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Politics › Re: Defenders Of Maiduguri In Pictures by gsainttrinity(m): 8:40pm On Feb 01, 2015

tit:
the civilian JTF do mop up and pick up wounded enemy and stragglers.
they are the reason you see enemy KIA without "trousers".
they are not frontline shock troops.

this is supposed to be a man's domain But. .
Btw. . Are you a female soldier?

Romance › Re: Help Pls, I Get Uneasy When I Meet Really Cute Ladies..and Its Affecting My Job. by gsainttrinity(m): 8:55pm On Jan 21, 2015

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Maybe he wants to bleep you!

Eventually that may come but not now.. .
Don't move faster than your shadow!

Romance › Re: Help Pls, I Get Uneasy When I Meet Really Cute Ladies..and Its Affecting My Job. by gsainttrinity(m): 8:51pm On Jan 21, 2015

Nneka123:
Grant you which pleasure?

The pleasure of knowing you physically

Romance › Re: Help Pls, I Get Uneasy When I Meet Really Cute Ladies..and Its Affecting My Job. by gsainttrinity(m): 12:07pm On Jan 21, 2015

Nneka123:
hmm! like someone said, you need confidence, it won't hurt to look in the eye, just try..

Hi Nneka i have a confession.
Ever since i came accros your handle, i have been stalking it.
I only wonder if you are as pretty as your picture.
Stalking ain't my thing and i would love to blush in the aura of your beauty that is if you would be kind enough to grant me the pleasure.
Your secret admirer!

Romance › Re: Help Pls, I Get Uneasy When I Meet Really Cute Ladies..and Its Affecting My Job. by gsainttrinity(m): 11:41am On Jan 21, 2015

adeebayo:
I really need advice from guys.
I'm a kind of shy person and I fins it hard to hide expressions facially..... my face just gives me away, d harder I try to hide it the worse. I think its called blushing for ladies, but for a guy I don't know what its called. issue is dis,when I meet really cute ladies I can't look dem in d eye and my job tho entails that I come across visitors from some big time coys....and they r usually drop dead gorgeous..... I find myself struggling to communicate with them eye ball to eye ball.....professionally

what can I do to solve dis issue or at least mask it properly.

thanks.

Let me be honest with you!
Although there is this human tendency to feel intimidated by ladies we assume are beautiful, (Remember beauty is in the eyes of the beholder)

Bros there is nothing like a really beautiful woman Not even Beyounce the wife to Jay Z or Rihanna or which ever lady you want to mention. Try to look beyound the features that attracts you, the rest you would are flaws and imperfection.

Train your mind to have this idea. Always sing it to yourself. No lady is perfect. Or you can do in the reverse, instead of admiring the supposed beautiful ladies try checking them out to find what to hate in them.

This is what i do. When i see a chick that may make me loose my cool, i would either ignore her and start thinking of all the bad things that has happened in my life by the time i am through i would be so angry she wouldn't be my problem again.

Romance › Re: The Thrill In Breaking A Girls Heart by gsainttrinity(m): 9:28am On Jan 19, 2015

flowjoe:
Thats me right there
Im becoming a master of the art

hahahaha, sharp guy!

Romance › Re: 7 Wonders Of A Typical Nigerian Girl by gsainttrinity(m): 10:13pm On Jan 18, 2015

VickyyB:
OP why are you obsessed with girls. Are you a woman-hater or have misogynistic tendency?

The truth is bitter!
Learn and improve that's the message here.!

Romance › Re: The Thrill In Breaking A Girls Heart by gsainttrinity(m): 2:08pm On Jan 17, 2015

MrDojo:
Bro 4get yur signature...with dis yur post u r a womanizer jare

lol. . . I'm not Oo
but i am just happy when my schemes and lies could make a lady melt. . I always feel like messi when i succeed#in 2face voice

but just like other comments warning against such negative pleasures, i have made a resolution this year to stop such games.

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Romance › Re: The Thrill In Breaking A Girls Heart by gsainttrinity(m): 1:54pm On Jan 17, 2015

The world is an Odd place, so many people derive pleasure from different activities. Some find pleasure in having sex with inanimate objects like cars.
My own pleasure doesn't come from breaking hearts, but i think i find pleasure in being able to make ladies fall inlove with me or being emotionally attached.
I just love the act of seduction. The harder it is to get the hearts the better for me. Lol

Romance › Re: If You Changed To The Opposite Sex Over Night, What Would You Do? by gsainttrinity(m): 4:06pm On Jan 10, 2015

Akdegreat:
Lol ,my man e no pure o

Romance › Re: If You Changed To The Opposite Sex Over Night, What Would You Do? by gsainttrinity(m): 3:09pm On Jan 10, 2015

Akdegreat:
I can't imagine being a girl... Mehn I'd lock myself indoors till the real me is back

The last thing i want is to be a woman!

So that all these bad guy would be chasing me down the street D**k in hand!

Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 9:58pm On Jan 06, 2015

V0lv0:
Don't be. It's very clear to anyone that what he said was pure tripe. How can it be culturally acceptable to cheat. I am starting to believe that he is not even an African but one of them trolls whose main aim is what he is doing here and in every other thread. He should simply be ignored

thank you!

You just cured my heavy heart.

Ofcourse no fool would permit cheating.

Even in some society Nigerian or anywhere else where is cultural permisive to be promiscuos, those rits are done in certain times and seasons mainly to attract blessings for bounty harvest.
Anyone who indulges in such during times not traditionally permitted is a cheat to the wife and the society.
I wish we could be more open minded this supposed to be the main attribute of a modern human. Stereotypes, generalising and unconfirmed condemnation of a people and their custom is not ideal at all.

Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 9:42pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
You are begging the question, when we know the present generation and their intimate practices are dishonestly infidelity . The youths are worse when it comes to cheating as it has been passed from the old to the new as a cultural norm.

I give up!!

Although i am very pained that you painted our Nigerian culture in such bad light.

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 9:30pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
He possibly cheated on the first wife before taking the second one in.

what do you do before marrying a wife?

You date and you court her!
That's what he did.

I can say he cheated when he had the kids out of wedlock as custom and tradition demands.

Bros we are living in a different setting and it will be unfair to judge those who lived by some certain customs with the same parameters by which we have built our modern custom.

I REPEAT And i STAND By my word. If modern men cheat (nigerian) it has nothing to do with a past custom. Especially a very noble tradition at that.

Its like setting Economics examination for an engineering student and judging their value by that standard.

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 9:15pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
Blame that on culture and men chauvinist attitude in Nigeria. It is time women start to fight for their rights in that country.

You have no Idea what human rights are. AH! So you think the nonesense America and some other cunning western nation is advertising is called human rights?

American and other bigots are watching hundreds of children die everyday in Syria and Pakistan. What did they do about the rights of those people?

Innocent Black men are shot and killed everyday in ''the-land-of-the-free'' where are their rights?

Thousands are protesting against black immigrants and moslems in Germany. Where are their rights?

Nigerian culture has the most robust human rights you can think of. Why do you think Nigerians are confident? Because our traditional culture does not intimidate.

Yes Men and women may not be socially equal in the societal standings but everybody right is guaranteed accordingly. No selective human rights issue.

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 8:58pm On Jan 06, 2015

What i am still trying to clearify here is that if Nigerian men cheats, it has nothing to do with our culture or custom of our tradition.

I give example: my grand father married two wives but even after his death, his wives (all late now) always eulogise on how he was a principled man that never had concubines (cheating in their own terms).

But he had two wives. Polygamy was the acceptable law of the community (same way monogamy has replaced it in recent times).
He married a secound wife because he needed more children which was very excential since he needed more hands to work in his hectares of agricultural farmland (i visited a part of it recently my brother no be joke o. In ten years you can not clear the potion of farmland they cultivated every season.) this he did without tractor, herbicide or harvester. Just his hoe and cutlass.

But my grand mother couldn't give birth to more kid due to age and strength so the man got a younger wife that produced his additional labourers in his vine yard.

No body should generalise on the attitude of a people without understanding the dynamics of their existence (NIGERIA)

Modern Nigerian men cheat on their foreign partners because they are a means to an end. This is a result of a situation which would require another lengthy text to kowatiate.

My homie All4naija you have been away from home too long try and comeback so that you understood your fellow country men better.

There are always two sides to a coin.

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 8:37pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
Why are you twisting my words? Isn't having concubines outside the home cheating? Nigerian culture gives men the right to do that without taking it as serious matter.

Having Concubines. . . Hmmm well i don't know of any culture that endorses it. But does not mean it didn't exist then as it is now. . And yes it is cheating and its cheating because those that indulged in it always does it in sneaky manner. Its not a cultural issue, it is a human issue.

Having concubines exist in all cultures. . From middle east to european cultures. From Africa to southern America and even in the Northern part of it. Even our modern society is not an exemption but this does not mean it is culturally permisive.

I don't even know how i would explain it again sef.!

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 8:09pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
Oh, yeah! Men are not questioned when they cheat in Nigeria due to the cultural background that entitles them to chauvinistic practices. They can easily chase out women who question their authority in the family for cheating. It is clearly a cultural thing that been passed down to the present generation. It is also a shame many of you are denying it here.

This you point is clearer and get the drift.

Yes Nigerian men which is the subject here is accorded alot of respect in the family circle ''chauvinistic'' or 'Not' but that does not include cheating.

And what you called cheating is different from what cheating really is.

The right to many women is there culturally.
But to indulge in extra marital affairs with a women you did not pay her bride price is a 'NO, NO'

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 7:54pm On Jan 06, 2015

all4naija:
That only applies to women, Do you think you are talking to a fool here?

Mr. Itchy tongue or finger whichever, the discourse is about Nigerian men.

And i am not saying Nigerian men don't cheat i am only saying there is NO cultural backing for cheats the most you can have is polygamy where one man is permitted to marry more than one wife and this must be done legally or official according to the custom of the people.

If you school in france, you may not understand my english and sorry i can't translate to french.

'Merci'

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 7:33pm On Jan 06, 2015

Mekymuo:
Which culture? Na for this Naija or another one? Ewu!

there is no culture were cheating is allowed in naija. At least in my culture, in delta state (i don't want to be precise) polygamy is acceptable in distant past, say 20, 30 years ago. But if you don't formally do the traditional marriage rits, and you are caught with another woman. It's abominable. You wil appease the community with fines. The deity with sacrifes and you must apologise publicly. So you see cheating is highly frowned on in my culture.

Modern Nigerian men who cheats does so with the backing of polygamy where modern practises no longer support. And this is achieved when the lady is tied into marriage using the traditional method without backing it up with christian or court marriage. Watch very carefully and you will confirm this to be true.

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Romance › Re: If A Girl Sends You This In A Chat What Would You Do or Say? by gsainttrinity(m): 1:53pm On Jan 06, 2015

MsPat:
100 gazillion likes for u!!!

Chai women!! You all love jerks!
No pun intended

Romance › Re: If A Girl Sends You This In A Chat What Would You Do or Say? by gsainttrinity(m): 1:45pm On Jan 06, 2015

chrislu:
Rily mature. U can't jst read it once n conclude.

Thank God for your wisdom.
Even though you don't want to be a nice guy to some ladies does not mean you have to be a jerk!

Romance › Re: If A Girl Sends You This In A Chat What Would You Do or Say? by gsainttrinity(m): 7:57am On Jan 06, 2015

goofyone:
There goes your usual nice guy

lol. . .

Romance › Re: If A Girl Sends You This In A Chat What Would You Do or Say? by gsainttrinity(m): 7:47pm On Jan 05, 2015

Well for me i see nothing wrong in it if just a random online friend. Maybe one you may not chatted with for months or maybe years. And can be a conversation starter! And my reply would be ''what do you want us to do to bring back the mood?''

I can only take it badly when the person is an intimate friend whom you always leave messages for but wouldn't reply. In that i would ignore

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Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 7:36pm On Jan 05, 2015

lefulefu:
awhh so if i tell u dat u have pretty eyes does dat make me a flirt?

No it doesn't you just spoke the gospel truth.

Romance › Re: Non- Nigerian Women What Do You Really Think Of Nigerian Men by gsainttrinity(m): 7:30pm On Jan 05, 2015

SemuhleB:
Chronic womanisers, flirts, liars and cheats. Funny, ambitious, religious and generous.

P.S no offence intended. This is simple my opinion

Damn God wasn't sleeping when he created you!
I have always prayed for a lady with beautiful genes like yours to be the mother of my children.
Hope you wouldn't mind my humble assertiveness

Romance › Re: Changes To Make In 2015: 7 Bad Habits To Let Go To Avoid Pushing People Away by gsainttrinity(m): 7:09pm On Jan 04, 2015

take this

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