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nice story..
keep it up

'Consult your Doctor' is a word we hear always but still out of reach to many Nigerians.

Health is wealth..... yet the government have totally neglected our health facilities, how can we then be wealthy?

As for the OP those signs until they become life threatening Nigerians would certainly ignore

nnachukz:
My dear you are okay. Don't go for any deliverance to avoid being used by the same person who is meant to deliver you.

Take this part of the advice very seriously!

Beey:
I don't know how to make that coz am not from Nigeria.

please allow me contribute my little idea about this Nigerian men stereotype.

Lady there is a big difference between naija men in the diaspora from those within.

those in diaspora are mainly driven by the quest for Material gains which in the first place was their driving factor for migrating there simple statistics will tell that on average, you will find more desperate Nigerians abroad.

that's not to say there no desperate Nigeria men in the local.

like someone said the kind of company you keep determines the people you attract.

There are Nigerians in various respectable establishments who doing well for themselves ad their organizations why not try those types for size instead of running around chasing those with questionable money sources who can afford to be extravagant and at the same time be irresponsible.

All Nigerian men are not promiscuous

hmm

I know you write good

Nma27:
Is it possible not to be sexually compatible with someone you love? If so, what's the solution

I don't know if sexual compatibility or not but the girl I have ever honestly loved, it was like a taboo to think of her in a sexual way. I think love and sex are mutually exclusive.

To be sexually compatible with one you love, you must consciously develop that lust that usually accompany sex.

you must view them in a sexual way... dare to engage them in your sexual exploration and also their sexual desire.

I think only a few people ever truly experience true love.

Sandydayziz:
I don't think cheating is a mistake you make when you truly love someone..

The urge to cheat comes from the fact that you enjoy being free nd not committed to a relationship but selfishly want one...

Wanting he or she waiting for u at home while u're off with strangers...

When u believe that being with another person will give you something that's missing in ur relationship... I don't tink so

So to me... No i don't think it's not possible to cheat on someone you love!

What do you think??

Otitun, you have said it all!

cool

BluntMadmoiselle:
U believe that's her, u cn believe any damn thing.

what do I have to lose. ...

maryhob:
Mmmmm. Feel like knowing your taste.

I would rather go for you...

you are cute

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three:
if these bikes are the bikes that are SMART just imagine what the 'stupid' ones will look like!

Nigerians and there love for high falutin spectacular words

My personal favourite is ULTRAMODERN Shopping Complex (person go think say e get escalator and electronic vehicle parking meanwhile na kee-klamp shop oh )

Lol, that ultramodern shopping complex of a thing ehhh is the most wrongly used words in Nigeria

lefulefu:
i agree wth u on this.Her husband is quite lucky though.most female calebs lack such qualities.

Celeb or No celeb, 90 percent of woman lack those qualities....

lefulefu:
lol i can give some of those reasons...she has a strong voice and she knows how to handle the piano..hehe.

lol.... those ones are some of the many minor ones,

I wish I could have a wife like her.

she is scandal free despite her extraordinary beauty... down to earth, you can see that in her choice of husband. she is love personified, you can observe that in her lyrical content... she loves the down trodden... observe her input in speaking for the deprived... BBOG, and other causes she had lend her voice... abeg that chic is one in a million.

I have a big admiration for Alicia Keys... and I mean that not in a sensual way, although she is sexy

Alicia Keys Big love for you!

lefulefu:
So ghanian babes dey fine like dis? Used to think the only beautiful girl in Ghana was Nadia buhari.Anyway i used to have a crush on Jennifer lopez but i don outgrow dat crush long ago.

Jlo was too beautiful sha.

but my ideal woman who is a celebrity is Alicia keys.... I can count more than a thousand reasons why she is the best.

wonderful

Honour91:
Tnx bro,SHE TOLD ME SHE IS NO LONGER WITH ANY OF DEM, BUT WHENEVER SHE WITH ME,SHE WILL SILENCE HER PHONE,CAUGHT HER DELETING HER WHATSAAP CONVERSATION BETWEEN SHE &ONE OF D GUYS,SHE TOLD ME SO SHE CAN'T CHAT WITH D GUY ,DAT SHE HAD LET GO OF HIM DIS ISSUE HAPPENED JUST YESTERDAY

Oga, dump the idiot without a second thought.
to love someone is not a bad but when a bitch is busy playing hanky panky... bench her and find replacement immediately.

I believe the girl a guy would marry does not have to be the one you have dated for donkey years.

keep with her at your own risk.

let me join the train before it leaves me behind

ThinkSmarter:
u re probably in the South, we hv been experiencing harmattan here in the North since November

ahh! we would kuku leave Christmas for you guys in the north to enjoy. we in the south will wait till we sight harmattan. Lol

#NoharmattanNoxmas

wow...

I didn't know Don Moen has taken up Nigerian citizenship.

By the way have the government postponed Christmas? We have not sighted harmattan.

tolugar:
Prison is not a hotel.

Keep off trouble en you won't find urself there

what do you mean by such rubbish.

Are you not a troublemaker yourself?

imagine those who are innocent, compounded by the inefficient judiciary are made to suffer like this.

this is societal injustice to a few!

The one I hate the most is deceptive headline. that one is unforgivable, I mean after luring you with headlines like "see the man who died and went to heaven" for you to click to see it was only metaphorical.

data is too expensive to a be wasting on irrelevant post.

That's how my testimony would be in 2017... even in the midst of scourging recession it will avoid me, death shall not come near me and family. Every negative things that the devil had constructed to harm Nigeria, the Lord has declared " my case shall be different"

If you believe this is the beginning of greater miracles shout AMEN!

oyetpel:
So your sisters and your cousins that are girls between 9-17 years old are deflowered?

Go and ask your Sisters don't ask me.

ok... Did he died?

What's the Stress, all virgins in Naija is below 8yr old....

Ginaz:
OK, but you know a girl got to play safe, you won't know a guy that's a cultist or bad. That was why I stopped, cos I was thinking I'm being followed.

Anyway, I had some talents for drawing, somehow I slackened and it's non existence. I probably should try to ignite my passion for it, that's one thing I feel passionate about. I tried holding a pen, it felt awkward in my hands.

I'm learning how to sew too, so you see? I'm trying. My friend at where i'm currently learning how to sew invited me to her house this coming Sunday and I refused. I don't feel like going anywhere, don't want to see anybody outside my house.

Making friends is not my problem, but finding a reason to leave the house is. I'm very fond of being alone in the house, the thought of leaving makes me suddenly lazy and tired. People's company bores me, except a very few though.

By your replies I am confident I am actually stirring you towards what I have in mind despite the limited explanations and interpretations.

yes, you. must. never compromise your safety...
in fact its better to over conscious of your safety than being negligent.

but then you must keep a good social habit as you venture out towards socializing.

avoid late nights. choose your company and friends wisely. never stay in lonely places outside, avoid it by all means. and so many other common sense safety tips you know.

I am not a woman, and I don't understand why all women have this paranoid believe there is stalker following them?

the truth is that You can never be too sure of your safety.

follow your passion!! that's the point I have been hitting and I am glad you see my effort.


when you do what you truly love, what pushes you to develop and become better, your life becomes a force that will attract people. to you.


I. shall mail you... hope you reply in time

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Ginaz:
gsainttrinity thanks for your advise, I'm into sport but guys won't let someone jug in peace so I stopped

Let's say I love novels, novels are the only thing I would go extra mile to get.

Miss Gina, this issue about boys and flirting is something that girls should not over react to, especially One like you who needs as much people around to boost your level of happiness.

I have to speak from my point of view, as a young man, I personally can not bring myself to ignore a woman's physical attributes while wanting to just strike up platonic friendship.

for me, the search for platonic friendships is strictly restricted to guys Alone... and that would be guys who share one or two activities together with me. so this leaves me naturally flirting with women at first meet or subsequent meets.

But I am saying on behalf of myself and many other guys like me, these flirting gestures are mainly harmless.

I have had many female friends whom I had hit at who were able to manage these flirty behavior and this is where girls who have many male friends and company succeed. they are not intimidated by guys flirty behaviour they take advantage of the advantage to show the guys the other side of their personalities which is beyond the looks and believe me, guys respect girls who can prove a things or two with or without good looks.

the reason for this long story is go out, Jog or pursue whatever sport you love to do. guys will always hit at you but it is left to you to show them that you can beat them at their own game.

challenge them in the sport of your prefrence, practice, be good at it. challenge them
show them who you are apart from having a beautiful face.

enjoy the game.... don't be intimidated by male advances....... at all..... in fact I dislike girls who cower at every guys advances. take it as fun and as challenge.

time to leave the novels behind... go out and face those guys.. let them toast you, while you show them you are not a weakling of a girl.

I guarantee you would have more fun this way.

Ginaz:
gsainttrinity thanks for your advise, I'm into sport but guys won't let someone jug in peace so I stopped

Let's say I love novels, novels are the only thing I would go extra mile to get.

Miss Gina, this issue about boys and flirting is something that girls should not over react to, especially One like you who needs as much people around to boost your level of happiness.

I have to speak from my point of view, as a young man, I personally can not bring myself to ignore a woman's physical attributes while wanting to just strike up platonic friendship.

for me, the search for platonic friendships is strictly restricted to guys Alone... and that would be guys who share one or two activities together with me. so this leaves me naturally flirting with women at first meet or subsequent meets.

But I am saying on behalf of myself and many other guys like me, these flirting gestures are mainly harmless.

I have had many female friends whom I had hit at who were able to manage these flirty behavior and this is where girls who have many male friends and company succeed. they are not intimidated by guys flirty behaviour they take advantage of the advantage to show the guys the other side of their personalities which is beyond the looks and believe me, guys respect girls who can prove a things or two with or without good looks.

the reason for this long story is go out, Jog or pursue whatever sport you love to do. guys will always hit at you but it is left to you to show them that you can beat them at their own game.

challenge them in the sport of your prefrence, practice, be good at it. challenge them
show them who you are apart from having a beautiful face.

enjoy the game.... don't be intimidated by male advances....... at all..... in fact I dislike girls who cower at every guys advances. take it as fun and as challenge.

Ginaz:
I felt something is wrong with me, I feel so excluded from everything around me. I care less about having fun or which latest fun is in town. Though sometimes I wished I could join in but I always very void, like I'm in a crowd yet feel alone. But if I should go out with someone to a really peaceful place, just both of us there I feel free.

Right this festive season, people are planning where to go, what do do, places and all that. Here I am not having a care, possible gonna stay indoors like I did last year and the one after that. Only place I went was a friend's house and it is cos of my birthday.

first and fore most I must complement your beauty. you look sexy too. thats a big advantage you posses which means you are very likely to attract friends from both genders.

I am quoting you because haven read through various comments, and your reactions I guessed you really want a new you.

It all boils down to your happiness. if you are depressed from your lifestyle then you must consciously and actively start doing something about it. Remember CONSCIOUSLY AND ACTIVELY.

I assume you are really ready to take some few active steps like a lot of commenters have suggested. but I want to add one very simple and helpful way out.

get a new Hobby. An outdoor hobby. that is if you want to meet more people without the fear of getting to personal.

Take up tennis, football, golf, etc thats in sport.

If you are member of a church, take up a voluntary service or get involved more in the activities. like ushering, choir etc. if you are already a member take a up a leadership role therefore more responsibility.

if you do one or two of the above, you will be so occupied you won't have time for yourself again.

wish you all the best.