 2nd and 3rd wives, because he wanted girls and dt d 1st wife was only giving him boys. D 1st wife had 6 boys for this man.what do u think about this?

[quote author=Efemena_xy]My sister nor vex. Na over sabi dey worry moi.

But to tell the truth, I find so many of the attacks on Debrief uncalled for! I'm yet to find a post of hers where she's rude or insultive.

Just not fair, that's all...[/quote]hellooooo my sister, dont get worked up, she has never being rude nor insultive, only dt we cant do without having haters, its natural, God shall reward everyone accordingly. Those attacks make us stronger.

Okay, let me ask u, is it everybody u know dt really love u?........no! Its impossible, u must definately have somebody who will never get satisfied with u, who will always have something to complain about, when it has to do with u, that is life, it makes us stronger. Okay?
@ debrief, ride on, u are too strong to be shaken.

May God help us, babies are usually joy to d world each time they come to d world, but in this case now, are d kidnappers really joyful 4 d arrival of d baby or otherwise, once again, may God help us all.

There are many reasons why parents cannot be totally held responsible for their children online behaviours such as:
1. Illiteracy; some parents cannot even identify a computer, not to talk of knowing what their children are doing with it.
2. Affordability; some parents cannot afford to buy a computer, hence, their inability to monitor what their children are doing their.
3. Ignorance, some parents do have access to computer, they can do some simple things with it, but dont know dt it can be used to perpetrate evil, and those who knows prefer to ignore, for reasons best known to them,etc,etc.
That been said, if as parents, we have even perform our duties as expected, we dont need to fear about what our children are doing online, inasmuch, as we have trained them to d right path from their childhood, they will always remember d training given to them and we have to continue praying for them not to pair with bad company that may want to adulterate d sound trainig given to them from their childhood, with that, we will be rest assured that they can not do what is unexpected of them either online or offline.
Train your child the way he shall go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.(reframed).
May God help us all.

I dont know what u mean by fathers not telling their sons about women, fathers do, i mean, real fathers, why wont they? Except they want another person to help them educate their sons. I could see my own hubby telling his children d type of women to go for when they are mature enough.

I will like my sons to marry somebody like me in d future, i dont know if u will like ur daughter to marry somebody like u in d future.......be sincere!

Its like this question is directed to d RomanCatholic members.

@op, idont know, i dont gossip, neither do my hubby, so i cant say categorically.

As a man think, so is he...........prov 23:7
@op, if u believe so, so be it 4 u, but as 4 me, there more blessings 4 d firsrborns, and also 4 all my children, no one will fall for any to rise.....in Jesus name....Amen.

From my own point of view, i think women think they have more problems than men whereas, its not always like dt, there are some problems dt just require action, logic or wisdom application, while men are using all this approach,to solve d problems, some women will prefer to go to church to seek spiritual approach to such problem, may God help us.

Some women are so gullible, sorry to d womenfolks o, dts just d fact, and btw, im also a woman.

D fact is dt Mr President is an hypocrite, and i have discovered dt somebodt who is not hypocritical can not rule this country successfully.

Somebody to pls explain to me, why i should believe this Poo

i dont know what xtianity is turning into, well im convinced dt im a child of God, im saved,and dt settles it, i cant be intimidated.

If u are fine, u are fine, if u are ugly, u are ugly, except there is a problem with dt camera, if not, "ireje o si ninu photo, bi o ba se joko lo maa ri ara re"

B4 i got married, height was one of d thing i considered, i said i can not marry somebody im taller than, and i got what i wanted. Its not dt im dt short, but i always like to see couple and d hubby is usually taller than d wiffy, it thrills me! I wont like a situation where d hubby will look like a younger brother to d wife.

Nigeria and her educational system!

I lost a beloved elder sister in 2009, and im yet to delete her number, i dont know why, but i always feel relieved and comfortable each time i scroll down and i see her number.

@ debrief, u did a wonderful work here, i just hope those intending to tie d knot will have to get to reading this type of write-up b4 they do.
Thumb up ma'am!

I love this thread.
Good job there.

Marriage is holy and sacred, so anytime, anyday, intimacy occurs btw d married couples should and will not be considered unholy.

Looking at it from another angle, it is even better for couples especially pastors and altar workers to satisfy themselves very well with intimacy, so that they will not be tempted when they see those girls in minis, who delibrately dress sexy and wierd to church and sit in d front rows in order to seduce either d pastors or d altar workers.

@ mynd, sorry 4 ur loss,i lost mine 15 yrs ago, but not missing him anyway, because while he wsa alive,he was not there 4 us when we all nedded him.

Mum always echo this statement to my hearing, not only me, but all my siblings inclusive
"iberu Oluwa ni ipinlese ogbon"
(d fear of God is d beginning of wisdom) this statement helps me in every aspect, anytime i want to do or say something to somebody, i always think if it God dt is involved first, and dt has really helped my relationship with everyone i come across either physically or online. I fear God so much, hence, my way of doing things, dts why it will be very difficult 4 me to initiate any form of fight.

jidegirl12: As per your last paragraph the answer is yes ma.

Long throat indeed ...

so then, thank u my sister, i wonder why some pple hare are positively advocating 4 dis lady, maybe, she forgot dt she cant eat her cake and have it.
I am 75% certain that when d op read all d posts on this thread, he will drop d relationship, then, d lady will look 4 another person to fill d gap or betterstill go back to her uncle for an avenue to get more material gifts again.

For d 1st night, yes i agree, it was a rape case, but for her to continue for 4yrs more: 18,19,20,21, i think its more of enjoying d material gifts shes enjoying from d good-for-nothing uncle of hers, which is d reason for her not rejecting,=longthroat.

Or may i ask, why did she continue to allow d uncle to have his way until she meets this her new boyfriend?

How i wish there is "unlike" botton, how can i like living beyond 127 yrs?

[quote author=Efemena_xy]It's funny how people are still responding to a thread that was created 1 year 3 months ago!

@poster don born the pikin tey-tey na [/quote]abi o, my sister, each time i jam this thread, i just laugh,if taryour herself check this her thread again, im sure she will burst into laugh. D baby would have become really big now.

Btw, I expect taryour to be warming up 4 another delivery now

@op, if i were u, i will take to my heels rather than throwing a pity party with her when in actual fact, she could have resisted d uncle's approach.
D lady in question is covetious(longthroat) in d sense dt, she was enjoying d reward d uncle was presenting to her, so she felt comfortable with d act, so dt she will continue enjoying d reward, she stopped because she had found an alternative provider, if for any reason, u become broke, financially, she will remember this her uncle who use to reward her financially better and may likely go back to him in order to get some huge financial reward again. She may just be telling u now, because she think u are filling d gap, but once d gap is not properly filled again, only GOD KNOWS WHAT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN, she knows what shes doing, shes a classical slut, she was 17 when she started and she did it for 4 yrs, haba, she knew what she was doing.
I go with coogar, pls

But d decision is yours.

Hell no!
God forbid!

One of d reasons why my hubby refused to let us have househelp. But im so lucky, my MIL is always there 4 us, we are not far from one another, so i just have to drop my baby with her when im going to work in d morning and come back in d evening to pick after im done 4 d day.
Op, u are right, its good to be vigilant.

I had problem with "hygiene", i used to spell it as "higiene"

To answer d op's question, when u see strong consistence in d posts of a particular person, then, that person is not far from being real.

Na wa o, from #1million, he bought a jeep, a bus, built a house, gave his lawyer #500,000 and still have something to give his wife to start business, infact, tell us another thing, this story too sweet.

Btw, this their job should not be "asefilomolowo"