So straight to the point. Please I need your advice about two things.
1. I just got my inheritance and I got cash of 8M and there's this popular belief of people squandering their inheritance,I don't want that to be my portion so which business can I invest it into. For context, I currently have a job and I'm not ready to quit so please put that into consideration.
2. My younger brother is still a student so he has asked me to save his portion of 6M in bank until he graduates but I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather he put it in some form of secure investment that will be yielding something. Kindly give us suggestions.
May the soul of my beloved Father continue to rest in peace. Amen
I have cheap property for sale in Lagos here. House on half plot..you can buy for your brother. He will be renting it out till he graduates and decides to sell..or retain it..my quarter plot I bought in 2014 for 2.5m was priced for 12million recently even with all the rents I have collected. I am available to guide you.
For you, there's a CBN approved financial institution that gives 1m+ per year for every 8m you invest.
Sammydanny: A Nigerian preacher who has been making some buzz with her controversial preaching recently has made startling confessions.
In a new video making the rounds online, the preacher is seen telling her viewers about the bad things she had done before.
According to her, she used to cheat and lie. She also fought and smoked cigarettes. She went on to reveal that she was lesbian and that she also slept with two different reverend fathers.
She proceeded to claim she had seen a revelation of the rapture over 45 times.
Read this Big Book?...for just relationship matter, Shay him don read "how to be Billionaire" by Aliko Dangote
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Simran94: Wait, so if it was the OPs Parents that came visiting, is she supposed to serve him first before serving his parents food?
Why you dey reason like the DOG in your DP,So parent and brother na the same thing?. Who do you this thing sef?...well you are not even married sef..what am I saying.
(Yoruba) Oro run run lenu eku, talking about most commenters on the first page. I may not find it offensive serving your elder brother before serving me food..what I would find offensive & shout at the wife for is the fact that she broke specific instructions to prepare food and bring with utmost alacrity..but instead,she prepared food & went about serving her brother first even though she had specific instructions to that effect. Me: I am very lenient, but when it comes to specific instructions, I expect the spouse to follow it to the latter or the roof will come down. Even if it were my family member sef.. & yes this is my 8years in marriage.
Nauttyprof: When you take your time to read, you will understand better. Also, being able to read will save you the prayer point you created.
Summary of the post is that there is judgement given from Supreme Court during Military era where Lagos State government is to allocate land to the members of Magodo Landlord Associations who went to court. Part of these members accepted the offer from Lagos State but one Chief Adeyiga has proven stubborn despite offer for land in Badagry and even Ibeju Lekki.
The same Chief got an unknown injunction to evacuate residence at Magodo thereby manipulating the police to carry out his intentions.
Lagos State on the other hand wants to prosecute anybody found guilty after due investigation into what happened at Magodo.
Lagos State government is working in the interest of the residence of Magodo and also, in line with the supreme Court judgment. Please, always read it will do you good and save you prayer points.
How's this relevant to what is being discussed?. It's immaterial to the subject except you want to justify the reason you married an OloProMax
JackDaAlienz: I believe everybody destiny is different There are women with high body counts when they were 20 yrs fastfoward now, they are married with beautiful family.
There is no single rule that works for everyone Everyone has different destiny Some ppl will steal for 12 years nobody catch dem Some go steal the first time and get caught and put in prison for 20 years.
Op, body count is not the issue. Some women married as virgins, still their husband beat them, the family fight everytime
While you have slay queens with high body count that buy houses, cars and fly first class.
Galileopapi: The man above me just spoke very LOUD My 2 cent to you be very careful with in law's ooo how they interpret things is different, and you can't blame them, if you where in same position, your bro you regularly help sold oil he can give for free to your wife how would you feel? Upset I think
I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.
Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.
So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.
It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.
So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.
We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.
I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?
I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?
shigishege: Though I'm Yoruba but Hushpuppy own go reach 2035 I don't side criminals unlike my red muddy cannibalistic Igbo brothers from the AfghanEASTERN bush
SQLmastar: How do you expect him to marry you when you've refused to give him your clito, despite the fact that you aren't a varjin. I know them very well. The lady is very stingy with her clits
Flier: There is nothing like PHCN light,they gave him 300k plus,he owe them 600k plus previously Your eyes will clear anytime you want to replace your solar battery,probably after just 2 years
Which eye dey clear?. Na lie joo...na him I dey use..make sense die. The battery cost, we know, but e make sense pass this exorbitant rate..and the light is 24/7 if you manage it well
Sctests: I watched that video and those policemen do not look like people would reject even a measly N20,000 if there are no bigger option. I know police very well. If I see a honest policeman I can tell.
Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.
I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.
I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.
Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.
I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.
Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.
At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.
So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.
She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?
I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.
And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.
And I didn't send any money to her.
I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.
Lighter note ke?. This is what Yoruba call Agbako...may God deliver our children from ladies of this ilk. Amin
Pinkzebra: He doesn't have an ulterior motive, but he is scared . As an African man, knowing he can't impregnate a woman and doing that willinging will wreck his ego. Since you brought the game of having one child , then cut off your fallopian tube . Is not risky , at least you get your period and get to enjoy sex without fear of pregnancy . So bear the burnt and leave him out or better still keep trying until you get a man who will dance to your tune .
On a lighter note : may my son not meet a woman like you, iseeeee!
Lighter note ke?. This is what Yoruba call Agbako...may God deliver our children from ladies of this ilk.
Pinkzebra: He doesn't have an ulterior motive, but he is scared . As an African man, knowing he can't impregnate a woman and doing that willinging will wreck his ego. Since you brought the game of having one child , then cut off your fallopian tube . Is not risky , at least you get your period and get to enjoy sex without fear of pregnancy . So bear the burnt and leave him out or better still keep trying until you get a man who will dance to your tune .
On a lighter note : may my son not meet a woman like you, iseeeee!
You don't deserve to be married.. just stay forever single..haba. You selfishly arm twisted him into agreeing to have only one child, now you want the family planning to be on him...are you a beast or a human?. It's obvious you are going to kill the "Bro" las las. please just release him back into the ocean to relate with his kind, not cold-blooded humans like you.
Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.
There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.
Before, I delve into the main discuss , let me quickly highlight how it all started.
Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.
He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.
So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me. That was how I got to meet bro.
Now fastforward to the main reason of this post. There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!
I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?
If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?
Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where? Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?
I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free. I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.
He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.
The big question is .. WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?
COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?
IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?
WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?
Stop barking, we are not begging to walk and we are not going to drag you from abia to walk in Lagos.
Go and sit down.
NGpatriot my foot..the Same people eating up & singing for Nigeria at the same time. FYI information, not every yoruba reasons like you. At least, not me. Omo oniran Kiran.
AsomArchitectNG: Even the Bible said wisdom is profitable to direct. What i simply deduced here is a man who has spoken with so much wisdom and intellect, unlike some of our new generation fire brand brigade pastor that'll want to create an impression that God has spoken to them and will sprew trash just to impress their gullible followers, and at the end of the day you'll see things unfolding in the opposite way of what they've said earlier..
In other words, he doesn't know, because he hasn't seen.
Hmmnnn....Your mumu dey smell..Eeyan BMC on top TradeMoni or is it that 30k monthly bribe?. Abeg remind me wetin Dem dey call am sef?
NGpatriot: This is the maturity the useless sorosoke hoodlums missed and did not get, advocating for peace is a plus, not a minus, and it doesn't change you or take away your personal values, ideals and beliefs, it doesn't and shouldn't stop or take away your activism.
Rejecting the invitation with venom, crude and crass utterances and insults reeks immaturity, lack of self-worth, bad societal manners and home training.
Sanwo Olu outfoxed them, they should have called his luff, but fell into his trap.
Lagosians in their tens of thousands will join the governor for a peace walk while the sorosoke immature and brainless toddlers watch on TV regretting their puerile actions.
Na wah o... That means, na yahoo boy wey disguise naim the bank employ. It's well o
Benwallt: Those bank ppl are culprits. 7k was taken from my account some minutes pass 12am 3weeks ago while I have my ATM with me. To cut the story short, the guy that was attending to me after staring at his system for too long unconsciously yanked " I must buy this car at all cost" you need to see his countenance after realising I was seated right in front of him. If you gonna get your money back depends on your bank
Some of our men with this their shallow mentality, I guess Nigerian men should stop thinking all Nigerian women are gold diggers...
If I have the chance which I'm currently working on, I will take my wife along, infact, I can't travel out for long without letting my wife be beside me...
EasyBuy is a company that enables you buy phones & pay in installments.
How it works You approach any mobile phone dealer store, where any of their representative are stationed, make available a certain deposit for any phone of your choice, provide some references, make available a government ID & your Bank Debit card details & in less than 10mins, you have a new phone, ready to "follow" you home.
How Repayment happens The EasyBuy security plugin is downloaded to your new phone. This enables you make each secure payments for monthly installments & probably can be used to Lock your phone remotely once, you default in remitting in any month.
Pros. Enables you own a new phone of your choice, without out breaking the bank.
CONS. Which is where I am going. The Security plugin seems to do more than just secure payments and remote lock thing.
Why did I say this?. I took an Infinix Hot10i on Easybuy, in the second week, I can't listen properly to WhatsApp audios, other times, the speakers keeps blaring for no reason...while no one anywhere near it. I am not owning them at the moment & I can't find pictures people send via WhatsApp & Facebook to me in the phone.
I was mandated to take it to CarlCare. At CarlCare, I was told the phone is okay. I tried asking the customer service lady @ CarlCare a thing about EasyBuy Phones; remember it's not the same company. She replied that, "Bros, I don't know if EasyBuy Phones usually have issues o",but with a dry smiles which shows she was hiding something. & She kept looking at me suspiciously.. Truth is, a colleague bought on Easybuy too & the phone just wouldn't work again, without any hardware broken physically.
Is it just a coincidence that his phone has issues after full payment(4months plan) or EasyBuy Phones actually do have issues?. Because I can't afford to slave to pay almost 80k for a phone of 59,100 naira & loose my phone after full instalment has been paid.
Business › Re: I Just Got My Inheritance; I Need Your Advice by gstream: 10:16am On Jan 24, 2022
